NoVA SugarBabies

[Member #7024]

Reached out to this one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...f-9bf5db340dc0

Right away she said her previous arrangement was 1500 per meet. I promptly said thanks for the response and good luck out there. 10 days later she ask if I could do a 1000 with more meet ups. I respond back that any thing is negotiable. Got over to text she, repeats same line about former allowance and keeps repeating she is not a 500 lady. I ask for pics seeing as she is bit older (but looks good I guess) and way over priced (but not far from me). I get a side view, fully dressed, going to family picnic pic and more reiteration that she is worth a 1000 meet. I counter with a lower amount and frequency and she, once again goes for 1000. I wished her luck out there again. Not giving out her number since that hit me last time I did.

M&G with her in July. Has an entitlement attitude. She asked for 15 oo but I didn't even bother to counter. Not very pleasant in person either.

[Member #7024]

Yes I knew about how much bottle girls make from tips at the club. I contributed to that many a time lmao. Interesting that even after making 6 figures a year, they would still spread their legs for an old fat dude for only $1 k. You'd think after their necessities were taken care of and it really was just about a iPhone 14 instead of the 13 they already have, then their price would rise dramatically. What's the highest amount your SB's told you anybody paid to fuck them?

The part about looks that's interesting is that, minus the weight, I'm well put-together. I dress upscale casual or business casual all the time, I never go out in sweats and a wifebeater. Hair always combed and geled, clean shaven or slight stubble, deodorant always and cologne if I'm going to dinner, even though I'm Asian and we don't have BO without deodorant. The only thing is my weight that's holding me back.

I'd need to lose 120 lbs to be in the ideal body weight for my height. I'm 6', should be 170-200 depending on how much muscle I have. I'm 300. Normally health experts recommend 4 lbs a month as a nice sustainable loss rate. I'd be looking at 30 months straight of weight loss before I'm in the ideal zone. Then I've got to deal with the excess skin.

It's a long way to go before I'm average-looking.

I don't have a SO, so I don't care if a girl gets needy. IDK, for the right girl I'd just give up SA and date them. I'm 35, it's not out of the age range for dating girls in their early 20's.

You're right in that I can't really talk about anything deep with most of them, but there's always the diamond in the rough. And if my criteria is that they have to be able to talk on my level, then I may as well go fuck divorced 34 yo's.

I started using Google Voice, but before that I just used my normal number. I don't care if they know who I am, I'm single and nobody can blackmail me over my job. A while back I posted about some pro girl letting me hit for 2 minutes before she stopped and demanded payment, saying I wasn't fucking her hard enough. I ended up not giving her a cent, even though she threatened to have her boys roll up and beat me up, blackmail me, etc. She even sent me my LinkedIn page. I laughed at her.

Where was she advertising back then? Is she Asian, seems like she has those features..



I'd pay 1500 to fuck Taylor Swift, and she's 32

Goto Facebook and search for a group called Mounjaro. Mounjaro is a new type of once a week injectable medicine. It works wonders without any jitters etc that other weight loss meds cause. I started using August 17th and down 25 pounds. DM me for more details, prescribing doctors etc.

[Rudy Wellz]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-379f41001502

I know, right? Freak show.

[Rudy Wellz]

Here you go from Tinder.

Actually, 100 was a high ppm for this but whatever.

Does anyone here navigate Tinder while being married? If so, please share your intel. I'm on SA with no profile pictures specifically because I have to stay below the radar. My single friends (we are all mid 50's) absolutely kill it on Bumble (and Tinder to a lesser degree).

[TomFordModel]

Where was she advertising back then? Is she Asian, seems like she has those features..



I'd pay 1500 to fuck Taylor Swift, and she's 32

She's Wasian. Damn, I can't believe she's a pro. I knew she probably had a rotation. She gave me some good loving and it seemed like she was into me. Had me come over to bang her on her bday. She was definitely gps only would go for 30 minutes.

Dude you're 35 you can definitely cut that weight.

I was in the best shape of my life at 44 and then shit started breaking. Aches pain etc.

[TomFordModel]

Let me guess, at least a 1 K PPM or 4 K monthly?

Anyone sample this one? Curious minds & little heads want to know!

I was banging the insta one. Maria. She was a beauty pageant WG in Colombia.

She's hot. Fake tits. Her English was limited and she was a terrible lay. I kept going back hoping it would get better but mostly because she's hot. I paid 500.

