NoVA SugarBabies

[JustLikeThe]

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...5-478c20fa22c2

I had sent a few messages to her on the site but no response. Wanted yo see if anyone had chatted. Looks like she has been here since 2020 but could not find any report. TIA.

[BDM1227]

I just had an absolutely awful date. It was so hilariously bad I felt I had to share it with my brethren. (It was out of town so no need to link to warn you guys.)

I travel regularly to another east coast city. I had been chatting with this woman for a while and decided to pull the trigger this time around. She struck me as attractive, kinky, but still reasonably sane and a genuinely sweet woman. Mid-30's Latina. We meet in the evening at my hotel. I decide to meet her in the lobby and it occurs to me that she never asked for a photo of me so if I saw her and she didn't look right I could just bail. Oh how I wish I had.

Strike one: as she arrives at the hotel she texts me and says she is stoned AF. Now, I don't particularly care whether someone gets high but I like to know about it in advance so I can decide whether I want to engage and I also want to vet for harder stuff, which I don't want to be around. But that by itself wasn't a red flag. I knew she was into some kinky shit and figured maybe that helps her.

Strike two: as she arrives she also texts me that she is wearing an "orthopedic book. " Now, that too doesn't bother me in the absolute. Shit happens and I'm not playing with her feet. But when I see her this is not an enclosed shoe in a boot. Her foot is wrapped in gauze and bandages within the boot. And she's limping. So that's kind of f'ed up. That should have been my sign, but at this point it is late and I am invested in playing this out. Also, again, the promise of some seriously kinky shit that aligns with my own fetishes.

Strike three: we head upstairs and we get down to playing. Vibe is fine not awful, not awesome. She's clearly high but I am going with it. But when I go to finger her there are two issues. First, she says she has trouble spreading her legs a certain way because of a hip injury / surgery. And second, when I do get down there I feel a very hard ring inside her. She explained later that it is apparently some sort of condition where her uterus is too low and the cock hits it during sex and it is painful, so this ring realigns everything.

What follows is the karmic retribution for going through with it despite three clear strikes:

1) I don't cum.

2) Condom breaks during sex. First time in my life that has happened (and given everything about this woman I wanted to stay safe). I wasn't in there that long so I'm not worried about disease.

3) I walk her out and wait with her for her Uber. I decided it was better to tough out that painful fifteen minutes of conversation than leave her to her own devices and have her speak to anyone else at the hotel. While waiting she looks down and realizes her foot bandages are in complete disarray. Bandage is unwrapped, gauze is falling out. I lean down to try to rearrange it all for her to be somewhat presentable and she completely farts right in my face. I hear it and think "that can't be what just happened." But we are in an enclosed vestibule and pretty quickly my nose confirms what happened. She is oblivious (or acts it, though based on everything else this woman was not a good actor).

So yeah, first new sugar date in nearly a year (other than my consistent regular SB who is awesome) and it is a total disaster. I learned my lesson!

- Guy.

P.S. to be fair, she did deliver on the promised kink. Including a device that is essentially a mini taser. But the situation was so f'ed up that I couldn't fully get into it.

Testing, testing, 123.

[Member #7156]

I wish there was a way to filter them out of the search.

There sort of is. You can filter out those who have the trans-friendly tags. Obviously that is voluntary, but I think most trans on the site will be upfront about it.

[Mcsylv]

https://www.care.com/p/alexn1562/cc

Meet her and interview her as a potential nanny then turn it into an interview for a potential sugar baby.

Holy shit lmao. Google reverse image search?

[JonFisher]

Help me out here gents. She is open to meet, but wants me to pick her up as she doesn't drive. I am sensing trouble here, can someone else send some messages and report back on what you feel.

With this one? She's been texting for a few days, I am doubtful if she's real based on the messages so far.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...5-c45470365958

Did anyone end up seeing her?

She told me she can drive, but the face pics she sent me made me hesitate.

[Ledeas]

https://www.care.com/p/alexn1562/cc

Meet her and interview her as a potential nanny then turn it into an interview for a potential sugar baby.

That is some strong Google-fu.

Props to you.

[Member #6951]

I just had an absolutely awful date. It was so hilariously bad I felt I had to share it with my brethren. (It was out of town so no need to link to warn you guys.)

I travel regularly to another east coast city. I had been chatting with this woman for a while and decided to pull the trigger this time around. She struck me as attractive, kinky, but still reasonably sane and a genuinely sweet woman. Mid-30's Latina. We meet in the evening at my hotel. I decide to meet her in the lobby and it occurs to me that she never asked for a photo of me so if I saw her and she didn't look right I could just bail. Oh how I wish I had.

Strike one: as she arrives at the hotel she texts me and says she is stoned AF. Now, I don't particularly care whether someone gets high but I like to know about it in advance so I can decide whether I want to engage and I also want to vet for harder stuff, which I don't want to be around. But that by itself wasn't a red flag. I knew she was into some kinky shit and figured maybe that helps her.

