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[Mgtow Sea]

Based on your username, I'm going to guess you may be in the wrong place. Let me help you:

https://www.goingyourownway.com/

Best of luck.

My handle is based on my frustration. I know that real life courtship has always been hard. But, it's getting so ridiculous, just to what degree you have to play your cards right, just to find an honest good relationship. If I keep on getting catfished on these supposed reputable dating sites, that's pushing me towards Mgtow.

[Mgtow Sea]

Where there threats in those PMs? I only ask because I didn't read that far into them. Once I realize a message or post is from a Rex alt I just put it on the ignore list or delete it without reading it fully. Dude seriously needs a hobby, and I mean a real hobby. Maybe he could try custom painting hot wheel cars, I've recently heard that there's money in that.

If it's an alt, how do you know that it's Honestones or somebody else?

[ScotchYoke]

I'm on a popular legit dating site. I don't know if this is a cultural thing that I need to be sensitive about. So, this girl from Thailand reaches out me. We chat, do a lot of back and forth, then she later drops the bomb on me, that she has a boyfriend! I know that women sometimes get on the site free, or for a very low cost, since there are so many more men on dating sites, than women. So I followed the expert advice, and ignored her PMs for about 5 weeks. Now, she's constantly trying to ask me questions, and get me to answer questions. Like, she said she's taking a trip to New York. Just the other day, she asked me what qualities my future wife must have. She also asked how my family feels about me marrying a Southeast Asian woman. Why would a woman spend actual money, to just meet Friends, if she wasn't serious about finding a husband on that popular site.

Based on your username, I'm going to guess you may be in the wrong place. Let me help you:

https://www.goingyourownway.com/

Best of luck.

[Mgtow Sea]

I'm going to go out on a limb and say we are not the correct audience to help you answer this question.

I disagree. I think this is a good place to find people who can weigh in. Even if people here rarely if ever have used a legit dating site to look for a wife or long term relationship, you have experience with relationships. This woman said she's 40, as says her profile. She told me, on her own accord, that she met a Korean boyfriend who is now 35, back when she was 27 and he was 22, when they were taking some classes at a college together in California. She said she wants to marry him, but he never popped the question. I just don't get it sometimes, how this courtship world works. I'm not talking about the sex industry, where some providers are married in real life. I'm talking about, why an openly attached woman pays money to be on legit dating sites. It isn't cheap. Memberships cost something like 40-50 dollars a month to be on. I don't think it costs less for women, than men, although I heard that because these sites need more women, they are offered more discount packages.

The other courtship matter that gets me, is that I wish that both sexes can be more straight with each other. If a guy is interested in a girl, as soon as he shows any interest in her, he puts himself in position to be ghosted. If a girl shows interest in me, and I like her back, if I show her that I'm also interested, I, and most guys in the same position, gets ghosted. It's like, as guys, we just have to put on this act, as if we couldn't care less about her, and that of all things will keep her interest alive.

I can't be the only guy who has been reached out to by girls on legit dating sites, only to have her drop the I have a boyfriend bomb after a few back and forth messages. I'm not going to be this Thai girl's husband, fine. But, why does she keep asking me questions, like my life goals, and the type of girl I want to marry? I am only holding out hope, that she wants to set me up with one of her girlfriends, but even that's a scary proposition. Guys who want legit dating and courtship, it seems to be so discouraging and demoralizing.

[AussieFury]

I'm on a popular legit dating site. I don't know if this is a cultural thing that I need to be sensitive about. So, this girl from Thailand reaches out me. We chat, do a lot of back and forth, then she later drops the bomb on me, that she has a boyfriend! I know that women sometimes get on the site free, or for a very low cost, since there are so many more men on dating sites, than women. So I followed the expert advice, and ignored her PMs for about 5 weeks. Now, she's constantly trying to ask me questions, and get me to answer questions. Like, she said she's taking a trip to New York. Just the other day, she asked me what qualities my future wife must have. She also asked how my family feels about me marrying a Southeast Asian woman. Why would a woman spend actual money, to just meet Friends, if she wasn't serious about finding a husband on that popular site.

I'm going to go out on a limb and say we are not the correct audience to help you answer this question.

[Mgtow Sea]

I'm on a popular legit dating site. I don't know if this is a cultural thing that I need to be sensitive about. So, this girl from Thailand reaches out me. We chat, do a lot of back and forth, then she later drops the bomb on me, that she has a boyfriend! I know that women sometimes get on the site free, or for a very low cost, since there are so many more men on dating sites, than women. So I followed the expert advice, and ignored her PMs for about 5 weeks. Now, she's constantly trying to ask me questions, and get me to answer questions. Like, she said she's taking a trip to New York. Just the other day, she asked me what qualities my future wife must have. She also asked how my family feels about me marrying a Southeast Asian woman. Why would a woman spend actual money, to just meet Friends, if she wasn't serious about finding a husband on that popular site.

