NoVA SugarBabies

[Mcsylv]

I have a question on how you guys keep a rotation going, without making it feel to the SBs that you aren't seeing them often enough. I now have 4 SBs that I had one full meet each, and a 5th one is in line, 3 of them are really hot, all under 25. They all want to meet weekly and long term, while skipping a week in between is okay. How do I keep all of them in rotation? If I keep 4 that means I'd be seeing them only once a month which is fine by me, but may not be okay with some of them, and they may start looking for other SD's. Well, may be they too have a rotation, I don't know, LOL. But at least in past some of them got anxious when I skipped more than 2 weeks. How do you successfully pull this?

Even with 5, that's 3 on the 1st and 3rd week of the month, 2 on the 2nd and 4th week. 3 girls a week seems plenty doable? Pun intended.

[Derilious89]

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...a-5c8305bb822e

This one was slow to develop. Initially talked and didn't respond for awhile. Finally responds that she was suspended from the site but was now back. Interesting.

Anyways she looks good enough, 21 good body but face isn't great. She can only meet Tuesday and Thursday. That's fine. Asks what I had in mind for financial and I asked to take the convo to text. Once in text she said she wanted 500. I said I'm looking for 400 and unprotected. She then says and I quote:

"Unprotected, absolutely not I ain't risking my sexual health, safety, or pregnancy for anything. Plenty of other SDs on the site that aren't that stupid. Goodbye."

I think she meant "are the stupid" but clearly she doesn't know. Maturity and anger issues for sure so be careful. Seems unstable..

Nah, she's correct on it. She is saying that there are plenty of other daddies on the site that aren't that stupid, I. E. Don't ask for unprotected sex. She actually seems to be very stable in her viewpoint but she could have handled it a lot better and not added in the snide remark at the end.

[Barkeater]

I'm not saying the girl you connected with wasn't real. I'm sure she was, and why would you lie?

I'm just saying that in general if you put in some random middle of nowhere location on the site there will be lots of matches. I tried it with a very remote town I am familiar with. SB has like 20 matches. SA only had 3. It makes sense, because my experience is that it is a lot harder to find real people on SB than SA. Too bad, SA needs some competition.

Phone number area code was local, though, so believe what you want.

[Kpop1]

Well, you are not saying what you expect to pay weekly. But at a minimum you need to see twice a month if not 4 times a month. If you can't afford that, you need to let them know you can only do X amount a month but they could find another SD. Or drop your rotation down to what you can afford. I have 7 SB's but obviously don't see each one every week. Some are fine with once a month but I have been seeing them for over a year so they are comfortable with me.

I have a reg girl (not a SB) that I'm seeing which we only meet on weekends. Got 3 SB in my rotation now which I meet on weekdays bi-weekly. Dropped my 4th as I wanted to sprinkle in 1-2 new face per week. Pretty much see 2-3 SB on weekdays and chill with the reg girl 1-2 days on weekends. Full time job in it self.

[TomFordModel]

Talked to her. She wanted like seven or eight per meet. Ummm no.

Fuck for an old crusty! Nah! LOL.

This one is also on SA. Looks hot as fuck.

[BuffBill75]

This one is on SA. Here's her face pic. Damn, women really drop off hard after 25. That youth glow is gone.

Talked to her. She wanted like seven or eight per meet. Ummm no.

[Arty33]

It's not affordability that's the main issue, but keeping the interest alive and the level of enjoyment. I need a few days in between these days, and after two back to back weeks I need a week or two in between to see same person again. The break in between keep the flame alive for me, otherwise I just get burnout. So, twice a month is ideal, with one of the them I have the understanding it's an on / off and she's the same. With other 4 I need to establish that I cannot see them weekly. I'd like others who do this also to chime in.

Well, you are not saying what you expect to pay weekly. But at a minimum you need to see twice a month if not 4 times a month. If you can't afford that, you need to let them know you can only do X amount a month but they could find another SD. Or drop your rotation down to what you can afford. I have 7 SB's but obviously don't see each one every week. Some are fine with once a month but I have been seeing them for over a year so they are comfortable with me.

[InSearch69]

Well, you are not saying what you expect to pay weekly. But at a minimum you need to see twice a month if not 4 times a month. If you can't afford that, you need to let them know you can only do X amount a month but they could find another SD. Or drop your rotation down to what you can afford. I have 7 SB's but obviously don't see each one every week. Some are fine with once a month but I have been seeing them for over a year so they are comfortable with me.