[Mcsylv]

I eventually dropped one from rotation after about 18 months. When you're not going to marry someone, no matter how hot they are, the relationship fizzles. The sex becomes somewhat mechanical, and there is always someone hotter. To put it bluntly, she just aged out. The other two ghosted, but it was after I was only seeing them about one a month / once every 6/8 weeks. Got blocked on socials and texts went dead. Got to assume they either moved on from the sugar world or got serious with someone.

They would fuck the rich dudes as well. Sometimes for free if the rich dude was hot, sometimes for some ridiculously large sum of money if the guy was fat, old, ugly, and if he was all of the above, the higher the allowance requirements. They would tell me stories of how easy it was for them or their friends to find a dude to fuck for $1 k or more when they needed the latest iPhone that was about to be released or cash for Christmas presents or a funds for a big trip.

The girls and their friends all knew about SA and would activate and deactivate their accounts as needed. Sometimes they were "dating" some rich guy they met at the club, and sometimes they weren't and wanted to meet a guy. Being a bottle girl is almost, and sometimes more lucrative than stripping. The amount of cash that gets dropped at the clubs is insane. Work there for any period of time, and it changes a woman's mindset. Their time and affection become linked to cash or being taken care of.

All their friends knew about seeking, and they would talk about the adventures their friends shared, but none offered to let a third join. I didn't press any of them at the time. Most girls are catty and I got the impression none wanted to share what they had with the others. Kind of like this forum, once a girl latched onto someone they thought was a keeper, they weren't going to share info out of fear that another girl would try to make a power move and steal the guy.

Yes, losing weight will make you a lot more attractive to most women, especially since you have cash. Natural attraction will shave off significant amounts, especially if you dress and hold yourself well out in public and have a modicum of confidence. I've been told that I'm east on the eyes so that might help with how I get allowances in the $300/$400 range. When I was 25/40 lbs heavier, I didn't get that kind of response.

Hit the gym, you'll feel better for it all around.

Yes I knew about how much bottle girls make from tips at the club. I contributed to that many a time lmao. Interesting that even after making 6 figures a year, they would still spread their legs for an old fat dude for only $1 k. You'd think after their necessities were taken care of and it really was just about a iPhone 14 instead of the 13 they already have, then their price would rise dramatically. What's the highest amount your SB's told you anybody paid to fuck them?

The part about looks that's interesting is that, minus the weight, I'm well put-together. I dress upscale casual or business casual all the time, I never go out in sweats and a wifebeater. Hair always combed and geled, clean shaven or slight stubble, deodorant always and cologne if I'm going to dinner, even though I'm Asian and we don't have BO without deodorant. The only thing is my weight that's holding me back.

If you lose a bunch of weight, youll also find that with some your allowance requirements may disappear entirely, especially when youre single.

Cant tell you how many of these girls end up catching feelings, even for an old married monger like me. When that happens I end up having to ghost them because I have no intention of leaving my SO.

I suspect if you dropped 20/50 lbs, youd be a prime candidate for some of these ladies who will want to be your wifey.

I'd need to lose 120 lbs to be in the ideal body weight for my height. I'm 6', should be 170-200 depending on how much muscle I have. I'm 300. Normally health experts recommend 4 lbs a month as a nice sustainable loss rate. I'd be looking at 30 months straight of weight loss before I'm in the ideal zone. Then I've got to deal with the excess skin.

It's a long way to go before I'm average-looking.

Can attest to this as well. I'm younger (by SD standards) in relatively good shape. No bodybuilder but I hit the gym on the regular, I dress well and I'm single. I'm not the baller getting bottle girls (In fact I've never even been to a club that offers bottle service LOL) but I've had a number of girls from SA that dropped the allowance all together; as in I never paid an allowance even on the first "date. " A few have caught feelings, more than a handful, but not all of course. Hell, I caught feelings once myself, but they've all run their course. It doesn't take long to realize there's only so much you can talk to with a girl 20 years younger than you are.

I'd offer this bit of advice: as nice as it is to get free pussy, it's easier to just pay them. Even if it's a small amount. This way there's no expectations, and you can always land on the fact that this was an arrangement when they start getting needy. Once you're in a non "mutually beneficial" relationship they start acting like they're your GF and, at least for me, that's the whole reason I'm on SA. I don't need the hassle of a GF wanting to know if we're exclusive, where I am, access to my calendar, etc.

I don't have a SO, so I don't care if a girl gets needy. IDK, for the right girl I'd just give up SA and date them. I'm 35, it's not out of the age range for dating girls in their early 20's.

