MSP Sugar

[Ryan33]

I feel like communicating with sugar babies via text is difficult, and a big reason that things go off the rails before an in-person meeting takes place.

The two main communication issues I face are slow replies to my texts, and misunderstanding something we are discussing. For the former, I sometimes act upset, and for the latter, it's really hard to sort out a misunderstanding via text.

I guess I should start suggesting phone calls, yet I suspect most sugar babies prefer to text.

Seeking has a video chat feature. But nobody wants to be recorded, right?

I recently met a sugar baby twice and things seemed to be going well. But then she ghosted me in the middle of a conversation. I was drunk at the time and called her out for not finishing the conversation. That was the beginning of the end. I think she is bi-polar tbh.

In a way you have answered your own question from a few days ago regarding mistreatment. Since knowledge is power when I meet someone new from Seeking I casually ask questions about their previous experiences and what they like and what they didn't like. I may also ask what prompted them to respond to my message, was it something about the message or something they like in my profile. I would also ask if there was anything that might be red flag in what they saw from me. Over the years this has greatly helped me improved my success rate by updating my profile and my how I approached the woman.

A couple things that are almost universal in their response is they don't like it when guys are controlling and act like they own them or are disrespectful. These may not be the biggest issues, but they are both certainly in the top 5 of dislikes from the woman's prospective and you hit on both in your post.

First, getting upset because you don't get a quick response is seen as controlling and big red flag from their perspective. For example they have personal lives and could be out with friends or family and not in a position to respond. If you are paying several thousand dollars per month for an exclusive arrangement I think you might have more of an argument. But in a PPM arrangement they don't feel like they need to stop what they are doing and response to a guys text immediately and I don't necessarily disagree with them.

Obviously, if you are trying to schedule something that day or the next and time is of the essence then expecting a quick reply certainly understandable.

As for the other issue, there is no kind way to say it but drunk texting is seen as about as disrespectful as anything you could do. Granted there are certain arrangements where it can be playfully done, but that is not the norm. If you have an arrangement you would like to end it quickly, ghosting or drunk texting are two of the most effective ways.

This post is not meant to be critical or judgmental as I don't don't know anything about your specific situations, I am just sharing what I have learned from talking with many different women I have met through Seeking.

[Ryan33]

It is a ruthless world.

If you do not spend time vetting, doing your homework, watching your back: You are going to be mistreated.

After being in the sugaring world for years. I have an amazing vetting process. Sadly in the past 4 months, I have not been on any meets, because no girl has passed my vetting process.

Just last week, I got an "Inflation lecture"= She is raising her prices due to inflation, from one of my regulars. She started as a SB, now turned into a Pros money hound.

That said, I have sugared in different regions of Florida. And agree, the Sugar Pool is much bigger in FL. But, same rules apply. If you do not Vet, you will Fret.

Do you have any tips you would be willing to share on your vetting that go beyond the obvious? Might be helpful to less experienced people who read this. I posted some a while back in post #749, not sure everyone agrees with those but it has worked for me.

[Member #6100]

This is a big reason I haven't resubscribed. I don't need to pay to go on platonic dates which also seems to be a popular demand now on SA.

I feel like communicating with sugar babies via text is difficult, and a big reason that things go off the rails before an in-person meeting takes place.

The two main communication issues I face are slow replies to my texts, and misunderstanding something we are discussing. For the former, I sometimes act upset, and for the latter, it's really hard to sort out a misunderstanding via text.

I guess I should start suggesting phone calls, yet I suspect most sugar babies prefer to text.

Seeking has a video chat feature. But nobody wants to be recorded, right?

I recently met a sugar baby twice and things seemed to be going well. But then she ghosted me in the middle of a conversation. I was drunk at the time and called her out for not finishing the conversation. That was the beginning of the end. I think she is bi-polar tbh.

[Ezra007]

This is a big reason I haven't resubscribed. I don't need to pay to go on platonic dates which also seems to be a popular demand now on SA.

