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[Mcsylv]

Message from new SB. She is smoking hot, BCD's twice, bareback, has her own place. She is out of town this weekend visiting friends. Sent me this message:

"Thank you hun! I wanted to stay at a Ritz or a W this weekend and the rooms are slightly higher than usual even with my employee rate.

I was wondering if you could help me with that?

Is this someone you're already seeing steady? If so, depends on how much she asks for, how much she fits what you want, etc. Depending on those factors, you could accept and send her money, deny it, or ask for something in exchange for more money.

If this is someone you haven't met yet, it's a scammer.

[Rudy Wellz]

Message from new SB. She is smoking hot, BCD's twice, bareback, has her own place. She is out of town this weekend visiting friends. Sent me this message:

"Thank you hun! I wanted to stay at a Ritz or a W this weekend and the rooms are slightly higher than usual even with my employee rate.

I was wondering if you could help me with that?

[ProCatHunter]

Help me out here gents. She is open to meet, but wants me to pick her up as she doesn't drive. I am sensing trouble here, can someone else send some messages and report back on what you feel.

Will let you know what I find out. A little sus that she's willing to let a stranger pick her up. Have you offered to have an Uber pick her up and bring her to your m&g?

[MilesNoDavis]

Met up with her a couple years ago. She needed a platonic first meet then green light for the bedroom. Her tits were large and soft, just amazing. Sex was robotic unfortunately so did not repeat.

Thanks for the insight!

[Ernest Ll]

No doubt it's hard work. I'll usually send out. Few hundred messages (templates that I'll tweak to the profile) each time I re-up my account. After weeding out scammed, fakes, cash for meet, and picture sellers, I'll probably end up on about 20-30 coffee / drink dates and an occasional lunch / dinner date if I think they are promising. Of those numbers. I'll end up with about 5-10 FC sessions, and then have about 2-3 that I'll add into rotation to replace ladies that get dropped or end up disappearing for various reasons.

Sometimes I'll be pickier than others, but in all honesty, if the allowance is low enough, sometimes I'll just hit it for variety. Even if it is a 5/6. Definitely won't keep a 5/6 in rotation, but the little head likes variety, even if it won't be a repeat.

If it was easy, everyone could do it!

Screening is an art.

Attractiveness.

Likelihood of being real.

Getting them to engage.

Actually being real.

Willingness to meet.

Allowance.

Menu / Agenda for a meeting.

I'm not in a major market, but I'd say 1 in 10 I get to engage end up naked, but only 1 in 10 get to the point of meaningful engagement. So basically 1% of profiles.

[Ernest Ll]

Repeats the exact same words for every iteration of a texting interaction.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...6-54a0071c190c

Is a real 20 something hottie going to put "Submissive and Naughty" out there for every mouth-breather and wank master to see?

[The Curve]

Amari.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-98a642b3a285

Sweet girl. Tiny waist sandwiched by full ass and tits. Covered fuck and swallowed my load. Would have repeated but life got busy.

Groovy.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...b-28dbcc827086

Seemed dtf. Never got around to meeting but I spotted her in public recently. So real. Pics are accurate.

SweetLover.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...c-a47617c08b80

Porn star head. Sloppy and full of spit. Drank cum like my cock was a straw.

[Mcsylv]

No doubt it's hard work. I'll usually send out. Few hundred messages (templates that I'll tweak to the profile) each time I re-up my account. After weeding out scammed, fakes, cash for meet, and picture sellers, I'll probably end up on about 20-30 coffee / drink dates and an occasional lunch / dinner date if I think they are promising. Of those numbers. I'll end up with about 5-10 FC sessions, and then have about 2-3 that I'll add into rotation to replace ladies that get dropped or end up disappearing for various reasons.

Sometimes I'll be pickier than others, but in all honesty, if the allowance is low enough, sometimes I'll just hit it for variety. Even if it is a 5/6. Definitely won't keep a 5/6 in rotation, but the little head likes variety, even if it won't be a repeat.

