NoVA SugarBabies

[Rudy Wellz]

I am not sensitive so I can't cum with condoms 99% of the time, which makes the experience less enjoyable. I have a difference experience from you though, where most SB's I talk to care about condoms. The number that are like "sure no problem" when asked about no condom is less than 50%. Most will ask if I'm clean, some will want to see tests, others will tell me they're not on BC and either tell me to pull out or I'll tell them I'm sterile (which I am due to testosterone disorder) if they push against BBFS using pregnancy as their main excuse.

From your experience, what's your approach? Do you talk about it during text negotiations, or talk about it in the hotel room / your place / their place? Or do you just move to put it in raw the first time, she hesitates, and you tell her you're snipped, and since she's hot and turned on, she lets it go and from there on it's BBFS every time?

DM me if you have specific questions on Vegas. I posted all the bad ones, not the good ones.

I intentionally do not talk about it prior to going BCD's. When it's time and she's all hot, wet and bothered, I just slip it in. Of course there have been a couple (maybe 10%) who have asked about a condom. I tell them I have 3 teens and do not wish for any additional children. Also let them know that I've had a vasectomy. For those that insist on a condom, then it's either we get tested or it's one and done. And I'm totally comfortable putting my clothes back on and walking out. I'll eat the cost of the hotel room and she will not get her cash money. Full disclosure: This strategy has its pitfalls. I once landed an escort, and didn't realize it until 4 months (and several romps) later.

Regarding Vegas, I will DM you. Possibility that a former FWB is meeting me, but she has flaked on travel plans before, so could use a backup. Thank you.

[Arty33]

She's been around, this is 2nd profile. But has anyone actually met her? If it is indeed a SB and not a scammer / guy. I am getting some weird vibes from interaction. Sporadic messages, weird questions, almost trying to collect information and build a profile about you maybe. Just don't think she will meet anyone, or even real, will be happy to be proven wrong.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...b-81259c98a27b

Wants 650 ppm. Says others always give her that. So politely suggested she find those others instead.

[Arty33]

Not who you asked, but my approach is not to talk about and let it flow naturally. With most of my SBs I never had a discussion about sex or condoms, once we meet and get comfortable usually I propose we spent time indoors, and then let things happen, when we get to actual event she will sometimes ask if I have a condom or want one, to which I usually respond my preference, some girls ask if I am clean, some wants to see a test but still go with it on good faith. I guess I know the type of girls who will trust me or go without it when I meet them. Those who ask a lot of questions and do not seem comfortable anyway won't work out good chemistry and usually don't even meet with them. I've had a select few who at the point of act insisted on condoms and I went with it because they were either hot or I was horny enough to not go with it, most often I don't repeat unless they are above my league and this is the only way I can be with her.

I am not sensitive so I can't cum with condoms 99% of the time, which makes the experience less enjoyable. I have a difference experience from you though, where most SB's I talk to care about condoms. The number that are like "sure no problem" when asked about no condom is less than 50%. Most will ask if I'm clean, some will want to see tests, others will tell me they're not on BC and either tell me to pull out or I'll tell them I'm sterile (which I am due to testosterone disorder) if they push against BBFS using pregnancy as their main excuse.

From your experience, what's your approach? Do you talk about it during text negotiations, or talk about it in the hotel room / your place / their place? Or do you just move to put it in raw the first time, she hesitates, and you tell her you're snipped, and since she's hot and turned on, she lets it go and from there on it's BBFS every time?

DM me if you have specific questions on Vegas. I posted all the bad ones, not the good ones.

[Mcsylv]

Mcsylv, I appreciate your input on the forum, so thank you. And traveling to LV in about a month, so have read that forum and noticed your activity on that board. Congratulations on your successes. The SB is a wonderful place once you learn how to play the game.

I love BBFS. It's the only way to go. Most SB's are totally OK without condoms. Some need a little convincing. I'm married and have had a vasectomy which is usually all that I need to say. Will test if required, but condoms are a deal breaker for me.

