Grand Rapids Pugilistic Society

[Blackfire]

Not sure what you are askin me to respond to about BBU.

Happy to respond if there is something I can help with, but not sure what are you looking for??

I have been canceled on and have canceled as well. It happens.

I have never given bbu any personal info, pictures or license plates. Park down the road at each of locations.

Lowbrow latest makes me realize he is just guessing or working off looking up monger posts. I can only comment on those I have seen but haven't experienced anything different than other places I have been. This is what they advertise, never received FS and have never asked. I am younger and just enjoy seeing attractive ladies and don't really care to hear about other mongers, but can say they don't spend time talking about other clients to me. Get the occasional, do you know this user name on USA and is he cool and that is about it.

Risk is inherent in this hobby but if I felt there was additional at any place, I would stop going.

Can't comment on Brits age, as I have never seen her. Doesn't really matter however does it?

What are they leveraging? Maybe I missed something but I have not had that experience. Maybe no one is responding because they have not specifics either. But to everyone, if you get too close it probably will end bad with anyone in the business.

If you have a specific question I can answer I would be happy to.

FYI, Brittany birthday is tomorrow. She's 32. Not sure why you brought that up but there you have it.

So you mentioned you have not given any personal information and park down the road. So other than the lobby cameras you feel like you are obscure. I assume therefore you feel like all mongers should do likewise? DO NOT give BBU or any prostitutes any information they can personally identify you with? Is that what you are recommending?

[NoseJelly]

I am the walrus.

Goo Goo G'Joob!

[BoatGuy1]

Not sure what you are askin me to respond to about BBU.

Happy to respond if there is something I can help with, but not sure what are you looking for??

I have been canceled on and have canceled as well. It happens.

I have never given bbu any personal info, pictures or license plates. Park down the road at each of locations.

Lowbrow latest makes me realize he is just guessing or working off looking up monger posts. I can only comment on those I have seen but haven't experienced anything different than other places I have been. This is what they advertise, never received FS and have never asked. I am younger and just enjoy seeing attractive ladies and don't really care to hear about other mongers, but can say they don't spend time talking about other clients to me. Get the occasional, do you know this user name on USA and is he cool and that is about it.

Risk is inherent in this hobby but if I felt there was additional at any place, I would stop going.

Can't comment on Brits age, as I have never seen her. Doesn't really matter however does it?

What are they leveraging? Maybe I missed something but I have not had that experience. Maybe no one is responding because they have not specifics either. But to everyone, if you get too close it probably will end bad with anyone in the business.

If you have a specific question I can answer I would be happy to.

It's odd to me how many posts are about the identity of someone who you have no way to prove is or is not who you think they are
The only person I trusted on these boards was chip charger and I never met him, even if it was a him. His recommendations and commentary always turned into a good appointment for me. Conversely, I know to not go near any recommendation by Benz. Figure out what works best for you.

Hell, I could even be a chick! But maybe you should look at post history and see what someone is writing and draw your own conclusions.

Here's the truth: there are many accounts that aren't who they say they are or pretend to be. Anonymity is a two way street. Several providers are posting like mongers. Senior members have alt senior accounts. The best providers don't need commentary on these boards.

Speaking of anonymity, I have made accusations about the lack thereof at Bodyworks By Us, and leveraging that against clientele at times. Has no one come to their defense yet, or did I miss something? Maybe I'm wrong, but feels awfully silent especially for the amount of zest I've seen posted lately LOL. Maybe Purp or Boat can chime in. And I see Tommey is back posting after a month or more hiatus. How coincidental.

I expected a white knight backlash, but maybe no one has the balls to address an issue that brings risk to the hobby.

Blackfire brought up an interesting point of finding a balance between safety and anonymity or something like that. For each of us we find our own comfort zones. And in all cases hopefully the provider isn't stupid enough to save a bunch of your personal info or visit history or other stuff that could burn you if it ended up in the wrong hands or wrong intent.

Stay safe out there. That goes for ladies and gents alike. Seriously, the only heat you need this summer is the weather. And hopefully you can cool down wherever you find time to hobby.

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[Benz1]

Trusting anyone in this hobby is foolish, finding a comfort zone only leads to exposure.

There are a few mongers on this board with nothing to lose if anyone knows about their hobby. What if you share private information with the wrong person and they get pressured by FBI?

A senior member told me since his wife died he planned on using his real name and FB to get to know people better because he can't be extorted with his wife gone. He made many attempts to find out my real name. He even resorted to begging, I let you know my real name and FB why can't I see yours?

He was friendly enough and I felt bad for him losing his wife but no fucking way. Why the fuck does he keep asking.

Things changed a lot after his wife died and he was busted for drugs and sex trafficking at a house in Wayland.

