Non Pro's

**ProJohn1** · 11-01-22 18:31

Originally Posted by TnaPorter [View Original Post]

I mean, yeah you're right. There are a lot of fakes on SA and there are a lot of girls who have crazy ideas. I mean, I talked to one girl whose only contribution to the arrangement would be that she would set her relationship status to make us "Facebook official". She was dead serious. But there are also a lot of real girls on there who make for the most perfect dating experiences ever. And there is such a variety! But it takes work. You have to talk to a lot of girls, you have to show a good amount of game and what not, but in my opinion, it's worth it. However, I see what guys talk about here so I totally understand that it's not for everyone. I think about the girls I meet on SA and it makes me cringe when I think about the situations I tolerated off of other sites. While those interactions were admittedly far more straightforward than SA, the quality of the interaction is just so much lower.

And I think about the flip side too. A few weeks ago, I went out on a date (like a real date) with this girl Alina. We went to a casual gastropub and had dinner for about $120. I take her home and get the "I can't wait to see you again!" texts, but no I didn't fuck her. I have to text her all week throughout the days and I take her out the following week for another $300 ish entertainment night. And yeah, I did fuck her then but it's a totally different experience that feels almost not-worth-it to me considering I have no intentions of seeing her more than a couple times.

We all want different things and what you say about SA is absolutely true so rather than reading about positive interactions, I think you should think about what type of interactions you really want as it's totally possible that what's required of the SA life just isn't your thing.

I had a 21-year-old sugar baby who was going to UW in the spring of last year. The thing that makes it hard for a this arrangement to work out is finding somebody that can hold a conversation and somebody you want to spend time with. The sex is going to make up a very small time of your interaction. Sugar dating imo isn't about sex. It's about finding companionship. Sex is a part of that and their good looks. But you have to want to see them outside of the bedroom. Most of these girls don't meet that criteria. Most of them are ghetto trash. Finding a good girl in society who isn't entitled these days is a challenge even if you aren't sugar dating.

**TnaPorter** · 11-01-22 17:38

Originally Posted by Darkhosis [View Original Post]

Yeah, recently I had a conversation with a SB who was a solid 4/10 on top of bad pics and zero effort. She hadn't had made a real arrangement in the 6 mos on SA. Her no budge rate was $500.

Would anyone be willing to share some positive interactions? Between the scams, the amateurs who bail, and the army of Venezuelan women I'm definitely not renewing my membership.

I mean, yeah you're right. There are a lot of fakes on SA and there are a lot of girls who have crazy ideas. I mean, I talked to one girl whose only contribution to the arrangement would be that she would set her relationship status to make us "Facebook official". She was dead serious. But there are also a lot of real girls on there who make for the most perfect dating experiences ever. And there is such a variety! But it takes work. You have to talk to a lot of girls, you have to show a good amount of game and what not, but in my opinion, it's worth it. However, I see what guys talk about here so I totally understand that it's not for everyone. I think about the girls I meet on SA and it makes me cringe when I think about the situations I tolerated off of other sites. While those interactions were admittedly far more straightforward than SA, the quality of the interaction is just so much lower.

And I think about the flip side too. A few weeks ago, I went out on a date (like a real date) with this girl Alina. We went to a casual gastropub and had dinner for about $120. I take her home and get the "I can't wait to see you again!" texts, but no I didn't fuck her. I have to text her all week throughout the days and I take her out the following week for another $300 ish entertainment night. And yeah, I did fuck her then but it's a totally different experience that feels almost not-worth-it to me considering I have no intentions of seeing her more than a couple times.

We all want different things and what you say about SA is absolutely true so rather than reading about positive interactions, I think you should think about what type of interactions you really want as it's totally possible that what's required of the SA life just isn't your thing.

**Mamouna** · 11-01-22 00:59

Originally Posted by BoBroBgobs [View Original Post]

I just got this from https://members.seeking.com/member/e...5-cf30b3a0ab99.

Like what the absolute fck.

Yeah, recently I had a conversation with a SB who was a solid 4/10 on top of bad pics and zero effort. She hadn't had made a real arrangement in the 6 mos on SA. Her no budge rate was $500.

Would anyone be willing to share some positive interactions? Between the scams, the amateurs who bail, and the army of Venezuelan women I'm definitely not renewing my membership.

**Michael1967** · 10-31-22 20:45

Originally Posted by BoBroBgobs [View Original Post]

I just got this from https://members.seeking.com/member/e...5-cf30b3a0ab99.

Like what the absolute fck.

I'm sure she raking them in with that.

**BoBroBgobs** · 10-31-22 20:15

I just got this from https://members.seeking.com/member/e...5-cf30b3a0ab99.

Like what the absolute fck.

**KnoxNenters** · 10-30-22 01:53

Originally Posted by Darkhosis [View Original Post]

If it were legalized and regulated. Girls could operate in safer environments, more guys would stop being stupid pervs because they would have regular access to sex, it would separate legit providers from the crazy scammers. Prices would go down to sane levels. Just look at the marijuana market as an example. Still premium product available for people with excess cash, but you can walk out of any shop with quality weed for a fun night under $20.

I'm relatively new to the hobby, and my first experience was in Europe. So I am still shocked how an hour of sex (it's not even an hour, just one shot) with borderline to somewhat attractive women is $300+. I'll leave the pros out of this. Sure that's understandable if you're hideously deformed and rich, but most guys are regular joes who are just looking to maintain their sexual wellbeing. It's why there are so many scams on both sides because everyone knows it's a ripoff and we end up with these silly game between horny men and naive women. End rant.

