The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

[James808]

Can vouch for everything in this post. SB can be really good if you navigate it right.

This biggest piece of advice I can give for the site relates to their credits currency. They're stupidly overpriced, BUT there's a couple ways to save money long-term:

- Buy the cheapest credit package when you start. When you're almost out, the site will give you up to 1000 free credits if you buy more.

- Their support will throw credits at you to make you keep your account. I've gotten 2000 free credits just by pretending to ask for my account to be deleted.

- Spend credits on nothing more than unlocking messages. The secret photos are almost never worth paying what amounts to $5 for access, so just don't.

My issue with the site is it seems they take forever to return messages, even when you reply right after they message. I get they are flooded with responses, but it doesn't seem like they are as quick to reply as they are on Seeking. Just my observation.

[Hiamey]

Any info on SmartMizz. Supposed to meet for lunch. I'll appreciate any info.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...0-39f86d488867

[MilkyWy]

Any information on this one will be appreciated. She appears legit but she's asking for a deposit. Which I refused.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...2-5dce545790c8

Bro, never entertain deposit. No pussy worth deposit before they meet at FC or engage in deed.

[Svt4628]

Any of these doing BBFS?

Some will yes. As they get more miles they usually won't.

[Dragster]

Any of these doing BBFS?

[TheChosenOne91]

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...e5eb94be627dc0

Met several times over the last year at 400 ppm. Very fun sexually but her life drama will have her stand you up.

I've had tons of success on Seeking where I have girls texting me daily to meet back up and I can definitely take my pick. I'm a type of guy that like new flavor every once in a while. On Secret Benefits I've had some mild success.

On this one, I could never crack the code. What's the secret haha? I've talked to her multiple times since 2019 and she wouldn't budge lower than $600. She's definitely my type but I personally wouldn't hobby over $400 a meet.

[SmallAsianCock]

Any info on this lady will be nice.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...a-b79dc48348d1

[Biscuits1234]

As the title states, I have years of hobby experience but a newbie to this board. Surprised to see that there's not much success on SB site. It's been my goto site for the last few years and I typically have success meeting young 20 something coeds on a ppm basis. Now define success. It's like baseball imo, so I would say I'm a league leader batting. 350 or so LOL. One of the things I really like most is the verification video. I am pickier when it comes to a SB compared to a SW so this eliminates some for me. Typically, the ladies don't get dolled up to post the 5 sec video saying "let me be your secret" and you get a realistic glimpse of how they will look after the 2nd visit (they all get comfortable and start visiting in sweats and no makeup). My goto range is typically 300-400 ppm although I paid 500 once to a young Latina waitress that I recognized on the site (S. American and redheads are my weakness).

Can vouch for everything in this post. SB can be really good if you navigate it right.

This biggest piece of advice I can give for the site relates to their credits currency. They're stupidly overpriced, BUT there's a couple ways to save money long-term:

- Buy the cheapest credit package when you start. When you're almost out, the site will give you up to 1000 free credits if you buy more.

- Their support will throw credits at you to make you keep your account. I've gotten 2000 free credits just by pretending to ask for my account to be deleted.

- Spend credits on nothing more than unlocking messages. The secret photos are almost never worth paying what amounts to $5 for access, so just don't.

[AkaToneloc]

Since the owner keeps raising the price and the number of POTS keeps going down. When I started in 2015 used to communicate with many women but it has been downhill ever since.

Their price is inversely related to the the number of real POTS!

As the title states, I have years of hobby experience but a newbie to this board. Surprised to see that there's not much success on SB site. It's been my goto site for the last few years and I typically have success meeting young 20 something coeds on a ppm basis. Now define success. It's like baseball imo, so I would say I'm a league leader batting. 350 or so LOL. One of the things I really like most is the verification video. I am pickier when it comes to a SB compared to a SW so this eliminates some for me. Typically, the ladies don't get dolled up to post the 5 sec video saying "let me be your secret" and you get a realistic glimpse of how they will look after the 2nd visit (they all get comfortable and start visiting in sweats and no makeup). My goto range is typically 300-400 ppm although I paid 500 once to a young Latina waitress that I recognized on the site (S. American and redheads are my weakness).

Couple Things I Have Learned:

1. Is 500 the new 300? Often hear a starting point of 5 but more are holding firm there.

2. I actually prefer ladies / bots that reach out 1st. Respond back quick and you have better odds. It's a numbers game and I want the early at bats.

3. With that said, always expect a con or BS and do not give money before meeting. I don't mind buying lunch as I personally want to see who I'm dealing with.

4. I typically ignore the one's whose profile mentions travel, passports, arm candy or lifestyles. Definitely not what I'm looking for.

5. I do look for words like NSA, FWB, assistance, mutual and sexy. I love a lady that calls herself sexy.

6. I try not to bring up $ until meeting for lunch / coffee. If they bring it up quickly, they are either high dollar or anxious to meet. I can work with knowing that.