You're right in that I can't really talk about anything deep with most of them, but there's always the diamond in the rough. And if my criteria is that they have to be able to talk on my level, then I may as well go fuck divorced 34 yo's.

Yep. Sometimes it's better to just provide a small allowance or give them gifts they want to keep the line between Sugar arrangement and real relationship clear.

I've had a few that I had to ghost because they wanted to date. When they start giving it up for free, it's usually a red flag and means it's time to bounce. Cutting ties too late once they catch feelings can leave some of these SBs a little crazy.

See the threads on OPSEC. This is always key.

I started using Google Voice, but before that I just used my normal number. I don't care if they know who I am, I'm single and nobody can blackmail me over my job. A while back I posted about some pro girl letting me hit for 2 minutes before she stopped and demanded payment, saying I wasn't fucking her hard enough. I ended up not giving her a cent, even though she threatened to have her boys roll up and beat me up, blackmail me, etc. She even sent me my LinkedIn page. I laughed at her.

FYI: She is a semi-pro. I saw here around 2018 when she was 350 hour. She had a roommate and would do doubles. Smoking looks. But dead fish lay.

Where was she advertising back then? Is she Asian, seems like she has those features..

I don't see a scenario in which a 31 y / o is getting 1500 per meeting. She's full of sh!t.

I'd pay 1500 to fuck Taylor Swift, and she's 32

[Arty33]

Didn't find anything on the search. Says she hasn't met anyone, which is hard to believe given her profile is active for a while. Is open to meet and see if there is chemistry.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...f-f54625a1d6b3

[Arty33]

Don't find either of them highly attractive, def not the first one, that's probably personal preference, second girl looks good enough but again I am not into made up girls, like 'them naturally pretty. Banged one or two girls like the second one in the past, a lot of times they're fussy about their pu $$why getting pumped hard, after about 30 minutes they start squirming.

Let me guess, at least a 1 K PPM or 4 K monthly?

Anyone sample this one? Curious minds & little heads want to know!

[TomFordModel]

Here you go from Tinder.

Actually, 100 was a high ppm for this but whatever.

[CuriousVaMan]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-379f41001502

[TomFordModel]

Reached out to this one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...f-9bf5db340dc0

Right away she said her previous arrangement was 1500 per meet. I promptly said thanks for the response and good luck out there. 10 days later she ask if I could do a 1000 with more meet ups. I respond back that any thing is negotiable. Got over to text she, repeats same line about former allowance and keeps repeating she is not a 500 lady. I ask for pics seeing as she is bit older (but looks good I guess) and way over priced (but not far from me). I get a side view, fully dressed, going to family picnic pic and more reiteration that she is worth a 1000 meet. I counter with a lower amount and frequency and she, once again goes for 1000. I wished her luck out there again. Not giving out her number since that hit me last time I did.

Crazy. She should be 300.

[FogHorn1]

Reached out to this one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...f-9bf5db340dc0

Right away she said her previous arrangement was 1500 per meet. I promptly said thanks for the response and good luck out there. 10 days later she ask if I could do a 1000 with more meet ups. I respond back that any thing is negotiable. Got over to text she, repeats same line about former allowance and keeps repeating she is not a 500 lady. I ask for pics seeing as she is bit older (but looks good I guess) and way over priced (but not far from me). I get a side view, fully dressed, going to family picnic pic and more reiteration that she is worth a 1000 meet. I counter with a lower amount and frequency and she, once again goes for 1000. I wished her luck out there again. Not giving out her number since that hit me last time I did.

I don't see a scenario in which a 31 y / o is getting 1500 per meeting. She's full of sh!t.

[TomFordModel]

Came close to meeting her in early 2019 but ended up down a diffferent hole. She was a little on the high side then for me, wonder what she's at now?

She doesn't look good. But her friend is hot. Bang Maria for 5.

[Cruisin1011]

Chatted with her a while back. She admonished me for reaching out when her profile said that she was unlikely to respond to guys who are married. I told her that if she was so upset about married guys contacting her, she should say she will not respond, not that it's unlikely. I followed up with a note that she should look for that ring dent unless she just prefers being lied to. She modified her profile shortly thereafter.

Just checked out her profile and looks like she deleted the line about not talking to married dudes. Funny how the dudes on seeking beat her down.

I have run across a few lady's like this, once $$ starts being discussed it's funny how 90% of their objections fall away. When the bills come due, ladies start to wonder about the cash left on the table. Like the women who "forget" to add platonic to their profile, then quickly reverse the decision.