[DrtyHarry]

This. Exactly this. Except I got two of them.

Well that is because you are special and he loves you more than the rest of us. .

[Rodgazina]

Dude. Are you back? You seem more disturbed and crazy than ever. Why send me threatning emails? I am well aware about how hurt you are and that no one loves you. So cut out the PMs full of crying and rants and then turning to phrases like "Watch out" and "be careful". Basically I do not message you, read or respond to your posts (from the 1000 different accounts you have created here) - or even indulge you. So why bother with the threatening emails? Were you not loved as a child? Do you want someone to hug you and make you feel better?

This fucking dipshit messaged me some long winded rant I didn't read either, there was some other random account that sent me another two PMs also but deleted those without responding. Its weird how actual contributors get banned and manage to not be able to come back, but this fucking clown can make 1000 new alts and continue to clutter the forum with their retarded psychobabble and can't be contained.

[AussieFury]

I got one, read the first sentence and deleted. I don't have patience for bullshit.

This. Exactly this. Except I got two of them.

[Michael1967]

Dude. Are you back? You seem more disturbed and crazy than ever. Why send me threatning emails? I am well aware about how hurt you are and that no one loves you. So cut out the PMs full of crying and rants and then turning to phrases like "Watch out" and "be careful". Basically I do not message you, read or respond to your posts (from the 1000 different accounts you have created here) - or even indulge you. So why bother with the threatening emails? Were you not loved as a child? Do you want someone to hug you and make you feel better?

I got one, read the first sentence and deleted. I don't have patience for bullshit.

[Camhole]

Dude. Are you back? You seem more disturbed and crazy than ever. Why send me threatning emails? I am well aware about how hurt you are and that no one loves you. So cut out the PMs full of crying and rants and then turning to phrases like "Watch out" and "be careful". Basically I do not message you, read or respond to your posts (from the 1000 different accounts you have created here) - or even indulge you. So why bother with the threatening emails? Were you not loved as a child? Do you want someone to hug you and make you feel better?

Where there threats in those PMs? I only ask because I didn't read that far into them. Once I realize a message or post is from a Rex alt I just put it on the ignore list or delete it without reading it fully. Dude seriously needs a hobby, and I mean a real hobby. Maybe he could try custom painting hot wheel cars, I've recently heard that there's money in that.

[DrtyHarry]

Dude. Are you back? You seem more disturbed and crazy than ever. Why send me threatning emails? I am well aware about how hurt you are and that no one loves you. So cut out the PMs full of crying and rants and then turning to phrases like "Watch out" and "be careful". Basically I do not message you, read or respond to your posts (from the 1000 different accounts you have created here) - or even indulge you. So why bother with the threatening emails? Were you not loved as a child? Do you want someone to hug you and make you feel better?

[GangBangLeader]

I saw Princess Peach on 8/2. Had a great time. She saw a post that was made on this site at or about the time I saw her and decided I made the post. Post was not from me. As is her right, she took great exception to the post. I will not name the poster for their protection. Because she didn't like the post, yesterday she decided she would try and extort me. She said I know your name and where you live. She demanded that I deposit a $1,000 in her bitcoin account or she would be knocking on my door. I ignored the text and she texted back making more threats. I marked the text as spam and muted it. I figured that would be it. I figured better not to get into a back and forth with her.

This morning I see another text from a different phone number with more threats. This text had a short video clip of me at our encounter. I don't know if she recorded the entire thing or just part of it. I went onto the other site and saw that she had sent me a PM, telling me to look at my phone. I sent a PM back saying I'm not the poster and if she didn't stop, the police would be notified. I notified the admins of the other site. They said sorry not much we can do.

Beware, she does record you and will try and extort you. Best to move on if you get the urge to see her.

Here is a screenshot of the official alert.

[Sierra566]

I saw Princess Peach on 8/2. Had a great time. She saw a post that was made on this site at or about the time I saw her and decided I made the post. Post was not from me. As is her right, she took great exception to the post. I will not name the poster for their protection. Because she didn't like the post, yesterday she decided she would try and extort me. She said I know your name and where you live. She demanded that I deposit a $1,000 in her bitcoin account or she would be knocking on my door. I ignored the text and she texted back making more threats. I marked the text as spam and muted it. I figured that would be it. I figured better not to get into a back and forth with her.

This morning I see another text from a different phone number with more threats. This text had a short video clip of me at our encounter. I don't know if she recorded the entire thing or just part of it. I went onto the other site and saw that she had sent me a PM, telling me to look at my phone. I sent a PM back saying I'm not the poster and if she didn't stop, the police would be notified. I notified the admins of the other site. They said sorry not much we can do.

Beware, she does record you and will try and extort you. Best to move on if you get the urge to see her.

[Street Troller]

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Greetings Everyone,

Street Troller posted that he/she will no longer be participating in the forum.

Pursuant to Forum Policy, I have deleted this resignation post and retired his/her membership.

Thanks,

A2