"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[TylerDurden07]

1000% a scammer. Talk to her on SDM. Left the site and went to text. Immediately started trying to sell pictures or videos and making up reasons as to why she couldn't meet etc. Basically said she's looking for online relationship. She's looking for a simp not a sugar daddy. Like so many of the rest. She's blocked on SDM. And I know immediately blocked her on SA as well because I always verbally blast these lazy ass hoes when they're looking for simps. Then I block them right away.

Any blow struck against the pic / vid seller / scammers is a blow well struck.

[NewAnonymousName]

Are you talking about Heather 4 your Pleasure Heather? If so Sassy is not her. I know that Heather very well from past hookups.

I agree. They look nothing alike.

[SugarDaddio]

Are you talking about Heather 4 your Pleasure Heather? If so Sassy is not her. I know that Heather very well from past hookups.

That's Heather. She is a long time provider. You can search the escort forums and find a lot of posts about her. I've seen her a couple of times as an escort and not had good experiences, but others rave about her as long as you are OK seeing a pro.

[SugarDaddio]

Moved to text with her and she told me S Fla too. She has not popped the request for pics and vids yet but she has sent me two amazing nudes of her. I guess she is buttering me up LOL.

Thanks for the heads up NAN.

Belongs_to_you is a pic seller.

I messaged her. After some back and forth, she revealed that she lives in Florida, not Atlanta. Out of curiosity, I told her I have a beach house just an hour from where she lives (I wish I did. LOL). As expected, she revealed that she wants to be paid to send me pics and videos. She might meet me someday. Yeah, right. Blocked her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...3-229272a4f1c8

[2me4Looking2]

Does anyone know the story on 2Sassy4U? I was chatting her up before the holidays, but I went dark on her when some family and work conflicts put me on the sidelines for a couple months. She revoked my private picture access, so I'm sure I'll have some work to do to get back in a positive groove that could lead to meeting up. Is she worth the trouble?

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...2-c05edd90efb7

That's Heather. She is a long time provider. You can search the escort forums and find a lot of posts about her. I've seen her a couple of times as an escort and not had good experiences, but others rave about her as long as you are OK seeing a pro.

[NewAnonymousName]

1000% a scammer. Talk to her on SDM. Left the site and went to text. Immediately started trying to sell pictures or videos and making up reasons as to why she couldn't meet etc. Basically said she's looking for online relationship. She's looking for a simp not a sugar daddy. Like so many of the rest. She's blocked on SDM. And I know immediately blocked her on SA as well because I always verbally blast these lazy ass hoes when they're looking for simps. Then I block them right away.

I worry about how Seeking arbitrarily bans men. So I'm polite, even to the scammers. I just say I'm not interested in an online arrangement and wish them good luck in finding what they're looking for. If I piss them off, they might report me based on fabricated claims. After I wish them luck to lull them into a false sense of security, I report and block them.

[DaRiv]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...2-3408012fc06a

Seemed nice at first, very personable. After asking what she was looking for, she said she was new to this, but knew that she didn't want "anything sexual. " What a pity. She'll get nothing financial then, at least not from me.

1000% a scammer. Talk to her on SDM. Left the site and went to text. Immediately started trying to sell pictures or videos and making up reasons as to why she couldn't meet etc. Basically said she's looking for online relationship. She's looking for a simp not a sugar daddy. Like so many of the rest. She's blocked on SDM. And I know immediately blocked her on SA as well because I always verbally blast these lazy ass hoes when they're looking for simps. Then I block them right away.

[NewAnonymousName]

Belongs_to_you is a pic seller.

I messaged her. After some back and forth, she revealed that she lives in Florida, not Atlanta. Out of curiosity, I told her I have a beach house just an hour from where she lives (I wish I did. LOL). As expected, she revealed that she wants to be paid to send me pics and videos. She might meet me someday. Yeah, right. Blocked her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...3-229272a4f1c8

[BumbaCloth]

Any info on her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...5-ded2f7656260

[NewAnonymousName]

Hey all, I am a long time lurker who has finally decided to bite the bullet and am looking for some advice. I have finally come into a little money and thought I would give this whole sugar thing a whirl, it seems much more appealing to me than the traditional escort route. I work from home with a job that has half forgotten about me so I have the time, have a nice enough apartment and car to impress, and have finally come into a bit of money so I have the funds. The only thing in my way is that I still have a girlfriend (one who I have not slept with since the pandemic). We have separate finances and I drive her to and from work most days so no real threat of the whole coming home early thing, but still not ideal. Are there any more senior members willing to lend some wisdom on how to navigate this sorta thing so I do not end up with more trouble than I bargained?

I almost forgot one thing. There are posts in the past about how to get the right gift cards and use them to pay for a Seeking membership so you can see and send messages. This will be helpful if your live in girlfriend reviews your credit cards. Search VISA and you'll find those posts.

[SgtHappyEnding]

"I am seeking for a serious soulmate and a lifetime lover. ".

If she's asking deep questions I'm guess she's sincere about that statement and will likely not be open to the usual type of Sugar relationship that's predominantly discussed in this thread. Some women actually use seeking for legit dating.

I think she's looking for serious dating. Nothing wrong with that. But not quite the thing for most of us.

[Hal1957]

There are several forums on Reddit. Stick with SugarLifestyleForum, the others are glorified content sellers. You'll see the entire range of personalities there, SB and SD. And FFS do not use the same screen name you use here. As others have pointed out, it's very easy to search out your USASG posts.

Outside of this forum. Is anyone aware of or part of any other SD / SB discussion forums. One of my sb eluded to it. But don't know her enough to press details yet.

[Hal1957]

Why would you pay 300 for a 40 year old? Because you prefer the vibe of an adult. You're more likely to get that with a 40 year old than a 23 year old.

Fair enough if attached, but still, you can get a hot 23 year old For 300 so who would want this?

[Nominal]

I just want to say I appreciate y'all for taking the time to give me some advice and understanding in all this. It without a doubt made me avoid some obvious pitfalls that I otherwise would have made, and some good perspective. Luckily enough I should be able to follow through on said advice whether it be from being smart and never hosting at my place, to the best burner, and making sure to keep the finances separate and to really explore my options. I will let you all know if I meet anyone choice, how this all goes for me, and if / when I end up exploding my real life for this hobby. I know that this will end up making everything more complicated but it should be a fun ride in the meantime. There is a whole lot of options of people to meet out there and I am looking forward to getting started. Any suggestions on a good budget to start? Seems like it would be real easy to get addicted to all the time and attention you can get for flashing a little cash.

[Member #6704]

Anyone seen tiny little pixie?