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**Tyrex2** · 12-30-22 02:46

**SuckeredByaSB** · 12-29-22 23:51

Originally Posted by LikesGirls [View Original Post]

I don't think someone paying a girl $1 K PPM kills the market. It just means that girl is out of reach for some.

Kinda like some people buy $9 digital watches at Walmart, and some spend many (many, many) thousands on a Rolex or Breitling or whatever.

No, that's not the point. I've happily paid $5 k for Omegas and Breitlings. But I'm not paying $1 k for the Casio skank.

The market is the market.

**Dimples572** · 12-29-22 21:18

Originally Posted by AnonDemon69 [View Original Post]

Thanks. I didn't know that they monitor those messages. I will be careful.

Do some guys give an allowance and then also PPM? I think that is excessive. I've been reading in this forum that perhaps the dinner, entertainment, hotel, and PPM is enough to get some intimacy during a meeting, so no allowance needed. Or perhaps just an allowance but no PPM, maybe the allowance gets your more meets? Seems like the younger crowd is more open to this than the entitled later 20's or 30's.

LOL no. Just one or the other. I try to stay away from the ones seeking an allowance, at least initially upfront I try to sell them on a ppm arrangement and then if things are going well for a month or two we can discuss an allowance.

**AnonDemon69** · 12-29-22 20:56

Originally Posted by Xaxado [View Original Post]

I know of more than one person who got banned from SA because they were a little too direct in their language about exchanging sex for money when messaging on SA. At some point I usually just move the conversation to text or have a platonic meet & greet (usually lunch) and discuss specifics about the ppm subject there.

Thanks. I didn't know that they monitor those messages. I will be careful.

Do some guys give an allowance and then also PPM? I think that is excessive. I've been reading in this forum that perhaps the dinner, entertainment, hotel, and PPM is enough to get some intimacy during a meeting, so no allowance needed. Or perhaps just an allowance but no PPM, maybe the allowance gets your more meets? Seems like the younger crowd is more open to this than the entitled later 20's or 30's.

**LikesGirls** · 12-29-22 20:15

Originally Posted by SuckeredByaSB [View Original Post]

Jesus, why would you pay that skank $1 k??

Killing me and killing the market.

I don't think someone paying a girl $1 K PPM kills the market. It just means that girl is out of reach for some.

Kinda like some people buy $9 digital watches at Walmart, and some spend many (many, many) thousands on a Rolex or Breitling or whatever.

**Xaxado** · 12-29-22 20:09

Originally Posted by AnonDemon69 [View Original Post]

New to this. Signed up to SA. Just wondering if you guys just plain ask if intimacy is included in the PPM or if you sorta just bring it up during the actual meeting. I assume these women are in this site knowing the drill, but some profiles and some of your reports are throwing me off.

I know of more than one person who got banned from SA because they were a little too direct in their language about exchanging sex for money when messaging on SA. At some point I usually just move the conversation to text or have a platonic meet & greet (usually lunch) and discuss specifics about the ppm subject there.

**Wiz Fan** · 12-29-22 19:18

Originally Posted by WorkYard [View Original Post]

I said 'Hello' to her on Seeking and she said "That all sounds great 😊 what kind of allowance are you offering".

I was turned off.

But any SB that responds with $ request without us even meeting to get acquainted is not worth my time and so I block them immediately. If all there simply in it for the $$.

I'm going to be sorely disappointed.

Also, I'm amazed at the SB asking for SD but are clear that the engagement will be strictly platonic w / no sex LOL. What SD in their right mind would contact them?

Anyways I'm new in past week and have 3 potential SBs that seem legit and cool and will report back.

**Member #7024** · 12-29-22 18:32

Originally Posted by DickLongwood [View Original Post]

This hottie has had multiple profiles over the past few years. Pretty, huge breasts, nice skin. Has anyone actually met her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...5-0e1458843f9f#x.

I said 'Hello' to her on Seeking and she said "That all sounds great 😊 what kind of allowance are you offering".

I was turned off.

**DickLongwood** · 12-29-22 17:52

This hottie has had multiple profiles over the past few years. Pretty, huge breasts, nice skin. Has anyone actually met her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...5-0e1458843f9f#x.

**DickLongwood** · 12-29-22 17:48

Originally Posted by SolRayode8 [View Original Post]

Happy Holidays. I haven't been very active on SA so never had much to report. This one caught my eye, so I reached out to her and to be honest, I'm not sure what this was all about, but my experience with CheekyTemptress was a huge waste of time. https://members.seeking.com/member/5...9-591bdcaf5462.

