Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**BlueFox141** · 01-16-22 14:40

Originally Posted by BigMacDaddy [View Original Post]

Pay Per Meet. Compared to others looking for an allowance.

Avoid allowances as you're paying for the week or month but might not get as much action as you hoped for. While she may agree to a set fee for a month for 4 meetings in that month, it's not uncommon that she might try to whittle you down to 3 or 2 then promise "make up" meetings that never happen.

Stay with exact $ per meet. It's less ambiguous and prevent the girl from taking advantage of you..

I have actually had some pretty good luck with some of the younger ones, and the new ones on the site who are completely inexperienced with the way arrangements work. When they start asking questions about a monthly allowance, I will say that I have had monthly allowances of up to $800 a month. That usually sounds pretty good to them. Then I tell them that because we haven't gotten together yet and we may not be compatible in bed that I like to start off with PPMs, that way it's fair to both of us. I tell them that the initial PPM that I like to start off at is $200 and increase it from there or go to a monthly fee. Now typically they can't host. If that's the case I'll say that I will have to take $50 off it for the room. Then, sometimes I'm able to get them to agree to a slightly lower price for our very first meet to see if we click. Sometimes I can get another $50 off for that. So, I start off with $100 for the first time and then do $150 for the next couple, making sure I see her, or at least try to see her more than once in a week. This gets it into her head that we could be doing it often. If I'm still around. I can start talking to her about a monthly arrangement. Now, we go to the $600 or $800 a week that we might have discussed a month or so earlier. Then I start throwing numbers at her like, telling her does she realize that I might see her twice or more a week for that amount of money. Then, the $200 PPM starts sounding good! The only problem is, you have to go through so many fakes and scammers to get to this point.

Blue.

**Big Mac Daddy** · 01-16-22 14:00

Originally Posted by Woody50 [View Original Post]

When I was young, I worked on cruise ships for about 8 years. "We'll never be here again. " goes a long way with tipsy chicks on vacation. After several hundred one or two nighters, I'd say about 10% of women fall into the no BJ category.

My problem is my need for BBBJ-cim-nqns, anywhere, anytime, standing, sitting, laying down, in sickness or in good health. LOL.
It might be more torturous to get the bbbj but no cim, no swallow.

**Big Mac Daddy** · 01-16-22 13:56

Originally Posted by LuckyCT [View Original Post]

What is the PPM?

Pay Per Meet. Compared to others looking for an allowance.

Avoid allowances as you're paying for the week or month but might not get as much action as you hoped for. While she may agree to a set fee for a month for 4 meetings in that month, it's not uncommon that she might try to whittle you down to 3 or 2 then promise "make up" meetings that never happen.

Stay with exact $ per meet. It's less ambiguous and prevent the girl from taking advantage of you.

BMD.

**BlueFox141** · 01-16-22 13:35

Originally Posted by LuckyCT [View Original Post]

What is the PPM?

We were talking about the school teacher and he mentioned to UTR's. I don't know which one you are asking about. I only know about the school teacher and I have referred her to others but she would rather give the price. So, you would have to contact her on SA. She and I actually do dinner every once in awhile, and just dinner. No dessert! LOL.

Blue.

**LuckyCT** · 01-16-22 12:52

Originally Posted by WillSmith96 [View Original Post]

The school teacher is a gem.

Responding to your other thread on generosity. Agreed, it can be a crap shoot. I've had good and bad, more good. Currently have two UTR single Moms (met both on SA) with no limits who rock my world.

What is the PPM?

**WillSmith96** · 01-16-22 12:26

Originally Posted by BlueFox141 [View Original Post]

I told her that you said "Hi" and she laughed and said "That was a long time ago". I've seen her a few times and never had one that loved it so much!

Blue.

The school teacher is a gem.

Responding to your other thread on generosity. Agreed, it can be a crap shoot. I've had good and bad, more good. Currently have two UTR single Moms (met both on SA) with no limits who rock my world.

**Woody50** · 01-16-22 09:01

Originally Posted by BigMacDaddy [View Original Post]

As a younger pup, I had a civilian girl friend like that. Point blank NO BJ, no CBJ, and nothing in that neighborhood for the rest of my life.

I had two words to say. First one for her, "really"?
BMD.

When I was young, I worked on cruise ships for about 8 years. "We'll never be here again. " goes a long way with tipsy chicks on vacation. After several hundred one or two nighters, I'd say about 10% of women fall into the no BJ category.

**BlueFox141** · 01-16-22 08:39

Originally Posted by Woody50 [View Original Post]

I've dated women who would simply not suck dick. It had nothing to do with safety, they were simply grossed out by oral.

I was married to one!

**Big Mac Daddy** · 01-16-22 08:39

Originally Posted by Woody50 [View Original Post]

I've dated women who would simply not suck dick. It had nothing to do with safety, they were simply grossed out by oral.

As a younger pup, I had a civilian girl friend like that. Point blank NO BJ, no CBJ, and nothing in that neighborhood for the rest of my life.

I had two words to say. First one for her, "really"?

The next word, mentally for me when getting dressed and walking out, "NEXT"!

Yada, yada, yada, Seinfeld and the Soup Nazi still owe me royalties. LOL.

BMD.

**Woody50** · 01-16-22 07:43

Originally Posted by DaReal86 [View Original Post]

She does BBFS but refuses to give any type of BJ. Which boggles my mind. But damn these pics make me want to hit her back up again LOL.

I've dated women who would simply not suck dick. It had nothing to do with safety, they were simply grossed out by oral.

**BigBoss203** · 01-15-22 13:14

She enjoys CIV but struggles a lot with BJ.

I guess so many people are hitting her up now that she gets to choose who is next.

**BlueFox141** · 01-14-22 22:04

Originally Posted by DaReal86 [View Original Post]

She does BBFS but refuses to give any type of BJ. Which boggles my mind. But damn these pics make me want to hit her back up again LOL.

I remember you telling me about her a while ago, so I messaged her. I guess she isn't into older guys, because I never got a response! LOL!

Blue.

**MaxieMac** · 01-14-22 21:19

Unfortunately she's ghost a lot and it's kinda annoying to set up a meeting with her, I'm not sure how you guys actually saw her.

**DaReal86** · 01-14-22 18:08

Originally Posted by Iphone97 [View Original Post]

Wow didn't know veebug did BBFS, last time she wouldn't even do a regular CBJ. Said she doesn't do that. Couple pics I've found of her online.

She does BBFS but refuses to give any type of BJ. Which boggles my mind. But damn these pics make me want to hit her back up again LOL.

**Iphone97** · 01-14-22 16:07

Originally Posted by BigBoss203 [View Original Post]

Since Seeking added that extra security (can't use incognito efficiently) and price hike, I will not renew for some time. I am sharing two girls I've had my fun with. I've shared them before here but a second time doesn't hurt.

Veebug is from Stratford, cool chick, stripper and okay body. Not fat but not slim. BBFS available. Range $200-$300. She cannot host. Loves to smoke weed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...7-6a017eb82f57

This one is Beeiscute, she is 19, BBFS available and cannot host. Donation $200-300. Location is in Enfield. Loves to smoke weed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-2e3823130e48..

Wow didn't know veebug did BBFS, last time she wouldn't even do a regular CBJ. Said she doesn't do that. Couple pics I've found of her online.