NoVA SugarBabies

[Rudy Wellz]

Amari.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-98a642b3a285

Sweet girl. Tiny waist sandwiched by full ass and tits. Covered fuck and swallowed my load. Would have repeated but life got busy.

Body as you described. If you like tits and ass, she's your girl.

Fun ride, but made me wrap up on initial encounter. Got tested and was able to hit it bareback. However, get the feeling she is a semi-pro based on her availability, communications and travel schedule. Most SB's are like "when can you come and hit it again". Amari is way more nonchalant.

My response above starts at "Body as you described. Made an error in editing the post.

[Rudy Wellz]

It's potentially setting a bad precedent and as you noted, I need to train her (not vice versa). However, she checks all my boxes (great in bed, 8. 5-9 in looks / body, easy to vibe with) so will likely give her some cash. As I am out of town as well, gives me some time to consider additional options.

If not, and If Inwas in your position, I'd leave her on read and wouldn't bother responding. Lots of other girls out there. All women try to train their men. Pay for her room this time and the requests will never end.

If you have "eff you" money and she's an amazing lay in bed, why not?

On the other hand, if that's not the case, just ignore it. If she comes back, just mention you were in a meeting or that you saw it and forgot to respond, then take her to the Fc and give her the agreed upon amount.

If she doesn't come back and ask you for a Fc date, here will be others to fill her spot.

[ProCatHunter]

Kudos to you for putting in the work. I do reach out to a lot of them as well, but willing to meet only very few, for two reasons. First, is time & money spent on meets, even if only coffee, still takes time to get ready / drive. Second, I don't trust myself not to fall for fucking even ugly chicks and then overpaying them, little head indeed likes variety and so cannot be trusted. I try to hold out until I can find the chicks that I really like as keepers. My goal is to find at least 1 or 2 every time I up membership, and usually get at least 1 that I can see for a few months. Got two college girls on rotation now, looking to add one and drop one this time before membership expires.

For the most part I agree that meet and greets are sh! T. Seven out out of ten are a waste of time. Tonight I had a 1 out of 100 experience though which is why I will err on doing as many as I have time for. Met a young lady for drinks a few hours ago. She was a 9 in the pics but a 7 in person. The pics vaguely looked like her and may have been, but it would've been about 2 years prior.

Regardless she was attractive enough to buy a drink for. She had a quirky innocence about her, and next thing I know after chatting her up about random stuff. Very little discussion of anything sugar related. She grabs my hand. Mind you we are only 2 drinks into the night and have been making what I would consider normal small talk.

She stands up from the table, walks over to me, and whispers in my ear if I want to go back to her dorm. I wasn't about to say no to that, cleared the tab, and we're off to the races. As soon as we walk into her dorm room, she shuts the door behind me and we start kissing. She begins unbuttoning my shirt, then my pants, and proceeds to suck me off. I tried to get her to stand up so I could undress her but she refused. I told her I wanted to f*ck her, and she looked up at me while kneeling and holding my d!ck in her hand, and told me she wouldn't do that with a married man.

At this point, I'm confused as hell because she's sucking my d!ck like her life depending on it, fondling my nutsack, and we've known each other for about 2 hours now. I decide, wth, and blow my load in her mouth. She swallows like a champ and then proceeds to clean me with her mouth and tongue.

I tell her that we should go together to get her allowance, but she refuses to accept one, and proceeds to tell me that this one is free. I still have no idea what allowance amount she is comfortable with.

I think I may have gotten a free bee from potential SBs maybe 2 ce before during a decades worth of sugaring. Those three experiences don't make up for all the crap m&gs I've had in my day, but boy oh boy, they sure do help. No doubt it would've been better had she been a 8/9/10. Then again, I probably don't get a free blowjob from anyone else but a solid 7. In any case, getting sucked off by a college coed in her dorm definitely wasn't an experience I had planned for this morning.

Happy hunting gents.

[ProCatHunter]

Message from new SB. She is smoking hot, BCD's twice, bareback, has her own place. She is out of town this weekend visiting friends. Sent me this message:

"Thank you hun! I wanted to stay at a Ritz or a W this weekend and the rooms are slightly higher than usual even with my employee rate.

I was wondering if you could help me with that?

If not, and If Inwas in your position, I'd leave her on read and wouldn't bother responding. Lots of other girls out there. All women try to train their men. Pay for her room this time and the requests will never end.

If you have "eff you" money and she's an amazing lay in bed, why not?

