"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[DudeNextDoor]

She quoted me 500 and said she couldn't host. When I said 500 was too much if I had to get a hotel she said she could possibly host but we couldn't spend a lot of time there due to family coming by often. I didn't pull the trigger as I had met someone else.

I spoke with her onsite during my last site sub back in Sept and she mentioned her average meets are 600-800. Since I had another SB on the hook already I didn't bother negotiating, just never responded.

[DRickGiver5]

I honestly disagree on this. Here's the thing, your images on social media is open to the world. Anyone can download them and use them. If you really want to be safe, don't use any social media sites.

I used some images posted on my social media site and if I ever get question, all I have to say is I don't know. My images are open to the public I don't who used them.

The problem with that is if the baby you're talking to can use that pic to find your social media then she can possibly find your real name. And with that she can possibly find out where you work and live. And if she is unstable or you two have a disagreement, then she can cause some problems for you. Especially if you two have already met. That's not the kind of headache you need, especially if she shows up to your job talking very wreckless. Because even if you deny, people will still wonder.

[GoneForGood97]

Been speaking to this one recently and took it to text. Negotiating arrangements, but wanted to see if anyone had any experience with er. Any info is much appreciated!

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...9-8e50c16c26ed

I spoke with her onsite during my last site sub back in Sept and she mentioned her average meets are 600-800. Since I had another SB on the hook already I didn't bother negotiating, just never responded.

[GoneForGood97]

Keep it private. Only open it up to those who you're interested in.

Also never use photos which you have used on social media, keep them separate.

Both of these right here. I don't use photos that are on any of my social media (and I've reduced my social media presence by as much as I can), and I'm marked completely private, and only show my pics to ones I'm interested in after we've talked enough on the site chat that I know I'm still interested.

[Member #6704]

Been speaking to this one recently and took it to text. Negotiating arrangements, but wanted to see if anyone had any experience with er. Any info is much appreciated!

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...9-8e50c16c26ed

I talked to her. But didn't meet up as I ended up finding other options at that time. But I think she is real as she was DTF. Let us know how it goes. But always use caution. Meet for coffee first. No money in advance the usual.

[Hits79]

For the life of me, I remember her being review her? Am I wrong, I think she change her profile.

[Hits79]

Also never use photos which you have used on social media, keep them separate.

I honestly disagree on this. Here's the thing, your images on social media is open to the world. Anyone can download them and use them. If you really want to be safe, don't use any social media sites.

I used some images posted on my social media site and if I ever get question, all I have to say is I don't know. My images are open to the public I don't who used them.

[Rican2323]

Been speaking to this one recently and took it to text. Negotiating arrangements, but wanted to see if anyone had any experience with er. Any info is much appreciated!

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...9-8e50c16c26ed

[SeekingHead]

Keep it private. Only open it up to those who you're interested in.

Also never use photos which you have used on social media, keep them separate.

[QuartJess]

Same here I'm just north of $3 million & the most I have ever paid was $400 & if she wouldn't have been 4'9 she would have been a solid 9 to 9. 5. She was still a solid 8. 5 with a perfect face.

Just north of 3 mills. LOL. I need to step my game up. The most I've gifted is 300 $, and I usually stay in the 250 $ range. Lately, I've had older 35-plus chicks quote me 400+ to meet. There's just no way I'd provide that to an older chick. I have a young 19 yr old that I gift 200 $ per meeting that I've been enjoying. She's submissive, allows BBFSCIP and allow multiple pops when we meet.

[Jrody1]

Based on the great dialogue I am seeing here, posting here to poll to see how many of the members of this forum keep their profile pic public vs private?

I keep mine private but I wonder if that reduces some SBs from clicking. 99.99% of my SB connects are initiated by me.

Keep it private. Only open it up to those who you're interested in.

[Member #6704]

Based on the great dialogue I am seeing here, posting here to poll to see how many of the members of this forum keep their profile pic public vs private?

I keep mine private but I wonder if that reduces some SBs from clicking. 99.99% of my SB connects are initiated by me.

[Member #6704]

Same here I'm just north of $3 million & the most I have ever paid was $400 & if she wouldn't have been 4'9 she would have been a solid 9 to 9. 5. She was still a solid 8. 5 with a perfect face.

Can't help but admire this forum and the group in atlanta. Everyone sharing their experiences and perspectives. I am really impressed with the quality of dialogue and feedback this group is generating. Wish I had this level of guidance in the seeking hay day! Oh wow.

[Jrody1]

I am a multi-millionaire. But I'm not paying a thousand bucks for a SB hookup, particularly one that's older and less attractive than many of the early 20's women who are available. I might drop $400 or $500 from time to time for the crme de la crme to outbid some of those who stick to their lower monetary caps. But again, a thousand is out of the question. There are too many great options for less than half the price.

Same boat! There are to many better choices to blow on regardless of the individuals financial status. I have never given an allowance above 600 a month. It is usually between 300 and 450. With the occasional pampering. Want a dress, casual attire, some boujee bits. I'll purchase it and it goes to their spot but there is a condition! Got to be a good girl and get good grades etc. Usually fuck with college girls more. Less nonsense but it's subjective with whom it is. Some are stupid too.

Chick I added to post was going to KSU and was on seeking. She was 18 and just graduated HS. Started college. Wanted 700 a month in allowance. Told her no and negotiated down to around 400. Reason. I don't want them getting the wrong impression. Every dude is going to give them this extravagant allowance. However what I do do. Is teach them how to make some fucking money with the money I give them. Up to them to accept that though. So it's a win win.

My main thing that dictates the allowance. What are you doing or providing that's going to benefit me? If it isn't much. Bottom of the barrel or average allowance.

Someone who is above 32 and average is not getting an allowance. Get a dam job is what I say to them LOL. That old. Come on now. Only pampering for them if they arouse my interest.

[SeekingHead]

I am a multi-millionaire. But I'm not paying a thousand bucks for a SB hookup, particularly one that's older and less attractive than many of the early 20's women who are available. I might drop $400 or $500 from time to time for the crme de la crme to outbid some of those who stick to their lower monetary caps. But again, a thousand is out of the question. There are too many great options for less than half the price.

Same here I'm just north of $3 million & the most I have ever paid was $400 & if she wouldn't have been 4'9 she would have been a solid 9 to 9. 5. She was still a solid 8. 5 with a perfect face.