Sugar Daddy Sites

[Alxm1]

I'm married too. I'm not open about it on seeking. If I give girls my number, which is linked to WhatsApp, do you all know if there's some site where they can reverse search me to find out who I am and then look me up on social media?

As most have mentioned get an internet number or a burner app. Most likely you'd want to go with a free service though. So no charges that will appear on a credit card. I use to use Google Voice which is free when used with US numbers. You might want to check that out. It allows calls and texting and works over data / wifi, VOIP.

I stopped using those services though because my burner phone is not traceable by reverse phone search engines. It's a prepaid phone and if a chic starts trippin' I just block them. My regular phone is for everything else. But my little black phone, like back in the day the little blackbook, is for the booty calls, arrangement girls, pros, ho's any girl that I don't take seriously. It's my hot fun phone.

As for email check out Protonmail. It's a secure private email service that keeps you private. And I believe it's free. Good to have for an email service for those conversations with girls that don't maybe want to text just yet and rather communicate by email at first. I actually like to get girls emails as well over phone numbers. As phones get disconnected left and right. But an email is usually forever and when that phone is disconnected. You can hit her up by email. I've restarted many a booty call and some arrangements years later by email.

[NitroHX]

Anyone seen this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...f-8dffe0695ffa

I think she's legit but flaky. I contacted her back in Feb when I lived in Vegas and looking for a SB in LA. She wanted 700 ppm and I agreed. She flaked twice in a row but still kept trying to see me. I eventually found others for 500-600 we allowed BBFS.

[FarFarAway]

I'm married too. I'm not open about it on seeking. If I give girls my number, which is linked to WhatsApp, do you all know if there's some site where they can reverse search me to find out who I am and then look me up on social media?

You need a major upgrade in operational security (opsec). You should go over to the Richmond, VA, sugar thread as well as its archive of all-time greatest posts, and spend about 3 days reading before you seriously get involved in sugaring, otherwise, you are going to get discovered toot sweet.

There is a huge amount to doing this safely you need to learn. Of course about half of guys on SA are married. I put it on my profile, I have a couple of bowl buddies who don't list it that way, but let girls know early. I don't think there is any real advantage to keeping it secret from the SB. It affects things so practically, like when you are available, etc. - you're aiming to find someone you're going to see more than once, right? I mean, how is she not going to figure this out if you can only meet during your work hours. ?

You really need to have a completely fake sugar life you can present to girls so that they can't backtrack to you IRL. Keep everything in that sugar life totally separate. Try not to use the same electronic devices, which of course means having a burner phone. Use VPNs on your computer, different logins, etc.

[Awergin1]

I'm married too. I'm not open about it on seeking. If I give girls my number, which is linked to WhatsApp, do you all know if there's some site where they can reverse search me to find out who I am and then look me up on social media?

Get an internet number.

Get an internet number.

Get an internet number.

If you signed up for stuff on your main number it can show up on sites like beenverified.com.

As long as you don't use your second number anywhere that requires sign up it shouldn't show up anywhere.

[Murrican]

I'm married too. I'm not open about it on seeking. If I give girls my number, which is linked to WhatsApp, do you all know if there's some site where they can reverse search me to find out who I am and then look me up on social media?

I think you are really overthinking what I said. All I'm providing is an FYI, a tip. That maybe could help you and others that maybe didn't know. That is all. No need to explain all that you just said.

I like to window shop without the girl knowing I checked her out. If I'm interested then I make contact and just go from there.

Happy hunting.

[Alxm1]

You don't understand. If I have visited a girls profile, it is fine w / me that she knows that. I found her, right? The only time I don't want to have anything else to do with her is if she says that the oldest she is interested in is, say, 50 (that's common). I am much older, so there's no point in me messaging her, so I just block her profile. Likewise, a small percentage of women on the site are against seeing married guys, I do have that right on my profile, but again, I viewed them, they didn't choose me (and sometimes, they don't even realize that my profile lists that I am married). I also, in an early message, always point out to them that I am married. It saves frustration of spending a bunch of time messaging w / a girl who isn't too detail oriented, and then her deciding she's too good to bang me. Being married also limits my play time, and that is a logistical issue for some girls (working a 9-5, for example). A few weeks ago, I also posted that I have a technique I use that tends to neutralize objections to my being married. If I am going to need to use that, I want to bring it out early in the convo.

I think you are really overthinking what I said. All I'm providing is an FYI, a tip. That maybe could help you and others that maybe didn't know. That is all. No need to explain all that you just said.

I like to window shop without the girl knowing I checked her out. If I'm interested then I make contact and just go from there.

Happy hunting.

[FarFarAway]

Right on. On that last part though you really don't need to go through all that. I think I mentioned that you can switch that off in SAs settings. So when you view / visit a girl's profile you can keep it hidden so they don't know you visited their profile.

You don't understand. If I have visited a girls profile, it is fine w / me that she knows that. I found her, right? The only time I don't want to have anything else to do with her is if she says that the oldest she is interested in is, say, 50 (that's common). I am much older, so there's no point in me messaging her, so I just block her profile. Likewise, a small percentage of women on the site are against seeing married guys, I do have that right on my profile, but again, I viewed them, they didn't choose me (and sometimes, they don't even realize that my profile lists that I am married). I also, in an early message, always point out to them that I am married. It saves frustration of spending a bunch of time messaging w / a girl who isn't too detail oriented, and then her deciding she's too good to bang me. Being married also limits my play time, and that is a logistical issue for some girls (working a 9-5, for example). A few weeks ago, I also posted that I have a technique I use that tends to neutralize objections to my being married. If I am going to need to use that, I want to bring it out early in the convo.

