"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[TattoedDaddy1]

SB on bumble? What's your game / approach there? How old are you?

I like to overflow from SA in the big three. However they are nothing more than time filled when I'm not cruising SA. I'm working a 22 year old rn! We will see but I never put stock in anyone. The best deal is the one your willing to walk away from haha.

[Peter Johnson]

Good post here. If they bring up cash amounts before FS especially before meeting face to face, more often than not they are grifters / flakes / scammers. All of my 50+ SBs I never talked about money until face to face. A good rule of thumb is to walk no matter "hot" she appears if she starts asking about dollar amounts before IRL meeting.

I kind of have the opposite attitude here, and I often don't want to waste their time, or mine, meeting in person if we aren't on the same page with ppm. But perhaps I should meet up with a few more first and then decide how much it is worth to me, after judging the chemistry and vibe.

[Peter Johnson]

Yep. I am 50. Got one 20 yo, just swiped right, we matched, bantered a bit, asked if she was into sugar dating. In my area we have the "compliment" function where you can comment on one of their pics. I have used this too and just said something like "Hey great pic you look fabulous. Are you open to sugar dating at all"? Same approach on hinge. Landed two from bumble and one from hinge this way, age 20,20 and 23.

I have tried a similar approach and have some prospects, but haven't closed the deal with one of them yet. It takes a slightly different strategy, because sometimes you have to educate them about sugar dating, and be careful not to make them feel like a wh*re, but also explain how they can benefit.

One 18 y/o says she had been thinking about sugar dating for awhile, so she seems good to go. Another 23 y/o says "I don't really need money", so that could be considerably more difficult. She likes dating older guys though, so maybe some hope there. Also I could see some of these civilians being more strict about CFS, so that could be a dealbreaker for me.

I definitely look a lot better with $300 in my hand, so I can't see getting these young girls without it being financially beneficial to them. But working on it, and we'll see.

[Member #6718]

SB on bumble? What's your game / approach there? How old are you?

Yep. I am 50. Got one 20 yo, just swiped right, we matched, bantered a bit, asked if she was into sugar dating. In my area we have the "compliment" function where you can comment on one of their pics. I have used this too and just said something like "Hey great pic you look fabulous. Are you open to sugar dating at all"? Same approach on hinge. Landed two from bumble and one from hinge this way, age 20,20 and 23.

[LouisHernandez]

Ha good times. While we are at it comparing numbers this year has been my best by some margin with 40 (was at 46 starting the year). It has been a mix of paid sb's from seeking (mostly), some freebie sb's from seeking, smaller number of paid sb's from bumble, and then some regular dates from the regular apps. Just between Christmas and tonight NYE I will have banged 5 different chicks, 3 sb's all in there early 20's, a hot 35 yo asian from bumble last night and tonight a 50 yo I've known through some social groups. It's been a good here. Next year I plan to slow down with the sugar, I have my one super solid smoking hot 20 yo asian gal, and another that is very into the swinger scene so hoping to get some numbers up in that world. We shall see.

SB on bumble? What's your game / approach there? How old are you?

[SgtHappyEnding]

Well here goes.

Of course I read the reviews and got more interested. Sex is best with the crazy ones!

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Don't take this as anything other than I knew what I was getting into. She acts up because she wants to be choked and fucked, sometimes by a gangbang of men. Have fun fellas and hold onto you hat LOL.

That was the best story I've ever read on here. It had everything! It may or may not be true, but as far as I'm concerned, it doesn't matter. Most on here thought Babyria was beyond redemption, but you did it. I think there's something admirable about coaching a troublesome SB into doing her best. I love it. Keep up the good work.

[Member #6718]

Good post here. If they bring up cash amounts before FS especially before meeting face to face, more often than not they are grifters / flakes / scammers. All of my 50+ SBs I never talked about money until face to face. A good rule of thumb is to walk no matter "hot" she appears if she starts asking about dollar amounts before IRL meeting.

Honestly I have not had this experience over the last year. Pretty much every single chick I have banged from seeking where I paid the amount was agreed up front. Some were clearly "amateur pros" but others were pretty regular chicks. There were a few where money wasn't discussed and dates went well and got some freebies LOL.

