"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[FarFarAway]

Good information there thanks for sharing it!

One caveat. Better check and see what the Law is in your state regarding anonymous testing, especially for HIV. In some states they are REQUIRED by law to verify who you are, using state issued ID before they will test you. So even IF you buy the services online, when you show up at LabCorp or Quest Diagnostics in such a state they will ask for ID. Oh sure, might find a phlebotomist who is new, unknowledgeable or lazy and they don't ask for ID on a prepaid test. But if you show ID, in that situation you end up filed in a State Database with the date of testing and results. Not so good if one is married or with a SO.

Good info. I am in California. It surprises no one that is the situation here. If there is someone reading this who has used STDcheck from another state, and given an address (even if fake) in another state, it would be good to have their perspective. I have a bowl buddy in the Atlanta area, he guided me to this site, and I am 99% sure that he has been able to keep his anonymity. So, that is an example of a pretty conservative state that also may permit you anonymity. Without checking identification.

[Shampoo55]

I endorse everything Shampoo55 said. I have used STDcheck.com, the thing I like about it, you get complete anonymity. You use the same prepaid card that gets you our SA membership to pay like $149 for a full panel of the usual. Not chlamydia, not trich, but those are also available for more bucks if you need them. You get hooked up to one of the standard clinical labs (Quest, etc.) and you go in to one of their local sites for a blood draw and a pee in a cup. These are literally all over, I usually go to one in the back of a grocery store near my work, it is super discreet. The one woman working in there doesn't even know why she is doing the blood draw. You have your results online in about 36 hours, and you never have to show I'd or anything. You can put all the information from your sugar identity (you have one, right?) into setting up your account. You can print out the report, or show it to your POT online. The price isn't great, but hey, the sugar bowl is an expensive place.

Good information there thanks for sharing it!

One caveat. Better check and see what the Law is in your state regarding anonymous testing, especially for HIV. In some states they are REQUIRED by law to verify who you are, using state issued ID before they will test you. So even IF you buy the services online, when you show up at LabCorp or Quest Diagnostics in such a state they will ask for ID. Oh sure, might find a phlebotomist who is new, unknowledgeable or lazy and they don't ask for ID on a prepaid test. But if you show ID, in that situation you end up filed in a State Database with the date of testing and results. Not so good if one is married or with a SO.

[Hal1957]

Agreeing to sex isn't always the mark of an escort. Current SB of almost 2 years, we texted for several days before I suggested m / g. We went back and forth about where to go for dinner, settled on seafood and decided to drive about an hour to the coast where the seafood is same-day fresh. Then she suggested we just spend the night there. It was her first m / g, first sugar date, and it turned into a weekend at a boutique hotel. Point is, if you can get them to engage in a running conversation with substance for a few days, the opportunity for success is much greater.

I could not agree more. This is the reason I only see SBs, and don't pursue blatant escorts putting themselves out there on the internet. Someone who has a menu, a time limit, who agrees to have sex w / someone by texting without having ever met them. They first are no one I would ever f* and second, meet my definition of escort.

I am after the GFE experience. I have had girls I have met from SA give me more of an escort experience, not totally, but still. And I didn't see them again. I have had ongoing and exclusive relationships with girls I met from SA as well. And given that I am retirement age and they were in the 20-40 year old range, I'm pretty proud of that. Great great experiences. Memories to take to the grave.

[FarFarAway]

Don't you take the Test Requisition Form with you at Quest?

The form lists all the tests that needs to be done, that's how they figure out how much blood to draw.

On the STDcheck website, you get a set of lab orders that you can print out to take with you into the testing site. In my memory, there is no specification of which tests are going to be done.

[RegularJoe1985]

I endorse everything Shampoo55 said. I have used STDcheck.com, the thing I like about it, you get complete anonymity. You use the same prepaid card that gets you our SA membership to pay like $149 for a full panel of the usual. Not chlamydia, not trich, but those are also available for more bucks if you need them. You get hooked up to one of the standard clinical labs (Quest, etc.) and you go in to one of their local sites for a blood draw and a pee in a cup. These are literally all over, I usually go to one in the back of a grocery store near my work, it is super discreet. The one woman working in there doesn't even know why she is doing the blood draw. You have your results online in about 36 hours, and you never have to show I'd or anything. You can put all the information from your sugar identity (you have one, right?) into setting up your account. You can print out the report, or show it to your POT online. The price isn't great, but hey, the sugar bowl is an expensive place.

