Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[TjtjtJall]

Thanks for that response. I agree 4 is the general ceiling, but I've had success at the 200 level when I'm the first guy they've been with in the SB lifestyle. I left that amount for such a lady recently and she texted later that I was way short and she was expecting 4 even though we never discussed the money. No chance she was at that level, but I was wondering how she arrived at 4 with no prior experience of her own.

Highest I've paid is 5 but that was a bombshell blonde, blue eyed 19 year old with an insane natural rack and perfect body. She got out of the lifestyle pretty quickly I think. But that was definitely money well spent on my end.

For starters, your tier 2 is more desirable to some than others. Not all guys want to chase these clueless coeds despite the tight skin and silky hair. So the dole out is not only subjective to each guy's taste but also his budget (and budget can be what he's willing to spend as much as what he's able to spend). I actually prefer the mid thirty somethings because they are easier to talk to, less likely to BS, and don't want to waste time either. That said, I also target fit and attractive ladies over the heavier girls so the pickins are slimmer (no pun intended). These ladies can be as much as, or more, that the coeds because they kinda know their worth where the younger girls guess or assume their value. Either way, it's been widely posted that you won't find anything less than 2 bills and I wouldn't pay more than 4 bills for anything unless the experience is in the top 1% of attractiveness and / or menu offering. I've spent more but that but it was in Vegas or for a local girls that should have been 3 bills. Not to be too general but the payout should be as little as you can get away with but ultimately, the ladies set the market and the guys respond to it. If it's too high, they lady will adjust accordingly as her responses dictate. But it's also widely known that these girls get hundreds of messages a day. So good luck getting the IG models less than 5 to 8 Ben's.

[TjtjtJall]

Download a free texting app, link it to a new Gmail or outlook email address that you make just to verify that number. You'll be good to go.

Hey guys,

On a whim I decided to jump back into SA this weekend after a couple of years off. My wife was out of town so I said WTH. Let's give it another go. I definitely go for the 18-25 coed type with all the potential challenges that come with it. I had several successful arrangements in my prior experience. A few years back. Matter of fact it seemed pretty easy then.

So now I am getting some chats but all the girls want to take things offline quickly and get my phone number. I am not set up with a burner yet so I have declined on those. And it seems that most of the girls (about 80%) have ghosted from the point that I decline. My question: Is that some kind of scam that I don't understand or am I missing opportunities? I guess I better get this burner phone thing figured out pretty soon if I am missing opportunities.

[Tensandaces]

Hey guys,

On a whim I decided to jump back into SA this weekend after a couple of years off. My wife was out of town so I said WTH. Let's give it another go. I definitely go for the 18-25 coed type with all the potential challenges that come with it. I had several successful arrangements in my prior experience. A few years back. Matter of fact it seemed pretty easy then.

So now I am getting some chats but all the girls want to take things offline quickly and get my phone number. I am not set up with a burner yet so I have declined on those. And it seems that most of the girls (about 80%) have ghosted from the point that I decline. My question: Is that some kind of scam that I don't understand or am I missing opportunities? I guess I better get this burner phone thing figured out pretty soon if I am missing opportunities.

[GutterMind4]

For starters, your tier 2 is more desirable to some than others. Not all guys want to chase these clueless coeds despite the tight skin and silky hair. So the dole out is not only subjective to each guy's taste but also his budget (and budget can be what he's willing to spend as much as what he's able to spend). I actually prefer the mid thirty somethings because they are easier to talk to, less likely to BS, and don't want to waste time either. That said, I also target fit and attractive ladies over the heavier girls so the pickins are slimmer (no pun intended). These ladies can be as much as, or more, that the coeds because they kinda know their worth where the younger girls guess or assume their value. Either way, it's been widely posted that you won't find anything less than 2 bills and I wouldn't pay more than 4 bills for anything unless the experience is in the top 1% of attractiveness and / or menu offering. I've spent more but that but it was in Vegas or for a local girls that should have been 3 bills. Not to be too general but the payout should be as little as you can get away with but ultimately, the ladies set the market and the guys respond to it. If it's too high, they lady will adjust accordingly as her responses dictate. But it's also widely known that these girls get hundreds of messages a day. So good luck getting the IG models less than 5 to 8 Ben's.

I'd be interested in what folks here are willing to dole out for different levels of SB that present themselves on the sites we all meet them on. In my experience there are three tiers that I have spoken with and / or smashed fall into.

The first tier is the unicorn group. Age 18-29, very fit, pretty and seem TGTBT. These are typically the scams, platonic or online only girls, who have no intention of sleeping with anyone. But there are some that fall into this category that do go all the way. So my question is of those that do become active SBs, what do we pay them? I have bedded two that fall into this category in my time. They were the most I have ever paid. One was definitely worth it but I don't think she was in the game for much longer. The other was most definitely not worth it, should have lit those hundreds on fire.