[Member #6718]

Nice number there, and of course that represents a lot of fun and adventure. I nailed 37 in 2002 and all but 2 of those were sbs. My best ever was 83 in 2012 and that was when Craigslist Casual Encounters was an amazing resource for free action, but of course the quality was nowhere as high as sugar dating....a lot of chunky housewives back then, but was still glorious.

37 was my best year since 2015...had some LTRs that slowed me down, and only 5 in 2020, when covid hit. Only 12 last year, again mainly because of covid risk.

I am going to try to average maybe 2 a month in 2023, for both budgetary reasons and because I'm slowing down a bit as I get older with my recharge time. I could get it up and do a new one every day, but I wouldn't enjoy enough. I need to be really backed up to be crazy horny, and then it can be a mind blowing peak experience. That is what I'm going for at this point.

Ha good times. While we are at it comparing numbers this year has been my best by some margin with 40 (was at 46 starting the year). It has been a mix of paid sb's from seeking (mostly), some freebie sb's from seeking, smaller number of paid sb's from bumble, and then some regular dates from the regular apps. Just between Christmas and tonight NYE I will have banged 5 different chicks, 3 sb's all in there early 20's, a hot 35 yo asian from bumble last night and tonight a 50 yo I've known through some social groups. It's been a good here. Next year I plan to slow down with the sugar, I have my one super solid smoking hot 20 yo asian gal, and another that is very into the swinger scene so hoping to get some numbers up in that world. We shall see.

[LouisHernandez]

My experience has been that the SBs who discuss money, especially any specific discussion of how much and for what, leads to an SW or a dead end. Especially if they seem too busy to chat for a couple of days before the m / g. Especially if there is any discussion of videos or pictures.

The last time out, I had six "trial runs" between Locust Grove and Waycross. I don't mind driving if the vibe is right. All but one were single mothers, the other was a medical professional with two masters degrees.

One mom had several "dates" and visits to her home but never made it to the FC. Never did figure out her thing.

Three mentioned a specific amount but kept the conversation going. All three of these were BBFS and one was multiple overnights with multiple pops. All were 250. Two were repeats but unable to host, the third started asking for money for her hair, nails, etc.

One came to my house numerous times after the m / g, spent the night with multiple BBFS pops. Never asked for anything specific, just help fix problems. Over a month there were maybe half a dozen overnights and my investment was about 1.5 k spread out over the month. But then she called me from jail, needed to get bailed out of a DUI. Only cost me $20 because I'm a property owner in that county. I helped her through the court appearance then I walked away from it.

Last one is still going after two and a half years, started out paying her rent now it's SGF with trips to the beach, NYC, New Orleans, and Orlando with her kids. I spend the weekends with her, always BBFS.

Lesson learned: If it's all about the money, expect a high percentage of GPS, flakes and scammers. If they don't seem overly concerned about the money, that's where you want to invest your time.

Good post here. If they bring up cash amounts before FS especially before meeting face to face, more often than not they are grifters / flakes / scammers. All of my 50+ SBs I never talked about money until face to face. A good rule of thumb is to walk no matter "hot" she appears if she starts asking about dollar amounts before IRL meeting.

[LouisHernandez]

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...7-032fe56ad005

HersheyKissLips ss a picture seller. Cooks up a good story, but when you set up a meet she wants money for pictures before she leaves.

Fucking grifters. I'll tell ya seeking in Denver where I live has gotten tough. I notice SA no longer advertises they have a "4 female to 1 male" ratio anymore. Regular online dating is completely broken and has been forever. I think most guys have given up on it and all have moved to SA. Glad I was ahead of the crowd and experienced what a rock star life is like for a few years. That's over with. Lots of work now with often little to show for it.

[Peter Johnson]

Over the past couple of years I have looked back on my journey and realized it has been a very interesting trip. One that has very good and crazy memories. All thanks to our great community of bowlers and mongers. This site along has helped in so many ways to broaden my scopes in ways I have never thought of before. If you have a open mind you can find value in it. I have to say over the past 2 yrs I have seen after counting my trophy pics upward to 113 girls and the majority of them were SB. Well I want to wish everyone a happy holidays and happy new years and keep at it hopefully in 2023 I will be able to double that number.

