Non Pro's

**WaldoJnk** · 09-29-22 00:17

Originally Posted by MarkoRamius [View Original Post]

Several ladies told me they got a premium membership by acting as a moderator on SA.

One lady showed me that she could read other users PMs and look at any profile. We had a falling out some months later, a week or so after the falling out I was banned for "identity theft". You can draw your own conclusions.

Dang. That's just wrong. On so many levels. All of it, not just what happened to you.

**Maui Glory** · 09-28-22 23:58

Originally Posted by KuatoKuato [View Original Post]

I used the low end of your ranges, adjusted to how many times / month I plan to see her. I made my offer. We'll see how she responds.

If YES. Then I have a decent arrangement so long as I can keep hotel expenses low.

If NO. Then NBD. Physically she's average so I'm not missing out on much, though tbh I was looking forward to having my way with her.

Ok, now I wait for the response.

So she countered with a higher price but to limit PPMs to 1 or 1. 5 hrs. I let her know that what I had offered was my ceiling and that it it was definitely for 1/2 or 3/4 day visits.

Earlier in our conversations she talked about how she needed the money because she lost her job and needed to make house payments, $2 k / month. So, if she's finds herself in a bind maybe she'll reach out to me sometime. If not, no big deal. She really wasn't my ideal body type and personality anyway.

**Marko Ramius** · 09-28-22 20:36

Originally Posted by WaldoJnk [View Original Post]

I have never head this. How do you know, is there proof somewhere?

Several ladies told me they got a premium membership by acting as a moderator on SA.

One lady showed me that she could read other users PMs and look at any profile. We had a falling out some months later, a week or so after the falling out I was banned for "identity theft". You can draw your own conclusions.

**SeattleGonzo** · 09-28-22 18:02

Originally Posted by Calous [View Original Post]

She is a pro. Advertises on stg.

She does not advertise on. Stg.

Curvylatina sticks to dating / sb sites.

She is a pro but stg is not part of her business plan..

**MilfHunter66** · 09-28-22 17:18

Thanks you guys for responding. I paid up and now can communicate on SA. The helpful info I've got from this thread has been great. Thank you all for putting this out there.

**WaldoJnk** · 09-28-22 16:28

Originally Posted by MarkoRamius [View Original Post]

A lot of the girls on those sites "work" for a premium membership by acting as a moderator or administrator. And a lot of those girls aren't above snooping in your PMs and using their power to ban you if you piss them off.

I have never head this. How do you know, is there proof somewhere?

**Marko Ramius** · 09-28-22 16:27

Originally Posted by Kinkaid69 [View Original Post]

What? Please explain this in more detail. Do you mean to say they have a normal looking active SB account, but also moderator privileges? Sounds as bad as TnA.

Yes, that is exactly what is going on. If a girl has a. Edu email address they get free premium. Otherwise they have to pay or "work" for it.

Some of the bennies that the ladies get from premium are:

See if a message has been read or not.

Exclude non-Premiums from your search.

Identify a Premium SD even on their profile.

Filter for income levels.

Search exclusively for married / single guys (if that's important to you).

Filter for relationship, ethnicity, Lifestyle Budget.

**Kinkaid69** · 09-28-22 14:52

Originally Posted by MarkoRamius [View Original Post]

A lot of the girls on those sites "work" for a premium membership by acting as a moderator or administrator.

What? Please explain this in more detail. Do you mean to say they have a normal looking active SB account, but also moderator privileges? Sounds as bad as TnA.

**3Putt** · 09-28-22 12:10

Just a different pic.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...4-b544b786df4c

**Marko Ramius** · 09-28-22 11:33

Just don't ever discuss money with anyone from that site until you are communicating with them outside that site (by text or email). That goes the other way and if a girl hits me up for money in a PM I just block them.

A lot of the girls on those sites "work" for a premium membership by acting as a moderator or administrator. And a lot of those girls aren't above snooping in your PMs and using their power to ban you if you piss them off.