[Alxm1]

There's zero risk to me. I have a complete made-up sugar life, including a set of photos that aren't me, but are of someone I am told I look like. There is some semblance of reality to it, some things better and some things worse than the truth. I think every guy in the bowl should have one of these, unless he is single and professionally impunible.

I keep my profile hidden from search, so that keeps all the foreign girls and pic sellers from seeing my profile. I do know that once I go to a girl's profile, though, she can see mine, even if I don't favorite or message her. So, if I look at one IK I am not interested in, or vice versa (age range below my SA age, won't see married guys, etc.), I just block the profile. I never have to look at it again. There are too many profiles to sift through anyway.

Right on. On that last part though you really don't need to go through all that. I think I mentioned that you can switch that off in SAs settings. So when you view / visit a girl's profile you can keep it hidden so they don't know you visited their profile.

[Murrican]

There's zero risk to me. I have a complete made-up sugar life, including a set of photos that aren't me, but are of someone I am told I look like. There is some semblance of reality to it, some things better and some things worse than the truth. I think every guy in the bowl should have one of these, unless he is single and professionally impunible.

I keep my profile hidden from search, so that keeps all the foreign girls and pic sellers from seeing my profile. I do know that once I go to a girl's profile, though, she can see mine, even if I don't favorite or message her. So, if I look at one IK I am not interested in, or vice versa (age range below my SA age, won't see married guys, etc.), I just block the profile. I never have to look at it again. There are too many profiles to sift through anyway.

I didn't know you could do that!

Guess what I just did.

Thank you.

[Murrican]

Honestly, even if I were willing to pay that, this smacks of entitlement that would be pervasive in the relationship.

I know this is mysoginistic, and lord knows this is a feminist forum, but if I'm bringing the money I expect the balance of power to tilt to me. This basically screams "you will pay me, and I will make you feel like you're lucky to do so".

Yeah. No. 👎.

Hi there,

My inbox is getting a bit too full to chit chat with everyone so here's what I'm seeking- let me know if this would work for you easily, and if so happy to start a conversation.

Monthly 10 k, and 5 k upfront to officially begin our arrangement and all that that entails.

1 k to meet- no intimacy expected on the first date, preferably not a low effort date like coffee- however if that's all you'd have time for 500 is reasonable.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-d620e70d4f0f

[HollywoodGuy]

Hi there,

My inbox is getting a bit too full to chit chat with everyone so here's what I'm seeking- let me know if this would work for you easily, and if so happy to start a conversation.

Monthly 10 k, and 5 k upfront to officially begin our arrangement and all that that entails.

1 k to meet- no intimacy expected on the first date, preferably not a low effort date like coffee- however if that's all you'd have time for 500 is reasonable.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-d620e70d4f0f

5 bills for a starbucks date? Might seems reasonable to a billionaire.

[ThroatSeeker 1]

I think this one is a scam. Wanted $250 for massage and play. $100 upfront deposit then rest after meet. I said Never will I pay before play.

I didn't get that feeling. She didn't try that with me.

She expensive though so I wanted to see if anyone had partaken and if it was worth it.

[CumInPussy]

Hi there,

My inbox is getting a bit too full to chit chat with everyone so here's what I'm seeking- let me know if this would work for you easily, and if so happy to start a conversation.

Monthly 10 k, and 5 k upfront to officially begin our arrangement and all that that entails.

1 k to meet- no intimacy expected on the first date, preferably not a low effort date like coffee- however if that's all you'd have time for 500 is reasonable.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-d620e70d4f0f

With half of that (5 k monthly) you probably will get much younger and more attractive girl. Looking at her picture I won't go more than 300 to meet and no intimacy means no money. No upfront money either until we establish the trust. I smell scam and stay away from her.

[PleasantOnSun]

Hi there,

My inbox is getting a bit too full to chit chat with everyone so here's what I'm seeking- let me know if this would work for you easily, and if so happy to start a conversation.

Monthly 10 k, and 5 k upfront to officially begin our arrangement and all that that entails.

1 k to meet- no intimacy expected on the first date, preferably not a low effort date like coffee- however if that's all you'd have time for 500 is reasonable.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-d620e70d4f0f

[FarFarAway]

Do you have your SA settings so that the girls don't see that you viewed their profile? If you have a pic in your profile they'll know who checked them out.

Also Linked in has default settings when viewing someone's profile alerting them you viewed their profile. So if you didn't turn that off. She'll see you checked her out there too.

I've had this happen a couple times but not professional contacts. Just girls I knew from a long time ago that were civie and never would think they'd try being a sugarbaby.

There's zero risk to me. I have a complete made-up sugar life, including a set of photos that aren't me, but are of someone I am told I look like. There is some semblance of reality to it, some things better and some things worse than the truth. I think every guy in the bowl should have one of these, unless he is single and professionally impunible.

I keep my profile hidden from search, so that keeps all the foreign girls and pic sellers from seeing my profile. I do know that once I go to a girl's profile, though, she can see mine, even if I don't favorite or message her. So, if I look at one IK I am not interested in, or vice versa (age range below my SA age, won't see married guys, etc.), I just block the profile. I never have to look at it again. There are too many profiles to sift through anyway.