Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[TokyoJeffRo]

Hi folks,

Long time lurker in the CLT and RDU areas on this forum. Been dabbling in Sugar for 5-6 years on and off.

TLDR. SA is playing pathetic losers by paying commission to lure us back into premium memberships.

If you are still reading, here is my pattern:

I sign up for SA and pay for a month.

I collect contacts / numbers.

I try to respond to the 50+ messages I've had while not subscribed.

I get a few bites, many are real. But not necessarily desirable.

(I also get 5,000 Venezualen, Philipina, Russian, etc. messages for some sort of videos or Webex sex).

I let my subscription drop, because I realize there really isn't much out there.

I have noticed that when I cancel my repeating subscription, I become much more popular with TGTBT chicks.

Immediately after my subscription ends, I get even more interest from college age hot chicks.

I remain active, but not at a premium level where I can respond.

Eventually, I get bored and sign back up again.

Funny thing is, once I've signed up. The TGTBT chicks chat with me enough to get my phone number and then ghost me.

No text, no further chat.

No price discussions.

No availability.

This has happened often enough that I recognize the pattern.

My hypothesis is that SA actually pays 'commission' to these girls to tempt us to rejoin and pay. SA knows the account. SA can see the phone number we give in the chat. The first girl to get our number gets the commission.

Take this one:

Sweetpeeaa.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...5-e28d394f9ae8

Definitely TGTBT. Definitely ghosted.

Also, because I've been on these forums enough, I think SA pays reviewers to post positive reviews of how many college age chicks want to bang for $200 and a ride to the mall.

It is pretty easy to post the same type of review across all the different location forums on this site, for instance.

I'm not saying there are not real people on the site. I've met many over the years. Some were even actual sugar babies and a good time.

I'm also not saying I'm perfect. I'm sure many of the women on the site are very angry with me for not being available to meet right now with money.

As a side note, all of the Asian chicks with weird handles like LovelyOrchid that have profiles that say they are independently wealthy and are looking for life partners and really don't need your 'sugar' are running an investment scam. My favorite was the Chinese woman that said her 'uncle' invested all of her money and she was in town to sell some of her many rental properties. She was waiting for me to ask how I could get in on such a good deal. And then give her my bank account info.

The sad news is, the removal of other useful search tools like backpage means there are no real viable alternatives for extracurricular activities.

As I said before, there are *some* actual real women who will meet. Sometimes (rarely) it can work out.

Tokyo.

[BlueStar7]

Her profile also shows up in the Raleigh-Durham area. She sent me a msg as soon as I viewed her profile. I can't read the msg because I have not renewed my premium membership.

She have created more than 2 profiles in past one month.

I have her number, we do chat sometimes she hasn't so far asked any sort of deposit nor trying to sell pics or videos.

This made me wonder as she looks so hot to be true.

[GutterMind4]

She's been on SA for a day and she's hot. So 97.35% chance she's fake. Maybe she's just a flake but my next question to her is "are you going to ask for a deposit or cash app before we meet? Most won't reply but the ballsy ones will say, " sure how's $100 sound? Hope she's not but looks TGTBT.

Be aware of the North Carolina, North Carolina location. Most (it'd say 80% plus) with locations like this are fakes.

Also, you said she flaked on your last time? Yet the profile you linked to is brand new created today. Did she delete her previous profile and created this new one? That's another bad sign for fake / scammers.

If she turns out to be real, then congrats but lots of red flags on the profile alone.

[Grasshopping]

Anyone has had experience with LovingPrincess?

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...5-34897e637d25

Her profile is not new and she looks stunning in those photos I'd say beating out most girls half her age. Just started talking to her want to see if anyone has any info. PM if needed. Thank you.

[SmallAsianCock]

Be aware of the North Carolina, North Carolina location. Most (it'd say 80% plus) with locations like this are fakes.

Also, you said she flaked on your last time? Yet the profile you linked to is brand new created today. Did she delete her previous profile and created this new one? That's another bad sign for fake / scammers.

If she turns out to be real, then congrats but lots of red flags on the profile alone.

Her profile also shows up in the Raleigh-Durham area. She sent me a msg as soon as I viewed her profile. I can't read the msg because I have not renewed my premium membership.

[Grasshopping]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...0-af73f40db306

Has anybody met her, she flaked me last time?

