Dating Sites

**Zcochran00** · 11-28-22 23:20

Originally Posted by BamBam [View Original Post]

You are definitely being either rinsed or scammed. I recommend you go read both sugar threads on the Richmond forum. They function as the national info collection threads. Scroll down until you find the thread titled "Sugarbaby Thread Highlights, Index, and FAQ" Scroll back several years and then read forward. It will give you everything you need to know. I will leave a link below. The two most important thing to take away from your experience are these: 1) Never, ever, for any reason including a claim of imminent death, offer a sugar baby money without meeting. I recommend only ever using cash. Most men do not even give money at the MnG. The general rule is no money until the panties hit the floor. Don't get buck fever and start ignoring the rules the first couple of times out. All electronic transfers can be traced. 2) Never believe *anything*, any sugar baby tells you, at any time. Confirm it, go see for yourself or just ignore them. The SB's, the scammers and rinsers have more experienced at this than you and they spend all their mental energy figuring out how to manipulate or trick you. Even a sugar baby you have been seeing several times a week for many years can turn on a dime and rip you off. Don't get bitter or hateful about it. Just recognize it as part of this world.

BAM.

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...-Index-and-FAQ

Have to say that it's satisfying to see the time and effort I put into collating that info still being useful several years later.

**BamBam** · 11-27-22 15:22

Originally Posted by LittleWad [View Original Post]

Hey guys, I have been on Secret Benefits for a little over a month, and while I think there are a bunch of scammers on that site, Anybody willing to give me some tips, or advice on how to be a sugar daddy? What is the average per month for a sugar baby?

You are definitely being either rinsed or scammed. I recommend you go read both sugar threads on the Richmond forum. They function as the national info collection threads. Scroll down until you find the thread titled "Sugarbaby Thread Highlights, Index, and FAQ" Scroll back several years and then read forward. It will give you everything you need to know. I will leave a link below. The two most important thing to take away from your experience are these: 1) Never, ever, for any reason including a claim of imminent death, offer a sugar baby money without meeting. I recommend only ever using cash. Most men do not even give money at the MnG. The general rule is no money until the panties hit the floor. Don't get buck fever and start ignoring the rules the first couple of times out. All electronic transfers can be traced. 2) Never believe *anything*, any sugar baby tells you, at any time. Confirm it, go see for yourself or just ignore them. The SB's, the scammers and rinsers have more experienced at this than you and they spend all their mental energy figuring out how to manipulate or trick you. Even a sugar baby you have been seeing several times a week for many years can turn on a dime and rip you off. Don't get bitter or hateful about it. Just recognize it as part of this world.

BAM.

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...-Index-and-FAQ

**PleasureGiver** · 11-27-22 00:15

Originally Posted by InDelaware [View Original Post]

HTown is 100% spot on. No money upfront without a meeting. Hell, just tell her you want to get together for a quick coffee and you'll give her the cash. But from here, you look like you're getting scammed.

I have to agree as well and I'm going on 3 years now (November 1st) with the same Sugar Babe.

**In Delaware** · 11-26-22 19:13

Originally Posted by LittleWad [View Original Post]

Hey guys, I have been on Secret Benefits for a little over a month, and while I think there are a bunch of scammers on that site, I have finally started talking with someone that is real, and actually from the area. Now, I have never been a sugar Daddy before, so I might be ignorant, but I did go to the strip clubs alot back in the 80's, 90's, and 2000's. So, I am talking with this girl, and and I ask waht her expectations are, and how much of an allowance she expects from a sugar daddy, and she says 200/ meet, and weeks where we don't meet, she expects a little help. I think that was reasonable, and say so. Then we switch to snapchat, and I sent her $25 just to show I was serious. She sends me some pics that are posted on her secret benefits page, and I tell her I already seen these pics. She says she has more pics, and videos, and the next day she sends me some pics and videos, and tells me she wants to get her eyelashes done, so I send $50, and she asks for another $60, because it cost $110 to get her lashes done, so I send that. Today, I wake up to a request for $100 for lingerie, and I am starting to feel hustled. We have not met in person yet, but had plans to meet this weekend, but then it got moved to sometime next week, at her request. I am not rich, but I do okay, that is why I asked what her monthly allowance expectations were, but for me to just send $100 bucks, every other day, seems a little excessive to me, just for pics, when there is tons of free porn on the internet. Anybody willing to give me some tips, or advice on how to be a sugar daddy? What is the average per month for a sugar baby?

HTown is 100% spot on. No money upfront without a meeting. Hell, just tell her you want to get together for a quick coffee and you'll give her the cash. But from here, you look like you're getting scammed.

