NoVA SugarBabies

[TomFordModel]

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...e-cd54f9fef2c1

Still one of the go to options. But alas gone are the golden days.

WTF. You were hitting that? Girls is 29! Looks 40. That fairly sums up SA. Pros, druggie, etc. The hot ones ate fake.

[JonFisher]

Wow. In the infamous words of Rick James. Methamphetamine is a helluva drug. LOL.

Did you see the vibe on her page.

[Schlitz]

Wow. In the infamous words of Rick James. Methamphetamine is a helluva drug. LOL.

Her lastert vibe says I'm a hot mess so if any lover boys want to spend the night with me this is what your see when you wake up. I'm pretty. Or maybe not. Then she goes soon to say she's crazy. Lolz.

[FogHorn1]

Ordinarily I wouldn't have bothered with one of the low effort types. This one presented as real. Hell I even sent an into message before I started researching.

No shame in that, I'm not great with the reverse image search but the profiles are usually dead give aways. This profile is a damn good con, the scammer just picked images that are simply too hot to not be questioned.

[Mandane]

So many of these insta-scammers. But more of the "one amazing photo and that's it" variety. This one stole several photos and then actually wrote something out to seem almost plausible, but-for the smoke show optics. Makes me wonder if it's an outright scam (dude in a wife beater in his basement) vs. Some chick thinking she can claim she's a close proximity. Which never really pans out.

Ordinarily I wouldn't have bothered with one of the low effort types. This one presented as real. Hell I even sent an into message before I started researching.

[Dimples572]

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...e-cd54f9fef2c1

Still one of the go to options. But alas gone are the golden days.

Wow. In the infamous words of Rick James. Methamphetamine is a helluva drug. LOL.

[JonFisher]

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...e-cd54f9fef2c1

Still one of the go to options. But alas gone are the golden days.

[FogHorn1]

Had a similar interaction with her several months ago. Got her to $700, but maybe she's adjusted ppm upward due to inflation, who knows. I think she's real, although I never sampled. If I recall correctly, was ready to meet at the FC .

She's changed her name but not her ask. Still wants 1 k to meet, but she's ready to meet ASAP according to her. Seemed nice enough and claims she has no issues finding guys to drop 1 k on her. I wished her luck, told her I respectfully didn't believe anyone was paying 1 k for a mid 40's SB and offered 400. Surprisingly she didn't get pissed, she just said she would have to "pass on the opportunity" based on the interest she's drawing at the 1 k price point. I moved on.

So I ask. Which one of you mongers is dropping 1 k on her? Haha.

[Member #6230]

Yesterday evening met up with #2 SB who loves too, and is a pretty good cook. Purchased her a cookbook from a well known chef in a country that she wants to visit. Also picked up a spice that is widely used in that country. Total cost was $40 ish, but she was extremely pleased. Sex is always good, and maybe it was a little bit extra? But really working on the long term benefits as described by Faceless02.

"I just wanted you to know I was thinking about you and I knew you would like this".

🤣 enjoy that extra gushy.

Wait until you start explaining to new pot sb’s that you and your last sb are still friends but you both agree that it would be best to see other people before serious feelings got in the way. Then prove it. good experiences lead to better experiences, and even 20 yr olds know can tell when you’re telling the truth about that sort of thing.

[Grafenberg]

I bought my last sugar baby a poetry book I knew she would like and guess what? She read that whole book to me over face time in the course of a couple days. That's a girl that likes you.

My god, this a crime against humanity, are you ok, brother?

[Rudy Wellz]

I'll give this a shot, but realize there will be as many opinions as there are mongers.

First, you have to be honest with your budget, and that honesty might piss her off. 350 2 x a month isn't much to work with and probably doesn't put you that far above someone she could just vanilla date.

Second, you need to determine if she is pushing for more dates because she likes you or is trying to maximize how much she can get from you. Seeing someone you're fucking at minimum once once a week is pretty normal, and most young women will want sex more often than that.

But there are some things you can do that will help her see you in more favorable terms.

Suggest dates where she doesn't have to get dressed up. If you spend any time reading "sugar baby gossip groups" which are the opposite of what we do here, you're going to hear them complaining about how much time it takes to get ready, how much it costs to get their hair and nails done, how much the outfits cost and they feel justified in getting paid to meet your (all sd's) standards. They include the time it takes to get ready in the ppm in the simplest of terms.

