"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[DeltaTraveler]

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...9-87bc3b0e650d

I saw Missy last week and had a good time. I saw her mentioned before but no details that I could find. Her profile and pics are accurate; a late 40's MILF who likes sex. Normally I like to meet someone new in a neutral location first but after texting with her I felt comfortable skipping that. Other posts mentioned doing a m&g with her and not getting anywhere; so figured another reason to skip it.

She can't host but was willing to drive to me from Alpharetta to the Vinings area. She said ppm is fine and how much varied on how far she had to drive. I offered $250 which she accepted. Everything was on the menu except BBFS though it wouldn't surprise me if that was available after repeat visits. She stayed with me for about 2. 5 hours and multiples were no problem.

Missy is a very easy and fun person to talk to. She is one of the few people I've seen that I wouldn't mind hanging out with beforehand to grab dinner / drinks etc.

I had pretty much the same experience at the same price. Not the youngest out there, but definitely puts in the effort. Only difference for me was bare was available and she pulled out a toy to help make it even more fun. MSOG definitely available.

[DeltaTraveler]

Anyone have any experiences with this one? https://members.seeking.com/member/0...f-fa4b76ae9443.

[DArrow404]

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...9-87bc3b0e650d

I saw Missy last week and had a good time. I saw her mentioned before but no details that I could find. Her profile and pics are accurate; a late 40's MILF who likes sex. Normally I like to meet someone new in a neutral location first but after texting with her I felt comfortable skipping that. Other posts mentioned doing a m&g with her and not getting anywhere; so figured another reason to skip it.

She can't host but was willing to drive to me from Alpharetta to the Vinings area. She said ppm is fine and how much varied on how far she had to drive. I offered $250 which she accepted. Everything was on the menu except BBFS though it wouldn't surprise me if that was available after repeat visits. She stayed with me for about 2. 5 hours and multiples were no problem.

Missy is a very easy and fun person to talk to. She is one of the few people I've seen that I wouldn't mind hanging out with beforehand to grab dinner / drinks etc.

[Totalcsllc]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...2-a312d9e9d57d

Said she doesn't like to give out her number right away but we could communicate by telegram.

[GoneForGood97]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...f-dad8524be09c

Seems real enough, but needs help "immediately" and unable to meet. Insert not born yesterday reference. Told her to send over some nudes and I'd consider it, but 99% sure she's just hoping to scam guys out of $.

[HollowGuy]

When I messaged her she informed me that she was only looking for Platonic.

Translation. She's entertaining someone else.

[ZaneArtistry]

A woman on Seeking wants me to get Snapchat to communicate with her. I've never used it. Are there any risks with it that are greater than other communication apps?

Snapchat is nice because you can see their story and highlights from their regular life, which makes for better conversations and connection. Plus some privacy features, more approachable and mainstream than other apps.

[JokeSterkev]

A woman on Seeking wants me to get Snapchat to communicate with her. I've never used it. Are there any risks with it that are greater than other communication apps?

I've had the best luck with Snapchat. Most of my arrangements have come from Snapchat communication and they usually are all positive experiences.

[Bbanga247]

Check your PMs when you got a chance bro.

Yes, it is riskier than something that is end to end encrypted and open source (like Signal or Session apps). I never will talk to any girls on Snapchat or Kik or Whatsapp or Telegram. I will begrudgling SMS with them, but will usually get them on something more private. And I have more action than I can handle, so it is fine.

[Peter Johnson]

A woman on Seeking wants me to get Snapchat to communicate with her. I've never used it. Are there any risks with it that are greater than other communication apps?

Yes, it is riskier than something that is end to end encrypted and open source (like Signal or Session apps). I never will talk to any girls on Snapchat or Kik or Whatsapp or Telegram. I will begrudgling SMS with them, but will usually get them on something more private. And I have more action than I can handle, so it is fine.

[SeekingHead]

A woman on Seeking wants me to get Snapchat to communicate with her. I've never used it. Are there any risks with it that are greater than other communication apps?

No not at all, one of the advantages of snapchat is it deletes photos after being viewed, & if you take a screenshot the other person gets a notification. I have found the majority of women who use snapchat are trying to sell pictures or content.

[NewAnonymousName]

A woman on Seeking wants me to get Snapchat to communicate with her. I've never used it. Are there any risks with it that are greater than other communication apps?

[GoneForGood97]

When I messaged her she informed me that she was only looking for Platonic.

I got the feeling one of her friends got into her ear, i.e. whichever one probably told her about SA after she out of nowhere tried to bump up the arrangement amount after already agreeing to a previous amount. Our coffee date was super pleasant, she seemed incredibly eager to meet, and was genuinely excited to meet a guy from the site that wasn't "a creep" (her words). It was weird to me after such a great M&G that she then self sabotaged trying to get only an extra $100 per meet. But our date it was clear she was DTF, and even when she pushed for the new arrangement amount she specifically said it was because she couldn't fuck a stranger for a "low amount".