Doesn't matter how nice they are or how much I respect their opinions, I will never give my information to anyone.

There is not one hooker or monger worth sharing private information with. You never know where your information will end up.
Pre pandemic when I was friends with Hunter, she would send me pictures of mongers who had sent them to her, asking me if I know this guy and make fun of his looks. Hopefully all of you were smart enough to send fake pics(like most providers do to us). No worries guys. I deleted all her pics and the ones she sent me of mongers.
Don't trust any provider with your pics or information
Stay safe.

[JMaul]

It's odd to me how many posts are about the identity of someone who you have no way to prove is or is not who you think they are.

The only person I trusted on these boards was chip charger and I never met him, even if it was a him. His recommendations and commentary always turned into a good appointment for me. Conversely, I know to not go near any recommendation by Benz. Figure out what works best for you.

Hell, I could even be a chick! But maybe you should look at post history and see what someone is writing and draw your own conclusions.

Here's the truth: there are many accounts that aren't who they say they are or pretend to be. Anonymity is a two way street. Several providers are posting like mongers. Senior members have alt senior accounts. The best providers don't need commentary on these boards.

Speaking of anonymity, I have made accusations about the lack thereof at Bodyworks By Us, and leveraging that against clientele at times. Has no one come to their defense yet, or did I miss something? Maybe I'm wrong, but feels awfully silent especially for the amount of zest I've seen posted lately LOL. Maybe Purp or Boat can chime in. And I see Tommey is back posting after a month or more hiatus. How coincidental.

I expected a white knight backlash, but maybe no one has the balls to address an issue that brings risk to the hobby.

Blackfire brought up an interesting point of finding a balance between safety and anonymity or something like that. For each of us we find our own comfort zones. And in all cases hopefully the provider isn't stupid enough to save a bunch of your personal info or visit history or other stuff that could burn you if it ended up in the wrong hands or wrong intent.

Stay safe out there. That goes for ladies and gents alike. Seriously, the only heat you need this summer is the weather. And hopefully you can cool down wherever you find time to hobby.

[Tommey]

Definately making most of his "info" up or has people mixed up. Actually makes me feel good he is so far off base. If he is Chillistack as well, interesting that he is trying to get others numbers from me.

I am sticking with jealous boyfriend or wanna be.

I'm guessing that or a chick, more likely a chick. Guys don't complain about the things she complains about.

[Blackfire]

Hey Pal, I'm not here to attack or judge you on how you seek joy and happiness. I am not hang low. I am simply just a person protecting both interests of the party. Why judge a person on sexual experience? (childish, and petty). I don't disagree on legitimate allegations against Bbu or do I condone the behavior of judging a person's experience base on payed intimate behavior, or shall I ruin it for clients that actually do enjoy the experience of what BBU has to offer! I am just a Mediator. Bbu will not put up with bad behavior, just because a person with positive intentions, gives false behavior will not not be put up with. (Emotional manipulation) These games are for players, if you want to do something romantically unrequited, please without no attachments and hidden agendas. Y'all fucking old white knights. Your money is good for the paid time. Your attachment is not. I'm chillin stack Handsome ivy league. Get with it.

Are you referring to Gene here. Emotional manipulation? Did he get attached to a prostitute? After all those post. Hate to say it. Nah.

[ChillStack]

LOL sorry Brother, I.

I'm not the Walrus. But a young new sugar daddy to the game.

Hey Pal, I'm not here to attack or judge you on how you seek joy and happiness. I am not hang low. I am simply just a person protecting both interests of the party. Why judge a person on sexual experience? (childish, and petty). I don't disagree on legitimate allegations against Bbu or do I condone the behavior of judging a person's experience base on payed intimate behavior, or shall I ruin it for clients that actually do enjoy the experience of what BBU has to offer! I am just a Mediator. Bbu will not put up with bad behavior, just because a person with positive intentions, gives false behavior will not not be put up with. (Emotional manipulation) These games are for players, if you want to do something romantically unrequited, please without no attachments and hidden agendas. Y'all fucking old white knights. Your money is good for the paid time. Your attachment is not. I'm chillin stack Handsome ivy league. Get with it.

[BoatGuy1]

Definately making most of his "info" up or has people mixed up. Actually makes me feel good he is so far off base. If he is Chillistack as well, interesting that he is trying to get others numbers from me.

I am sticking with jealous boyfriend or wanna be

Old enough. Boomer. Need lot a blue, pills and HJ not finish ya. So that your story to say you need bbj or FS. Please, help out old retired seaman. HJ hurts too much friction. Ok ok. But we need 3 Benjamin's. Oh it's already on table. Thanks.

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[ChillStack]

You think we haven't figured out that Chillstack is another brand new alternate account of yours? Tisk tisk.

LOL sorry Brother, I.