Same approach I have, although I have yet to develop a consistent rotation that has only girls I am fully happy with, even though I've been on the site since October 2021. I have:

- a girl down near UVA who comes up for a night or a weekend, but the allowance is high, her hotness is only 7 or 8/10, only average BB sex and nothing super kinky. I'd be happy with her if the allowance was lower, or she lived closer so I could booty call her, or she was hotter, or she was dirtier in bed.

- a girl in the DC area, high allowance, 9/10, below average sex and nothing kinky. I'd be happy with her if allowance was lower, or if she was open to BB and dirtier in the bed.

- girl from up near Baltimore, middle allowance, 8 or 9/10 looks, great sex, very sexually open and I have done BB and BB anal and she might be up for more, but SUPER fucking annoying and I can't stand being around her so I only bring her around to fuck, not to dinners or any outside the bedroom. She also takes fucking forever to come down and is always late, and during the session will randomly take breaks to freshen up that take 10 minutes. I'd be happier with her if she was less annoying, or just took less time doing everything. Being local would also help, so I could I could potentially negotiate a quickie for much less allowance. I basically treat her like an escort.

Still trying to establish other girls, I've been with a few from PA and meeting a Richmond girl today, but not in the rotation.

The DC area girl from above recently asked to be exclusive with a high weekly/monthly allowance. I told her I could do that if she did BB, and we met up for 2 overnights a week + 2 Saturday all day and overnight dates a month. She said she'll consider it. I wouldn't even entertain her request if she wasn't literally 1/3 of my rotation, and the hottest and only local girl. Also not sure if I should actually be exclusive, or just hide my profile activities. Not sure if she'll demand that I deactivate, or if she'll test me by seeing if I deactivate it and if I don't, start ghosting me. I think she's smart enough that if I just block her and tell her my account is off, she'll make a throwaway account to check and find me out.

Ideally I'd like 4 - 6 local 8+/10 girls open to BB that are pleasant to talk to and wild in bed. Allowance matters less, they can all demand a high allowance for all I care. That way, I'd have enough in the rotation that are also near me that I can call one up whenever I get horny, and on the rare occasion all 4 - 6 are busy, use private viewing or escorts to fill in the gap. I'd use escorts exclusively, but they almost never do BB even for tips and with a clean test, and they also end up being more expensive than even the high allowance SB's when you factor hours spent. An SB who wants a high allowance of 700 or 800 PPM and stays for dinner + 2 hours is still cheaper than an escort charging 400/ hr.

Kudos to you for putting in the work. I do reach out to a lot of them as well, but willing to meet only very few, for two reasons. First, is time & money spent on meets, even if only coffee, still takes time to get ready / drive. Second, I don't trust myself not to fall for fucking even ugly chicks and then overpaying them, little head indeed likes variety and so cannot be trusted. I try to hold out until I can find the chicks that I really like as keepers. My goal is to find at least 1 or 2 every time I up membership, and usually get at least 1 that I can see for a few months. Got two college girls on rotation now, looking to add one and drop one this time before membership expires.

I used to have the problem of thinking with the little head. I solve that by having backups, so if a girl is bitchy or wants a high allowance, I leave and use the backup. It's not always possible, and sometimes both fail me, or the first girl is great and I'm spent, but I don't want to burn bridges with the backup so I still see them even though I'm not too horny anymore, but it is what it is.

[Arty33]

Help me out here gents. She is open to meet, but wants me to pick her up as she doesn't drive. I am sensing trouble here, can someone else send some messages and report back on what you feel.

With this one? She's been texting for a few days, I am doubtful if she's real based on the messages so far.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...5-c45470365958

[Arty33]

Needed some variety and this one was easy so took the dip. Although action was great, paid too much (should not have been more than couple hundred) I felt in the end since I gave her a good time, attested by her through soft moans, eyes closed, sheet clutching, etc thanked me for a fucking her good. Body is very average and hygiene is okay, ask her to take shower before if you meet her. She can take a solid pounding, we went solid 2 hours with breaks, meet her if you're thirsty.

