"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[SugarDaddio]

Anybody got any experience with this woman? We have moved to text and she is asking me some deep questions about what I like and don't like in a relationship. I don't know, just don't have a good read on her yet LOL. No meet up details or damage amount discussed yet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...a-d4212c392f30

As always may the pussy be with you.

SD.

[NewAnonymousName]

Fair enough if attached, but still, you can get a hot 23 year old For 300 so who would want this?

Variety is the spice of life. Plus sugardaddio passed on her and I haven't reached out and negotiated yet, so there's that.

[Smitty Scott]

Hey all, I am a long time lurker who has finally decided to bite the bullet and am looking for some advice. I have finally come into a little money and thought I would give this whole sugar thing a whirl, it seems much more appealing to me than the traditional escort route. I work from home with a job that has half forgotten about me so I have the time, have a nice enough apartment and car to impress, and have finally come into a bit of money so I have the funds. The only thing in my way is that I still have a girlfriend (one who I have not slept with since the pandemic). We have separate finances and I drive her to and from work most days so no real threat of the whole coming home early thing, but still not ideal. Are there any more senior members willing to lend some wisdom on how to navigate this sorta thing so I do not end up with more trouble than I bargained?

Even though you are home alone all day, do not bring a girl back to the apartment while you live together. The first few visits (if she is worth a repeat) should be in a hotel or at her place. There are enough girls on there that can host, so you should do that. Always have 5-6 girls chatting with you at one time. If you need to get a hotel, try and get two girls to commit to that day and location as one of them sometimes fall through. Set one up for 11 am and one for 3 pm. If they both hit, you have plenty of time to recover in between.

Last suggestion. Go away from your normal. If your GF is a 28 white girl with blonde hair and blue eyes, look for a 20 year old brunette and a 40 year old single mom. Spice it up and see what you like.

[Member #6718]

Bumble is off limits for those with significant others. But I get your point about price. Given that she hosts, it's more like 200 or less for her when you don't have to pay for a hotel room. Still pricey for a 45 y.o., but not outrageous in a pinch (if shes good).

Fair enough if attached, but still, you can get a hot 23 year old For 300 so who would want this?

[FarFarAway]

Hey all, I am a long time lurker who has finally decided to bite the bullet and am looking for some advice. I have finally come into a little money and thought I would give this whole sugar thing a whirl, it seems much more appealing to me than the traditional escort route. I work from home with a job that has half forgotten about me so I have the time, have a nice enough apartment and car to impress, and have finally come into a bit of money so I have the funds. The only thing in my way is that I still have a girlfriend (one who I have not slept with since the pandemic). We have separate finances and I drive her to and from work most days so no real threat of the whole coming home early thing, but still not ideal. Are there any more senior members willing to lend some wisdom on how to navigate this sorta thing so I do not end up with more trouble than I bargained?

Richmond, VA has a sugar thread that isn't just local, it has become de facto a place where SDs from across the country go to read and post. Somewhat like Atlanta. However, they have an archive of all the valuable posts from the past. Sort of a how to.

[NewAnonymousName]

300 for a bang average 45 yo? Fuck that shit LOL. You can get chicks like this on bumble all day long for the price of lunch or dinner.

Bumble is off limits for those with significant others. But I get your point about price. Given that she hosts, it's more like 200 or less for her when you don't have to pay for a hotel room. Still pricey for a 45 y.o., but not outrageous in a pinch (if she’s good).

[Member #6718]

Had lunch with her. She's a real chatter. She's a photographer and claims she was taking pictures once and it happen to get Trump in the picture so the secret service took her camera and Trump persoanlly bought and gave her a new one. She talked so much that time ran out on me before we could get back to her place. I'm thinking she wanted 300 but could host. I just never followed back up with her LOL.

300 for a bang average 45 yo? Fuck that shit LOL. You can get chicks like this on bumble all day long for the price of lunch or dinner.

[SugarDaddio]

I liked her look pretty good.

Thanks. How does she look? The pics are hard to tell.

[NewAnonymousName]

Had lunch with her. She's a real chatter. She's a photographer and claims she was taking pictures once and it happen to get Trump in the picture so the secret service took her camera and Trump persoanlly bought and gave her a new one. She talked so much that time ran out on me before we could get back to her place. I'm thinking she wanted 300 but could host. I just never followed back up with her LOL.