I'm not the Walrus. But a young new sugar daddy to the game.

[HornyFlyer]

After couple years hear hanglow leaving for trip home. I be back in June. I deputize chillstack to keep all truth telling. He honest and have true experiences. Don't be posting about only one place. Spread around. And be safe. I warn yall about girls talking to bros about other bros. That so unsafe. Yall can think about me anything but I'm trying protect yall. Be smart not mad. If knights try coming at me, chillstack can shine bat signal and I check on yall and keep it real. Who hanglow? I am the walrus.

You think we haven't figured out that Chillstack is another brand new alternate account of yours? Tisk tisk.

[HornyFlyer]

Whoever, Hanglow is, I have a feeling that he must have been a former boyfriend of either Britt or one of the girls there. I don't believe he would have as much detailed information as he appears to have, if he was simply a regular monger; he must have known one of them very well and be trusted enough to be privy to such information. But, irrespective of who he is or how he got the information, what he is sharing appears to be legitimate, and brings up the issue of sharing personal information with Providers. It is a very difficult situation we all face as clients and providers; there are some providers I see on Tryst that I would love to see, but then back off because they require a picture I'd, work email, or social media links for verification. And, I also understand their desire to feel safe around clients, hence the requirement. But, we all have to be aware and cognizant of the fact that once provided, we are at the mercy of the provider, since she can use it as and when she likes.

I am with JMaul in regards to his wish for Britt or someone else at Bodyworks to come out and clear the air about the allegations being aired here, for the sake and peace of mind of everyone involved.

This is why giving any personal info out to anyone is stupid. I've never been to this place, but if they ask for personal info. I'd turn around and walk out. Those places have cameras also, another reason I stay away from them, other than the obvious reason of paying 50% more or even more to get the same thing you can get from a FS provider. Learn the lesson, people. Stop giving out your personal info to ANY of these girls or their establishments.

[Hap Hunter]

Understand not full proof bit for the Apple Phone.

Open the Settings app.

Scroll down and tap on Privacy.

Tap on Tracking, located near the top.

If the Allow Apps to Request to Track toggle is green, tap on the toggle to switch it off; it'll turn gray.

Agree a hobby phone is a must! Now to keep that hidden LOL.

[Benz1]

Whoever, Hanglow is, I have a feeling that he must have been a former boyfriend of either Britt or one of the girls there. I don't believe he would have as much detailed information as he appears to have, if he was simply a regular monger; he must have known one of them very well and be trusted enough to be privy to such information. But, irrespective of who he is or how he got the information, what he is sharing appears to be legitimate, and brings up the issue of sharing personal information with Providers. It is a very difficult situation we all face as clients and providers; there are some providers I see on Tryst that I would love to see, but then back off because they require a picture I'd, work email, or social media links for verification. And, I also understand their desire to feel safe around clients, hence the requirement. But, we all have to be aware and cognizant of the fact that once provided, we are at the mercy of the provider, since she can use it as and when she likes.

The reason we have hobby phones is to prevent extortion. A provider asks for personal information and mongers give it? WTF?

I've been extorted twice, once from a GF before I joined usasexguide and got a hobby phone. I called her bluff. Go ahead and tell my wife, that will be the end of anything from me, you'll be closing the door and locking it. She realized something is better than nothing. After I got a hobby phone, I received a text from Exposing John's saying I needed to give them 700 or they will post my name and number on Exposing John's website. This time I could laugh, no worries it's a hobby phone. LOL.

Nobody has my real information but if they did tell my wife what would the outcome be? I think she already suspects the hobby or a GF due to loss time from the house. She has said a few things that make me think she knows.

Do we really think our wives are that dumb? With the wide range of options on the internet, wives could assume we are cheating just because we can. With 70 percent of all married people cheating we could assume she is cheating too.

Reminds me of an old song Who's making love to your old lady while you were out making love?

We could all be leaving a trail, our cell phones could be tracked anytime. Since I retired my wife has made a lot of comments about my time, I joined planet fitness and drop my phone in a locker anywhere closest to the provider I'm going to see, now she has many questions about why I'm at planet fitness so long. I'm betting she is tracking my phone and already figured it out.

I'm real curious if anyone else has a wife that's guessing or probably knows about the hobby. If you do have a wife with knowledge, what would the extortion cost if she already knows?

[HangLow3]

After couple years hear hanglow leaving for trip home. I be back in June. I deputize chillstack to keep all truth telling. He honest and have true experiences. Don't be posting about only one place. Spread around. And be safe. I warn yall about girls talking to bros about other bros. That so unsafe. Yall can think about me anything but I'm trying protect yall. Be smart not mad. If knights try coming at me, chillstack can shine bat signal and I check on yall and keep it real. Who hanglow? I am the walrus.