"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**ThatSexyGuy** · 10-07-22 14:46

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...e-6298704bb176

She's new and doesn't know the game. Offered her $250 for a donation and she accepted. I bet you might can get it lower. I've not met her. She's located in Portsmouth, VA. Has a kid but her body is still fire. I can't connect with her immediately because I'm only free Sun and Sat. She's having trouble meeting because she needs a baby sitter but she's trying her best to meet up. Must mean she's seriously strapped for cash. And from what we have chatted she is not in the game at all. Share your adventures men if you get in!

**DWinthrop** · 10-07-22 09:13

This one is actually in Blacksburg, Vtech student from Prince George. She leads you on and asks for money, sometimes sells nudes to "get comfortable" before meeting. Never actually meets. Her 3rd or 4th profile since she was a senior in high school, also has a few friends that are on and off SA and all lead you on the same wild goose chase. https://members.seeking.com/member/e...2-1bccafa3bbb2.

**VABird12** · 10-06-22 09:49

Originally Posted by Xaxado [View Original Post]

Thanks for the info. What was the damage?

Her donation was 250. My bad I thought I added on my earlier post.

**Xaxado** · 10-06-22 08:46

Thanks for the info. What was the damage?

Originally Posted by VABird12 [View Original Post]

So I'm new to Seeking, got tired of the usual Escorts and SW. Wanted to try something different and new. I was able to use that code that was provided that give me 30% off for the first month. And I'm trying to take full advantage of the site and what it has to offer. So I found this girl Aries who send me a message first. After a few messages between we finally took it offline and started texting. Of course for my safer I always use my text free app. I was a little sus with the age being 21 and wasn't sure if I needed to be worried about a sting, like I said I mostly use escort sites and I always stay away from anything that says 18-21. But I was like this is Seeking I didn't think they would have stings on this site.

BOY I'm too glad we met especially for our first time, not sure if it was bc of the rain, but we skipped the meet and greet that I keep hearing and she came straight to the crib. She got an uber to my house. Of course I didn't give her my house number. Not my first time getting an outcall. I meet her outside and damn what a cute petite girl. She showed me her I'd and she 21, and the money spot is that she is a lesbian. After some talking she was up for everything and I mean everything. Started with some DATY, BBBJ, I then started with mish and boy was she tight and wet. I can tell she was enjoying it from the moaning and how hard she was holding my bed sheets, went to doggy and that view. MAN that view. She said anal was available and boy did I take advantage of that cute ass. I put that rubber in while I was doing anal and finished with doggy, removed the rubber and gave her a nice cream pie.

Cleaned up and we talking a bit while she was waiting for her uber, told me she has a friend that she does doubles with. Told her I can see her regularly twice a month and maybe next ill do a double. I'm glad to say my first encounter using seeking was a fucking success.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...d-6aee802eeacb

**RegularJoe1985** · 10-03-22 18:17

Originally Posted by ThatSexyGuy [View Original Post]

It's when they form a bond only then can they have a intimate connection. And even then it might not be possible. So let me get this straight you join a sugar daddy site to only be looking for a real bond possibly all while wanting to get paid. LOL. Go on a regular dating site then.

It's crazy to me these babys expect cash and to have their cake and eat it to. But what's more worrying is how they stay on the site since like last year. They're obviously getting money from members somehow. Shameful.

To describe that one's wallet does not open unless the connection is intimate. Is there one that's out there LOL.

**Corynne76** · 10-03-22 17:17

Originally Posted by TopGun9 [View Original Post]

I am 5 days into my PREMIUM membership, and SA pulled this BS.

No f*cking way in hell I am sending them my Driver License or Passport. F*ck that rip off site.

Just making mention of this tidbit from Au10 tix's Master Service Agreement:

"This Master Services Agreement (the "MSA") is made effective as of the date of the execution of the first Service Order (as defined below) by both Parties ("Effective Date" and is entered into by and between Au10 tix Ltd. , a company incorporated in Israel, with offices at XXXXXXXX, Israel (hereinafter "Au10 tix)". (You can find it here: Au10tix.com/downloads).

So. Anything processed by them is going through an Israeli company. While the governing law is set for England and Wales, there's only so much that'll do for stuff processed outside England's borders. For *most* folks, that is no big deal. If it is a big deal for someone's particular situation, a different site may be in order if you're being forced into verification.

**TopGun9** · 10-03-22 08:39

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

Can I ask if this profile is fairly new?

