Dating Sites

**Potus2020** · 02-22-22 11:45

I mis-stated my preference below. It is SA first, SB 2nd then WYP.

Sorry.

**Potus2020** · 02-20-22 14:48

The review right below this one covers WYP and SB pretty well. I have seen girls off of both sites. They both have scammers and BOTS as far as I am concerned. I put SB in 2nd behind WYP. Seeking Arrangements (SA) is considered the best site. Yes, you are a member now and can see posts and such, but you can't message them until you sign up for at least a month. In that month, message as many as you like and then get off of the site. In that month move the ones that are talking to you off of the site to texting. That way you can talk more openly and freely. Before doing all of that, read the SB forum's from Dayton, Cincy, Cols and Indy. Go back ten pages in each and get familiar with what they are doing and why they are doing it that way. There are some real savvy mongers in Cincy and Indy. The Indy guy just posted a great review of how to get back on SA if you were banned like me. You need to be approachable in your opening message to all girls in my opinion. Don't scare them off by coming on too heavy. And, when you see that a monger has seen a particular girl, as least you know she is real and you can go hit her up. Some of my success has been due to getting tips from other seniors on who is real and and hitting them up. Or, they may just give me their number. Hell, I started a convo with a girl in Indy that was pretty nice and I was going to go see her. They were talking about her her in the Indy forum. She was looking for more action. But, I got banned for my language. Watch her on there. Do not mention money or time. So, I lost that one. If we were texting, I would of probably seen her by now. Do some reading. You will see what works and what doesn't. Happy hunting, be safe.

**OneMan** · 02-10-22 18:11

Just in case any Hobbyists are thinking of dabbing into the dating sights, let me give you my experience so far.

WYP. 100 credits. 20 credits per conversation opener. The credit cost depends on your offer. I think the $$ goes up to like 30 credits. You get access to the womans secret pictures as soon as she accepts your offer for free. And you can see when they read your messages. For free Once she accepts your offer it costs credits to start the convo. Messaged 5 women. All 5 replied back. Conversations were real. 3 of them I met with. Haley, Carmelicous, and Natash (girl way north by me, nothing to write home about, cheap suck and fuck, she has since moved) All legit and good providers. 1 instantly sent me her cashapp name and asked for a deposit and the other messaged me twice in 4 days. I got refund on both of them. Yes WYP will refund you your credits after 7 days as long as you don't talk about meeting up or personal contact numbers. I sent out to 2 others and got messages. Both legit but they had questionable recent reviews here so I still haven't pulled the trigger on them (stevie and Jennifer). Basically, 100% connection rate on WYP and a refund policy on obvious scammers.

SeekingBenefits. There was a deal on credits so I got a slightly bigger package. 200 credits (or 300, not sure original amount LOL). Flat 10 credits per conversation. But the micro transactions are bad. 10 credits to see if they read your message. 10 credits to see their secret pictures. 10 credits to "boost" your message to them. I sent out 18 Messages. 6 of them were responses to messaged women sent me. 12 of them were messages I've sent out to others in about a 50 mile radius. Followed up the 3rd day with follow up messages to each just saying Hi and I was still interested. My WYP and SB messages were all pretty much the same. Respectful intro messages. After 4 days I have 0 responses. That is correct, ZERO. Now, almost ALL of them have granted me access to their secret pictures (ya know, for an extra 10 credits each) and I stupidly accepted one. It was just more pictures of her in the same pair of jeans and shirt as the rest of her public pictures. WTF. I may contact support and attempt to get a refund. That is correct, NO refund policy for messages. I know I probably should have gone with SA. But I saw one report her of a hot girl on SB that was legit and my small head took over.

Long story short, Don't waste a dime on SeekingBenefits. If anyone has an legit contacts on SB, please let me know LOL, I have some credits left, but not a lot. I can't speak for SA, but WYP was completely legit and I will probably keep seeing Haley some more as I'm on good terms with her.

**Potus2020** · 02-02-22 21:33

Originally Posted by WanderingAbout [View Original Post]

First message from this profile said lets hookup for 300 and a phone number. Thats not normal.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...6-0665b2f5c15d

Pm me the number. She messaged me but I do not have an active sub right now. I will TOFTT. Most likely a scammer.

**WanderingAbout** · 02-02-22 20:54

First message from this profile said lets hookup for 300 and a phone number. Thats not normal.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...6-0665b2f5c15d

**Goo3215** · 02-02-22 12:20

Has any one had an experience with Laurenn? Any info would be greatly appreciated.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...b-ac0f6d5f03f4

**ShadowRecruit** · 02-02-22 01:24

Originally Posted by Potus2020 [View Original Post]

I think they are saying that they don't want to beat around the bush with anybody and they want you to say upfront exactly what you are looking for. If your looking to hookup, then say so. They don't want to waste their time with guys that just want to chat.
I watched the game on Sunday with my SB and her biggest complaint about the site is the guys typically ghost them. They talk a good game but never show up. I don't get that. If I have the opportunity to connect with a hot girl, I am showing up.