I have a question on how you guys keep a rotation going, without making it feel to the SBs that you aren't seeing them often enough. I now have 4 SBs that I had one full meet each, and a 5th one is in line, 3 of them are really hot, all under 25. They all want to meet weekly and long term, while skipping a week in between is okay. How do I keep all of them in rotation? If I keep 4 that means I'd be seeing them only once a month which is fine by me, but may not be okay with some of them, and they may start looking for other SD's. Well, may be they too have a rotation, I don't know, LOL. But at least in past some of them got anxious when I skipped more than 2 weeks. How do you successfully pull this?

[SRH59]

Also on SB.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...eb5dd3584262ad

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...a-5c8305bb822e

This one was slow to develop. Initially talked and didn't respond for awhile. Finally responds that she was suspended from the site but was now back. Interesting.

Anyways she looks good enough, 21 good body but face isn't great. She can only meet Tuesday and Thursday. That's fine. Asks what I had in mind for financial and I asked to take the convo to text. Once in text she said she wanted 500. I said I'm looking for 400 and unprotected. She then says and I quote:

"Unprotected, absolutely not I ain't risking my sexual health, safety, or pregnancy for anything. Plenty of other SDs on the site that aren't that stupid. Goodbye."

I think she meant "are the stupid" but clearly she doesn't know. Maturity and anger issues for sure so be careful. Seems unstable.

Good luck.

[Arty33]

I have a question on how you guys keep a rotation going, without making it feel to the SBs that you aren't seeing them often enough. I now have 4 SBs that I had one full meet each, and a 5th one is in line, 3 of them are really hot, all under 25. They all want to meet weekly and long term, while skipping a week in between is okay. How do I keep all of them in rotation? If I keep 4 that means I'd be seeing them only once a month which is fine by me, but may not be okay with some of them, and they may start looking for other SD's. Well, may be they too have a rotation, I don't know, LOL. But at least in past some of them got anxious when I skipped more than 2 weeks. How do you successfully pull this?

[Max #01]

I've known several undergrads who list Bachelors since that is what they are in school for. "Some college" is often considered "never finished a degree" vs. "in college now".

I've always interpreted "some college" for a SB under 22 to be "in college". High School diploma or something like that is a choice if I remember correctly. Having said this, I don't remember ever having a conversation with a potential SB about education unless she had a PhD (or said she had a PhD).

[BStreet]

She may have had an attitude, but she is sounding pretty responsible and not unstable

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...a-5c8305bb822e

This one was slow to develop. Initially talked and didn't respond for awhile. Finally responds that she was suspended from the site but was now back. Interesting.

Anyways she looks good enough, 21 good body but face isn't great. She can only meet Tuesday and Thursday. That's fine. Asks what I had in mind for financial and I asked to take the convo to text. Once in text she said she wanted 500. I said I'm looking for 400 and unprotected. She then says and I quote:

"Unprotected, absolutely not I ain't risking my sexual health, safety, or pregnancy for anything. Plenty of other SDs on the site that aren't that stupid. Goodbye."

I think she meant "are the stupid" but clearly she doesn't know. Maturity and anger issues for sure so be careful. Seems unstable.

Good luck.

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[Itfcd]

I am almost 100% certain that SB moves its profiles to where you are searching, so even if the profile is real, it might not be near you.

Phone number area code was local, though, so believe what you want.

[Barkeater]

I am almost 100% certain that SB moves its profiles to where you are searching, so even if the profile is real, it might not be near you.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...083f48bda7e3e6

Talked to her very briefly, but her ask for allowance was 7. Didn't go further to find out if that was per week or per month, because I didn't think she was worth it either way. But, the rare SB on SB that responds.

[JackInGsid]

She was a little too quick for my comfort. I just saw her profile and she pinged me in less than a minute. This is what she said.

"Hi! My name is Jessie. Looking for anything and open to anything. I'll make it worth your while. Looking for fun times and fun private times too interested?

Who am I to say no, I said sure and gave her my #. We went from hi to "I like to do intimacy in my first meet" in exactly 2 texts. I chickened out. :

If someone has actually been able to meet her and had fun, let me know. I'll ping her too.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...a-5c8305bb822e

This one was slow to develop. Initially talked and didn't respond for awhile. Finally responds that she was suspended from the site but was now back. Interesting.

Anyways she looks good enough, 21 good body but face isn't great. She can only meet Tuesday and Thursday. That's fine. Asks what I had in mind for financial and I asked to take the convo to text. Once in text she said she wanted 500. I said I'm looking for 400 and unprotected. She then says and I quote:

"Unprotected, absolutely not I ain't risking my sexual health, safety, or pregnancy for anything. Plenty of other SDs on the site that aren't that stupid. Goodbye."

I think she meant "are the stupid" but clearly she doesn't know. Maturity and anger issues for sure so be careful. Seems unstable.

Good luck.