The second tier is late 20's-40, cute but not stand out attractive, perhaps overweight with a cute face. Maybe thin with a butter face. Maybe huge boobs but also fat. There is an obvious physical flaw that keeps them out of the first tier. How much for this tier?

The third tier is older, divorced and often with children, more rural, less attractive perhaps but also much more aware of what they are getting into and therefor much more likely to end up in the sack with. What is the pay per meet of this tier?

I'm just trying to understand the market relate for these women. There are always exceptions. There are always exceptions, and we can all get lucky finding one that will take way less than what they are probably worth. But I'd love to know how as a community we value these different level of women.

[Hiamey]

Any info on this lady will be appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...e-d7138a36e29a

[LookingFor2022]

Fellow mongers, new account (old one was compromised) but been on here awhile.

Last Thursday I may have inadvertently scared off a fellow monger bc I think she had double booked. She was a bit startled when she opened the door from the look on her face and tongue got a little twisted!! Location was toward UNCC, apt near intersection of 485 and 29, PNC area. You were walking around, up down the stairs like not sure which apt. Must have been your first time there. Sorry man. DM me, I'd like to compare some notes.

[TjtjtJall]

I'd be interested in what folks here are willing to dole out for different levels of SB that present themselves on the sites we all meet them on. In my experience there are three tiers that I have spoken with and / or smashed fall into.

The first tier is the unicorn group. Age 18-29, very fit, pretty and seem TGTBT. These are typically the scams, platonic or online only girls, who have no intention of sleeping with anyone. But there are some that fall into this category that do go all the way. So my question is of those that do become active SBs, what do we pay them? I have bedded two that fall into this category in my time. They were the most I have ever paid. One was definitely worth it but I don't think she was in the game for much longer. The other was most definitely not worth it, should have lit those hundreds on fire.

The second tier is late 20's-40, cute but not stand out attractive, perhaps overweight with a cute face. Maybe thin with a butter face. Maybe huge boobs but also fat. There is an obvious physical flaw that keeps them out of the first tier. How much for this tier?

The third tier is older, divorced and often with children, more rural, less attractive perhaps but also much more aware of what they are getting into and therefor much more likely to end up in the sack with. What is the pay per meet of this tier?

I'm just trying to understand the market relate for these women. There are always exceptions. There are always exceptions, and we can all get lucky finding one that will take way less than what they are probably worth. But I'd love to know how as a community we value these different level of women.

[SeriousRod238]

Try. She wants $500 with no intimacy the first meet.

That is one of the worst GPS move. But there a sucker everyday too. I'm glad we here won't spend that kind of money.

Speaking of GPS, check this one out in GA. Apparently, it's not a local problem. Anyone even attempting to contact her should have his monger card revoked.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...dWlkZS5ubC8%3D

[BlueBoi69]

Try. She wants $500 with no intimacy the first meet.

That is one of the worst GPS move. But there a sucker everyday too. I'm glad we here won't spend that kind of money.

[Ho Hopper]

Have chatted with her and took the convo to text. I really want this one to be real, but, something doesn't seem quite right. Still talking. Appreciate any feedback.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...1-2a12a39cbae4

Try. She wants $500 with no intimacy the first meet.

[Murican314]

She suggested we go to text very quickly. Asked for $700. Told her way to rich for me. Offered to do half hour for $300. At an AirBnB in Plaza, says it is her last day. She seemed to be in a hurry, I felt pressured. Spider senses are tingling. Passed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...9-675248f8c904

She also posts on adultsearch.

[CinMiner]

Have chatted with her and took the convo to text. I really want this one to be real, but, something doesn't seem quite right. Still talking. Appreciate any feedback.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...1-2a12a39cbae4

[CinMiner]

She suggested we go to text very quickly. Asked for $700. Told her way to rich for me. Offered to do half hour for $300. At an AirBnB in Plaza, says it is her last day. She seemed to be in a hurry, I felt pressured. Spider senses are tingling. Passed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...9-675248f8c904

[John Marigold]

Anyone have a report on her? https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...a7dc05409e6033.

Seems like a very nice woman. She is a widow. If you're married, forget it, she won't be interested.

[CinMiner]

Immediately asked if I was interested in PPM. I was hesitant, but, took the bait and asked how much. $800! I asked if that was for an evening or overnight. She said a for a couple of hours, add $200.

Got the impression she is real, just GPS and for that reason, I am out.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...b-809eceb78a9c