WYP, SA, and other SD sites

[Lodzvisiter]

Forget her exact profile name but it contained Pixie. Like Pixiecutprincess or something like that. I saw her for a while. She was flighty and always late. Good service when she finally showed and actually wanted BBFSCIP. Didn't like condoms. She was in Towson and went to Frederick for a while and returned. Disappeared for a while and came back all beat up by her boyfriend. She seemed off and frankly I got concerned that maybe she was using drugs so I stopped seeing her. Definitely can have some GPS issues but might have come back down to earth. As noted, she had some physical ailment but not sure what. Had a long scar on her back down her spine. She was a nice girl but was just too weird the last time I saw her. She also gave me a new number to use at the end and when I searched it a black TS's escort ads came up at the number. She got angry and offended when I mentioned that. When I saw her ad re-emerge a few days ago I hit up her old number (not the TS number) out of curiosity and got a response from a cross dresser who tried to make conversation so I just ended it right away. Weird stuff and not sure what the deal is. Just be aware.

Sorry, too lazy to go back that far. She was pretty active back in the day. Can't remember her name but worked as a live in nanny and allowed bbfscip. When she started sugaring she was in the bmore area but then moved to the laurel area. After a few SDs have her a big head, she got gps. I only saw her a handful of times, but dropped her once the gps kicked in.

I'd try to find old posts about her, but mongers who have been playing in the bowl will remember her from a few years back. If I remember correctly she also had some sort of chronic condition as well.

If I come across her old posts on a different search, will link, but the prior post wasn't for me. Was trying to help out the guy who was looking for her.

[ProCatHunter]

Can you link to the previous posts or provide some searchable text about her? There's no way to connect this post to anything in the forum.

Sorry, too lazy to go back that far. She was pretty active back in the day. Can't remember her name but worked as a live in nanny and allowed bbfscip. When she started sugaring she was in the bmore area but then moved to the laurel area. After a few SDs have her a big head, she got gps. I only saw her a handful of times, but dropped her once the gps kicked in.

I'd try to find old posts about her, but mongers who have been playing in the bowl will remember her from a few years back. If I remember correctly she also had some sort of chronic condition as well.

If I come across her old posts on a different search, will link, but the prior post wasn't for me. Was trying to help out the guy who was looking for her.

[Whistles]

Someone on this board or the nova board was asking about her. She's back.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-0cc54559efd0

Can you link to the previous posts or provide some searchable text about her? There's no way to connect this post to anything in the forum.

[ProCatHunter]

Someone on this board or the nova board was asking about her. She's back.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-0cc54559efd0

[JackInGsid]

This is great! Thank you, Michael!.

You'll be met with lots of disappointment. Just keep casting the net and talking to women. Some other tips.

- If you get someone that goes right to text, they're probably a pro. But that's good. At least you know what you're dealing with. They want to get right to a PPM price and then make a decision if it's worth it or not. Don't try to make these one's your girlfriend and don't try to set up a "coffee date" unless they suggest it. Just set up an hour to meet at a hotel and get to it.

- I don't like to set up first "Dinner Dates" with anyone. Dinner is too much of a time commitment. So get some coffee or a drink or meet up in a public spot for 10 minutes. I don't usually pay for a simple meet up, but it's happened.

- If you're looking for your SB to be your girlfriend, I'm not so sure that's a good move. But maybe I'm wrong. Maybe there are hot 20-something year old girls that really like hanging out with old fat farts (possibly speaking for myself).

- I wouldn't try to "get to know them" on the site. Just exchange a few chats, make a dumb joke or two and then set up a meeting. Don't ever discuss dollar amounts in SA. You'll likely get banned, unless you use very generic language.

- If you don't have a burner phone or a phone app (CoverMe), get one.

Good luck and keep us all posted on your successes.

[Michael Taylor]

Don't let this one fool you. Usually I'm pretty good at spotting these things, but I think the SBs are upping their game. Previously, they'd hit you with the "Can you send me babysitter money" or "I don't have any food for my kids. Can you send me money and then I'll be right over, once I get food", etc.

CuteDame has figured out that if you let the sucker actually get a room first, you'll have more leverage to get them to send you money. Not going to lie. She did a good job. I got the room, texted her when I got there. . . And then she started with the "Did I tell you I need 40% upfront via CashApp? I suspect a lot of guys would just pay it, because they still think it's still going to happen. Fortunately, I was able to set up a Plan B meeting and got to use the room in the morning.

