"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**BamBam** · 10-22-22 14:49

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I only wish I knew how to find her currently.

It might take some tracking but her picture pops up in places.

https://www.pinterest.com/pin/700450548294523125/ https://www.sneakers123.gq/ProductDe...92843&pr=31.88.

BAM.

**Geechie Dan** · 10-21-22 22:28

Originally Posted by OliverNP [View Original Post]

She probably was, but for me it doesn't matter. If they get insulting with me (and it definitely happens at times), I just move on.

I had already moved on. After I first noticed her BS I had no intention to pursue.

I just shared my experience to show this persons' character. You guys do what you feel is appropriate with this information.

**OliverNP** · 10-21-22 19:41

Originally Posted by GeechieDan [View Original Post]

I called her on her BS because she got insulting prior to the slur. Regardless, I'm fairly sure she was a scammer anyway.

She probably was, but for me it doesn't matter. If they get insulting with me (and it definitely happens at times), I just move on.

**OliverNP** · 10-21-22 19:38

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

100% agree. Even if I want to get red-faced w / anger, the messaging on that site or off it isn't the place to express it. The very first thing I do when a bad interaction w / a girl occurs that IK puts an end to her POT status is block her profile. That way, she has a very hard time finding me in case she wants to report me as retribution for whatever it was she perceived as a slight.

I had a recent POT, mostly had the best interactions w / her. She is about to graduate college, slender, smart, Caucasian, in an open relationship, and had the most amazing selection of sex toys on her wish list. I might have gotten a little hypnotized about that one. Anyway, the M&G was great, some logistics proposed for FC weren't optimum, but still, I was eagerly looking forward to banging her. Then I had a mishap and was unable to get the room I booked on the day we were supposed to meet. She then turned into a bloodsucker of the worst type. This was out of my control, too bad, but what are you going to do. I could have responded with blasts of my own. I simply blocked her on Google Voice and Seeking. She's dead in my eyes, her ability to switch from the girl I wanted to bang to my worst nightmare was too spooky. I believe she has a borderline personality type, if you've not heard of this, go read online. Needless to say, many SBs are going to have some mental health deficit or another, to some extent as long as YK how to protect yourself, you can still have fun. This girl got beyond that, though, and my horny-ness for her went right out the window.

So many of the ones I've known are simply bat-shit crazy and it didn't even reveal itself until after multiple dates. I've learned to recognize some early warning signs in some cases -- every now and then one will reveal themselves as clingy / needy even before the first m&g. Just little things that others might consider a good thing, like checking in to see how I'm doing every. Single. Day when we haven't even met yet. Even after we've met, I don't like that. I like to add a week or so of time buffer before the first m&g for this reason.

I've had some get progressively bitchier simply because I didn't make an official first date yet, they start accusing me of being fake or just otherwise going all hormonal just because I'm not accommodating their schedule.

And then there are the 'Cling-Ons'. This has been a huge problem for me in the 25-33 age group. The ones that decide I'm worthy to be a sugar-free boyfriend start making the offer and I'm like. Hmm. Okay. Well maybe we can talk about that further down the road (when its the farthest thing from my mind), then they start getting possessive or just otherwise hard to get rid of. Never seems to happen with 18-20 year olds, guess I'm too old for them to possibly look at in that light. That's why I go for them young when I can. Ones who have a bf or hubby can be nice too because it's like protection against "the curse".

But arguing with them is not going to make them any less bat-shit crazy, and it's certainly not going to result in a turnaround in my interest in them so I just focus on staying polite, blocking them at the first sign of trouble, etc.

**Geechie Dan** · 10-21-22 17:04

Originally Posted by OliverNP [View Original Post]

I never saw any value in calling these girls on any of their BS. Instigating problems is not going to get me any more pussy and only going to potentially waste my time.

I'm in one of two modes, polite or ignore.

I called her on her BS because she got insulting prior to the slur. Regardless, I'm fairly sure she was a scammer anyway.

**FarFarAway** · 10-21-22 15:45

Originally Posted by OliverNP [View Original Post]

I never saw any value in calling these girls on any of their BS. Instigating problems is not going to get me any more pussy and only going to potentially waste my time.

I'm in one of two modes, polite or ignore.

100% agree. Even if I want to get red-faced w / anger, the messaging on that site or off it isn't the place to express it. The very first thing I do when a bad interaction w / a girl occurs that IK puts an end to her POT status is block her profile. That way, she has a very hard time finding me in case she wants to report me as retribution for whatever it was she perceived as a slight.