There are a lot of scammers on those sites, and they seem to come through in waves. If the girl is too cute, too young, or too far away I won't have high expectations.

**Michael1967** · 09-28-22 10:41

Originally Posted by Blazer1979 [View Original Post]

You've never been on SA? Then you won't get banned. From what I understand, SA doesn't want to be a hooker site so they ban those who use it for that. So don't offer $$$ for sex. Of course, that's what we do. You can discuss that you pay per meeting, or pay monthly allowance, just don't discuss sexual activity. At least that's how I understand it. I have 2 regulars now. They aren't hookers, both have jobs and their own place. Each say that most guys there are just looking for hookups. That's ok if you are, there's plenty of opportunities there.

You're going to get messages before you pay. And SA is hoping you see these chicks messaging you, favoriting you, etc. You'll pay to read those messages, just like SA wants. Last time I went inactive on SA I got a message from a lady I had the hots for. I had bee pursuing her for weeks and she messaged me back the second day I was inactive. Drove me crazy so I paid up another month to read it, ha.

It's a big pool and there's lots to find there. Strippers, escorts, students, singles, fatties. Good luck.

Probably a good rule is don't discuss money at all in messages. Wait until you get a phone number.

**Blazer1979** · 09-28-22 10:34

Originally Posted by MilfHunter66 [View Original Post]

I signed up on SA the other day but haven't gone premium yet to read messages. I have read a lot of negative reviews about once you pay they just ban your account. Does this really happen? If so is there a way to prevent it.

Second I've received over a dozen messages in the last two days. Do the women normally reach out or are these the scammers and picture sellers? A few look like semi pros, a few fake but there's a couple that may look legit.

Thanks in advance.

You've never been on SA? Then you won't get banned. From what I understand, SA doesn't want to be a hooker site so they ban those who use it for that. So don't offer $$$ for sex. Of course, that's what we do. You can discuss that you pay per meeting, or pay monthly allowance, just don't discuss sexual activity. At least that's how I understand it. I have 2 regulars now. They aren't hookers, both have jobs and their own place. Each say that most guys there are just looking for hookups. That's ok if you are, there's plenty of opportunities there.

You're going to get messages before you pay. And SA is hoping you see these chicks messaging you, favoriting you, etc. You'll pay to read those messages, just like SA wants. Last time I went inactive on SA I got a message from a lady I had the hots for. I had bee pursuing her for weeks and she messaged me back the second day I was inactive. Drove me crazy so I paid up another month to read it, ha.

It's a big pool and there's lots to find there. Strippers, escorts, students, singles, fatties. Good luck.

**MilfHunter66** · 09-27-22 23:25

I signed up on SA the other day but haven't gone premium yet to read messages. I have read a lot of negative reviews about once you pay they just ban your account. Does this really happen? If so is there a way to prevent it.

Second I've received over a dozen messages in the last two days. Do the women normally reach out or are these the scammers and picture sellers? A few look like semi pros, a few fake but there's a couple that may look legit.

Thanks in advance.

**Michael1967** · 09-27-22 19:25

Originally Posted by Bronco62 [View Original Post]

I've had offers accepted by 13 ladies and 4 dates, the rest just quit responding. Of the dates 1 was bat shit crazy, one just didn't connect and I fucked (and an still fucking) the other 2.

I'm probably now at about 50% that accepted my offer that went on dates. I was around 80-90% for the longest. The last few months have been bad. My dates have ranged from "smiling so I will give them the money" to "I thought this site was about hooking up for money, so let's go". I've dated 4 people for about a month or more. 5 if you count the one that was an UTR escort and was looking for regulars. None of them turned into anything.

**Michael1967** · 09-27-22 19:19

Originally Posted by Bronco62 [View Original Post]

Saw her a few times last winter. Good kisser, ok BBBJ, loves daty and is a good sensual fuck. Started hitting me up for "help" in between meets so I dropped her from the rotation. Would definitely fuck her again if she were closer.

I'm sure I've seen her on one of the escort sites.