On the other hand, if that's not the case, just ignore it. If she comes back, just mention you were in a meeting or that you saw it and forgot to respond, then take her to the Fc and give her the agreed upon amount.

If she doesn't come back and ask you for a Fc date, here will be others to fill her spot.

[Lobsid]

Very normal for me to pick up SBs on the 1st date. Most of the girls that live in DC or Baltimore city don't drive. Depends on how comfortable they are about you too. Out of my 11 exSBs that login within the past 24 hrs 3 of them I pick up on the 1st date.

I like to play a game out of exSBs I count how many past SBs have login with in past 24 hrs. As of this post 11.

Will let you know what I find out. A little sus that she's willing to let a stranger pick her up. Have you offered to have an Uber pick her up and bring her to your m&g?

[Rudy Wellz]

Amari.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-98a642b3a285

Sweet girl. Tiny waist sandwiched by full ass and tits. Covered fuck and swallowed my load. Would have repeated but life got busy.

Body as you described. If you like tits and ass, she's your girl.

Fun ride, but made me wrap up on initial encounter. Got tested and was able to hit it bareback. However, get the feeling she is a semi-pro based on her availability, communications and travel schedule. Most SB's are like "when can you come and hit it again". Amari is way more nonchalant.

[Mcsylv]

Message from new SB. She is smoking hot, BCD's twice, bareback, has her own place. She is out of town this weekend visiting friends. Sent me this message:

"Thank you hun! I wanted to stay at a Ritz or a W this weekend and the rooms are slightly higher than usual even with my employee rate.

I was wondering if you could help me with that?

Is this someone you're already seeing steady? If so, depends on how much she asks for, how much she fits what you want, etc. Depending on those factors, you could accept and send her money, deny it, or ask for something in exchange for more money.

If this is someone you haven't met yet, it's a scammer.

[Rudy Wellz]

Message from new SB. She is smoking hot, BCD's twice, bareback, has her own place. She is out of town this weekend visiting friends. Sent me this message:

"Thank you hun! I wanted to stay at a Ritz or a W this weekend and the rooms are slightly higher than usual even with my employee rate.

I was wondering if you could help me with that?

[ProCatHunter]

Help me out here gents. She is open to meet, but wants me to pick her up as she doesn't drive. I am sensing trouble here, can someone else send some messages and report back on what you feel.

Will let you know what I find out. A little sus that she's willing to let a stranger pick her up. Have you offered to have an Uber pick her up and bring her to your m&g?

[MilesNoDavis]

Met up with her a couple years ago. She needed a platonic first meet then green light for the bedroom. Her tits were large and soft, just amazing. Sex was robotic unfortunately so did not repeat.

Thanks for the insight!

[Ernest Ll]

No doubt it's hard work. I'll usually send out. Few hundred messages (templates that I'll tweak to the profile) each time I re-up my account. After weeding out scammed, fakes, cash for meet, and picture sellers, I'll probably end up on about 20-30 coffee / drink dates and an occasional lunch / dinner date if I think they are promising. Of those numbers. I'll end up with about 5-10 FC sessions, and then have about 2-3 that I'll add into rotation to replace ladies that get dropped or end up disappearing for various reasons.

Sometimes I'll be pickier than others, but in all honesty, if the allowance is low enough, sometimes I'll just hit it for variety. Even if it is a 5/6. Definitely won't keep a 5/6 in rotation, but the little head likes variety, even if it won't be a repeat.

If it was easy, everyone could do it!

Screening is an art.

Attractiveness.

Likelihood of being real.

Getting them to engage.

Actually being real.

Willingness to meet.

Allowance.

Menu / Agenda for a meeting.

I'm not in a major market, but I'd say 1 in 10 I get to engage end up naked, but only 1 in 10 get to the point of meaningful engagement. So basically 1% of profiles.

[Ernest Ll]

Repeats the exact same words for every iteration of a texting interaction.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...6-54a0071c190c

Is a real 20 something hottie going to put "Submissive and Naughty" out there for every mouth-breather and wank master to see?

[The Curve]

Amari.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-98a642b3a285

Sweet girl. Tiny waist sandwiched by full ass and tits. Covered fuck and swallowed my load. Would have repeated but life got busy.

Groovy.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...b-28dbcc827086

Seemed dtf. Never got around to meeting but I spotted her in public recently. So real. Pics are accurate.