Yes, real. Heavy smoker. Pics are sorta accurate. Complexion isn't that great. She does suck a good dick. Don't do bb so I didn't ask. My guess is that it's allowed. She will get right down to business, no messing around with dinner. I wouldn't repeat, but YMMV.

[Mcsylv]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...f-705f127062da

Hot pics but just a scammer. Did start with setting up a date before asking if I was interested in content. When I asked them to send a verification pic holding up 3 fingers, they blocked my number.

[Arty33]

Kudos to you for putting in the work. I do reach out to a lot of them as well, but willing to meet only very few, for two reasons. First, is time & money spent on meets, even if only coffee, still takes time to get ready / drive. Second, I don't trust myself not to fall for fucking even ugly chicks and then overpaying them, little head indeed likes variety and so cannot be trusted. I try to hold out until I can find the chicks that I really like as keepers. My goal is to find at least 1 or 2 every time I up membership, and usually get at least 1 that I can see for a few months. Got two college girls on rotation now, looking to add one and drop one this time before membership expires.

No doubt it's hard work. I'll usually send out. Few hundred messages (templates that I'll tweak to the profile) each time I re-up my account. After weeding out scammed, fakes, cash for meet, and picture sellers, I'll probably end up on about 20-30 coffee / drink dates and an occasional lunch / dinner date if I think they are promising. Of those numbers. I'll end up with about 5-10 FC sessions, and then have about 2-3 that I'll add into rotation to replace ladies that get dropped or end up disappearing for various reasons.

Sometimes I'll be pickier than others, but in all honesty, if the allowance is low enough, sometimes I'll just hit it for variety. Even if it is a 5/6. Definitely won't keep a 5/6 in rotation, but the little head likes variety, even if it won't be a repeat.

[ProCatHunter]

I don't know man, I am having to deal with too much crap to find one gem out there, 90% of those responding are scammers, fakes, cash for meet, pictures sellers, or some variety of that, then there is the fugly chicks those are real that need to pay me to fuck them. Yesterday I walked off on one who was willing to fuck for nearly free, because she was damn 6/7 range and on something. I hope you're right about the college loan cancellations will bring out the more stable and hot chicks out. As of now, the pickings are slim.

No doubt it's hard work. I'll usually send out. Few hundred messages (templates that I'll tweak to the profile) each time I re-up my account. After weeding out scammed, fakes, cash for meet, and picture sellers, I'll probably end up on about 20-30 coffee / drink dates and an occasional lunch / dinner date if I think they are promising. Of those numbers. I'll end up with about 5-10 FC sessions, and then have about 2-3 that I'll add into rotation to replace ladies that get dropped or end up disappearing for various reasons.

Sometimes I'll be pickier than others, but in all honesty, if the allowance is low enough, sometimes I'll just hit it for variety. Even if it is a 5/6. Definitely won't keep a 5/6 in rotation, but the little head likes variety, even if it won't be a repeat.

[Bellissimo]

Repeats the exact same words for every iteration of a texting interaction.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...6-54a0071c190c

[The Curve]

I've also chatted with Yogi in the City a few times over the years. We always start off friendly and then she seems to get offended by the littlest things. Seems to have this attitude almost as if she's above the rest of us on that website. She used to have on her profile this line about "they're real and they're spectacular" or something along those lines, obviously referring to her huge tits. So any time I'd ask a question about sex or "having some adult fun" she'd get offended. As if how dare I refer to the possibility of us being intimate. So whatever, perhaps it's just personality wise her and I weren't a good fit, so at this point I've stopped trying. But I'd be lying if I said my SA bucket list didn't include getting to see those puppies up close and personal in all their glory. And She's got a huge case of GPS syndrome to boot. Expects to be wined and dined and treated like a queen.

Met up with her a couple years ago. She needed a platonic first meet then green light for the bedroom. Her tits were large and soft, just amazing. Sex was robotic unfortunately so did not repeat.