Non Pro's

[Michael1967]

I think I asked this before but I am not sure. Has anyone gotten anywhere with one of these professional cuddlers? If so any tips?

Someone said they were able to get laid on the cuddling sites like a year ago. He basically said he would have them over to cuddle and it turned into sex. There were just way too many red flags for me on that. You pay a woman to come over to your place to cuddle, you have sex with her, she can simply say it wasn't consentual and she was scared because she was trapped at your place. Nope. Not going there.

[BoBroBgobs]

I think I asked this before but I am not sure. Has anyone gotten anywhere with one of these professional cuddlers? If so any tips?

I've seen this mentioned here a couple of times. And I've always wondered why bother when there's already SA?

Is it the thrill of it or are there like really good looking ones there?

[Pussy Hound]

I think I asked this before but I am not sure. Has anyone gotten anywhere with one of these professional cuddlers? If so any tips?

[BbKingg]

How has people's experience been on Fetlife? I started on it not that long ago to see if there was anyone worth pursuing. Found some potentials, but nothing solid.

How's your experience been? What approach has worked for you? Thanks!

If you are chill, decent looking and have a nice cock, you can have plenty of fun. It helps to have proof that you are safe and a good fuck.

You can't run around being an asshole.

Most just want to get pounded out.

Mostly 30 or 40 somethings.

The younger ones want $$.

Many are hooked on something.

I have teamed up with about 8 or 9 like minded gents. We share women. This has led to mfm and small gangbangs.

We help each other out. Many of these women want to be sluts and just want to fuck random men. Sometimes daily.

It can be awesome. It just takes time.

[KitWalker1967]

How has people's experience been on Fetlife? I started on it not that long ago to see if there was anyone worth pursuing. Found some potentials, but nothing solid.

How's your experience been? What approach has worked for you? Thanks!

As far as one on one interactions these days, I'd echo what Michael1967 has said. FetLife offered what I'd describe as a "Target Rich Environment" years ago. You could find a lonely, horny chick who wanted to get dicked-down on a Friday / Saturday night or some dude trying to organize a gangbang for his lady. Back then I banged a lot of guys' wives / girlfriends (funny how a lot of them are teachers or nurses) at hotels and adult theaters and I only had one bad experience with a chick who turned out to be a stalker. Now, post FOSTA & COVID, it seems like the few gangbangs announced are mainly sex workers (like the California Girls) and everyone has a damn OF account they're pimping. At most, I've used it lately for infrequent notifications about ladies saying they're going to a particular adult theater / bookstore here in Washington or down in Oregon.

[3Putt]

What was the length and cost of the arrangement? Any restrictions? She and I have connected on SA and I will share a review once we meet.

Thanks!

And no time limit. Again don't break the illusion.

[Michael1967]

How has people's experience been on Fetlife? I started on it not that long ago to see if there was anyone worth pursuing. Found some potentials, but nothing solid.

How's your experience been? What approach has worked for you? Thanks!

For me, the women on Fetlife are a little too picky. It's like they'll put out, on their terms and they only want the men 6' or taller with 10 inch dicks and 6 pack abs. Which is fine, except the vast majority are (to put it politely) gross. Its like just about every hook up site around. Anyone that is remotely hot wants someone else that is even hotter than them and they aren't looking for 55 YO men.

[Mitch Cor]

Sigh. I really do miss my amateur 19 yo gymnast. Would fuck at her apartment for hours for 150 ppm. Had to drive over an hour to get there, but worth it!!

Too bad she's a nice married church going girl. Lucky bastard. This was before * and SA became a thing, sigh. From what I've seen she's way better than most of these girls. Damn I miss her!

Last year before I left SA for a bit, most 19-21 yr olds were asking for like 500-600. Now, I've got it from like 4 19-21 yr olds the ppm of 800 and they don't budge from it. Honestly, is there like a consortium where these girls decide their ppms?!

[BackInSea]

How has people's experience been on Fetlife? I started on it not that long ago to see if there was anyone worth pursuing. Found some potentials, but nothing solid.

How's your experience been? What approach has worked for you? Thanks!

[3Putt]

What was the length and cost of the arrangement? Any restrictions? She and I have connected on SA and I will share a review once we meet.

Thanks!

We did 3 per date, and no restrictions with me, not that I ask for them, as that would make her feel like a pro. Don't break the illusion.

[Baddaddy2021]

Had to stay in Tacoma for work, so I reached out, we texted a bunch and then agreed to meet, just straight to my room no meet and greet needed, she looks just like her pics, has pierced nips, and is down to fuck.

I will repeat if my work makes me stay there again.

What was the length and cost of the arrangement? Any restrictions? She and I have connected on SA and I will share a review once we meet.

Thanks!

[CoronaLime]

If you like a submissive girl to creampie, she is ok.

I think she has a bf that gets supported by her.

Still. She has a special place in her heart for a BBC.

She a good time. She used to fuck my Wang for 200 $.

She chubby but she try hard.

[Marko Ramius]

Truth.

Yes. There are places where they do research, submit photos and profiles and discuss the optimum amounts for allowances. It's the "successful" ones telling the newbies what they should do. I discussed an allowance with one that I was seeing and she went to her "mentors" and they told her that based on her needs and my estimated income $8000 month would be fair.

She was dumped immediately. There is no pussy worth $8000 month. That would be 16 overpriced fucks from TNA hookers per month. 25-30 STG fucks and if I establish regulars with discounted rates probably 30-35 per month.

I'd add that there bluntly aren't that many guys who are both willing AND able to spend $8000 per month on one piece of ass. And there is lots of competition for those positions. So unless you have movie-star good looks and enough poise and education and experience that you can at least act like class and not cause a drama at a high-end restaurant you aren't seriously in the running. Bluntly I've met lots of girls from sugar sites and I've met lots of them who think they qualify and a few that could fake it for an hour but none who can actually hold their end of the bargain up.

[Barnie]

Yes. She basically begged me to send her a pic of my "BBC". I told her I don't take pics of my junk. She's basically begged me to do it and to coerce me, she sent me a video of her fingering herself (yes, I still have it). I was completely grossed out (because she isn't attractive). I did ask her several times how much money she wanted to see me and she never gave me a number, just said, "whatever you want to give me, just don't insult me. " In the end, I didn't find her attractive, I didn't know how much she wanted and I don't pay for ugly. Oh, and she said she has a very jealous boyfriend that doesn't satisfy her, so she needed to sneak over to my place for sex in the morning, because he was home in the afternoon. I think that was the last straw, I didn't want to get attacked by some jealous boyfriend. So, I ghosted her.

If you like a submissive girl to creampie, she is ok.

I think she has a bf that gets supported by her.

Still. She has a special place in her heart for a BBC.

[Marko Ramius]

Help me pay my tuition so i can Continue my degree in doctor/surgeon in only $300 short and that’s it I will do anything

That's funny. Blocked.