LA LA Land Bullshit and Fight Club

[FiatVoluptas]

Toungsten is a pro monger and has been around long enough, to F'ing understand. I agree with T.

That needed to be said.

I was not blessed with any semblance of good looks or athleticism but once I started pooning I improved myself little by little and I saw the change gradually on these ladies faces when I walked through the door.

The girls definitely appreciate when you take care of yourself. I am under 40, generally fit, and am good looking enough (so I am told). K girls have always been pleased with my looks and hygiene. I have gotten a lot of compliments, a lot of OTC, etc. Because of it. Then, when COVID times came, I did not monger for a long time, and I also gained 40 lbs. When I went back to see a few long time ATF's, they were clearly bothered and turned off by me having let myself go. It was literally the first thing they mentioned when they opened the door, and it was mentioned several times during session. "Oh you got so fat honey. Oh, you need to get in shape again. Oh, you used to be so handsome, what happened? " Well, over the last year, I have lost all the weight and then some, and those girls seem happy to have my cock in their mouth again and the compliments have returned.

Sure, they want money. Sure, they have incentive to butter us up so we return, but to say that they don't care about the looks or cleanliness of the dudes they have to fuck is to overlook the fact that providers or not, they are still human. I think many of us forget that (or just don't care); these girls are real people, just like us.

[Humyiy]

I'm not reading minds or being judgmental. I'm talking about what many of the girls have said to me over the years. Yes they have mad a lot of money and are doing well financially but I'm not talking about that. Haven't you heard about those who do very well in their jobs but hate what they do. Do you really think that many or maybe any of the girls like to be fucking and sucking the cocks and having the cum drip down their faces of of every fat, rude, ugly monger that crosses their threshold. Customers they would not even look at in their civvie life? Just think about that for a minute and ask yourself I'm reading their minds or talking about a dose of reality.

Toungsten is a pro monger and has been around long enough, to F'ing understand. I agree with T.

That needed to be said.

I was not blessed with any semblance of good looks or athleticism but once I started pooning I improved myself little by little and I saw the change gradually on these ladies faces when I walked through the door.

[Cricket79]

But, but all your reviews say the girls are sex fiends and just love to fuck, suck cock, etc. LOL.

Toungsten aka the hooker whisperer.

[SixDNine]

Do you really think that many or maybe any of the girls like to be fucking and sucking the cocks and having the cum drip down their faces of of every fat, rude, ugly monger that crosses their threshold. Customers they would not even look at in their civvie life? Just think about that for a minute

But, but all your reviews say the girls are sex fiends and just love to fuck, suck cock, etc. LOL.

[Toungsten]

"I'm not going to be a dime store psychologist. I don't read minds. A number of providers have told me that they hate what they are doing. Others have built mini-business empires or successful careers and are proud of themselves: just like in other businesses or professions. If you are partaking of providers' services, you are in no position to be judgmental. IMHO. By the way, I have had very long term friendships with several retired providers and they are doing very well for themselves..

I'm not reading minds or being judgmental. I'm talking about what many of the girls have said to me over the years. Yes they have mad a lot of money and are doing well financially but I'm not talking about that. Haven't you heard about those who do very well in their jobs but hate what they do. Do you really think that many or maybe any of the girls like to be fucking and sucking the cocks and having the cum drip down their faces of of every fat, rude, ugly monger that crosses their threshold. Customers they would not even look at in their civvie life? Just think about that for a minute and ask yourself I'm reading their minds or talking about a dose of reality.

[ChrisPoontang]

"I'm not going to be a dime store psychologist. I don't read minds. A number of providers have told me that they hate what they are doing. Others have built mini-business empires or successful careers and are proud of themselves: just like in other businesses or professions. If you are partaking of providers' services, you are in no position to be judgmental. IMHO. By the way, I have had very long term friendships with several retired providers and they are doing very well for themselves.

Putting myself in their shoes (Me having to suck and fuck old, fat Asian women) I would hate was I was doing too!

I would hate it enough that I wouldn't do it. I'd find something else do to. Anything, including getting a real job with real taxes taken out.

They make amazing money for what they do.

[BobLove]

"I'm not going to be a dime store psychologist. I don't read minds. A number of providers have told me that they hate what they are doing. Others have built mini-business empires or successful careers and are proud of themselves: just like in other businesses or professions. If you are partaking of providers' services, you are in no position to be judgmental. IMHO. By the way, I have had very long term friendships with several retired providers and they are doing very well for themselves..

They hate the Johns but the love the Benjamins.

If push comes to shove, they still suck Benjamins dick. The money is way, way, way to easy compared to other jobs.

[BuildingGuy]

More than you can imagine hate what they do. The more successful they are the more they get caught up in the money. They want to stop but can't.

