Seeking Arrangements

[Downtown Boy]

I've communicated with her on SA and Fet. Both instances started the same, friendly and flirty, then complete radio silence.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-874c18f12111

Would love her fet life account. I'm friends with a lot of girls on FetLife. Some dudes too.

[EasiePeasie]

That is the problem with your mentality. $100-$150 is a lot of money to a lot of people still. If you think paying that amount is a low ball then something is wrong with you. Play your handsome card because I also believe I am an attractive handsome man as well. See screen shots of my typical text exchange with a sb from SA. Obviously after they see my photo it goes along way also. You will notice that my previous sb Beth told me she was gonna see another guy in addition to me cuz he was gonna pay her more money. I have no problem with that. In fact if they can get more money from other guys but still wants to hang out with you for your set amount it actually says something about your character.

Your screenshots are a good learning tool for how to deal with SB negotiations but leave unanswered whether since that exchange 2 years ago you can still find a a good SB who hosts for about 200, or for showing how to negotiate their rate down to that level from an initial ask in the 400-600 range, which I get initially.

[Gianni Versace]

Plan on getting a lot of messages back saying Bye and then being blocked.

That's simply not true.

[Gianni Versace]

Good info. I'm going to start offering much much less. I'm a good looking guy and single. So I don't give a shit about any of this. I got all the time in the world to low ball these women.

That is the problem with your mentality. $100-$150 is a lot of money to a lot of people still. If you think paying that amount is a low ball then something is wrong with you. Play your handsome card because I also believe I am an attractive handsome man as well. See screen shots of my typical text exchange with a sb from SA. Obviously after they see my photo it goes along way also. You will notice that my previous sb Beth told me she was gonna see another guy in addition to me cuz he was gonna pay her more money. I have no problem with that. In fact if they can get more money from other guys but still wants to hang out with you for your set amount it actually says something about your character.

[EasiePeasie]

If you are paying 400 and they host, what is the problem then with paying 300 and getting a day use hotel for another 100? You are paying pretty much in the ballpark what every body else is paying for slim to average attractive women. It is definitely possible to get one for 300 who hosts for what you are looking for. It just might take longer.

Yeah, I have already started to arrange dates with women who both asked for 400 but could not host so I got them to agree to 300 by saying I would pay for a dayuse hotel near them. My question was about how to get the all-in cost down to 300 instead of 400. Do the ones who host fir 300 ask for more than 400 so you negotiate aggressively or do they ask for 400 or less?

[Syedna]

Good info. I'm going to start offering much much less. I'm a good looking guy and single. So I don't give a shit about any of this. I got all the time in the world to low ball these women.

Plan on getting a lot of messages back saying Bye and then being blocked.

[WillSmith96]

She recently favoured me on seeking arrangements. I know whopte do LOL. But currently not a paying member on SA. She has been reviewed before. Guess she was a bartender? Does anal. Ect. I have. A semi UTR in Plainville I could hook you up with (trade). I was initially not going to share her because I legit had feelings for UTR Plainville girl. But she just fucks anyone. And as the saying goes you can't turn a hoe into a house wife. Believe me I've tried. And just not going to chase sex workers into a normal relationship. I'll post some pictures of SA girl that I'm looking to meet. She has a new profile on seeking. Ill provide the link in a later post. Pictures should be enough if I can get them to post.

I've communicated with her on SA and Fet. Both instances started the same, friendly and flirty, then complete radio silence.

[Gianni Versace]

Being nice goes a long way. That is a baseline for all interactions. Same with not being a disgusting slob. Beyond that they are there for the $, unless they are just looking for a kinky side game.

And 150 is laughable, unless you are banging druggies, old ladies or teenagers who have no idea what they are doing.

If you want to low-ball every profile on SA you can manage to write to in an afternoon, go nuts. Doesn't make anything harder for me. You are like the statue of liberty sugar daddy, looking for the poor, the desperate, the huddled masses.

I actually mention in my profile I am not a sugar daddy. My bread and butter is single moms between mid 20's-40's.