Don't you take the Test Requisition Form with you at Quest?

The form lists all the tests that needs to be done, that's how they figure out how much blood to draw.

[FarFarAway]

I've been chatting with a potential SB about BBFS. She is into it so long as I provide her with clean test results. I've never had to do that before because I'm certain I am clean. Is there a place I can go that will do testing and provide me with the results?

I endorse everything Shampoo55 said. I have used STDcheck.com, the thing I like about it, you get complete anonymity. You use the same prepaid card that gets you our SA membership to pay like $149 for a full panel of the usual. Not chlamydia, not trich, but those are also available for more bucks if you need them. You get hooked up to one of the standard clinical labs (Quest, etc.) and you go in to one of their local sites for a blood draw and a pee in a cup. These are literally all over, I usually go to one in the back of a grocery store near my work, it is super discreet. The one woman working in there doesn't even know why she is doing the blood draw. You have your results online in about 36 hours, and you never have to show I'd or anything. You can put all the information from your sugar identity (you have one, right?) into setting up your account. You can print out the report, or show it to your POT online. The price isn't great, but hey, the sugar bowl is an expensive place.

[Member #6575]

This woman looks familiar. Isn't she the one with a corporate job that is super kinky. I think she does a lot of bareback sex. She is actually pretty cute for 47 and has a nice body. PM if you have had any experience with this one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...f-cc2b288f4de2

I think you are thinking of Rachel. Secret escapes. I have not seen her for a while -- but yes she was super nympho and BBFS. This is not her though.

[Shampoo55]

I've been chatting with a potential SB about BBFS. She is into it so long as I provide her with clean test results. I've never had to do that before because I'm certain I am clean. Is there a place I can go that will do testing and provide me with the results?

If you want to do testing privately, there are a tonne of online sites. Google "STD Testing at home" to find the whole shebang.

I have used these sites before. They send you a kit, you go on line to "register" the kit and then collect the needed samples and return it in pre-paid mailer. Everything you need is included: collection cup for urine, pipette to transfer urine from cup to test tube, device to prick finger, card to drip blood drops on to, biohazard bags, return box, mailing label, etc. Also the websites often have "How To" sections or videos to follow if reading the DETAILED instructions confounds. Depending on which tests, or how many, one selects prices can run from $49 to $279.

I suggest getting a test that includes chlamydia because males often do not have symptoms and this is one of the most common STDs. Of course she is going to want to see a Negative HIV test, which is included in most multi-panel tests.

You get results online and can share them if needed. Different sites do things differently, so shop around.

I have used Everlywell and Let's Get Checked. When you register online you can use your Monger I'd, but you'll need a monger email and text capabilities. Actually bought one test through AZN and used Monger I'd to register it and get results.

Results take about a week because the place where you send your samples usually forwards them to independent labs. So plan ahead and don't take the test on a Friday or weekend.

If you don't care about anonymity, look around as most County Heath Departments have STD testing Clinics and those are usually free. Of course Planned Parenthood (usually around college campuses) has STD testing too, but that will be on a sliding scale "donation" depending on your annual income.

So how do I know so much about the process, you ask? LOL

One day one of my SBs called me up in a panic. She reported that she had tested positive for Trichomonas vaginalis, commonly called Trich. WTF! Apparently I wasn't the only SD she was fucking! So I bought a limited test that tested for Trich, Gonorrhea and Chlamydia. Sent that in and waited. In the mean time, the SB was able to get her Doc to write a second script for the antibiotic that treats Trich and the SB brought it to me. TWO horse pills, each a gram (1,000 mg) of some antibiotic, so 2 grams (2,000 mg) of the drug. I took the treatment as a precaution. Three days later the test results came back NEGATIVE! Of course after that experience figured I better "know" if anything else was going on, so decided to get a "full panel" set of tests done. Spent HOURS researching the various tests and ranging prices before ordering a 7 panel test packet. One could spend more and get 9 or 12 panel tests. But the additional tests get into some pretty esoteric STDs (Gardnerella, Mycoplasma,Ureaplasma) and Hep A, B & C. Oh and if she's only concerned with HIV some sites have that as a single test.

[TennisStud90]

I've been chatting with a potential SB about BBFS. She is into it so long as I provide her with clean test results. I've never had to do that before because I'm certain I am clean. Is there a place I can go that will do testing and provide me with the results?