Strike two: as she arrives she also texts me that she is wearing an "orthopedic book. " Now, that too doesn't bother me in the absolute. Shit happens and I'm not playing with her feet. But when I see her this is not an enclosed shoe in a boot. Her foot is wrapped in gauze and bandages within the boot. And she's limping. So that's kind of f'ed up. That should have been my sign, but at this point it is late and I am invested in playing this out. Also, again, the promise of some seriously kinky shit that aligns with my own fetishes.

Strike three: we head upstairs and we get down to playing. Vibe is fine — not awful, not awesome. She's clearly high but I am going with it. But when I go to finger her there are two issues. First, she says she has trouble spreading her legs a certain way because of a hip injury / surgery. And second, when I do get down there I feel a very hard ring inside her. She explained later that it is apparently some sort of condition where her uterus is too low and the cock hits it during sex and it is painful, so this ring realigns everything.

What follows is the karmic retribution for going through with it despite three clear strikes:

1) I don't cum.

2) Condom breaks during sex. First time in my life that has happened (and given everything about this woman I wanted to stay safe). I wasn't in there that long so I'm not worried about disease.

3) I walk her out and wait with her for her Uber. I decided it was better to tough out that painful fifteen minutes of conversation than leave her to her own devices and have her speak to anyone else at the hotel. While waiting she looks down and realizes her foot bandages are in complete disarray. Bandage is unwrapped, gauze is falling out. I lean down to try to rearrange it all for her to be somewhat presentable and she completely farts right in my face. I hear it and think "that can't be what just happened." But we are in an enclosed vestibule and pretty quickly my nose confirms what happened. She is oblivious (or acts it, though based on everything else this woman was not a good actor).

So yeah, first new sugar date in nearly a year (other than my consistent regular SB who is awesome) and it is a total disaster. I learned my lesson!

- Guy.

P.S. to be fair, she did deliver on the promised kink. Including a device that is essentially a mini taser. But the situation was so f'ed up that I couldn't fully get into it.

[TheYoungMonger]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...a-d9f10a7e50b8

How many of you would try and "persuade" her into a meetup LOL.

https://www.care.com/p/alexn1562/cc

Meet her and interview her as a potential nanny then turn it into an interview for a potential sugar baby.

[DickLongwood]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...a-d9f10a7e50b8

How many of you would try and "persuade" her into a meetup LOL.

I might make a run at her, but my guess is that she wants to sell pics and videos only and never meet. Good luck!

[Mcsylv]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...a-d9f10a7e50b8

How many of you would try and "persuade" her into a meetup LOL.

[GMarts018]

Tagline is Goth Anthropolgist. Claims to be in Chevy Chase. Asian girl, goth. Messaged and got number. Asked for 700-1200 and blocked me after declining. Probably not even real, but just thought I'd report.

[BuffBill75]

Here's her opening line to me. Anything non-text is a hard pass for me.

"Hi I'm Emily! I'm looking for a simple fwb / nsa type of arrangement! I'm open to intimacy!

Do have telegram, Snapchat or Kik".

I've had some succes with Snap but the others have always been scams.

[DCKing]

May I ask what you paid for Mandy. She wanted 5 bills when we briefly chatted.

Most of my activities have been on the escort / MP side of things decided to try SD / SB. Great advice on this board already thought I would add a little of my experience.

Red Flags:

Asking for baby formula, car battery, rent, car payment etc. Etc. Before there is a first meeting. Got sucked in early (low damage). It's ALWAYS a scam.

Women who favorite you, don't look at your profile. Most have been a scam.

Women who share their pictures, start a conversation, but never look at your profile.

Women who want to jump right to Telegram or WhatsApp (tend to be from Asia and I have no idea what their game is).

Here's a few I have had some interaction with recently:

SharpAphrodite.

Originally was from Alexandria now she has switched to Minnesota. Went right to Telegram, send a bunch of hot pics, wanted me to pay for her next STD test so we could hook up. Ahhh no.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...4-c1544d51bfbe

LuciousPrincess.

Endless requests for money. Sent hot pictures but still -No money before we meet was the rule. I ignored these and set up a date to which she agreed. No-showed. My bad I should never have booked the room. So out some Marriott points.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...a-9d0a13d79419

LovinLife.

Some good and encouraging texts back and forth. She seemed interested. But could not get her to commit to a date.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...8-09f7227566ac

Mandy.

She has been the subject of a few reviews already. Very easy communication. Met for dinner, and back to hotel. Greta body, DTF and a bit freaky. Overall a good experience.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...2-6b710e6b8338

[CruisingXX]

Is it me or does Seeking have an increasing number of Trans girls posting on there? No judgement to each their own we all have a weird itch to scratch, but seems like every page I click on there's at least one profile of a trans girl. I'd assume they only keep logging on if they're getting plenty of messages and invites and worth it to them. Which one of you is keeping the Trans girl population alive on SA?

I wish there was a way to filter them out of the search.

[Member #7024]

Looks like Ember Snow is seeking in DC (and considers herself caucasian now, but no matter). Be still my beating heart.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...b-d522ec3b10d2

Here's her opening line to me. Anything non-text is a hard pass for me.

"Hi I'm Emily! I'm looking for a simple fwb / nsa type of arrangement! I'm open to intimacy!

Do have telegram, Snapchat or Kik".