Well put. Who else but us would be most motivated to see laws change? If stoners worked as hard as they did to drive legalization of marijuana, who do you think will drive legalism of sex work? Or at least decriminalization for the women? TBH, that's the realistic and logical card to back. One of us who doesn't have an account, a lurker, is probably the one, so they can emerge untarnished, so to speak, and put the right players in place to see this through to law: Decriminalize Sex Workers from felony or even misdemeanor charges, so women of high libido who know they can make extra money providing valuable sexual release and relief don't have to worry about the stigmatization of prostitution, as there would be no stigma any longer. They're all just working different angles. Side hustles. If they're on the street, they're probably just realizing their value, and learning the ropes, but perhaps through the wrong channels; If they're in a massage parlor, they are looking for extra cash to send home, and extra money to start they own business. If they're private residents who have frequent visitors all through the day to host them for sexual pleasure, let them enjoy the joys of private erotic play as two consenting adults to, yes, financial terms. And so on. Including our lovely sugar babies, the pretty girls who can't afford college or their bills, as hard as they worked, because of our fucked up economy, our obscene fuel prices.

We'll deal with the mongers later. If you're that guy or girl, we'd appreciate it if you act on this now. <start /.

**Mamouna** · 10-29-22 13:22

If it were legalized and regulated. Girls could operate in safer environments, more guys would stop being stupid pervs because they would have regular access to sex, it would separate legit providers from the crazy scammers. Prices would go down to sane levels. Just look at the marijuana market as an example. Still premium product available for people with excess cash, but you can walk out of any shop with quality weed for a fun night under $20.

I'm relatively new to the hobby, and my first experience was in Europe. So I am still shocked how an hour of sex (it's not even an hour, just one shot) with borderline to somewhat attractive women is $300+. I'll leave the pros out of this. Sure that's understandable if you're hideously deformed and rich, but most guys are regular joes who are just looking to maintain their sexual wellbeing. It's why there are so many scams on both sides because everyone knows it's a ripoff and we end up with these silly game between horny men and naive women. End rant.

**Baddaddy2021** · 10-29-22 13:18

Originally Posted by TnaPorter [View Original Post]

And you know, I kind of like small town girls too. They're far more easily impressed by dinners especially since they're used to being taken out to McDonalds while being expected to pay for their own burger. My personal favorite cities while traveling? St. Joseph, Missouri, Crestview, Florida and Prattville, Alabama.

In big cities there are all sorts of options, but in small towns, especially if there is a college, SA is by far the best option.

**Baddaddy2021** · 10-29-22 13:14

Originally Posted by BoBroBgobs [View Original Post]

GPS, not sure if pro. Initially asked for 1 k ppm (if I remember correctly). When I said I won't do that, asked me for what I'm willing. I came back with 500. She was still willing but said can't stay for more than 30-45 minutes for that. I just declined, and then ghosted her as she attempted a couple more times to get me for 500 for that time limit.

Thanks for the insight. I will report back to the group if if I meet her.

**TnaPorter** · 10-28-22 21:21

Originally Posted by Michael1967 [View Original Post]

For some strange reason, I'm in Aberdeen. I contacted someone on SA and did a meet & greet. I immediately realized it wasn't going to work out but I gave her dinner and was going to toss $50 her way when I took her home. Well, on the way home she offered to blow and fuck me for $60! I was stunned. So I did it and gave her $100 (because I couldn't give her $60 and live with myself). Nothing special to write home about, but $100 damn that's cheap.

And you know, I kind of like small town girls too. They're far more easily impressed by dinners especially since they're used to being taken out to McDonalds while being expected to pay for their own burger. My personal favorite cities while traveling? St. Joseph, Missouri, Crestview, Florida and Prattville, Alabama.

**Michael1967** · 10-28-22 21:08

For some strange reason, I'm in Aberdeen. I contacted someone on SA and did a meet & greet. I immediately realized it wasn't going to work out but I gave her dinner and was going to toss $50 her way when I took her home. Well, on the way home she offered to blow and fuck me for $60! I was stunned. So I did it and gave her $100 (because I couldn't give her $60 and live with myself). Nothing special to write home about, but $100 damn that's cheap.

**BoBroBgobs** · 10-28-22 19:11

Originally Posted by Baddaddy2021 [View Original Post]

Correct link:

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...9-095b758e8010

GPS, not sure if pro. Initially asked for 1 k ppm (if I remember correctly). When I said I won't do that, asked me for what I'm willing. I came back with 500. She was still willing but said can't stay for more than 30-45 minutes for that. I just declined, and then ghosted her as she attempted a couple more times to get me for 500 for that time limit.

**Mitch Cor** · 10-28-22 18:33

Holy shit, this ladies pics just totally do it for me. Amazing tight bod and tats. Anyone ever see her?

Or anyone know a provider like her? I might have to break my 300 limit, hehe.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...d-c128e7d0d77b

**Baddaddy2021** · 10-28-22 11:00

Originally Posted by HBadger [View Original Post]

Thought I'd share since I'm off SA again. She allowed bbcip, bbcia, super good dt, loved getting called *****, **** and everything else dirty. Super good kisser is you like that. She's super kinky and loves getting told what to do. She's not fat but she's also not skinny, a little bigger than average. Mom tummy I would say. Either way, she was fun. Damage was 3.

https://www.seeking.com/member/aff10...6-b3bd84907e4b

She seems to be very open, always indicating she's up to meet that night. Anyone seen her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...7-62dcb7ad8d9d