I'd show up too. It doesn't make sense to me either.

**Potus2020** · 02-01-22 13:30

Originally Posted by ShadowRecruit [View Original Post]

I'm not one who's on SA and other sites a lot. So I need a little help here. I see many girls that have this in their profile: I want a man that knows what he wants or looking for men who know what they want. What are these girls meaning when they write this in their profile?

I think they are saying that they don't want to beat around the bush with anybody and they want you to say upfront exactly what you are looking for. If your looking to hookup, then say so. They don't want to waste their time with guys that just want to chat.
I watched the game on Sunday with my SB and her biggest complaint about the site is the guys typically ghost them. They talk a good game but never show up. I don't get that. If I have the opportunity to connect with a hot girl, I am showing up.

**ShadowRecruit** · 01-31-22 15:01

I'm not one who's on SA and other sites a lot. So I need a little help here. I see many girls that have this in their profile: I want a man that knows what he wants or looking for men who know what they want. What are these girls meaning when they write this in their profile?

**RickMann** · 01-29-22 08:51

Originally Posted by Potus2020 [View Original Post]

Bam, that is some sage advice. I appreciate it. I have to do something here. Maybe I will just keep talking with her and ask her if she would like to get a coffee some time. Then, I can weave your (single man) web of deceit upon her and get her to open up to me about what she is looking for. I am married. I don't know.

I had a bartender friend on SA so one night I said you need a sugar daddy and she said I'm on there look me up!

**Potus2020** · 01-28-22 09:05

Originally Posted by BamBam [View Original Post]

What is your marital status? If you are single you should just flat out ask her to lunch. At lunch complain about the cost of living inviting her to do the same. Then complain about your inability to find time for traditional dating. Tell her you need something non-traditional and ask her what she thinks. Has she ever contemplated something like that? Take it from there.

If you are married or in a relationship, just avoid. You cannot safely fool around at work without eventually getting a bunny in the pot on your stove.

BAM.

Bam, that is some sage advice. I appreciate it. I have to do something here. Maybe I will just keep talking with her and ask her if she would like to get a coffee some time. Then, I can weave your (single man) web of deceit upon her and get her to open up to me about what she is looking for. I am married. I don't know.

**CatFever** · 01-28-22 01:38

Originally Posted by Potus2020 [View Original Post]

Some background. Currently banned from SA, but I am on the site using a new email address, but have not tried to get a sub yet. Can I use the same CC? I suspect not.

I work in healthcare. 95% of the employees are women. Yup! Many, many young, pretty girls. Many divorced and hungry. Quite the hunting ground. I can't stand it, seriously.

Several months ago when I had a sub, I was talking to a girl on SA from Monroe through text off of the site. I eventually found out that we both work for the same company. Not in the same building or city, but, we could cross paths. Anyways, nothing ever came of it because she had too much drama and was getting ready to ask for money before a meet. So, it died a natural death. I knew it would happen again.

So, there are several girls I have been getting to know better just to see if I can get something to happen. I saw one of those girls today at our office up in Troy. I see her every couple of weeks and we always talk and joke around. So, I leave that office and go to lunch and I am looking through the ads on SA and what do I see. A new ad, posted just yesterday, of this girl in Troy. A single pic ad, describes her to a T. It is an older pic. She claims to be 31 and that is probably right, height and weight are correct as well as marital status and claims no kids, but has 3. She is very attractive and has a very nice bod. The pic is filtered, but I am 98% sure it is her. Her tats give her away as well. Of course, she is using a fake name. She does not list her job as she is facing the public quite a bit. She flirts with me. Told me back before Christmas she was going to spend it on her couch by herself. Her ad says she likes her couch, in a way.

I agree with BAM on the relationship issue. Don't need it affecting your personal or work. The old saying rings true, "Don't get your meat where you get your bread".

As far as CC, I've been contemplating that too. I'm going to try a prepaid CC so I can be anonymous, if that's possible! Anyone else try that? I hate a 'paper trail'.

**BamBam** · 01-27-22 13:48

What is your marital status? If you are single you should just flat out ask her to lunch. At lunch complain about the cost of living inviting her to do the same. Then complain about your inability to find time for traditional dating. Tell her you need something non-traditional and ask her what she thinks. Has she ever contemplated something like that? Take it from there.