This was a profile that was created in 2021, so about a year.

Yes, I am very careful never to discuss money, PPM, sexual activities, etc. On the site / app. I typically exchange a few messages with a POT, complimenting them on their interests, looks, etc. And move to text very quickly.

**VABird12** · 10-03-22 00:22

So I'm new to Seeking, got tired of the usual Escorts and SW. Wanted to try something different and new. I was able to use that code that was provided that give me 30% off for the first month. And I'm trying to take full advantage of the site and what it has to offer. So I found this girl Aries who send me a message first. After a few messages between we finally took it offline and started texting. Of course for my safer I always use my text free app. I was a little sus with the age being 21 and wasn't sure if I needed to be worried about a sting, like I said I mostly use escort sites and I always stay away from anything that says 18-21. But I was like this is Seeking I didn't think they would have stings on this site.

BOY I'm too glad we met especially for our first time, not sure if it was bc of the rain, but we skipped the meet and greet that I keep hearing and she came straight to the crib. She got an uber to my house. Of course I didn't give her my house number. Not my first time getting an outcall. I meet her outside and damn what a cute petite girl. She showed me her I'd and she 21, and the money spot is that she is a lesbian. After some talking she was up for everything and I mean everything. Started with some DATY, BBBJ, I then started with mish and boy was she tight and wet. I can tell she was enjoying it from the moaning and how hard she was holding my bed sheets, went to doggy and that view. MAN that view. She said anal was available and boy did I take advantage of that cute ass. I put that rubber in while I was doing anal and finished with doggy, removed the rubber and gave her a nice cream pie.

Cleaned up and we talking a bit while she was waiting for her uber, told me she has a friend that she does doubles with. Told her I can see her regularly twice a month and maybe next ill do a double. I'm glad to say my first encounter using seeking was a fucking success.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...d-6aee802eeacb

**FarFarAway** · 10-02-22 23:52

Originally Posted by TopGun9 [View Original Post]

I am 5 days into my PREMIUM membership, and SA pulled this BS.

No f*cking way in hell I am sending them my Driver License or Passport. F*ck that rip off site.

"Your Seeking account has been temporarily put on hold.

To encourage and maintain trust between users on Seeking, you will need to confirm your identity to have your account re-activated. If approved, your account will also receive the blue verified badge. On Seeking, the badge lets people know that your account is authentic.

Seeking has partnered with Au10tix.com to securely and privately process verification of identity. To receive the verified badge start the verification with Au10 tix where you will provide a photo of an official government issued identification document, such as your Driver's License or Passport to be verified."

Can I ask if this profile is fairly new? I have a 'seasoned' profile. I also got invited to be a member of their user committee, so I presume they think I am an OK guy and don't need further verification. Of course I agree with you, no one should give up their anonymity to the site if they can possibly avoid it.

I also just set up a new profile, to permit me to spy on girls I have blocked or might block me. I have thought I might pay for premium on this new profile next time around instead of my old one, I might get some different POTs. These verification requests are a GREAT reason to keep your behavior in line on the site. They can be catalyzed by a complaint against you by a POT, by the mods reading your profile or your messaging and finding a problem, or I think simply by being new.

If you have a profile that is grandfathered in, you should guard its status like gold. This means that if you have any issue w / any girl, block her first, ask questions later. If you block her, she has a lot of difficulty reporting your profile. Also, do not have any discussion whatsoever on the site concerning allowance or PPM. Note that PPM is explicitly forbidden by their TOS. The site is super careful to keep anything that might be construed as escorts and their clients off the site. It is their self-protection. Read through all of the things that can be used to report a profile (on the report form), and be sure not to do anything close to anything. Remember the mods are judge, jury, and executioner. There are dudes posting on here all the time lamenting that they got banned and can't figure out how to get back on.

**TopGun9** · 10-02-22 14:57

I am 5 days into my PREMIUM membership, and SA pulled this BS.

No f*cking way in hell I am sending them my Driver License or Passport. F*ck that rip off site.

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"Your Seeking account has been temporarily put on hold.

To encourage and maintain trust between users on Seeking, you will need to confirm your identity to have your account re-activated. If approved, your account will also receive the blue verified badge. On Seeking, the badge lets people know that your account is authentic.

Seeking has partnered with Au10tix.com to securely and privately process verification of identity. To receive the verified badge start the verification with Au10 tix where you will provide a photo of an official government issued identification document, such as your Driver's License or Passport to be verified."