Had a good conversation going on SA. She asked to move to Whatsapp pretty quickly (1st red flag); moved to Whatsapp where the approximately 2 week conversation was ok, except for the fact that most of her responses consisted of only 2-3 words (2nd red flag); she told me, "I am looking for an open arrangement where we have something on going and meeting for fun. " Said she couldn't host and agreed to come to me for $350. Two days before the scheduled meet, she asked, "Can you buy me weed?" I told her that I didn't smoke and wouldn't know how to go about it or how to get it to her. She ask me to cashapp her and she'd buy it herself (3rd red flag). I told her I didn't send money to anyone I'd not met. She said ok and said she was looking forward to us meeting. The day before our meet, I asked her to confirm that we were still getting together. She said "yes". The day of our meet, I asked if all was still good, she said "yes." I asked her to let me know if something came up, if she was going to be late or not be able to make it and she said "okay."

Of course, no show, no text, no message, no call.

Although I'm not out any money, I'll never get that time back. Her profile is still active, so be careful.

I wouldn't bother with someone who has no verbiage in her profile. The photo is likely not her.

**Lobsid** · 12-29-22 16:53

I been seeing one of my SB for over a year. She been hinting about getting into a real relationship. I just keep telling her that if we are in a real relationship she would lose her allowance. That quiet her down a little. I recently got her pregnant, and thank the heavens she took care of that problem. She been clingy, and been pushing for more. She keeps saying that I'm the longest relationship she had. She even ask about me wifeing her up in the future. I just ignore her, and tell her I'm too old for her. She 21 years old and I'm 43 years old.

Originally Posted by SuckeredByaSB [View Original Post]

That said, have any of you guys ever done the unthinkable? When you get the kind of arrangement where you are texting a few times a week and go out for dinner and drinks and not just F in the FC, slowly develop a friendship or connection, what do you do if you start to catch feelings? Or if you think they are catching feelings for you?

It's really the worst case scenario unless you can manipulate it to your advantage without letting anyone get hurt or have it affect your real life.

**Vamassage Fan** · 12-29-22 16:18

Originally Posted by AnonDemon69 [View Original Post]

New to this. Signed up to SA. Just wondering if you guys just plain ask if intimacy is included in the PPM or if you sorta just bring it up during the actual meeting. I assume these women are in this site knowing the drill, but some profiles and some of your reports are throwing me off.

Nothing assured, sometimes they want to go straight to intimacy, but more often first meeting is in public, clothes and you chat, any intimacy waits till a subsequent occasion. If their is mutual attraction, sometimes spontaneous adjournment to a motel happens. Gift or no gift on first meeting also varies. Just know your limit and view it a a roll of the dice. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. But read profiles. Discretion, no strings attached, open to PPM are usually good clues.

**TomFordModel** · 12-29-22 15:29

Originally Posted by SuckeredByaSB [View Original Post]

That said, have any of you guys ever done the unthinkable? When you get the kind of arrangement where you are texting a few times a week and go out for dinner and drinks and not just F in the FC, slowly develop a friendship or connection, what do you do if you start to catch feelings? Or if you think they are catching feelings for you?

It's really the worst case scenario unless you can manipulate it to your advantage without letting anyone get hurt or have it affect your real life.

Just fuck them out of your system and always remember you're paying for that piece of ass. They're not real. It's an infatuation.

**DoctorDoctor** · 12-29-22 14:37

Originally Posted by SuckeredByaSB [View Original Post]

That said, have any of you guys ever done the unthinkable? When you get the kind of arrangement where you are texting a few times a week and go out for dinner and drinks and not just F in the FC, slowly develop a friendship or connection, what do you do if you start to catch feelings? Or if you think they are catching feelings for you?

It's really the worst case scenario unless you can manipulate it to your advantage without letting anyone get hurt or have it affect your real life.

It depends. Could be a train wreck or the best thing that's happened.

You choose.

BTW, I meet a sugar that I ended up living with. It wasn't planned but works nicely for all.

**SuckeredByaSB** · 12-29-22 14:05

That said, have any of you guys ever done the unthinkable? When you get the kind of arrangement where you are texting a few times a week and go out for dinner and drinks and not just F in the FC, slowly develop a friendship or connection, what do you do if you start to catch feelings? Or if you think they are catching feelings for you?

It's really the worst case scenario unless you can manipulate it to your advantage without letting anyone get hurt or have it affect your real life.