[CandyMan555]

She recently favoured me on seeking arrangements. I know whopte do LOL. But currently not a paying member on SA. She has been reviewed before. Guess she was a bartender? Does anal. Ect. I have. A semi UTR in Plainville I could hook you up with (trade). I was initially not going to share her because I legit had feelings for UTR Plainville girl. But she just fucks anyone. And as the saying goes you can't turn a hoe into a house wife. Believe me I've tried. And just not going to chase sex workers into a normal relationship. I'll post some pictures of SA girl that I'm looking to meet. She has a new profile on seeking. Ill provide the link in a later post. Pictures should be enough if I can get them to post.

Please send link Thanks.

[OkWhatever]

Good info. I'm going to start offering much much less. I'm a good looking guy and single. So I don't give a shit about any of this. I got all the time in the world to low ball these women.

That is not crazy low. In my opinion $100 - $150 is still alot of money. Alot of you guys are just used to paying crazy prices and do not know how to say No and stand your ground. Also being middle aged, well groomed, good hygiene all plays a big roll. I had many SB's that I saw for my price points including Escorts but alot of you guys are the ones who are paying them their crazy money. This is why the pricing is so fcuked up. Also as I mentioned before being nice goes a very long way. Do you think when you **** shame a sb or an escort they are going to want to let you pay less money when they don't feel safe with you? Safety is a big thing. Think about what I am saying.

[Herow]

Being nice goes a long way. That is a baseline for all interactions. Same with not being a disgusting slob. Beyond that they are there for the $, unless they are just looking for a kinky side game.

And 150 is laughable, unless you are banging druggies, old ladies or teenagers who have no idea what they are doing.

If you want to low-ball every profile on SA you can manage to write to in an afternoon, go nuts. Doesn't make anything harder for me. You are like the statue of liberty sugar daddy, looking for the poor, the desperate, the huddled masses.

[Gianni Versace]

100-150? That's crazy low. I've never gotten anyone on SA for less than 200 and they weren't that good. I think the sweet spot is around 300. From my experience, most women will take that as long as you look decent and aren't a creep.

That is not crazy low. In my opinion $100 - $150 is still alot of money. Alot of you guys are just used to paying crazy prices and do not know how to say No and stand your ground. Also being middle aged, well groomed, good hygiene all plays a big roll. I had many SB's that I saw for my price points including Escorts but alot of you guys are the ones who are paying them their crazy money. This is why the pricing is so fcuked up. Also as I mentioned before being nice goes a very long way. Do you think when you **** shame a sb or an escort they are going to want to let you pay less money when they don't feel safe with you? Safety is a big thing. Think about what I am saying.

[Gianni Versace]

Guys In the past few years I had always used a Vanila Visa Gift card to purchase my membership. For some reason the payment has failed after trying to make payment with the Vanila Visa Gift Card. What Credit Card gift card are you using to make the payments go thru?

[JDeller]

If you are paying 400 and they host, what is the problem then with paying 300 and getting a day use hotel for another 100? You are paying pretty much in the ballpark what every body else is paying for slim to average attractive women. It is definitely possible to get one for 300 who hosts for what you are looking for. It just might take longer.

Is anyone finding attractive, slim to average body shape women for 300 who can host? I've only been a member for 2 weeks and saw one former model who agreed to 400 plus lunch (asked 600), but she was a complainer and I couldn't pop after an hour. My pussy hurts, my mouth is tired, my hand is tired. The few I've found who will accept 300 are not able to host. Will try another next week who can host for 400 (asked 500). Educate this Seeking newbie please.

[EasiePeasie]

100-150? That's crazy low. I've never gotten anyone on SA for less than 200 and they weren't that good. I think the sweet spot is around 300. From my experience, most women will take that as long as you look decent and aren't a creep.

Is anyone finding attractive, slim to average body shape women for 300 who can host? I've only been a member for 2 weeks and saw one former model who agreed to 400 plus lunch (asked 600), but she was a complainer and I couldn't pop after an hour. My pussy hurts, my mouth is tired, my hand is tired. The few I've found who will accept 300 are not able to host. Will try another next week who can host for 400 (asked 500). Educate this Seeking newbie please.