Anyway, stay on your toes, gents. These girls (probably actually guys) are getting smarter with their game.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...0-6bbe7b6c0e08

[Schlitz]

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...7-9da7279f8d0f

Says from Tysons area but lives in Hagerstown?.

Thanks.

[Michael Taylor]

Hi guys. First time exploring being an SD, no idea how to go about it. I've been checking all the forums for tips and am taking notes before I dive in. I liked this girl and wanted to see if any of you have already met her and see if it is worth pursuing. A big thank you in advance.

You'll be met with lots of disappointment. Just keep casting the net and talking to women. Some other tips.

- If you get someone that goes right to text, they're probably a pro. But that's good. At least you know what you're dealing with. They want to get right to a PPM price and then make a decision if it's worth it or not. Don't try to make these one's your girlfriend and don't try to set up a "coffee date" unless they suggest it. Just set up an hour to meet at a hotel and get to it.

- I don't like to set up first "Dinner Dates" with anyone. Dinner is too much of a time commitment. So get some coffee or a drink or meet up in a public spot for 10 minutes. I don't usually pay for a simple meet up, but it's happened.

- If you're looking for your SB to be your girlfriend, I'm not so sure that's a good move. But maybe I'm wrong. Maybe there are hot 20-something year old girls that really like hanging out with old fat farts (possibly speaking for myself).

- I wouldn't try to "get to know them" on the site. Just exchange a few chats, make a dumb joke or two and then set up a meeting. Don't ever discuss dollar amounts in SA. You'll likely get banned, unless you use very generic language.

- If you don't have a burner phone or a phone app (CoverMe), get one.

Good luck and keep us all posted on your successes.

[JackInGsid]

Thank you for responding, will check the forum.

There are lots of tips over time on the Richmond board. #1 rule--don't send money before meeting.

[DickLongwood]

Hi guys. First time exploring being an SD, no idea how to go about it. I've been checking all the forums for tips and am taking notes before I dive in. I liked this girl and wanted to see if any of you have already met her and see if it is worth pursuing. A big thank you in advance.

There are lots of tips over time on the Richmond board. #1 rule--don't send money before meeting.

[JackInGsid]

Hi guys. First time exploring being an SD, no idea how to go about it. I've been checking all the forums for tips and am taking notes before I dive in. I liked this girl and wanted to see if any of you have already met her and see if it is worth pursuing. A big thank you in advance.

[ProCatHunter]

Some of the changes that have caused the site to get stricter were likely to attract more SBs. Things like getting super strict with banning members for payment talk. Preventing SDs from requesting pics without payment, etc etc. Problem though, the issue isn't a safety one. It's financial. Labor market is tight. 2 solid rotation members from my squad got real professional jobs and are now too busy to meet regularly. Student loans have been on pause for months. Young college coeds who just graduated are living with their parents and don't need to pay loans and are finding real work with mass boomer retirements, lower immigration, or dropping out of the labor force counting the stacks of cash they made selling NFTs or investing in ethereum in 2018.

Seeking is left with dregs now. Without the young coeds who needed cash to go out (and that's dropped off as well with travel restrictions so ladies aren't interested as much in traveling and don't need the same kind of funds to go out with COVID travel restrictions in place) SDs aren't joining in the same numbers.

It's all a negative feedback loop. And it's unlikely to get better. Also, good luck getting bought out. Publicly traded companies are not going to touch seeking with a 20 foot pole. Matt Gaetz helped kill the possibility of any potential buyout.

What Brandon Wade needs is what the US economy needs, which is for the Fed to invert the yield curve and force folks back into the labor market while crushing asset prices. Turning student loan payments back on won't hurt either. If all that happens, then SBs will start flicking back to the site, and Brandon will be back in business since all the mongers on these sites will stop bitching about how bad the site has become, but will instead be posting about the hot SB who was willing to take 1/2 the allowance the last SB wanted since competition in the bowl has become so fierce. The advertising campaign will literally be all us mongers posting here.

Seeking has been trying to bill my credit card (pre-paid with a zero balance so good luck. Hahaha) for two months now, even though I canceled! Incredibly shady. I think the price increase really hurt them, as members dropped off.

I got multiple messages trying to convince me to re-up before the price increase. Then this month they started offering a 25% discount for Valentines day. Still a NO from me dog. Then I get a message yesterday that I can still get the 25% discount is I act immediately. Smells of desperation.