Nice number there, and of course that represents a lot of fun and adventure. I nailed 37 in 2002 and all but 2 of those were sbs. My best ever was 83 in 2012 and that was when Craigslist Casual Encounters was an amazing resource for free action, but of course the quality was nowhere as high as sugar dating....a lot of chunky housewives back then, but was still glorious.

37 was my best year since 2015...had some LTRs that slowed me down, and only 5 in 2020, when covid hit. Only 12 last year, again mainly because of covid risk.

I am going to try to average maybe 2 a month in 2023, for both budgetary reasons and because I'm slowing down a bit as I get older with my recharge time. I could get it up and do a new one every day, but I wouldn't enjoy enough. I need to be really backed up to be crazy horny, and then it can be a mind blowing peak experience. That is what I'm going for at this point.

[FarFarAway]

Over the past couple of years I have looked back on my journey and realized it has been a very interesting trip. One that has very good and crazy memories. All thanks to our great community of bowlers and mongers. This site along has helped in so many ways to broaden my scopes in ways I have never thought of before. If you have a open mind you can find value in it. I have to say over the past 2 yrs I have seen after counting my trophy pics upward to 113 girls and the majority of them were SB. Well I want to wish everyone a happy holidays and happy new years and keep at it hopefully in 2023 I will be able to double that number.

Impressive. You must be single. I have a SO, which limits my availability. I've had like 3 dozen or so girls since joining SA since 2016, and a few keepers I've seen for long-terms. I often fantasize about what would happen if a magic wand was waved and my SO didn't exist anymore. I think I would go a little crazy, I could afford a lot in the sugar bowl, both my schedule and the need to hide the $ I am spending is what limits me now. With those brakes off, I really can't imagine how much fun I could have. And I am a guy in my 60's. Pretty proud of that, all of you SDs should be.

[TattoedDaddy1]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...5-55042e362c28

She's back. Started at 500 ppm then after she got mad at me it went to 1000 ppm but quoted 400 ppm too. Let's see what happens LOL.

[SalaminoThing]

My appologies fellow members. Just noticed I had Posted in the Wrong Thread.

OK. Scammer! We started chatting and agreed to meet at a restaurant for a meet and greet and afterwards some fun for 2. She said she was on her way in a uber. I sent her a screenshot of the distance via waze and asked her to send me one as well. She asked me to send her the payment over electronic method I responded with I deal in cash she replied cash makes her feel dirty. I LOL anyways she pretended to be in the uber car so I asked for a pic of the uber car she never sent it. However she presented to be pulling up and getting out the car. I am waiting outside she never arrived then she says she at the wrong place when I sent her the address. It was clear she was lying. Don't waste your time. LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...e-fa89f707c79e

I had a similar experience. However, in my case she gave me an address to her apartment (supposedly). I got there and it was indeed an apartment with restaurants. She told me where to park and that she was on the way to get me since the gate was locked. 2 minutes later she texted me saying that she did not receive the payments. I asked what payments? She says she likes payments upfront and does not like discussing it in the room. I said I prefer cash; but I can do electronic transfer after seeing her and if I am comfortable. She insisted that I send any amount to show that I was real. That was when I realized she was a scammer. I left.

[TattoedDaddy1]

Over the past couple of years I have looked back on my journey and realized it has been a very interesting trip. One that has very good and crazy memories. All thanks to our great community of bowlers and mongers. This site along has helped in so many ways to broaden my scopes in ways I have never thought of before. If you have a open mind you can find value in it. I have to say over the past 2 yrs I have seen after counting my trophy pics upward to 113 girls and the majority of them were SB. Well I want to wish everyone a happy holidays and happy new years and keep at it hopefully in 2023 I will be able to double that number.

I cannot agree with you more, although I have no way of counting. I know that since I've embarked on this quest, even though there has been some downfalls, I could not be happier with the outcome of this environment.

I see every interaction as either a lesson or a blessing. I cannot honestly say that there isn't a single person that I've interacted with that hasn't taught me something or gave me something to improve my walk.

I come from a long line of sugar daddies, my grandfather was one, my father was one, my cousin, and now me. Fortunately, I've had the opportunity to have people bestow on me their lessons, so I didn't have to make as many mistakes this some.

Thank you everyone for making this forum possible it has definitely enlightened my walk!