**Ares999** · 10-02-22 14:37

Originally Posted by Kwagmire [View Original Post]

With your current hot girl, were your first few non-sexual dates paid dates, beyond you picking up the cost of dinner, drinks and light entertainment (as in normal dating costs)?

I'd be willing to indulge a girl in a few (maybe up to 3 or so) non-sugar "dates" (as in, no payment for her time but I would pick up the cost of dinner, drinks, light entertainment) if she were attractive enough and the initial unpaid M&G went well enough to suggest that we might actually click with each other on a real friendship level. I have a really hard time paying a girl to have dinner with me. I have friends to eat and have conversation with. The way I look at it is we're both in the sugar bowl to share something we have to get what we don't have: Her -- an enjoyable and easy way to earn a significant amount of money (in relation to the amount of skill, time and effort required); and me -- the enjoyment of time, company and intimacy with a pretty girl half my age.

Yes the first two dates I gave her the full PPM amount. Not naive enough to think this would ever be a "real" relationship but I did feel like we clicked and was willing to see how it went. Thought I was going to regret it but now glad I gave her a few dates to get comfortable with me. I think she is relatively new to this and didn't want to feel like she was getting paid for sex.

**Kwagmire** · 10-02-22 13:43

Originally Posted by Ares999 [View Original Post]

In the past I have always felt the same way. If they are not ready after the unpaid meet and greet, that's been the end for me. However, I recently connected with someone from seeking that said she wanted to take things slow and get to know each other before anything sexual. As I said, in the past that would have been the end. This time though I decided to go along for a few dates and see. (Probably because she's super hot and also I wasn't having much luck meeting anyone else on the site). To my surprise on the third date she was ready and it's been one of the best expereinces I've had with a SB. She is wild and open to just about anything. I plan to keep seeing her for a long time. Although she is probably the exception, it does make me wonder if I missed out in the past in similair situations when I gave up after one date.

With your current hot girl, were your first few non-sexual dates paid dates, beyond you picking up the cost of dinner, drinks and light entertainment (as in normal dating costs)?

I'd be willing to indulge a girl in a few (maybe up to 3 or so) non-sugar "dates" (as in, no payment for her time but I would pick up the cost of dinner, drinks, light entertainment) if she were attractive enough and the initial unpaid M&G went well enough to suggest that we might actually click with each other on a real friendship level. I have a really hard time paying a girl to have dinner with me. I have friends to eat and have conversation with. The way I look at it is we're both in the sugar bowl to share something we have to get what we don't have: Her -- an enjoyable and easy way to earn a significant amount of money (in relation to the amount of skill, time and effort required); and me -- the enjoyment of time, company and intimacy with a pretty girl half my age.

**Ares999** · 10-02-22 06:05

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

Chances are after that first paid platonic date she will disappear anyway. Don't forget, any girl gets dozens of new messages every single day. If she can get paid to eat dinner, that's all she'll be doing all week long.

In the past I have always felt the same way. If they are not ready after the unpaid meet and greet, that's been the end for me. However, I recently connected with someone from seeking that said she wanted to take things slow and get to know each other before anything sexual. As I said, in the past that would have been the end. This time though I decided to go along for a few dates and see. (Probably because she's super hot and also I wasn't having much luck meeting anyone else on the site). To my surprise on the third date she was ready and it's been one of the best expereinces I've had with a SB. She is wild and open to just about anything. I plan to keep seeing her for a long time. Although she is probably the exception, it does make me wonder if I missed out in the past in similair situations when I gave up after one date.

**Ernest Ll** · 10-01-22 09:20

Originally Posted by Round3 [View Original Post]

Throw in the ones mentioning Paypigs and Findom as well. Must be some real fools out there that keep those girls around.

I once put in my profile something along the lines of "and if you think FinDom is a thing, kindly skip me."

And got a few nasty messages for "pleasure shaming" sub men!

**Round 3** · 10-01-22 07:54

Originally Posted by ThatSexyGuy [View Original Post]

It's when they form a bond only then can they have a intimate connection. And even then it might not be possible. So let me get this straight you join a sugar daddy site to only be looking for a real bond possibly all while wanting to get paid. LOL. Go on a regular dating site then.

It's crazy to me these babys expect cash and to have their cake and eat it to. But what's more worrying is how they stay on the site since like last year. They're obviously getting money from members somehow. Shameful.

Throw in the ones mentioning Paypigs and Findom as well. Must be some real fools out there that keep those girls around.