I had a recent POT, mostly had the best interactions w / her. She is about to graduate college, slender, smart, Caucasian, in an open relationship, and had the most amazing selection of sex toys on her wish list. I might have gotten a little hypnotized about that one. Anyway, the M&G was great, some logistics proposed for FC weren't optimum, but still, I was eagerly looking forward to banging her. Then I had a mishap and was unable to get the room I booked on the day we were supposed to meet. She then turned into a bloodsucker of the worst type. This was out of my control, too bad, but what are you going to do. I could have responded with blasts of my own. I simply blocked her on Google Voice and Seeking. She's dead in my eyes, her ability to switch from the girl I wanted to bang to my worst nightmare was too spooky. I believe she has a borderline personality type, if you've not heard of this, go read online. Needless to say, many SBs are going to have some mental health deficit or another, to some extent as long as YK how to protect yourself, you can still have fun. This girl got beyond that, though, and my horny-ness for her went right out the window.

**OliverNP** · 10-21-22 15:06

Originally Posted by GeechieDan [View Original Post]

This one hit me up with the n-word when I called b. S. On her profile. Oh, she's a M. D. , dentist, and Ph. D.

I never saw any value in calling these girls on any of their BS. Instigating problems is not going to get me any more pussy and only going to potentially waste my time.

I'm in one of two modes, polite or ignore.

**FarFarAway** · 10-21-22 13:27

I only wish I knew how to find her currently.

**Geechie Dan** · 10-21-22 11:31

This one hit me up with the n-word when I called b. S. On her profile. Oh, she's a M. D. , dentist, and Ph. D.

**FarFarAway** · 10-20-22 17:25

Originally Posted by SandPiper540 [View Original Post]

Instagram works. You have got to work your profile. They want to see your pics. Nice house, nice car, famous people etc.

Many people can't do that, like me. I have a SO, I don't want to be 'out there'. I presume you would need to be fairly young for that also. I am 60's.

And you are blunt in IG that you are looking for a sugar baby?

I haven't been having any trouble on SA that makes me want to go someplace else. However, the experience there is very local in my view.

**SandPiper540** · 10-20-22 12:43

Originally Posted by Happtrav [View Original Post]

Definitely not seeking.

I live in a Metro area with 5 big universities. And a few more universities within 50 miles of the metro area.

Until 2020, I would have plenty of willing college girls looking for luxury experiences and sugar. Now all I am finding on seeking are 24+ year old broke losers, scammers and professionals.

What App / sugar site are college girls using to sugar?

Instagram works. You have got to work your profile. They want to see your pics. Nice house, nice car, famous people etc.

**TopGun9** · 10-19-22 18:50

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**Happtrav** · 10-19-22 17:46

Definitely not seeking.

I live in a Metro area with 5 big universities. And a few more universities within 50 miles of the metro area.

Until 2020, I would have plenty of willing college girls looking for luxury experiences and sugar. Now all I am finding on seeking are 24+ year old broke losers, scammers and professionals.

What App / sugar site are college girls using to sugar?

**Southside804** · 10-19-22 15:30

Originally Posted by DoggieFan [View Original Post]

No, because I couldn't load a fake pic, my profile has no pic. Still getting lots of messages & going to text about 60% of the time. I think some are curious to what I look like. They go to text so I can send them a pic. Pic is one of me with baseball cap, Raybans & a beard. So still safe as I've only had a beard twice in my life, both for like two months.

Hey bro, clear out your inbox when you get a chance. It's full and you can't receive messages.

**OliverNP** · 10-18-22 20:55

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I get it.

YK, Robert Kraft, I had to wonder WTF was he doing in a FL massage parlor. I mean, he is a billionaire, he can have hot and cold running pussy all day long. Why risk yourself out there? Trump, he did, and paid people to keep quiet, obviously. You would think if someone were just smart about things, they would be able to have whatever they wanted, at a super high level, with total discretion.

I have theories about this which could be wrong. Going to a massage parlor, or cruising a known hooker strip (Hugh Grant) offers a few things to a celeb -- a good chance the sex worker won't even recognize them, and they're not likely to report it to media (since they probably don't want to be outed as a sex worker). But also that random element of risk of potentially getting caught in a bust. Sometimes flirting with risk is almost as addictive as the sex.