Basically what you're going for here is a "relationship type" Netflix and chill. Ask her to come over in her sweatpants, hoodie, no makeup, because you just want to spend time together. I used to call this the "Tuesday special" she gets some money, an easy night without the pressure of the dog and pony show, we both get laid at a lower ppm. If you present this right, it will make sense to her. You can even point out how you want her to be able to spend time with her friends on Friday and Saturday. In her head, she may translate this to a higher paying opportunity with someone willing to pay more than you and you really have to be okay with that.

Personally, I could see asking a premium for weekend time if I were able to sell this beautiful dad bod to the highest budder.

The next thing you're going to want to do is get inside her mind as often as you get in between her legs. That means paying attention to what she cares about, remembering the things that are important to her, remembering her birthday, and figuring out how to make occasions out of things you don't actually give a shit about.

In 5 years when she looks at her boyfriend, and tells him you aren't shit. Right before she says this, you want her to think of you. So do the things that are going to stand out in her mind as someone she would be proud to tell her mother about if you weren't 25 years older than her.

If you really want to put the "does she like me or is she milking me (and fucking you the way you want) Buy her something small that will be more sentimental or practical than a pair of shoes.

Figure out what kind of snacks she likes. What kind of books she is into. Is she "an aspiring ceo" of her one man nail business? Girls like planners, motivational coffee mugs, vision boards, astrology, aura's, pyschic readings, all the shit you and I know is pointless.

I bought my last sugar baby a poetry book I knew she would like and guess what? She read that whole book to me over face time in the course of a couple days. That's a girl that likes you.

It's human nature to be reciprocal after receiving a gift. She might not be able to buy you something, but she knows what you like 🤣 if you don't see her reciprocating kind gestures, she doesn't value them or you any more than the money and the "let's spend more time together is just an act.

Personally, if that was my budget, I would probably stick to ppm and one night stands. That way neither of you get attached and you aren't living above your means to keep a girlfriend you can't afford.

The money is just an introduction, but it can also be used as a tool to keep proper boundaries. You're paying her, and treating her like an employee is part of the deal. Sometimes you have to shake their hand and wish them the best in their next job.

If you could get her to agree to $200 once a week, with 2 of those on days that are easy for her, that would be a solid sb/sd relationship especially if youre ok with her seeing other people on the nights she isnt with you. She can at least justify that as extra money with the opportunity to make more.

Thats my .02

Yesterday evening met up with #2 SB who loves too, and is a pretty good cook. Purchased her a cookbook from a well known chef in a country that she wants to visit. Also picked up a spice that is widely used in that country. Total cost was $40 ish, but she was extremely pleased. Sex is always good, and maybe it was a little bit extra? But really working on the long term benefits as described by Faceless02.

[Rudy Wellz]

Thank you for the advice, I really appreciate it and it has opened my eyes to this SD / SB world. I had no idea that the usual relationship would require meetings so often. I am too busy (family, work, hobbies, etc) to meet more than once every other week, so it's not even an option. I am going to stick to PPM and even if they want to repeat, I will just keep sticking to that. I don't care if they see other people, it's fwb nsa type of deal anyways. I am on the younger side and could vanilla date, however, without the monetary barrier, they would get attached and things get messy (been there). The main reason to why I am trying this out is to casually date real people but still keep a barrier from getting attached.

It may take a while, but you absolutely can find a SB that stays in 'your lane'. Whatever that is. You want to pay $X and meet twice monthly? There is someone out there who will accept your terms. Obviously more $$ frequency, handsome, fit, nice, etc. Gives you more options. But figure out what works for you, stick with it and have patience.

[Rudy Wellz]

She the type of teacher that would get fired to promote her OF LOL. No way DCPS hires someone that hot.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...5-8753934f59b2

https://www.instagram.com/daria_gapska/

Reverse search? Great catch and thanks for saving some of us time. She's definitely too hot to be a SB. Not that their aren't some super hot ones in the Bowl, but it's extremely rare.

[SRH59]

She the type of teacher that would get fired to promote her OF LOL. No way DCPS hires someone that hot.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...5-8753934f59b2

https://www.instagram.com/daria_gapska/

So many of these insta-scammers. But more of the "one amazing photo and that's it" variety. This one stole several photos and then actually wrote something out to seem almost plausible, but-for the smoke show optics. Makes me wonder if it's an outright scam (dude in a wife beater in his basement) vs. Some chick thinking she can claim she's a close proximity. Which never really pans out.

[Mandane]

She the type of teacher that would get fired to promote her OF LOL. No way DCPS hires someone that hot.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...5-8753934f59b2

https://www.instagram.com/daria_gapska/