I am not sensitive so I can't cum with condoms 99% of the time, which makes the experience less enjoyable. I have a difference experience from you though, where most SB's I talk to care about condoms. The number that are like "sure no problem" when asked about no condom is less than 50%. Most will ask if I'm clean, some will want to see tests, others will tell me they're not on BC and either tell me to pull out or I'll tell them I'm sterile (which I am due to testosterone disorder) if they push against BBFS using pregnancy as their main excuse.

From your experience, what's your approach? Do you talk about it during text negotiations, or talk about it in the hotel room / your place / their place? Or do you just move to put it in raw the first time, she hesitates, and you tell her you're snipped, and since she's hot and turned on, she lets it go and from there on it's BBFS every time?

DM me if you have specific questions on Vegas. I posted all the bad ones, not the good ones.

[FogHorn1]

Any info you want to share, fire away, notes so far.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...c-d068e3634e56 - girlnextdoor.

Met for dinner, then ghosted me, basically wants food? Seems to be seeking one / monogamous arrangement. Interested if anyone's gotten anywhere with that?

Can't speak to the others but this one has been reported on before. IIRC she met the guy at a hotel one morning and got right down to business, report was she was fine in the sack but had some hygiene issues.

[JustLikeThe]

Any info you want to share, fire away, notes so far.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...c-d068e3634e56 - girlnextdoor.

Met for dinner, then ghosted me, basically wants food? Seems to be seeking one / monogamous arrangement. Interested if anyone's gotten anywhere with that?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...8-699dc0395a46 - Sweet and Spicy.

Chatting with her, took a break over new year, seeing if she's picking back up.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...b-81259c98a27b - PaleNimbus.

Yep, picky. No real explanation; shared some pics and some chat and ghosted..

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...c-d068e3634e56 - girlnextdoor. - There have been reviews on this one before. I stayed away due to the rotten smell downstairs.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...7-9e4013095d95 - gigi322. - She has had a older profile before as well. She will do M&G for allowance and nothing more than that. I turned it down.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...d-5deaf47c8dd6 - Meg. - Back and forth some communication but I had a spidey sense on this one so did not proceed further. Proceed with caution and as well as the 2 girl advice / experience that's been shared here in the past!

[Rudy Wellz]

For me, it's not a choice between gym or sex. It's a choice between doing something stress-relieving or not. Some days I work from 9 AM until 12 AM with a 2 hour break for dinner. I'm not about to go to the gym, which is more stressful and unenjoyable for me.

If I wasn't going on SA, I'd be spending money on escorts, or playing Poker at MGM, or something else. If I didn't have money to spend, I'd just be at home playing video games. My work is already stressful as is, I'm not going to add to it right now. Maybe when my business is more stable, but not in the near future.

Seriously, you have to ask that?

Clearly you've never had good BBFS.

How about you worry about you, and let other people worry about themselves. No one comes to this forum to have unsolicited advice about STDs, etc. Forced at them. We're grown ass men and know the risks. This is an information sharing board, not the Sunday morning gospel.

I love BBFS. It's the only way to go. Most SB's are totally OK without condoms. Some need a little convincing. I'm married and have had a vasectomy which is usually all that I need to say. Will test if required, but condoms are a deal breaker for me.

[Rudy Wellz]

For me, it's not a choice between gym or sex. It's a choice between doing something stress-relieving or not. Some days I work from 9 AM until 12 AM with a 2 hour break for dinner. I'm not about to go to the gym, which is more stressful and unenjoyable for me.

If I wasn't going on SA, I'd be spending money on escorts, or playing Poker at MGM, or something else. If I didn't have money to spend, I'd just be at home playing video games. My work is already stressful as is, I'm not going to add to it right now. Maybe when my business is more stable, but not in the near future.

Mcsylv, I appreciate your input on the forum, so thank you. And traveling to LV in about a month, so have read that forum and noticed your activity on that board. Congratulations on your successes. The SB is a wonderful place once you learn how to play the game.

[Tyrex2]

Any info you want to share, fire away, notes so far.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...c-d068e3634e56 - girlnextdoor.

