Non Pro's

[PriceIsRight39]

I've had some great relationships on SA. I've had several that were like girlfriends or (a good) wife. I involved them in my life and they took very good care of me. They made sure I had food, made sure I didn't spend too much time working and made sure that I took care of myself. I am still friends with most of them and we talk regularly, but this site isn't about that. You probably want to know more about getting laid.

So, right now I'm seeing someone that is 20 YO, I initially did not have any interest in her. I would say looks are about 5-6/10. She wanted to do a PPM and I was horny so I figured I'd give the ugly chick a try. She is the sweetest kid in the world. Definitely not a great fuck, but then she told me I was the sixth person she's had sex with in her life and she has only been sexually active 18 months. So, she has a lot to learn. At any point, her personality moved her from a 5-6/10 to about an 8/10 for me. No she's not going to win a beauty pageant, but (I'm going to sound like a chick here) her personality more than makes up for her looks. She is the one that I'm basically seeing now. The weird part is that she has a good job, lives rent free in a house that her parents own and she doesn't need the money. At any rate, she comes by after work and we go out and do things, fuck, watch a movie or two, fuck and she spends the night. In the morning we fuck have breakfast, fuck again and she leaves. It costs me $400. I saw three people from the other board last week, I spent more than $1000.

I can go back to previous girls I've seen, but I've reported about them here already. I think the thing that makes it difficult for so many people here is that with SA, you really can't just message someone have them come out, fuck you and leave. Yes, there are numerous escorts on the site that will do that, but for the most part, you're looking at people that don't want to be called escorts. So, you need to actually have a conversation with them, care (or pretend to care) about their issues and problems, be kind and empathetic and make them feel good about their decision to fuck you for money. You can do this without being a cuck. A lot of guys just want to get straight to the sex, that isn't going to work there (unless you find one of the escorts, who will charge you more than they do on escort sites).

I'm in a ltr right now off SA. We did a couple of days together out of town recently. It's basically a second wife. She's not cheap, but I'll admit she gives me a lot of extra time for her " regular " rate. It just happened. I went the first time for a booty call and new we're pretty dang close. The sex is amazing and she'll sleep over sometimes too! Fun girl and actually nice to get close the her in more than humping.

IMO.

[Asianguy]

Anyone have a coupon code for Seekingarrangement? Thanks!

[Bronco62]

Have any of you met this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...0-f936ed1a3030

[BriannasBoy]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...2-827f1afea0d2

Wondering if anyone here has met her? She looks amazing!

[Blazer1979]

Can those be used anonymously? Ie: if filling up with cash at a Walmart, at any point do you need to use your real name / PII?

Thanks!

Yes you need your real name plus it's mailed to your house.

[Mitch Cor]

Can those be used anonymously? Ie: if filling up with cash at a Walmart, at any point do you need to use your real name / PII?

Thanks!

I'm using my refillable Walmart debit card.

[Blazer1979]

About to sign back up on Sa. What's everyone using for payment? Are the visa vanilla cards still good? Thank you in advance.

I'm using my refillable Walmart debit card.

[Mitch Cor]

Bump! Anyone see her yet? Almost makes me want to blow $100+ on a monthly subscription to SA just to find out more.

Holy shit, this ladies pics just totally do it for me. Amazing tight bod and tats. Anyone ever see her?

Or anyone know a provider like her? I might have to break my 300 limit, hehe.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...d-c128e7d0d77b

[PoundVages]

There's a whole subreddit dedicated to this exact thing.

Which subreddit exactly for the Seattle area? I've tried searching reddit a lot and I can't find any organized "review" posts.

[Tuchon]

About to sign back up on Sa. What's everyone using for payment? Are the visa vanilla cards still good? Thank you in advance.

[Marko Ramius]

Some previous date on Seeking is claiming that I have reviews on some site with my phone number and screenshots of conversations between me and sb's. Anyone heard of such a site? Thanks.

This is why you should be damned careful what words you use when you message, text, or whatsapp these girls. Especially if you haven't met them before. Because anything awful or embarrassing (or anything that can be taken out of context to look that way) will be used against you. There are also enough fake profiles out there that are scammers and blackmailers and leaving them anything to work with is a huge mistake.

These girls are all about getting the money for the least amount of work. If you give them a way to get the money without opening their legs or mouth they will happily use it.

Also: burner phones.

[PepWave1]

There's a whole subreddit dedicated to this exact thing.

Some previous date on Seeking is claiming that I have reviews on some site with my phone number and screenshots of conversations between me and sb's. Anyone heard of such a site? Thanks.

[Lego19]

I start with a lunch / brunch / dinner date. I talk to her about whatever, treat it like a normal date and I don't mention sex at all in the first meeting. I make sure it's an upscale or trendy / hipster restaurant and make it seem as friendly and non-creepy as possible. I pay for the meal, however I don't pay for meet and greets. I know that a lot of people do and it doesn't seem to be a problem, but I just personally don't like setting that type of expectation.

If I'm feeling a strong positive vibe from her, on our parting walk out to her car, I'll ask politely if she wants to see my place which will always lead to fucking if she says yes. If I don't feel a strong vibe, I'll let it be a normal goodbye and then tell her that I'd really love to see her again over text / messaging. That way there's nothing awkward for her if she wants to say no. I would say that if we do a date like this, it's been greater than 90% that we end up having sex shortly after. In my opinion, a lot of these women have some REALLY bad experiences with these guys so if you treat them like a human being, they'll not only fuck you, but you'll end up fucking them for really cheap (I. E. "Could you help me with my cell phone bill? Or even free later on.

Just another example, I went out with this girl Kristin last weekend in Kansas City. She couldn't find a babysitter so it was me, her and her 9 year old daughter at a kid-friendly restaurant (Cracker Barrel! Her daughter talked to me as much as Kristin did and wanted to do things like play these games where I guess how to spell her name etc. After we said goodbye, Kristin started texting me saying how her daughter won't stop asking about me and she's never been around a guy who was nice to her daughter. I ended up fucking Kristin Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday and didn't pay her a thing other than taking them out to one more dinner.

I'm not saying that free sex is the norm, but I'm a 5'4" Asian tech guy, not some 6'2" chad. I understand being impatient and wanting to get to the point as soon as possible, but I feel that the SA / SB thing works best when you pretend like that's NOT the most important thing on your mind (even if it is).

Can't agree with this more. This is exactly what I do and I have similar results too.

[PoundVages]

Some previous date on Seeking is claiming that I have reviews on some site with my phone number and screenshots of conversations between me and sb's. Anyone heard of such a site? Thanks.

[TnaPorter]

Not convinced. She's been on the site 5 years. Scammers usually get booted before .

Someone with an account that's 5 years old is going to be real. That said, I also feel that women who have been doing the Seeking thing that long are basically pros to the extreme and my experiences with them is never that great. I sort of prefer the new girls who still think that they're not being hookers.