"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[2me4Looking2]

I actually ended up meeting BubblesVonCuddles IRL. She's legitimately autistic and it's very noticeable when you talk to her. Almost has Luna Lovegood vibes. Very cute, and she knows it and asked for $5000 dollars for FS, plus wanted exorbitant amounts to go on dates and do nothing. I told her she was ridiculous and haven't spoken since.

She flipped with me all of a sudden and told me to repent and that I was going to burn in hell LOL. I had not brought up anything sexual or crude. I asked if there would be fucking there and she never responded again.

[Prokrasny]

New here, but loving all the useful info. Anyone have anything on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...e-9b0d17c5e270

[2me4Looking2]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...6-0aa5ae3f1395

Has anyone have any luck with this one? We been talking for a little and haven't talked about money yet. She's real we already verified. Trying to get some information before we talk about money.

I messaged with her a bit, but she wanted to use email and that has always been a big red flag for me. I don't think I've ever had a legit person use email on there. They have always turned out to be scammers. How did you verify she is real?

[SonOfABeach]

How do I see the profiles why'all are posting? It's telling me the profile isn't available and I may be blocked which isn't true because I just created this profile.

[TallGuy3000]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...5-f032f6ef9263

I had high hopes for this goof. I believe she is flooding her zone with meet and greets as she thinks she is putting men through an "Interview process". Sorry sweet cheeks, this isn't how the site operates. She sent me what appeared to be a copy and paste message on Monday, and claimed that so many men were just interested in texting instead of meeting. She then proposed a meeting, but that she didn't have any "openings" until next week. Then she hit me with this gem of a message.

"Consider this an interview process. My options are many as I'm sure are yours. When I find the connection that is right I will move forward. " Oh well. I don't know if you want to call this GPS, because we never got to any financial discussions. I think she's just an idiot.

Good luck and stay frosty.

Similar experience here. Great texts that seemed to be leading to a good point. One of her responses:

I am married. My husband and I have no secrets. We spend weekends together, usually in the company of friends that we've met through the lifestyle. He works out of town every other week. We both enjoy our time together our time with friends and our time apart. I'm very busy keeping my children on track but I love to make time during the day for delicious dining and memorable sex and of course I love to be spoiled. I will only maintain this type of relationship with one man, as long as it's working out well. If we really, really hit it off I would consider making some time for you on an evening or weekend.

Went on to say she couldn't wait to meet. Her week last week was busy, but this week would work. We settled tentatively on Thursday, and she said we'd finalize details this week. Sent her a message Tuesday reminding her we'd planned to meet this week. Then today she sends a message saying Thanks for your interest sweetheart. I've decided we're not a great match.

Maybe one of you other guys made the cut. But more than likely just a game player. And another waste of time.

[TylerDurden07]

https://members.seeking.com/messages...a-e4bedcc02ff5

Sends hot pics, then tells you she won't meet until you buy nude pics.

Told her that's not how it works.

Just a pic seller.

[HawkJock617]

As another poster advised, you want a pic or 2, but you can find a lookalike pic or block your face if you're concerned about privacy.

Yes it's pricey. If you can wait till labor day they'll likely run a $80 special for 1 month.

A lot of guys (especially the guys who post about having little to no success on the site) treat this just like they would an escort site. They just message a girl something like "how much?" Or "200 for a BJ and fuck" etc etc. If you do that, you won't have much success, and the little success you do have will likely be with the semi-pros on the site.

Treat this like a dating site (unless you're one of those assholes who sends unsolicited dick pics on Tinder. In which case you're hopeless and should just stick to tryst and Eros escorts). Read the girls bios and ask a question or two about the things in it. Get to know them. It doesn't take much to separate yourself from the 100's of guys who just act like rude entitled ass hats. After a few "get to know you" questions, ask them if you can talk more on text or snapchat (oh and setup a fake / burner snapchat account). Once you've moved them to text or snap (and NEVER talk specific arrangement details like $ or specific acts on the site. Always leave that to discussions over text message or snap), ask what they are looking for from the site. Tell them you're looking for the same, and you would love to meet up with them. Ask them if they are comfortable hosting or if you'll need to get a hotel. Once you know that, ask them if they want to meet for coffee or a drink first, or if they want to immediately start the arrangement and meet up at the hotel / their place. If they want a coffee first, take them out on a coffee date, be nice and respectful, and after an hour or so ask them if they want to talk more somewhere private. Some will immediately agree to a hotel or go back to their place, some will hesitate. If they hesitate, clarify you mean you just wanted to sit in the car and talk about arrangement details.