Thanks. How does she look? The pics are hard to tell.

[SugarDaddio]

Had lunch with her. She's a real chatter. She's a photographer and claims she was taking pictures once and it happen to get Trump in the picture so the secret service took her camera and Trump persoanlly bought and gave her a new one. She talked so much that time ran out on me before we could get back to her place. I'm thinking she wanted 300 but could host. I just never followed back up with her LOL.

Does anyone know the story on 2Sassy4U? I was chatting her up before the holidays, but I went dark on her when some family and work conflicts put me on the sidelines for a couple months. She revoked my private picture access, so I'm sure I'll have some work to do to get back in a positive groove that could lead to meeting up. Is she worth the trouble?

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...2-c05edd90efb7

[NewAnonymousName]

Does anyone know the story on 2Sassy4U? I was chatting her up before the holidays, but I went dark on her when some family and work conflicts put me on the sidelines for a couple months. She revoked my private picture access, so I'm sure I'll have some work to do to get back in a positive groove that could lead to meeting up. Is she worth the trouble?

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...2-c05edd90efb7

[NewAnonymousName]

All great advice here. And can buy Hotels.com gift cards at many locations, including Walmart and Target. However, you will still often need a regular credit card for deposit / incidentals. I sometimes use a prepaid VISA card for this, but many hotels insist on a regular one, with your name on it. But those charges often drop off, so less risk that just paying for hotels with main credit card.

I still say burner phone is better than regular one, and could hide it with little to no chance of detection, if you are smart about it.

I had a burner phone. But it was too much work trying to be sure my significant other wouldn't find it. There were several times over the years when she would have found it if I hadn't been lucky that day. I ditched it and use google voice on my real phone.

When I'm single again, I’ll go back to having a second phone. It's convenient to have one device that is entirely for chasing sugar babies.

[LoriTruck]

These 2 are an actual couple but I just can't seem to score. Both are real and cute but I got platonic vibes. Was quoted 250 each, not sure if that includes fun in the sack.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-fe20f388f908

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...3-4e9cc38929cd

[Jims2321]

Dump her if you're not having sex. Haha.

But seriously, I wouldn't bring women to your place when the girlfriend lives there. Too much risk that a woman refuses to leave, shows up unannounced, or blackmails you.

Women who host are usually hard to find on Seeking. But that's the first choice.

Does your girlfriend review your credit card statements? If not, hotels will easily work as plan B to finding women who host. If she does review your credit cards, youll have to buy hotels.com gift cards at Office Depot with your credit card (if you can explain the office store charges) or cash.

Use a fake name. Never give your real phone number. Use google voice instead or Kik or WhatsApp. A burner phone is risky because the girlfriend might find it. Obviously delete your browsing history.

I've got to ask is having your GF review your personal financial information a thing now? It certainly wasn't back 30 years ago when I was dating. Hell even when I got engaged to my wife, she still didn't need to know. After your married that might be an thing.

[Peter Johnson]

Dump her if you're not having sex. Haha.

But seriously, I wouldn't bring women to your place when the girlfriend lives there. Too much risk that a woman refuses to leave, shows up unannounced, or blackmails you.

Women who host are usually hard to find on Seeking. But that's the first choice.

Does your girlfriend review your credit card statements? If not, hotels will easily work as plan B to finding women who host. If she does review your credit cards, youll have to buy hotels.com gift cards at Office Depot with your credit card (if you can explain the office store charges) or cash.

Use a fake name. Never give your real phone number. Use google voice instead or Kik or WhatsApp. A burner phone is risky because the girlfriend might find it. Obviously delete your browsing history.

All great advice here. And can buy Hotels.com gift cards at many locations, including Walmart and Target. However, you will still often need a regular credit card for deposit / incidentals. I sometimes use a prepaid VISA card for this, but many hotels insist on a regular one, with your name on it. But those charges often drop off, so less risk that just paying for hotels with main credit card.

I still say burner phone is better than regular one, and could hide it with little to no chance of detection, if you are smart about it.