Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[FrmLurker]

Time waster. 2 times all goes well till day of meet, then she disappears:

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...1-7772e2659600

[HornyBum85]

I've said this a couple of times on this thread. The majority of what is being called a SB / SD relationship is nothing more than glorified prostitution. Selling pussy, no matter how often or what your circumstances are, qualifies you as a prostitute. The minute they agree to PPM, that's an escort. Just because these girls don't have the same mileage or are not on drugs, they are still accepting money for sex and that is the very definition of an escort.

Having said that, the true SB / SD relationship is not a PPM. It's when a younger woman who is need of help or wants extra money for going out, getting her hair or nails done, paying bills, etc. And in return she offers her time and affections to an older man. The older man also helps her by giving life advice as he's been there done that. The expectation of sex every time you meet is not part of the deal. Just like a boyfriend / girlfriend relationship, you go out and have fun but it doesn't always end in sex. Just like the SB shouldn't expect to cash out every time she sees her daddy. You call me, when you need help making your rent, getting your car fixed, you want a new outfit, you want your nails done, you need some food in the fridge.

These young girls today don't have a clue of how to be a SB and for that matter, a lot of dudes don't know how to be a SD.

My two cents.

EXACTLY! You said it far better than I did but that was my point (just did not word things so well).

[Member #6771]

Which one of you guys has been giving her $600. That's what's she's asking now. Dang!

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...dWlkZS5ubC8%3D

[Bruco]

Sorry bud but this sort of wreaks of delusion. I'll give you that there are plenty of escorts that are as you describe, but for every one of those trashy substance addled loons, there's another girl who has her shit together, isn't high, and just wants to make money doing what women have been doing since money came into existence.

There's nothing really wrong with either of these. But make no mistake, if you're fucking for money, you're an escort. Bottom line. And hey, that's okay. All of us here are obviously cool with that.

Not sure why some of this board get so fired up on this topic. The bottom line is that these women see it differently and that's all that matters. Can't tell you how many women I've hooked up with from seeking who made it adamant that that they are NOT an escort. Call it denial but whatever, being a sugar baby is socially acceptable, being an escort, less so. So let's just enjoy the fact that this distinction exists, because it creates a whole lot of additional options of women with other jobs that just want a little extra spending money.

[Masiha1980]

I think you're spot on with your analysis. Curious about how they're identifying you if you changed "everything. " There must be something we're overlooking. Did you use the same old card or a different card?

Same name on the card and address must have flagged it from their database. Same thing happened to their sister companies like whatsyourprice. Every time I went to pay to be a paid member even I used everything different. It immediately blocked me.

[GodzB]

Good morning!

This is indeed a very fair question. One that will likely be debated until the end of time!

And I never shy away from a question, especially when it is a really good question (like your's).

So, here goes:

1. It is a matter of perspective (I will use that word here).

2. Because of #1, we might simply disagree (and that is okay).

3. An Escort is typically (but not exclusively) a lady who suffers from substance abuse, lives out of a motel, sees 10 - 15 guys a day, has a different idea as to time, has no problem saying she sells her pussy for money, has a controlling boyfriend / handler / pimp, does not have a car, does not have formal education, does not have an exit strategy.

Now, my assesment is a bit harsh. I truly mean no disrespect to any of the providers who are escorts. But, I don't think that you all will disagree with my assessment. At least not in spirit.

A Sugar Baby. At least a genuine Sugar Baby. Is typically a college student, lives on campus, is doing this for spending cash (for the nice things that she would like to have), has a car, has no substance abuse issues, is physically fit, has an exit strategy, and does not consider what she is doing as "selling her pussy for money".

And that last one is key.

That is the major difference. At least, in my humble opinion.

Sorry bud but this sort of wreaks of delusion. I'll give you that there are plenty of escorts that are as you describe, but for every one of those trashy substance addled loons, there's another girl who has her shit together, isn't high, and just wants to make money doing what women have been doing since money came into existence.

There's nothing really wrong with either of these. But make no mistake, if you're fucking for money, you're an escort. Bottom line. And hey, that's okay. All of us here are obviously cool with that.

[TheMechanik365]

Good morning!

This is indeed a very fair question. One that will likely be debated until the end of time!

And I never shy away from a question, especially when it is a really good question (like your's).