**HTownHobbyist** · 11-25-22 13:31

Originally Posted by LittleWad [View Original Post]

Hey guys, I have been on Secret Benefits for a little over a month, and while I think there are a bunch of scammers on that site, I have finally started talking with someone that is real, and actually from the area. Now, I have never been a sugar Daddy before, so I might be ignorant, but I did go to the strip clubs alot back in the 80's, 90's, and 2000's. So, I am talking with this girl, and and I ask waht her expectations are, and how much of an allowance she expects from a sugar daddy, and she says 200/ meet, and weeks where we don't meet, she expects a little help. I think that was reasonable, and say so. Then we switch to snapchat, and I sent her $25 just to show I was serious. She sends me some pics that are posted on her secret benefits page, and I tell her I already seen these pics. She says she has more pics, and videos, and the next day she sends me some pics and videos, and tells me she wants to get her eyelashes done, so I send $50, and she asks for another $60, because it cost $110 to get her lashes done, so I send that. Today, I wake up to a request for $100 for lingerie, and I am starting to feel hustled. We have not met in person yet, but had plans to meet this weekend, but then it got moved to sometime next week, at her request. I am not rich, but I do okay, that is why I asked what her monthly allowance expectations were, but for me to just send $100 bucks, every other day, seems a little excessive to me, just for pics, when there is tons of free porn on the internet. Anybody willing to give me some tips, or advice on how to be a sugar daddy? What is the average per month for a sugar baby?

You are getting scammed. Never pay money, unless you have met the person and established that she is who she says she is. There's a lot of good advice in this thread and the Cincy thread.

**Little Wad** · 11-25-22 12:55

Hey guys, I have been on Secret Benefits for a little over a month, and while I think there are a bunch of scammers on that site, I have finally started talking with someone that is real, and actually from the area. Now, I have never been a sugar Daddy before, so I might be ignorant, but I did go to the strip clubs alot back in the 80's, 90's, and 2000's. So, I am talking with this girl, and and I ask waht her expectations are, and how much of an allowance she expects from a sugar daddy, and she says 200/ meet, and weeks where we don't meet, she expects a little help. I think that was reasonable, and say so. Then we switch to snapchat, and I sent her $25 just to show I was serious. She sends me some pics that are posted on her secret benefits page, and I tell her I already seen these pics. She says she has more pics, and videos, and the next day she sends me some pics and videos, and tells me she wants to get her eyelashes done, so I send $50, and she asks for another $60, because it cost $110 to get her lashes done, so I send that. Today, I wake up to a request for $100 for lingerie, and I am starting to feel hustled. We have not met in person yet, but had plans to meet this weekend, but then it got moved to sometime next week, at her request. I am not rich, but I do okay, that is why I asked what her monthly allowance expectations were, but for me to just send $100 bucks, every other day, seems a little excessive to me, just for pics, when there is tons of free porn on the internet. Anybody willing to give me some tips, or advice on how to be a sugar daddy? What is the average per month for a sugar baby?

**BaddenBoy2020** · 11-22-22 14:55

Originally Posted by FootMan2007 [View Original Post]

Damn I've been hoping I would run into bed again at Cheeks but have never been able to. What time was she there when you saw her?

I was there on a Saturday night after 10 all the times I've seen her there including the most recent one, a few weeks back.

**Westy0311** · 11-22-22 13:23

She's talked about the times that she goes in on her Twitch streams and it varies. Sometimes early evenings and other times around 10 ish.

Originally Posted by FootMan2007 [View Original Post]

Damn I've been hoping I would run into bed again at Cheeks but have never been able to. What time was she there when you saw her?

**FootMan2007** · 11-22-22 05:20

Originally Posted by BaddenBoy2020 [View Original Post]

She works at cheeks, I saw her there a few weeks ago. She's been a dancer there for years. She gave a great dance and has a nice body, my first dance with her was a year and half ago now. She is real, but she's expensive. I get the impression from her profile and there was a report of interactions with her a while back from another monger that there is no cheaping out. After all she could probably make some pretty good money from a night of work instead of spending her time elsewhere.

Hopes this helps.

BB.

Damn I've been hoping I would run into bed again at Cheeks but have never been able to. What time was she there when you saw her?

**BamBam** · 11-20-22 16:23

Originally Posted by NothingToDo [View Original Post]

Her profile is a four years old, but is she legit or just want you to buy content? Any intel? Thanks!

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...0-5918a4031c00

She used to go by abbrah. She has been reviewed before but I cannot find it. At one time, I had her SM but she has deleted most of it.

BAM.

**Westy0311** · 11-20-22 15:38

If this is the AJ that I'm thinking of, she's wanting 5 bills for some fun. I've come close to pulling the trigger but I haven't yet. She has an OF account and does Twitch streaming.

Originally Posted by BaddenBoy2020 [View Original Post]

She works at cheeks, I saw her there a few weeks ago. She's been a dancer there for years. She gave a great dance and has a nice body, my first dance with her was a year and half ago now. She is real, but she's expensive. I get the impression from her profile and there was a report of interactions with her a while back from another monger that there is no cheaping out. After all she could probably make some pretty good money from a night of work instead of spending her time elsewhere.

Hopes this helps.

BB.

**BaddenBoy2020** · 11-20-22 12:07

Originally Posted by NothingToDo [View Original Post]

Her profile is a four years old, but is she legit or just want you to buy content? Any intel? Thanks!

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...0-5918a4031c00

She works at cheeks, I saw her there a few weeks ago. She's been a dancer there for years. She gave a great dance and has a nice body, my first dance with her was a year and half ago now. She is real, but she's expensive. I get the impression from her profile and there was a report of interactions with her a while back from another monger that there is no cheaping out. After all she could probably make some pretty good money from a night of work instead of spending her time elsewhere.

Hopes this helps.

BB.

**NothingToDo** · 11-20-22 10:20

Her profile is a four years old, but is she legit or just want you to buy content? Any intel? Thanks!

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...0-5918a4031c00