Then today when I log into my backup account, several weird things happen. 1) No challenge to my using an incognito browser. Previously as part of their increased "security" I had to verify with a code when logging in from a masked browser. 2) I immediately got a pop-up offering a 33% discount on a membership. Still a no.

I think they are having serious financial issues. The site has gone way downhill from 2015 When I joined for a month and had great success. Oh well.

Norm!!

[Norm Gerd]

More likely it's just about marketing and money, as it is for most businesses. Quick google search estimates SA revenue (not income) $30-40 million / year. Match revenue, $2. 8 billion. Hard to find good current info, but they estimate 22 million members. In 2012 Wade himself estimated SA had 10 million members, 8 million SB, 2 million SD. Revenue was $10 million. SA was grossing an average of $5/ SD per year.

I've been curious about the SB scene, but most things I read on this forum are not likely to convince me to switch to a paying account. And if anything, sounds like things are getting worse. Its just my opinion, but I suspect that paying memberships are declining.

This Wade guy has a pretty impressive background. MIT, software engineer, Booz Allen. He's trying to leverage SA into a more lucrative market. Who knows, maybe he would like to be bought out. Hopefully not much changes on the SD-SB side, maybe appearing to be more mainstream brings in new members who are intrigued by the more risqu aspect of SB, but we're previously hesitant to join. To the guys who have paid memberships, are there any changes indicating they are trying to actually restrict SD / SB activities? Great he found love, whatever. Probably didn't have a prenup in his first marriage and needs the money. She probably got half of SA, LOL. Tell me about it. As in most things, follow the money.

Seeking has been trying to bill my credit card (pre-paid with a zero balance so good luck. Hahaha) for two months now, even though I canceled! Incredibly shady. I think the price increase really hurt them, as members dropped off.

I got multiple messages trying to convince me to re-up before the price increase. Then this month they started offering a 25% discount for Valentines day. Still a NO from me dog. Then I get a message yesterday that I can still get the 25% discount is I act immediately. Smells of desperation.

Then today when I log into my backup account, several weird things happen. 1) No challenge to my using an incognito browser. Previously as part of their increased "security" I had to verify with a code when logging in from a masked browser. 2) I immediately got a pop-up offering a 33% discount on a membership. Still a no.

I think they are having serious financial issues. The site has gone way downhill from 2015 When I joined for a month and had great success. Oh well.

Norm!!

[BMax986]

Ok let me get this right? You meet a girl of your sight now your mindset is different. You getting married no pre-nup at all and you changing the name? Ok he is either.

A P88 ywhipped.

B A straight simp.

C. Trying to maybe dodge some type of Fed regulations.

D All of the above LOL I'm not buying that he just all of a sudden CHANGED I guarantee that once things get legal it won't last but maybe two years and she going to take him to the cleaners.

More likely it's just about marketing and money, as it is for most businesses. Quick google search estimates SA revenue (not income) $30-40 million / year. Match revenue, $2. 8 billion. Hard to find good current info, but they estimate 22 million members. In 2012 Wade himself estimated SA had 10 million members, 8 million SB, 2 million SD. Revenue was $10 million. SA was grossing an average of $5/ SD per year.

I've been curious about the SB scene, but most things I read on this forum are not likely to convince me to switch to a paying account. And if anything, sounds like things are getting worse. Its just my opinion, but I suspect that paying memberships are declining.

This Wade guy has a pretty impressive background. MIT, software engineer, Booz Allen. He's trying to leverage SA into a more lucrative market. Who knows, maybe he would like to be bought out. Hopefully not much changes on the SD-SB side, maybe appearing to be more mainstream brings in new members who are intrigued by the more risqu aspect of SB, but we're previously hesitant to join. To the guys who have paid memberships, are there any changes indicating they are trying to actually restrict SD / SB activities? Great he found love, whatever. Probably didn't have a prenup in his first marriage and needs the money. She probably got half of SA, LOL. Tell me about it. As in most things, follow the money.

[Itfcd]

Ok let me get this right? You meet a girl of your sight now your mindset is different. You getting married no pre-nup at all and you changing the name? Ok he is either.

A P88 ywhipped.

B A straight simp.

C. Trying to maybe dodge some type of Fed regulations.

D All of the above LOL I'm not buying that he just all of a sudden CHANGED I guarantee that once things get legal it won't last but maybe two years and she going to take him to the cleaners.

I'm not sure any of us should be surprised by the depths of such foolishness. Even if she does take him for a ride, I still bad for HER, not him. Just look at the fucking guy.