Sounds like the same friend is now showing her the TikTok SB influencers who keep pushing the myth of "if you're pretty they'll just give you money for no reason. " Oh well, she could've been a really great find.

[2me4Looking2]

VerdantHarmony https://members.seeking.com/member/7...6-d8500019c761.

I usually have really good luck with these hippie girls, and thought I had something really special lined up with this one. Standard convo, moved to text. We agree to a coffee meet and greet, but she had already used some language during our texts about how "much she values herself" that I knew was problematic. I actually pushed back, talking about how woman that are too materialistic aren't for me, that if you're so focused on $ then it's not going to work, really trying to push her away. She threw out she wanted 400 PPM. Told her that was too high, but if she'd lower hers I'd raise mine and we might could meet in the middle, otherwise no reason to waste time meeting for coffee. She said that would work for her, that she could come down if I could come up, and we agree to still meet for coffee.

A few days later we're having coffee at Starbucks and seem to really hit things off. We walk away to discuss the arrangement, and she opens by saying she can do 300 but isn't comfortable hosting. I tell her I can get us a hotel for our initial date, but that for amount I would expect her to begin hosting after 1-2 dates when we have some trust built. She agrees, and we setup a date for later in the week.

I text her off and on to maintain our connection and to confirm some details for our date, and she keeps putting me off. Eventually I see her logging back onto SA. I knew it was coming, and sure enough she finally messages me that she's been thinking about it, and 300 is not enough, and she wants 400. I tell her good luck and cut my losses. So, if you're into hippy college girls, this one can be had for 400 plus hotel, though I also bet if enough guys hit her with a more reasonable rate she'll realize she needs to readjust her expectations LOL. I think money is getting tight for her as she had mentioned during our date she recently quit her job. Good luck.

When I messaged her she informed me that she was only looking for Platonic.

[GoneForGood97]

Okay, I'm starting to get a little better at this. I've been on SA for about 2 weeks. I still have a leftover from SB that is getting most of my attention. So, are some of my theories true or false in trying to land some $300 and below girls:

The more recent a member is, the better chance you're dealing with a potential sb?

The age of the account varies. Brand new accounts (less than 3 days old and with only 1-2 pics) are high likelihood scammers. If they have more pics, and hopefully a few contain Atlanta landmarks, that's a better indicator.

The members who have been on there for more than a few months are more likely to be pros or want more money?

No, I don't find accounts over a certain age to be more likely pros. However, I have found the older an account is the more likely the girl will have a higher ask, because as time goes by, they will naturally ask the next guy for a little more, or a guy just throws an extra 100 since he's simping, and that becomes her new ask. Not always the case, but I find 1 week to 2-3 months to be the sweet spot.

A member who is "premium" or featured is going to be pro's or gps?

No, I think the girls get free offers of 1 week of "premium" around holidays or randomly just like guys get discounts on holidays or sometimes randomly.

Are the girls in the mid 20's (22-28) going to be on the upper end of compensation (assuming they're not unattractive or out of shape)?

Generally 18-22 tend to be more social media inclined, which means they are likely to have heard about the seeking from Tiktok or Twitter, and the SB "influencers" on those platforms tend to overinflate girls' ideas of how market pricing works.

And who are the morons that pay these girls money for pictures or videos?

I was going to say the Snap Chat's and What's app. Are you " or pix sellers. But I'm seeing where that may not be true already.

Some guys are married and don't have the guts to cheat, but feel like buying pics / vids isn't cheating so that's their outlet. Others are just sad simps who have no idea how to talk to women. Regarding Snapchat / WhatsApp, I've had a lot of meetups with girls who gave me their snaps, so it doesn't indicate anything regarding their real / not real status. WhatsApp is used way less in the US, but I did one time get one coffee date from a girl who asked me to use WhatsApp, and we hooked up afterwards. But the other 90% of the time WhatsApp has been scammers / pic sellers.

If you're looking for sub 300, I recommend 1) Looking outside the city and suburbs into more rural areas and 2) Stick to late 20's to mid 30's. They tend to be single moms who are just looking for an escape from their life and want a little extra $ to help with bills or maybe pickup a nice purse they couldn't otherwise because they spend most of their money on little Bobby's needs.

None of these are hard and fast rules. I had a 19 year old that I smashed for free, and another I was meeting for 150 per meet plus hotel and buying Plan B afterwards. I've seen 34 year olds with serious GPS. But these are the general trends I see.