But I am planning to her next week.

Be aware of the North Carolina, North Carolina location. Most (it'd say 80% plus) with locations like this are fakes.

Also, you said she flaked on your last time? Yet the profile you linked to is brand new created today. Did she delete her previous profile and created this new one? That's another bad sign for fake / scammers.

If she turns out to be real, then congrats but lots of red flags on the profile alone.

[BlueStar7]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...0-af73f40db306

Has anybody met her, she flaked me last time.

But I am planning to her next week.

[Johny Johny]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...b-b3b3332642e7

Talking to this one on and off.

What's the word on her?

She is real deal, nice girl but overweight. We had fun, I think we did few hrs for 300 or 350.

[Hiamey]

She looks hot for sure. She reached out to me with the following text: "Hey! I'm a college student. I love a good time. I promise you will never be bored!" I responded and have not heard back. Some of these girls send out these kinds of messages in bulk and only follow up with a few I guess. But you never know, I have had a few girls who finally replied after a few months and we then started to meet up for fun. Secret Benefits is a gold mine of UTR talent.

She did initiate the convo with me as well. And it was exact same message. Asked her to leave her number which she did.

" Entry for sex is 1000 for me to do everything you tell me to and more is 1300 with toys and a few different outfits. ". That's what she sent me. I offered 400 and she accepted but we have not met yet. She does not drive so it makes meeting her a little difficult. Her pics on SB are great. Awesome body the way I like. I hope I get to meet her soon.

[Grasshopping]

SweetMiss.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...d-3fced68f39cd

Exchanged numbers. Nice face, passable body. Wanted 500 but willing to go down to 400 but not any further. I passed. There are better fish out there at that price IMO.
Not sure what kind of menu she offers.

DreamyPunk.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...3-a5949519ae48

Scammer. She reached out to me on the site. Not sure what her MO is. Agreed to meet up for M&G in Columbia. Never asked to see my pics. Tried to entice me by saying she likes oral, anal etc etc. Then sent me 4 pics of her that is not of the same person as her profiles picture. Did reserve image search and found out that the 4 pics she sent me belong to some chick that lives in TX. I busted her bubble on text and she blocked me immediately. Her location is listed as Lexington, SC do I'll post this in the Columbia board if they have a thread for Sugar dating.

Stay safe everyone and always do your research and homework.

[John Marigold]

Any information on this lady.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...73d7a869fcc194

She looks hot for sure. She reached out to me with the following text: "Hey! I'm a college student. I love a good time. I promise you will never be bored!" I responded and have not heard back. Some of these girls send out these kinds of messages in bulk and only follow up with a few I guess. But you never know, I have had a few girls who finally replied after a few months and we then started to meet up for fun. Secret Benefits is a gold mine of UTR talent.

[Hiamey]

Any information on this lady.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...73d7a869fcc194

[BlueStar7]

Your links are your message box not their adds.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...2-ca430e23f777

This is the profile, if I google search her number it is linking to a provider.

The girl in the attachment, we were supposed to be meet last Wednesday but she flaked at last moment. I booked the hotel and needed to cancel. But she is willing to plan for next week.

Any suggestions recommended.

[TjtjtJall]

She's a platonic sb looking for easy cash by adding a bunch of favorites and seeing who bites.

I'm starting to notice that a lot of these girls are addicted to Fentanyl, you can't really tell unless you get to know them well. No outward signs of demons except they constantly lie about everything and are desperate for cash.

They all need cash for something. Most think they'll be able to siphon cash out of dudes by just showing up. Like a no touch lap dance!

I'm sure drugs are the issue for some. Others it's a crap load of buy now pay later debt, paying rent on an apartment that is way above their means, luxury handbag habit, loser boyfriend to support, etc. I've discovered so many real stories behind the scams communicating and doing meet and greets with these girls. Massive waste of time but pretty good material for an HBO series.

[KongHongPhooey]

She was asking for money during a get to know you to build trust kind of thing. I'm not paying money to chat.

She's a platonic sb looking for easy cash by adding a bunch of favorites and seeing who bites.

I'm starting to notice that a lot of these girls are addicted to Fentanyl, you can't really tell unless you get to know them well. No outward signs of demons except they constantly lie about everything and are desperate for cash.