7. Set expectations of frequency of visits, texting, and calling before leaving the 1st visit. They often don't even follow but there's also time you will want to know, too. Believe me, there's one out there that will have you consider breaking your own rules LOL.

Here's a couple of recent ones I'm in contact with.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...2c86a2be983260

Chatted for a few days then met 400 ppm. Wouldn't budge on her ppm but was dtf from the start. Lives in Gboro but drive to my place in Raleigh.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...e5eb94be627dc0

Met several times over the last year at 400 ppm. Very fun sexually but her life drama will have her stand you up.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...5cd035a1f161cd

Just started chatting for a few days on-site. Will update.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...0cbf7543666909

Been texting off site for over week. Plans to meet for lunch in couple days, we will see.

[Ral613]

She is not for me. Heavy smoker who hot boxes right before she meets. Literally walked in and started stripping down. No connection at all and I legit said no thanks and she left.

It's been a while, but had a similar experience. She hot, but not really that into it and I don't do smokers.

[SmallAsianCock]

Any information on this one will be appreciated. She appears legit but she's asking for a deposit. Which I refused.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...2-5dce545790c8

[Svt4628]

She's real, she's fun and $300 is her usual PPM. I've been with her twice but while friendly there's still some distance so I moved on.

She is not for me. Heavy smoker who hot boxes right before she meets. Literally walked in and started stripping down. No connection at all and I legit said no thanks and she left.

[LikesGirls]

You dodged a bullet. I drove to her, she met me outside her apartment complex and got in my car with door open and demanded money upfront I refused, she wouldn't leave til I gave her money. Finally paid $50 so she would leave. She is a robber, hope karma gets her soon.

I had this happen with a different girl. I did what a cop friend told me to do: say you're going to call the cops, then do it. When she saw me starting to dial, she got up and left.

This only works if you're not wanted for anything, because if you do end up calling the cops will come and ask questions.

[LikesGirls]

https://members.seeking.com/member/04be4baa-a779-4514-ab14-d0e42e4afaba

Chatted with this one for a couple of weeks (if you want to call it chat). The night I was in town, she could. Only meet after 9:30 pm. That's not too late for me but I lined up another that could meet earlier. Ended up asking if she wanted to meet in the am around 9 at my hotel. Agreed to three $ (and she didn't put up and fight, which raises flags usually). I over slept cause I was up late with the other one but she did text the next morning to see if we were. So may be real but, as mentioned, comms are. Short and direct. Very transactionional so that, more than anything scared me off. Oh yeah, I asked for a picture that wasn't on Seeking and her reply was "nope". If she's real, I can't believe she's any fun.

She's real, she's fun and $300 is her usual PPM. I've been with her twice but while friendly there's still some distance so I moved on.

[GutterMind4]

https://members.seeking.com/member/04be4baa-a779-4514-ab14-d0e42e4afaba

Chatted with this one for a couple of weeks (if you want to call it chat). The night I was in town, she could. Only meet after 9:30 pm. That's not too late for me but I lined up another that could meet earlier. Ended up asking if she wanted to meet in the am around 9 at my hotel. Agreed to three $ (and she didn't put up and fight, which raises flags usually). I over slept cause I was up late with the other one but she did text the next morning to see if we were. So may be real but, as mentioned, comms are. Short and direct. Very transactionional so that, more than anything scared me off. Oh yeah, I asked for a picture that wasn't on Seeking and her reply was "nope". If she's real, I can't believe she's any fun.

Things I think are red flags:

Recent member date.

General state location not city.

99+ Wishlist.

1 Picture or 1 picture that hides a face, tricky because some girls might just only care to post one pic, ideally I rather see one pic and a ton of private pics.

No about me or seeking description.

Pictures that look TGTBT.

Them favoriting you first.

Pic with a blurred face could be a scammer trying to make it look like they are being cautious by having their fake picture's face blurred.

SN: Never send money before meeting, feel for that trick once even after adding someone on snap, everything checked out even pics sent to me, and I made that mistake.

Sometimes someone could be real with all of the above, but just my thoughts of red flags.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...5-e7c71c60a83d

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...d-51e83070c8ed

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...9-f89642378039

Anyone talk to the three above, never got a reply from them.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-3c63734a7c7d

Talked to her seems real lives with parents, and doesn't mind PPM to monthly allowance.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...d-c0f021137f21

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...7-69a3189dc6d0

Talked these two above a bit and then they stopped responding, seems real and just busy or overwhelmed with the site or doesn't check often.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...4-d0e42e4afaba

Talked to her in the past, I think I saw a review on here maybe even on an escort site, but once I asked if she hosted I got blocked on her other account.

Very transactional speaking.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...c-3690df6be665

I've seen this one post on either tryst / eros and a few accts on SA and WYP, any one ever met her before?

Any intel on these below, was going to message next?

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...8-cbe4a45bf59c

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...1-66eb266d346c

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...0-cdf7ae6094c5

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...2-199291766a76