[FarFarAway]

Why would someone ever go the SB route and NOT be getting multiple pops and / or hours?

I could not agree more. This is the reason I only see SBs, and don't pursue blatant escorts putting themselves out there on the internet. Someone who has a menu, a time limit, who agrees to have sex w / someone by texting without having ever met them. They first are no one I would ever f* and second, meet my definition of escort.

I am after the GFE experience. I have had girls I have met from SA give me more of an escort experience, not totally, but still. And I didn't see them again. I have had ongoing and exclusive relationships with girls I met from SA as well. And given that I am retirement age and they were in the 20-40 year old range, I'm pretty proud of that. Great great experiences. Memories to take to the grave.

[BookerTNelson]

300 - never LOL I have never been more than 200 - and 100 for a QV once Now these were 3 years ago plus when she was in C'ville.

I had heard she had migrated to the 300 -- but unless you are there for multi-pops. She is not a 300 candidate in my book.

Why would someone ever go the SB route and NOT be getting multiple pops and / or hours?

[DoggieFan]

All true, I remember when she left SA, and sugardaddy meet. However, I think the YMMV hurts use more, that's why I liked ECCIE, the reviews were clear on what to expect and for a price. Feeling some kind of way knowing that there was more and she just didn't share or straight up "lied" idk what I expected, but after looking back on it, nearly 3 years, more I guess. idk, getting up in my feelings over an argument.

Not looking for an argument. I just feel, unlike an escort with certain menu & donations spelled out, a SB has the right to do what she's comfortable with with each individual Daddy. Alternatively, a Daddy votes with his wallet, looks for another Baby, if the experience doesn't meet his expectations / requirements.

For instance, my top priorities are DFK & DATY. She's shy until you get her motor running & my only real complaint is not hardly a kisser at all. Again YMMV, I had heard she did Greek on one occasion. Definitely not on the menu, too bad, she has an unreal ass for it!

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9yLU5vdA%3D%3D

My last post on the subject, I'm starting to feel like her agent! LOL Full disclosure, do to her "special" family situation & being drug free (420 friendly, light drinker) I do want to see her not struggle financially. Because I see her, also want other Daddies to treat her right. She's legit a good egg. Plus I have a lot of experience in treating Babies right & having some awesome arrangements, over the last 4 years.

[TheHobbyLobby]

This woman looks familiar. Isn't she the one with a corporate job that is super kinky. I think she does a lot of bareback sex. She is actually pretty cute for 47 and has a nice body. PM if you have had any experience with this one.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...f-cc2b288f4de2

[EscortReview89]

It's supply & demand. You want to get sticker shock? Try NoVa. $400 for homely Babies over weight, & no skills. $600-$1,000 for someone like LRF. I stopped even trying up there. Waste of time.

You saw LRF when last? Almost 1-1/2 to 2 years ago? Dude, gas was $2.00 & hamburger $3.00 a lb back then! LOL Insert political comment here! Ha, ha.

Bottom line. Once she hooks a couple of more regulars, she'll disappear again. I think the last time she was on SA was well over a year ago. She's not looking to feed a demon or buy designer purses, just keep a roof over her head, the lights on & food on the table.

All true, I remember when she left SA, and sugardaddy meet. However, I think the YMMV hurts use more, that's why I liked ECCIE, the reviews were clear on what to expect and for a price. Feeling some kind of way knowing that there was more and she just didn't share or straight up "lied" idk what I expected, but after looking back on it, nearly 3 years, more I guess. idk, getting up in my feelings over an argument.

[DoggieFan]

300 - never LOL I have never been more than 200 - and 100 for a QV once Now these were 3 years ago plus when she was in C'ville.

I had heard she had migrated to the 300 -- but unless you are there for multi-pops. She is not a 300 candidate in my book.

It's supply & demand. You want to get sticker shock? Try NoVa. $400 for homely Babies over weight, & no skills. $600-$1,000 for someone like LRF. I stopped even trying up there. Waste of time.

You saw LRF when last? Almost 1-1/2 to 2 years ago? Dude, gas was $2.00 & hamburger $3.00 a lb back then! LOL Insert political comment here! Ha, ha.

Bottom line. Once she hooks a couple of more regulars, she'll disappear again. I think the last time she was on SA was well over a year ago. She's not looking to feed a demon or buy designer purses, just keep a roof over her head, the lights on & food on the table.