So, here goes:

1. It is a matter of perspective (I will use that word here).

2. Because of #1, we might simply disagree (and that is okay).

3. An Escort is typically (but not exclusively) a lady who suffers from substance abuse, lives out of a motel, sees 10 - 15 guys a day, has a different idea as to time, has no problem saying she sells her pussy for money, has a controlling boyfriend / handler / pimp, does not have a car, does not have formal education, does not have an exit strategy.

Now, my assesment is a bit harsh. I truly mean no disrespect to any of the providers who are escorts. But, I don't think that you all will disagree with my assessment. At least not in spirit..

I've said this a couple of times on this thread. The majority of what is being called a SB / SD relationship is nothing more than glorified prostitution. Selling pussy, no matter how often or what your circumstances are, qualifies you as a prostitute. The minute they agree to PPM, that's an escort. Just because these girls don't have the same mileage or are not on drugs, they are still accepting money for sex and that is the very definition of an escort.

Having said that, the true SB / SD relationship is not a PPM. It's when a younger woman who is need of help or wants extra money for going out, getting her hair or nails done, paying bills, etc. And in return she offers her time and affections to an older man. The older man also helps her by giving life advice as he's been there done that. The expectation of sex every time you meet is not part of the deal. Just like a boyfriend / girlfriend relationship, you go out and have fun but it doesn't always end in sex. Just like the SB shouldn't expect to cash out every time she sees her daddy. You call me, when you need help making your rent, getting your car fixed, you want a new outfit, you want your nails done, you need some food in the fridge.

These young girls today don't have a clue of how to be a SB and for that matter, a lot of dudes don't know how to be a SD.

My two cents.

[CuriousGeor]

3. An Escort is typically (but not exclusively) a lady who suffers from substance abuse, lives out of a motel, sees 10 - 15 guys a day, has a different idea as to time, has no problem saying she sells her pussy for money, has a controlling boyfriend / handler / pimp, does not have a car, does not have formal education, does not have an exit strategy.

Now, my assesment is a bit harsh. I truly mean no disrespect to any of the providers who are escorts. But, I don't think that you all will disagree with my assessment. At least not in spirit.

This makes me really question your judgement, are you not aware that escorts exist outside of SkipTheGames and MegaPersonals? Tryst, Eros, Models-world, etc are all full of girls that are decidedly escorts and also do not have a single one of the attributes you mentioned above. They just also happen to charge more than $120 for a half hour.

Man, this site is wild, sometimes you'd never know that there's a huge population of working girls that aren't also addicts if you just pay attention to the forums here.

[Bryant66]

Good morning!

This is indeed a very fair question. One that will likely be debated until the end of time!

And I never shy away from a question, especially when it is a really good question (like your's).

So, here goes:

1. It is a matter of perspective (I will use that word here).

2. Because of #1, we might simply disagree (and that is okay).

3. An Escort is typically (but not exclusively) a lady who suffers from substance abuse, lives out of a motel, sees 10 - 15 guys a day, has a different idea as to time, has no problem saying she sells her pussy for money, has a controlling boyfriend / handler / pimp, does not have a car, does not have formal education, does not have an exit strategy.

Now, my assesment is a bit harsh. I truly mean no disrespect to any of the providers who are escorts. But, I don't think that you all will disagree with my assessment. At least not in spirit.

A Sugar Baby. At least a genuine Sugar Baby. Is typically a college student, lives on campus, is doing this for spending cash (for the nice things that she would like to have), has a car, has no substance abuse issues, is physically fit, has an exit strategy, and does not consider what she is doing as "selling her pussy for money".

And that last one is key.

That is the major difference. At least, in my humble opinion.

I think this is a huge generalization, in my experience the character of ladies in the business run a gamut from elite courtesan to homeless streetwalker there just is no one size fits all definition.

[HornyBum85]

Not to be argumentative but what is the difference. I get they aren't 1 for 1 but it's pretty much the same in my eyes.

Good morning!

This is indeed a very fair question. One that will likely be debated until the end of time!

And I never shy away from a question, especially when it is a really good question (like your's).

So, here goes:

1. It is a matter of perspective (I will use that word here).

2. Because of #1, we might simply disagree (and that is okay).

3. An Escort is typically (but not exclusively) a lady who suffers from substance abuse, lives out of a motel, sees 10 - 15 guys a day, has a different idea as to time, has no problem saying she sells her pussy for money, has a controlling boyfriend / handler / pimp, does not have a car, does not have formal education, does not have an exit strategy.