SweetLover.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...c-a47617c08b80

Porn star head. Sloppy and full of spit. Drank cum like my cock was a straw.

[Mcsylv]

No doubt it's hard work. I'll usually send out. Few hundred messages (templates that I'll tweak to the profile) each time I re-up my account. After weeding out scammed, fakes, cash for meet, and picture sellers, I'll probably end up on about 20-30 coffee / drink dates and an occasional lunch / dinner date if I think they are promising. Of those numbers. I'll end up with about 5-10 FC sessions, and then have about 2-3 that I'll add into rotation to replace ladies that get dropped or end up disappearing for various reasons.

Sometimes I'll be pickier than others, but in all honesty, if the allowance is low enough, sometimes I'll just hit it for variety. Even if it is a 5/6. Definitely won't keep a 5/6 in rotation, but the little head likes variety, even if it won't be a repeat.

Same approach I have, although I have yet to develop a consistent rotation that has only girls I am fully happy with, even though I've been on the site since October 2021. I have:

- a girl down near UVA who comes up for a night or a weekend, but the allowance is high, her hotness is only 7 or 8/10, only average BB sex and nothing super kinky. I'd be happy with her if the allowance was lower, or she lived closer so I could booty call her, or she was hotter, or she was dirtier in bed.

- a girl in the DC area, high allowance, 9/10, below average sex and nothing kinky. I'd be happy with her if allowance was lower, or if she was open to BB and dirtier in the bed.

- girl from up near Baltimore, middle allowance, 8 or 9/10 looks, great sex, very sexually open and I have done BB and BB anal and she might be up for more, but SUPER fucking annoying and I can't stand being around her so I only bring her around to fuck, not to dinners or any outside the bedroom. She also takes fucking forever to come down and is always late, and during the session will randomly take breaks to freshen up that take 10 minutes. I'd be happier with her if she was less annoying, or just took less time doing everything. Being local would also help, so I could I could potentially negotiate a quickie for much less allowance. I basically treat her like an escort.

Still trying to establish other girls, I've been with a few from PA and meeting a Richmond girl today, but not in the rotation.

The DC area girl from above recently asked to be exclusive with a high weekly/monthly allowance. I told her I could do that if she did BB, and we met up for 2 overnights a week + 2 Saturday all day and overnight dates a month. She said she'll consider it. I wouldn't even entertain her request if she wasn't literally 1/3 of my rotation, and the hottest and only local girl. Also not sure if I should actually be exclusive, or just hide my profile activities. Not sure if she'll demand that I deactivate, or if she'll test me by seeing if I deactivate it and if I don't, start ghosting me. I think she's smart enough that if I just block her and tell her my account is off, she'll make a throwaway account to check and find me out.

Ideally I'd like 4 - 6 local 8+/10 girls open to BB that are pleasant to talk to and wild in bed. Allowance matters less, they can all demand a high allowance for all I care. That way, I'd have enough in the rotation that are also near me that I can call one up whenever I get horny, and on the rare occasion all 4 - 6 are busy, use private viewing or escorts to fill in the gap. I'd use escorts exclusively, but they almost never do BB even for tips and with a clean test, and they also end up being more expensive than even the high allowance SB's when you factor hours spent. An SB who wants a high allowance of 700 or 800 PPM and stays for dinner + 2 hours is still cheaper than an escort charging 400/ hr.

Kudos to you for putting in the work. I do reach out to a lot of them as well, but willing to meet only very few, for two reasons. First, is time & money spent on meets, even if only coffee, still takes time to get ready / drive. Second, I don't trust myself not to fall for fucking even ugly chicks and then overpaying them, little head indeed likes variety and so cannot be trusted. I try to hold out until I can find the chicks that I really like as keepers. My goal is to find at least 1 or 2 every time I up membership, and usually get at least 1 that I can see for a few months. Got two college girls on rotation now, looking to add one and drop one this time before membership expires.

I used to have the problem of thinking with the little head. I solve that by having backups, so if a girl is bitchy or wants a high allowance, I leave and use the backup. It's not always possible, and sometimes both fail me, or the first girl is great and I'm spent, but I don't want to burn bridges with the backup so I still see them even though I'm not too horny anymore, but it is what it is.

[Arty33]

Help me out here gents. She is open to meet, but wants me to pick her up as she doesn't drive. I am sensing trouble here, can someone else send some messages and report back on what you feel.

With this one? She's been texting for a few days, I am doubtful if she's real based on the messages so far.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...5-c45470365958