It is a ruthless world.

If you do not spend time vetting, doing your homework, watching your back: You are going to be mistreated.

After being in the sugaring world for years. I have an amazing vetting process. Sadly in the past 4 months, I have not been on any meets, because no girl has passed my vetting process.

Just last week, I got an "Inflation lecture"= She is raising her prices due to inflation, from one of my regulars. She started as a SB, now turned into a Pros money hound.

That said, I have sugared in different regions of Florida. And agree, the Sugar Pool is much bigger in FL. But, same rules apply. If you do not Vet, you will Fret.

[Happtrav]

FlirtyKitten: A curvy 20 yr old from Owatonna. Uses sentences like " I charge extra for that". Pass for me.

Redchick36: A 35 yr old headcase from Owatonna? Here is an exact convo: Let us talk terms before we meet. What is your allowance amount? If I approve, then I will agree to meet.

Bunnie: This is an interesting one. She sent me pictures, but said that she charges for sending explicit ones. Agreed to meet, but did not know when she was available to meet. And then mentioned she charges $100 an hour. Another hard pass.

[Happtrav]

It is a ruthless world.

If you do not spend time vetting, doing your homework, watching your back: You are going to be mistreated.

After being in the sugaring world for years. I have an amazing vetting process. Sadly in the past 4 months, I have not been on any meets, because no girl has passed my vetting process.

Just last week, I got an "Inflation lecture"= She is raising her prices due to inflation, from one of my regulars. She started as a SB, now turned into a Pros money hound.

That said, I have sugared in different regions of Florida. And agree, the Sugar Pool is much bigger in FL. But, same rules apply. If you do not Vet, you will Fret.

Unfortunately this is very true, that is why I am careful who I share my best information with and don't post specific information about the good ones here.

For example, this week I meet a woman who moved to Minneapolis area about a year ago. She had several long term arrangements in Florida before she moved back. She was 24 yrs old, a nice girl, attractive, good conversation offered multiple rounds and let me finish inside her. Overall, very solid experience that I am guessing most who read this forum would love as it was no drama and good sex with a attractive young woman. But no way in hell am I ever going to post her profile information or even blindly share it through a DM for exactly that reason. I wish things were different and I could share more information as I have in the past but there are just too many assholes who read this and do shit like that while contributing nothing back.

She also had an interesting perspective on her overall experience with the men in the Minneapolis are and it is not favorable. It doesn't have anything to do with money, but the way majority of men in the Minneapolis area who are on Seeking act and they way they treat the woman compared to when she was in Florida. I know we complain about many of the woman and some of the things they do, which is usually justified, but some of it my be in response to they way they have treated.

Just a thought and would be interested to hear other opinions.

[PenilePerson15]

Did she give some examples of the poor treatment she has experienced in Minnesota?

Not necessarily treatment related, but I've had several instances where escorts and sugars mention poor hygiene in others as major turnoffs.

Guys with shit stains in their underwear, body odor, dirty clothes, bad breath, unkempt private areas, and the like. Not sure if this is a regional thing (hooray for us if it is!) but has definitely been a theme I've heard.

[Member #6100]

Unfortunately this is very true, that is why I am careful who I share my best information with and don't post specific information about the good ones here.

For example, this week I meet a woman who moved to Minneapolis area about a year ago. She had several long term arrangements in Florida before she moved back. She was 24 yrs old, a nice girl, attractive, good conversation offered multiple rounds and let me finish inside her. Overall, very solid experience that I am guessing most who read this forum would love as it was no drama and good sex with a attractive young woman. But no way in hell am I ever going to post her profile information or even blindly share it through a DM for exactly that reason. I wish things were different and I could share more information as I have in the past but there are just too many assholes who read this and do shit like that while contributing nothing back.

She also had an interesting perspective on her overall experience with the men in the Minneapolis are and it is not favorable. It doesn't have anything to do with money, but the way majority of men in the Minneapolis area who are on Seeking act and they way they treat the woman compared to when she was in Florida. I know we complain about many of the woman and some of the things they do, which is usually justified, but some of it my be in response to they way they have treated.