Now, my assesment is a bit harsh. I truly mean no disrespect to any of the providers who are escorts. But, I don't think that you all will disagree with my assessment. At least not in spirit.

A Sugar Baby. At least a genuine Sugar Baby. Is typically a college student, lives on campus, is doing this for spending cash (for the nice things that she would like to have), has a car, has no substance abuse issues, is physically fit, has an exit strategy, and does not consider what she is doing as "selling her pussy for money".

And that last one is key.

That is the major difference. At least, in my humble opinion.

[HornyBum85]

Good evening, gentlemen!

I have a friend who is interested in starting to Sugar. She is Latina (Mexican and Cuban), 5'9", 22 years old, and is a college student in Charlotte.

She has never done anything like this before. She just wants a better life RIGHT NOW.

And to answer your collective question, because I know you are all asking: NO! She and I have never hooked up (and we never will. She is a friend).

She is def DTF.

PM me if you are interested in an awesome Sugar Baby (and make no mistake. She is not an escort. There is a huge difference).

Good morning you magnificent bastards!

Extra kudos for those of you that can quote the origin of the "magnificent bastards" line. Not from a movie!

As I am sure you all can understand, I have been overwhelmed by the positive response from you all.

She is brand new. And I do not want to overwhelm her. So. This is an update to what I am doing:

1. Be very clear that I am simply playing "Cupid" for a friend who is interested in The Sugar Bowl.

2. Be very clear that I have known her for awhile now and that we are friends.

3. I have given her number to seven guys. She is going to work through that "Round".

4. If you received her number from me before 7:30 AM today then you are in that round.

5. If you reached out to me after 7:30 am today then I am sorry, but we need to give her a couple of days to prpcess those seven guys.

6. She is a college student and never done this before. She is not an ESCORT. Please treat her as such.

7. For those guys who reached out this morning after 7 AM please understand.

Thanks, gentlemen!

[TheMechanik365]

Anyone met this girl any reviews?

Thanks.

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...037&viewfull=1#post6074037.

[Hal1957]

I think you're spot on with your analysis. Curious about how they're identifying you if you changed "everything. " There must be something we're overlooking. Did you use the same old card or a different card?

So it probably happened to few of us where a fuc*ed up rude ***** reported you because you low balled her with an counter offer that she did not like or you stood her up by ghosting on her since you found other options.

Whatever the case is. But we got screwed by these f'd up girls because we are blocked from the site.

Same happened to me about a year ago. I gave up and tried searching on other sites but they were blocked also for me. Seems they are all sister companies.

And just to remind you someone suggested this here so I even changed all the IP, computer and all that crap but every time I went to pay with my card. It will be blocked right away.

Anyways months of frustration later. Here is a solution that worked with 15 min's for me.

Email customer service and write them a simple apology letter and tell them it was a mistake that will not happen again.

They will ask you to go to the site seeking.com/ terms and read all the terms. After reading email them stating you agree to all the terms and conditions and will abide the rules.

Once you do above. They will reactivate your account with minutes. Learn from your experience and read below the don't do it points.

Please note this and don't ignore: these are my lessons learned.

1. Do not -absolutely do not discuss an money on their emails and site. Take it offline if someone will ask you for ppm.

[CltAddict]

Good evening, gentlemen!

I have a friend who is interested in starting to Sugar. She is Latina (Mexican and Cuban), 5'9", 22 years old, and is a college student in Charlotte.

She has never done anything like this before. She just wants a better life RIGHT NOW.

And to answer your collective question, because I know you are all asking: NO! She and I have never hooked up (and we never will. She is a friend).

She is def DTF.

PM me if you are interested in an awesome Sugar Baby (and make no mistake. She is not an escort. There is a huge difference).

Not to be argumentative but what is the difference. I get they aren't 1 for 1 but it's pretty much the same in my eyes.

[HornyBum85]

Good evening, gentlemen!

I have a friend who is interested in starting to Sugar. She is Latina (Mexican and Cuban), 5'9", 22 years old, and is a college student in Charlotte.

She has never done anything like this before. She just wants a better life RIGHT NOW.

And to answer your collective question, because I know you are all asking: NO! She and I have never hooked up (and we never will. She is a friend).

She is def DTF.

PM me if you are interested in an awesome Sugar Baby (and make no mistake. She is not an escort. There is a huge difference).