"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Ares999** · 10-02-22 14:37

Originally Posted by Kwagmire [View Original Post]

With your current hot girl, were your first few non-sexual dates paid dates, beyond you picking up the cost of dinner, drinks and light entertainment (as in normal dating costs)?

I'd be willing to indulge a girl in a few (maybe up to 3 or so) non-sugar "dates" (as in, no payment for her time but I would pick up the cost of dinner, drinks, light entertainment) if she were attractive enough and the initial unpaid M&G went well enough to suggest that we might actually click with each other on a real friendship level. I have a really hard time paying a girl to have dinner with me. I have friends to eat and have conversation with. The way I look at it is we're both in the sugar bowl to share something we have to get what we don't have: Her -- an enjoyable and easy way to earn a significant amount of money (in relation to the amount of skill, time and effort required); and me -- the enjoyment of time, company and intimacy with a pretty girl half my age.

Yes the first two dates I gave her the full PPM amount. Not naive enough to think this would ever be a "real" relationship but I did feel like we clicked and was willing to see how it went. Thought I was going to regret it but now glad I gave her a few dates to get comfortable with me. I think she is relatively new to this and didn't want to feel like she was getting paid for sex.

**Kwagmire** · 10-02-22 13:43

Originally Posted by Ares999 [View Original Post]

In the past I have always felt the same way. If they are not ready after the unpaid meet and greet, that's been the end for me. However, I recently connected with someone from seeking that said she wanted to take things slow and get to know each other before anything sexual. As I said, in the past that would have been the end. This time though I decided to go along for a few dates and see. (Probably because she's super hot and also I wasn't having much luck meeting anyone else on the site). To my surprise on the third date she was ready and it's been one of the best expereinces I've had with a SB. She is wild and open to just about anything. I plan to keep seeing her for a long time. Although she is probably the exception, it does make me wonder if I missed out in the past in similair situations when I gave up after one date.

With your current hot girl, were your first few non-sexual dates paid dates, beyond you picking up the cost of dinner, drinks and light entertainment (as in normal dating costs)?

I'd be willing to indulge a girl in a few (maybe up to 3 or so) non-sugar "dates" (as in, no payment for her time but I would pick up the cost of dinner, drinks, light entertainment) if she were attractive enough and the initial unpaid M&G went well enough to suggest that we might actually click with each other on a real friendship level. I have a really hard time paying a girl to have dinner with me. I have friends to eat and have conversation with. The way I look at it is we're both in the sugar bowl to share something we have to get what we don't have: Her -- an enjoyable and easy way to earn a significant amount of money (in relation to the amount of skill, time and effort required); and me -- the enjoyment of time, company and intimacy with a pretty girl half my age.

**Ares999** · 10-02-22 06:05

Originally Posted by EvilTmp [View Original Post]

Chances are after that first paid platonic date she will disappear anyway. Don't forget, any girl gets dozens of new messages every single day. If she can get paid to eat dinner, that's all she'll be doing all week long.

In the past I have always felt the same way. If they are not ready after the unpaid meet and greet, that's been the end for me. However, I recently connected with someone from seeking that said she wanted to take things slow and get to know each other before anything sexual. As I said, in the past that would have been the end. This time though I decided to go along for a few dates and see. (Probably because she's super hot and also I wasn't having much luck meeting anyone else on the site). To my surprise on the third date she was ready and it's been one of the best expereinces I've had with a SB. She is wild and open to just about anything. I plan to keep seeing her for a long time. Although she is probably the exception, it does make me wonder if I missed out in the past in similair situations when I gave up after one date.

**Ernest Ll** · 10-01-22 09:20

Originally Posted by Round3 [View Original Post]

Throw in the ones mentioning Paypigs and Findom as well. Must be some real fools out there that keep those girls around.

I once put in my profile something along the lines of "and if you think FinDom is a thing, kindly skip me."

And got a few nasty messages for "pleasure shaming" sub men!

**Round 3** · 10-01-22 07:54

Originally Posted by ThatSexyGuy [View Original Post]

It's when they form a bond only then can they have a intimate connection. And even then it might not be possible. So let me get this straight you join a sugar daddy site to only be looking for a real bond possibly all while wanting to get paid. LOL. Go on a regular dating site then.

It's crazy to me these babys expect cash and to have their cake and eat it to. But what's more worrying is how they stay on the site since like last year. They're obviously getting money from members somehow. Shameful.