Just a thought and would be interested to hear other opinions.

Did she give some examples of the poor treatment she has experienced in Minnesota?

[Ryan33]

I will say this, guys who are on SA do read this forum and harass women who are discussed here. Some have taken my reviews and posted it on their chat.

Unfortunately this is very true, that is why I am careful who I share my best information with and don't post specific information about the good ones here.

For example, this week I meet a woman who moved to Minneapolis area about a year ago. She had several long term arrangements in Florida before she moved back. She was 24 yrs old, a nice girl, attractive, good conversation offered multiple rounds and let me finish inside her. Overall, very solid experience that I am guessing most who read this forum would love as it was no drama and good sex with a attractive young woman. But no way in hell am I ever going to post her profile information or even blindly share it through a DM for exactly that reason. I wish things were different and I could share more information as I have in the past but there are just too many assholes who read this and do shit like that while contributing nothing back.

She also had an interesting perspective on her overall experience with the men in the Minneapolis are and it is not favorable. It doesn't have anything to do with money, but the way majority of men in the Minneapolis area who are on Seeking act and they way they treat the woman compared to when she was in Florida. I know we complain about many of the woman and some of the things they do, which is usually justified, but some of it my be in response to they way they have treated.

Just a thought and would be interested to hear other opinions.

[Nino Pacino]

Same thing happened to me couple weeks ago, she texted around noon-1 pm saying come fill me up, goes dark for 15 minutes, and then replies with "never mind I'm a little full of cum at the moment!

There must be dudes parked on her street waiting for her text, like a lottery ticket..

Yep, pretty much. And going bare becomes more and more risky.

[Ezra007]

I had a chance with CreamyGal before she vanished. She wanted same day and I couldn't--never could after that. With Natty she seemed cool with a date 2 days out but ghosted me day of so maybe her pussy is on ice after her 1st few days going at it from her public post. I had the feeling when I was texting her that she may only be really interested on a same day setup. I'm sure her phone was blown up this week LOL but that just puts her in the flake category.

I will say this, guys who are on SA do read this forum and harass women who are discussed here. Some have taken my reviews and posted it on their chat.

I have been texting Natty / OnthDL / NeverEnough? Whatever since June 2021.

She always makes a date and then disappears.

Sounds so much like CreamyGal. Oh well, glad some actually had fun with her.

[PenilePerson15]

She stood my buddy up today, and while texting with me stopped replying when it came time to set up a date and time to meet.

Same thing happened to me couple weeks ago, she texted around noon-1 pm saying come fill me up, goes dark for 15 minutes, and then replies with "never mind I'm a little full of cum at the moment!

There must be dudes parked on her street waiting for her text, like a lottery ticket 😂.

[HooliganMike23]

I have been texting Natty / OnthDL / NeverEnough? Whatever since June 2021.

She always makes a date and then disappears.

Sounds so much like CreamyGal. Oh well, glad some actually had fun with her.

She stood my buddy up today, and while texting with me stopped replying when it came time to set up a date and time to meet.

[Happtrav]

Seeking SN: Iwantabellyring.

She has a phone number with 541 area code. Only offers various car date options.

Will not meet in public, and rants off how I will force her to do things against her will, when I suggested meeting for coffee / lunch / dinner.

She sent me a few hot pictures and videos. But her crazy rants are a huge Turn Off.

Seniors DM me for her phone number, if you want to take a ride on this crazy train.

[Happtrav]

I have been texting Natty / OnthDL / NeverEnough? Whatever since June 2021.

She always makes a date and then disappears.

Sounds so much like CreamyGal. Oh well, glad some actually had fun with her.

Yeah, I ended up seeing her and can confirm too. She's hot and loves to get creampied. I guess she was having some issue with her phone if you've been having trouble getting ahold of her.