If you are married or in a relationship, just avoid. You cannot safely fool around at work without eventually getting a bunny in the pot on your stove.

BAM.

Originally Posted by Potus2020 [View Original Post]

Some background. Currently banned from SA, but I am on the site using a new email address, but have not tried to get a sub yet. Can I use the same CC? I suspect not.

I work in healthcare. 95% of the employees are women. Yup! Many, many young, pretty girls. Many divorced and hungry. Quite the hunting ground. I can't stand it, seriously.

Several months ago when I had a sub, I was talking to a girl on SA from Monroe through text off of the site. I eventually found out that we both work for the same company. Not in the same building or city, but, we could cross paths. Anyways, nothing ever came of it because she had too much drama and was getting ready to ask for money before a meet. So, it died a natural death. I knew it would happen again.

BamBam, I need you here. Any advice?

**RickMann** · 01-27-22 06:20

Originally Posted by Potus2020 [View Original Post]

Some background. Currently banned from SA, but I am on the site using a new email address, but have not tried to get a sub yet. Can I use the same CC? I suspect not.

I work in healthcare. 95% of the employees are women. Yup! Many, many young, pretty girls. Many divorced and hungry. Quite the hunting ground. I can't stand it, seriously.

Several months ago when I had a sub, I was talking to a girl on SA from Monroe through text off of the site. I eventually found out that we both work for the same company. Not in the same building or city, but, we could cross paths. Anyways, nothing ever came of it because she had too much drama and was getting ready to ask for money before a meet. So, it died a natural death. I knew it would happen again.

So, there are several girls I have been getting to know better just to see if I can get something to happen. I saw one of those girls today at our office up in Troy. I see her every couple of weeks and we always talk and joke around. So, I leave that office and go to lunch and I am looking through the ads on SA and what do I see. A new ad, posted just yesterday, of this girl in Troy. A single pic ad, describes her to a T. It is an older pic. She claims to be 31 and that is probably right, height and weight are correct as well as marital status and claims no kids, but has 3. She is very attractive and has a very nice bod. The pic is filtered, but I am 98% sure it is her. Her tats give her away as well. Of course, she is using a fake name. She does not list her job as she is facing the public quite a bit. She flirts with me. Told me back before Christmas she was going to spend it on her couch by herself. Her ad says she likes her couch, in a way.

So, if I decide to approach her, how should I do it. I could address her by her fake name one time when I see her and see how she reacts. Pretty bold, huh. Slip her a note? I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable. Pay to get a sub and go through the SA process to see if she is even interested. I can get her last name and look for a FB page to help if needed.

BamBam, I need you here. Any advice?

Man I have had a few ladies I know pop up on SA and one was really close to home LOL. It's becoming very popular I think because the sell pics / scam part of it. Anyway you have to use a different CC in fact my buddy was banned from paypal for using it on the site. I would be careful at work could be viewed as sexual harassment if it's not her. Send her a message on the site!

**Potus2020** · 01-27-22 02:16

Some background. Currently banned from SA, but I am on the site using a new email address, but have not tried to get a sub yet. Can I use the same CC? I suspect not.

I work in healthcare. 95% of the employees are women. Yup! Many, many young, pretty girls. Many divorced and hungry. Quite the hunting ground. I can't stand it, seriously.

Several months ago when I had a sub, I was talking to a girl on SA from Monroe through text off of the site. I eventually found out that we both work for the same company. Not in the same building or city, but, we could cross paths. Anyways, nothing ever came of it because she had too much drama and was getting ready to ask for money before a meet. So, it died a natural death. I knew it would happen again.

So, there are several girls I have been getting to know better just to see if I can get something to happen. I saw one of those girls today at our office up in Troy. I see her every couple of weeks and we always talk and joke around. So, I leave that office and go to lunch and I am looking through the ads on SA and what do I see. A new ad, posted just yesterday, of this girl in Troy. A single pic ad, describes her to a T. It is an older pic. She claims to be 31 and that is probably right, height and weight are correct as well as marital status and claims no kids, but has 3. She is very attractive and has a very nice bod. The pic is filtered, but I am 98% sure it is her. Her tats give her away as well. Of course, she is using a fake name. She does not list her job as she is facing the public quite a bit. She flirts with me. Told me back before Christmas she was going to spend it on her couch by herself. Her ad says she likes her couch, in a way.

So, if I decide to approach her, how should I do it. I could address her by her fake name one time when I see her and see how she reacts. Pretty bold, huh. Slip her a note? I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable. Pay to get a sub and go through the SA process to see if she is even interested. I can get her last name and look for a FB page to help if needed.

BamBam, I need you here. Any advice?