"I'm not going to be a dime store psychologist. I don't read minds. A number of providers have told me that they hate what they are doing. Others have built mini-business empires or successful careers and are proud of themselves: just like in other businesses or professions. If you are partaking of providers' services, you are in no position to be judgmental. IMHO. By the way, I have had very long term friendships with several retired providers and they are doing very well for themselves. ".

[Toungsten]

Damn, this girl does understand what is of value and what is not. Hope she finds what she's looking for.

Another recently departed k-girl, sadly, posted about her depression and suicidal thoughts. Hope she found some help.

More than you can imagine hate what they do. The more successful they are the more they get caught up in the money. They want to stop but can't.

[Toungsten]

It's about time you chimed in. "Spot on?" Nice try T. Your suppositions might work with the new members tho.

I could write anything here and you would read it. Stick to the girls and stop being an argumentative critic. This is a BB board and not a movie gossip guide.

[SsStuntCock]

Or maybe they are spot on the the reader didn't get what the writer got. Never Assume.

It's about time you chimed in. "Spot on?" Nice try T. Your suppositions might work with the new members tho.

The reviewer doesn't review the negative experiences so as not to kill a girl's business.

Oof. So much to unpack with this statement. No one should trust a movie critic that was concerned about hurting box office sales, or a critic that carried a track record of only positive reviews. And speaking of assumptions, its quite the stretch to say one review would kill a girls business. But alas, here we go down the rabbit hole again. Anyone else waiting for dad to stop the car?

[FiatVoluptas]

Best thing about seeing Kgirls often or a regular they allow if they trust you and like you will let you see them ofc. Not all, but many for me!

Let you stay in contact with them if they go to another city (USA) or Canada. Or, they go back home to Korea.

I leave 4-2-2022 for Seoul for a week to visit two former Kgirls who used to provide in LA / SF and now just have regular jobs but also dabble in the Norebang scene in Seoul.

Going to spend a lot of money at the Love hotels in Korea.

Hobby on.

That sounds awesome! I have a couple K girls who I see off the clock sometimes. Regular visits, gifts, and treating them well has really paid off. One of them even buys / gives me gifts when I see her, and she will no longer accept tips from me. She has literally handed cash back to me. That's basically unheard of from this girls haha.

[HapaBoy86]

Thereafter, I went nuts and was seeing 3-4 k girls a week for the next year or two. Good times!

Best thing about seeing Kgirls often or a regular they allow if they trust you and like you will let you see them ofc. Not all, but many for me!

Let you stay in contact with them if they go to another city (USA) or Canada. Or, they go back home to Korea.

I leave 4-2-2022 for Seoul for a week to visit two former Kgirls who used to provide in LA / SF and now just have regular jobs but also dabble in the Norebang scene in Seoul.

Going to spend a lot of money at the Love hotels in Korea.

Hobby on.

[FiatVoluptas]

No, I'm saying in general mongers across the boards on HX and TER cry like babies cause they can't get into Kgirls scene.

Yes, those poor souls haha. I am glad I got in years ago when it was much simpler. I am not sure if I would go through with the new screening requirements these days, but it's hard to tell. Now, since I am already in, if a booker asks for that, nope. I will go elsewhere. I remember my first kgirl session. I can't remember the girl's name, but she was a tall, thin, long-legged provider in her 40's booked by what is now Newasianvibe. That was my first true GFE and I was mind blown. Thereafter, I went nuts and was seeing 3-4 k girls a week for the next year or two. Good times!

[HapaBoy86]

With all due respect, much of your post is incoherent and hard to understand. So, forgive me if I am misinterpreting you. I am thinking you might be referring to my recent posts about the Cari booker giving me shit and rating me as unsafe. If so, there is more context that you are overlooking. Yes, Bookers and providers have the right to ask for whatever screening materials they want, and customers have the choice to follow through with it or not based on their level of comfort. And I understand that screening exists to protect both parties. My point is that that much screening information is out of my comfort zone, and secondarily, despite me being a level 0 on HX (with multiple favorable safety ratings from other k orgs) it seems really unnecessary to require it from me when I have been well-verified as safe in the Kgirl scene for many years. I am not even close to a newb in that scene. A couple of text messages to other bookers would have been enough to verify me. Still, they can ask for whatever they want and I can choose to provide it or not. When I texted the second number, it was my assumption that it went to a different booker with different screening parameters who would accept my long standing status as a safe and verified customer in that industry. It had nothing to do with "cheating the system;" it had to do with trying to work with a booker who would accept my references (totally normal and acceptable behavior). That the booker then rated me as unsafe was really my only true gripe with the situation. It was totally unnecessary. Nothing about my behavior pointed to me being a danger to anyone. Not to mention they were a complete, abrasive and condescending asshole about the whole thing from the very first text.

No, I'm saying in general mongers across the boards on HX and TER cry like babies cause they can't get into Kgirls scene.