Met for dinner, then ghosted me, basically wants food? Seems to be seeking one / monogamous arrangement. Interested if anyone's gotten anywhere with that?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...8-699dc0395a46 - Sweet and Spicy.

Chatting with her, took a break over new year, seeing if she's picking back up.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...b-81259c98a27b - PaleNimbus.

Yep, picky. No real explanation; shared some pics and some chat and ghosted.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...7-9e4013095d95 - gigi322.

Chatting; stalled in New Year, seeing if we can reconnect.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...4-04f80da44f0a - sandycheeks.

Picture seller, waste of time.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...d-5deaf47c8dd6 - Meg.

1/2 female couple, both are on. Chatting, nothing of it yet. Anyone got more info?

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...6-5bdd2d3afc60 - elizxoxo.

Apparently fairly well known. Still haven't gotten settled on a time / date, but DTF.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...d-a38ef7e9f241 - CheerfulGirl.

Czech, just out of a bad relationship; we just did not connect. Hasn't had an SD yet, so good luck if you get somewhere, like to hear it.

[Mcsylv]

I really appreciate your report. Especially the candor on your physical appearance. It was great getting a physical description of another monger out there. I'm white, 6'2", 60, and 300 pounds money not an issue. Despite my age and weight, which I disclose in my Seeking profile, I've been able to get a fair amount of pussy in the DC area much more than I ever thought!

That said, I've come to the conclusion my time is best spent not chasing tail, but spending the time to get back into physical shape. Not too long ago, I weighed in at 220. So, while I have a few SBs in long-term rotation, I'm going to take a break from actively pursuing new recruits until I can put forth a more desirable profile.

For me, it's not a choice between gym or sex. It's a choice between doing something stress-relieving or not. Some days I work from 9 AM until 12 AM with a 2 hour break for dinner. I'm not about to go to the gym, which is more stressful and unenjoyable for me.

If I wasn't going on SA, I'd be spending money on escorts, or playing Poker at MGM, or something else. If I didn't have money to spend, I'd just be at home playing video games. My work is already stressful as is, I'm not going to add to it right now. Maybe when my business is more stable, but not in the near future.

[JwBlue500]

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[FogHorn1]

Wants 500 for m&g.

Hey! I'm Celeste, nice to meet you. I want to Connect with someone who I can talk with, have fun and support. Connection is really important to me, looking for something long term but I'm open to possibilities. Honesty and respect are key.

Sure, we can have an initial meeting $500 not physical, see how we connect and take it from there. Lmk and I'll text you.

Reached out to this one before seeing the reports here, and got the same copy and paste response. Who TF is dropping 5 bills on a M&G? SMH.

[FogHorn1]

What is the obsession with BBFS?

Seriously, you have to ask that?

to me if you know what you're doing with right type of protection, lube etc. There's not much difference.

Clearly you've never had good BBFS.

How about you worry about you, and let other people worry about themselves. No one comes to this forum to have unsolicited advice about STDs, etc. Forced at them. We're grown ass men and know the risks. This is an information sharing board, not the Sunday morning gospel.

[Bellissimo]

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...2-ab84e2f988b8

This one got back to me right away but only wants to sell you pictures for sixty dollars. Next!

[SuckeredByaSB]

I really appreciate your report. Especially the candor on your physical appearance. It was great getting a physical description of another monger out there. I'm white, 6'2", 60, and 300 pounds money not an issue. Despite my age and weight, which I disclose in my Seeking profile, I've been able to get a fair amount of pussy in the DC area much more than I ever thought!

That said, I've come to the conclusion my time is best spent not chasing tail, but spending the time to get back into physical shape. Not too long ago, I weighed in at 220. So, while I have a few SBs in long-term rotation, I'm going to take a break from actively pursuing new recruits until I can put forth a more desirable profile.

Good luck losing the weight. I've been in and out of the sugar bowl for years, and IMHO the quality SBs are after the money and good sex both, so they want to be attracted to the SD. That's the big difference between SB and true prostitutes. Now there is certainly a sliding scale where they will be less selective the more you spend.