Throw in the ones mentioning Paypigs and Findom as well. Must be some real fools out there that keep those girls around.

**ThatSexyGuy** · 10-01-22 05:15

Originally Posted by GeechieDan [View Original Post]

Here's another Demisexuall. WTF is a demisexual?

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...a-5a90f3d29144

It's when they form a bond only then can they have a intimate connection. And even then it might not be possible. So let me get this straight you join a sugar daddy site to only be looking for a real bond possibly all while wanting to get paid. LOL. Go on a regular dating site then.

It's crazy to me these babys expect cash and to have their cake and eat it to. But what's more worrying is how they stay on the site since like last year. They're obviously getting money from members somehow. Shameful.

**Geechie Dan** · 10-01-22 00:26

Originally Posted by ThatSexyGuy [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...9-1d542fd90451

I have not messaged but this girls profile made me laugh. I'll never understand how I read her entire post only to get below and it says I'm looking for someone to be submissive to me. Are there really guys out there who're fine with not getting the box and being submissive to women like this? All while paying them?

Us men got to do better.

Here's another Demisexuall. WTF is a demisexual?

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...a-5a90f3d29144

**ThatSexyGuy** · 09-30-22 21:45

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...9-1d542fd90451

I have not messaged but this girls profile made me laugh. I'll never understand how I read her entire post only to get below and it says I'm looking for someone to be submissive to me. Are there really guys out there who're fine with not getting the box and being submissive to women like this? All while paying them?

Us men got to do better.

**EvilTmp** · 09-30-22 14:55

Originally Posted by SrUnderbridge [View Original Post]

Amen to that. Had a gal just in college who had humongous tits, a fave of mine. Lot of chatting back and forth, seemd like a decent connection. When it came time for the first get together, it was $200, and nothing sexual. Said "sorry, loks like we disagree on that, good luck to ya". Really wanted to get my hands and other parts on those tits, but, nope.

Not dropping $200 on some kissing!

Chances are after that first paid platonic date she will disappear anyway. Don't forget, any girl gets dozens of new messages every single day. If she can get paid to eat dinner, that's all she'll be doing all week long.

**3Putt** · 09-30-22 13:02

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

VWO33 Got me 1/3rd off.

Worked for me, thanks.

**Geechie Dan** · 09-30-22 11:48

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

VWO33 Got me 1/3rd off.

Thanks! Worked for me.

**ThatSexyGuy** · 09-29-22 22:31

Originally Posted by SrUnderbridge [View Original Post]

Amen to that. Had a gal just in college who had humongous tits, a fave of mine. Lot of chatting back and forth, seemd like a decent connection. When it came time for the first get together, it was $200, and nothing sexual. Said "sorry, loks like we disagree on that, good luck to ya". Really wanted to get my hands and other parts on those tits, but, nope.

Not dropping $200 on some kissing!

Since on Seeking I've had a couple of meets. I don't pay a dime. I push for real dates and on the dates try to see what I can get for free. In this case a super spinner came out one time and let me hit it for free. Guys I posted photos a minute ago writing about her. Easiest ass I've ever gotten. I will only pay off seeking for extremely attractive girls. It's the only reason I'm on here and no payment before we do the deed!

**SrUnderbridge** · 09-29-22 21:06

Originally Posted by GeechieDan [View Original Post]

To whom it may concern, DO NOT pay these women full donation / allowance just for meet and greet. As stated before, the meet ' and greet is the equivalent of a job interview. I don't know about you guys, but I've never been paid to interview for a job. These chicks are outrageous with their requests.

Amen to that. Had a gal just in college who had humongous tits, a fave of mine. Lot of chatting back and forth, seemd like a decent connection. When it came time for the first get together, it was $200, and nothing sexual. Said "sorry, loks like we disagree on that, good luck to ya". Really wanted to get my hands and other parts on those tits, but, nope.

Not dropping $200 on some kissing!

**Happtrav** · 09-29-22 13:19

I travel a lot for work / fun. Here are 2 profiles I came across that I have verified as Scammers:

EllieBird2244.

Simplyamazing6.

Add these to your favorites in Seeking and see their location change every few days.

Smh.

**Geechie Dan** · 09-29-22 12:48

To whom it may concern, DO NOT pay these women full donation / allowance just for meet and greet. As stated before, the meet ' and greet is the equivalent of a job interview. I don't know about you guys, but I've never been paid to interview for a job. These chicks are outrageous with their requests.