While in the car (or any point prior where they agree they want to proceed with the arrangement) ask them what they are looking for in regards to the arrangement. Some will immediately give you a $ figure, some will play coy and give neutral generic answers. If they give you a $ amount that's in your budget, agree and let them know you're ready to start the arrangement if they're ready to go back to their place or hotel. If they are coy, say you will start things on a pay per meet (PPM) basis and offer them whatever amount you want to offer.

Outstanding write-up. Just coming back from a 2 year break. The above is precisely what I experienced all over the world. It is a lot of work, but so worth it!!

[TonyCock113]

Careful with this one. She is a drug dealer, all over the place, and angry. I would run.

How'd you find that out?

[TylerDurden07]

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...b-4bfca9601c2b .

Nice pics, but this one has a terrible attitude and thinking to to be fake / scammer, although maybe not. I just viewed her profile and she wrote me quickly and said:

"Want company now".

Then I asked her what part of town she was in and she said:

"I can't host in Decatur can't host ever read my profile" .

There's nothing in her profile about any of that. Anyway, maybe 5% chance she is for real, so maybe someone else can get in there and check her out.

I had the same experience with her. She's rude & very impatient. Nice pics, but don't want that attitude.

[GiantBurrito]

WOW. You're not kidding about the attitude thing. She kept calling me and berating me for not understanding her garbled messages. I think she's real. I just think she's just a horrible negative person with a meth or coke habit.

She was super aggressive with me, sending a message and asking for an address to meet within 20 minutes. She made it like we were going to bang within an hour of her first message. She would send "WTF? Messages if I didn't answer in under a minute.

I replied that it was so quick that it felt like a scam, and in response she said, "Bro, if anyone is scamming here it is you. I'm reporting you."

I blocked her after that. Even if she is real, I'm not interested in the headache.

[Sgt Soros]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...5-f032f6ef9263

I had high hopes for this goof. I believe she is flooding her zone with meet and greets as she thinks she is putting men through an "Interview process". Sorry sweet cheeks, this isn't how the site operates. She sent me what appeared to be a copy and paste message on Monday, and claimed that so many men were just interested in texting instead of meeting. She then proposed a meeting, but that she didn't have any "openings" until next week. Then she hit me with this gem of a message.

"Consider this an interview process. My options are many as I'm sure are yours. When I find the connection that is right I will move forward. " Oh well. I don't know if you want to call this GPS, because we never got to any financial discussions. I think she's just an idiot.

Good luck and stay frosty.

It looks like she loves the chase. She sounds like someone recently dumped after a long relationship and is now looking for reaffirmation from a bunch of male strangers that she's still attractive. It's best to stay clear of these types as they are totally fucked up emotionally.

[Dawgins]

WOW. You're not kidding about the attitude thing. She kept calling me and berating me for not understanding her garbled messages. I think she's real. I just think she's just a horrible negative person with a meth or coke habit.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...b-4bfca9601c2b .

Nice pics, but this one has a terrible attitude and thinking to to be fake / scammer, although maybe not. I just viewed her profile and she wrote me quickly and said:

"Want company now".

Then I asked her what part of town she was in and she said:

"I can't host in Decatur can't host ever read my profile" .

There's nothing in her profile about any of that. Anyway, maybe 5% chance she is for real, so maybe someone else can get in there and check her out.

[WoodstockShane]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...5-f032f6ef9263

I had high hopes for this goof. I believe she is flooding her zone with meet and greets as she thinks she is putting men through an "Interview process". Sorry sweet cheeks, this isn't how the site operates. She sent me what appeared to be a copy and paste message on Monday, and claimed that so many men were just interested in texting instead of meeting. She then proposed a meeting, but that she didn't have any "openings" until next week. Then she hit me with this gem of a message.

"Consider this an interview process. My options are many as I'm sure are yours. When I find the connection that is right I will move forward. " Oh well. I don't know if you want to call this GPS, because we never got to any financial discussions. I think she's just an idiot.

Good luck and stay frosty.

[South215]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...5-4f9a44740f5b

This one might take the cake! I am going to try and attach the screenshot of what she said to me.

Quoted me the same thing! LOL.

[Peter Johnson]

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...b-4bfca9601c2b .

Nice pics, but this one has a terrible attitude and thinking to to be fake / scammer, although maybe not. I just viewed her profile and she wrote me quickly and said:

"Want company now".

Then I asked her what part of town she was in and she said:

"I can't host in Decatur can't host ever read my profile" .

There's nothing in her profile about any of that. Anyway, maybe 5% chance she is for real, so maybe someone else can get in there and check her out.