Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[TopGun9]

Here is one for you guys who willing to go to 4. I will not. Not bad. Could be a wild one in bed. Bi. I just won't go over 3. Call me stubborn old school SA days. 400 seems to be the new 300 or 250. No car so you have to pick up. After first meet down to 3 she says but who know. You guys think worth 4? She had a couple long term guys who gave 4 every time.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...9-63336fccbdd4

Hell NO!

400 is reserved for the hot young 18/19 yr old white spinners.

[TopGun9]

Been chatting with this 23 year old for a while. After some back and forth she wanted 3. However, I not going to pull the trigger yet as she's a bit too chunky for me and I like more petite girls. Plus I'm juggling too many at the moment so I'll put her on my reserve list for now. But go ahead and contact her if you're so inclined but promise to report back to me:

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...b-7b68bc8b9f8c

You're not the only guy actively talking to her, I am sure there are a dozen other guys out there talking to her.

Some might even be fucking her while you're still in the talking stage. LOL.

But yeah, I agreed with you. She's not worth 300. Fuck, I even passed her for 200; while I fuck UConn and CCSU coeds for 150.

[Steve 99]

She is in Greenwich. That is always trouble with all money down there. 800 ppm. Pass. These girls must have to talk to 50 guys to finally find a dummy to pay these amounts. Or they never really do get it and are dreaming.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...0-e372d56fcd00

[PopPoppy70]

Been chatting with this 23 year old for a while. After some back and forth she wanted 3. However, I not going to pull the trigger yet as she's a bit too chunky for me and I like more petite girls. Plus I'm juggling too many at the moment so I'll put her on my reserve list for now. But go ahead and contact her if you're so inclined but promise to report back to me:

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...b-7b68bc8b9f8c

[PopPoppy70]

Here is one for you guys who willing to go to 4. I will not. Not bad. Could be a wild one in bed. Bi. I just won't go over 3. Call me stubborn old school SA days. 400 seems to be the new 300 or 250. No car so you have to pick up. After first meet down to 3 she says but who know. You guys think worth 4? She had a couple long term guys who gave 4 every time.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...9-63336fccbdd4

Good choice in declining 4 IMO. 33 year old who although is fit, doesn't have a pretty face at least for me. Hard to tell from those pics.

[Steve 99]

Here is one for you guys who willing to go to 4. I will not. Not bad. Could be a wild one in bed. Bi. I just won't go over 3. Call me stubborn old school SA days. 400 seems to be the new 300 or 250. No car so you have to pick up. After first meet down to 3 she says but who know. You guys think worth 4? She had a couple long term guys who gave 4 every time.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...9-63336fccbdd4

[McBright]

Another one with great coms, traded numbers and have been texting. Seems like she's been on for a while but her profile says Nov of this year. Meeting her Tuesday and will swap stories with anyone that has partaken.

Happy Hunting!

MC.

[McBright]

I've been talking with her but comms have been sporadic / inconsistent. Hard to nail down any sort of logistics for an initial meet and greet, so the jury's still out for me.

Kwag.

Same here, any updates on your end? Seems nice enough and fun. But not sure she will follow through in person. If she does I definitely think she would be DTF.

[McBright]

Anyone have any experience with this one? She's been around, this is her 2nd or 3rd profile. Coms have been great. Would like to trade stories if you've have any experience with her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...3-4412f019ccf8

[MustangGuy]

I've been talking with her but comms have been sporadic / inconsistent. Hard to nail down any sort of logistics for an initial meet and greet, so the jury's still out for me.

Kwag.

I'm having the same issue. I'll report back if I get anywhere.

[BlueFox141]

I think your Rule 1 and my Rule 1 can be combined.

I don't know how. I just explained how I have found your Rule 1 to be wrong sometimes.

[Gridge]

A word to the wise concerning the WYP site.

I've been on that site, off and on for 5 years with no prior issues, but a few weeks ago I edited a typo on my profile. After saving it, my account was immediately suspended with no reason given.

I wrote to them and got a reply days later that they noticed 'suspicious activity'. I replied that 'editing my profile is NOT suspicious. What's the problem?

To get back in, I'm supposed to supply front & back pics of my DL, with nothing blocked.

My last message to them was, 'You'll get my DL when you freeze over in hell'. DONE & NEXT!

BMD.

WTF really? What a trash move by that site. I have actually had some decent success on that site. Took some time weeding out the flakes, but that comes with the territory.

[Tomb8871]

Tried it after seeing a few girls that I recognized from WYP on there. Sent several messages zero replies. Total ripoff.

Yes SB a ripoff. There are all manner of fake profiles there which will send you msg so you answer and burn credits. Think it owner putting all those profiles and bots out there.

[BoredinCT12]

So I signed up for secret benefits. I see they have a few model based on credits, where you pay to unlock the ability to talk with the women.

I've already joined seeking a while ago.

So my question is does anyone actually use secret benefits? I am very skeptical because within 3 days of signing up, I have 3 messages in my inbox from decent looking ladies looking to connect. All from within 30 miles of the location I used in my profile. I am looking to see if this is the general experience of others, or if it is part of the websites strategy to get people to pay the $59.99 for the least expensive credit package.

Tried it after seeing a few girls that I recognized from WYP on there. Sent several messages zero replies. Total ripoff.

[LouisHernandez]

So just a different experience for me. I've met a few girls that I would put in top 10 and I've fucked probably 250+( 245 not on seeking, but I'm just saying in terms of comparison that I am not a novice) in the last 11 years. However, perhaps it's because of what I am after and my situation might be different. That's why I am posting because I'm curious. I'm single, under 40, average at best looking, probably 35 pounds overweight, and have no problems going out in public doing real date stuff. I do not appear to be wealthy and really am not due to starting my business. I have traveled a lot in Europe, USa, and South America and have pretty good life experience. I drive a 10 year old dirty car and dress sorta ok. I also legit am looking for intelligent conversation and hanging out. Otherwise it's just not worth my time since I can either jerk off, go to lifestyle events for free or essentialy free, or travel outside the US for more favorable condtions due to my work. For me the goal of seeking in the US is get the benefits of a girlfriend without the commitment or having to constantly stay in contact. I need to have it be ok that I disapear for 2 months and fuck other woman.

So I've found a few in CT this year that meet my critera. One I ppm for 400 for 3 to 4 hours / whatever. One I don't pay other than just paying for normal boyfriend stuff. And hotel rooms due to my living situation. And if things continue to go well I'll pay for her to travel with me. But no shopping trips, no allowance, no extras. Well, other than bdsm gear and lingerie. She wants to go to cultural things and I have the interest and knowledge to make it happen. Doing a weekend day trip is no problem for me.

They are 23 and 24, college degree, petite but with a butt, super hot (for me, but both conventually attractive) and insanely smart. One has done sex work for years casually on and off and the other does not at all. Money was not discussed with either up front and obviously the 2nd it's never come up. I approched it as a first date for both and didn't even try to get sexual with either the first time.

So yeah, I'm curious to compare situations and approaches because my happyness with seeking in CT is amazing.

And yes, I've had some time wasters and others where my approach does not work. So it's not like I make it happen everytime.

Interesting. I've been on and off SA for 6 years and have had a few unicorn types (they were all under 24 years old, the older ones are always pay to play) but there's always been a monetary exchange except a few times. Only one girl specially didn't accept money out of the 50 or so I've hooked up with on there. Most required it either directly or indirectly. Point is, I consider the site a prostitution site and have given up looking for anything vanilla, b / c that's what bumble or other vanilla dating sites are for. I don't order seafood at a steak house restaurant.