"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**FarFarAway** · 01-17-22 10:10

Originally Posted by Roadie1 [View Original Post]

It has nothing to do with swinging both ways. They're not on there because they're attracted to older men or women. They're on there because they have financial trouble. It has nothing to do with sexual attraction for them. They are going to do what they have to do in order to get the money.

An overly simplistic analysis, as any full read of these threads will show.

**Roadie1** · 01-17-22 06:57

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

I never would believe that a lot of women swing both ways. Is this true as a lot of women's Profiles say looking for Men and Women.

Wow!

It has nothing to do with swinging both ways. They're not on there because they're attracted to older men or women. They're on there because they have financial trouble. It has nothing to do with sexual attraction for them. They are going to do what they have to do in order to get the money.

**FarFarAway** · 01-16-22 23:44

I had my first FC w / a mature, but super hot, single mom today. Petite, slim hot body, tiny little ass. She's related that she was formerly in an abusive relationship in NoCal, she left it and moved to SoCal for a new start in life. So, I knew that she wasn't accustomed to being treated kindly by a man. She also says she's sub and likes to be spanked. Calling Dr. Freud please.

My one consideration of her situation led me to bring a bouquet of flowers to the FC. Daisies. I got it at Walmart for $5 at the same time I purchased a ping pong paddle for her spanking. She immediately reacted very positively to my doing that, and at the end as we were doing a post-mortem, mentioned a couple of times how much it meant to her that I brought her flowers. A significant number of women (in the world, not just the bowl) have had zero experience of being treated nicely by men. You can really tap into their need for this with almost no effort or cost. The deal I have w / her was a bigger allowance for the first meet, and then a reasonable amount for me after. She's enthusiastic about our next FC though she will practically get 40% less. It never hurts to be kind to people. The sex w / this gal was smoking hot good, too, so I am all for it.

**Member #7176** · 01-16-22 23:03

It's a Gen-Z thing. Most of these girls are bisexual, because it's the in thing for them to do. Most of us are Boomers and Gen-X, wouldn't get it. I only noticed this because I started asking my SBs if they swing both ways. 3 out of my current 5 SBs swing both ways. 2 of my SBs aren't seeing be regularly, because they are in a lesbian relationship. One positive is that settings up 3 somes has become a lot easier then I thought. Just a word of advice always have your SB pick out the 2nd girl for the 3 some. You will enjoy it more if, the girls are comfortable with each other.

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

I never would believe that a lot of women swing both ways. Is this true as a lot of women's Profiles say looking for Men and Women.

Wow!

**Corynne76** · 01-16-22 20:43

Originally Posted by KevinCalormis [View Original Post]

No, LOL. Because it's an urban legend.

A lot of these girls know each other, same sorority / friend group, roommates, etc. That's how they share information.

That being said, I've had a couple roommates independent of each other as well as multiple girls at the same VCU sororities who had know clue I was creampieing my way through their peers. They are a LOT less organized than some members of this forum want to believe.

Sure there is the reddit, and some individual chats between friends. But there is not the SB equivalent of USSG or a Blacklist.

I've yet to see anything like this on the SB, escort, or other sex worker side of things. Though there are certainly some on the forum. Keep in mind, though, that there ARE blacklisting and screening sites out there, some of which are largely free of charge to women and specifically set up to try and provide some degree of protection for escorts and other sex workers. Whether they're used by the ladies we're talking to is another question entirely. But it's safe to say that each of us DOES build up a reputation. And word *will* get around. Always best to behave ourselves. On both sides of the equation.

**DWinthrop** · 01-16-22 18:55

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

I never would believe that a lot of women swing both ways. Is this true as a lot of women's Profiles say looking for Men and Women.

Wow!

It just means they will take money from anyone.

**CandyMan555** · 01-16-22 18:50

I never would believe that a lot of women swing both ways. Is this true as a lot of women's Profiles say looking for Men and Women.

Wow!

**DWinthrop** · 01-16-22 12:05

Originally Posted by JWalker350 [View Original Post]

Do you have the links for SB discussion?

No, LOL. Because it's an urban legend.

A lot of these girls know each other, same sorority / friend group, roommates, etc. That's how they share information.

That being said, I've had a couple roommates independent of each other as well as multiple girls at the same VCU sororities who had know clue I was creampieing my way through their peers. They are a LOT less organized than some members of this forum want to believe.

Sure there is the reddit, and some individual chats between friends. But there is not the SB equivalent of USSG or a Blacklist.

**JWalker350** · 01-16-22 11:50

Originally Posted by SDDude1 [View Original Post]

The majority of the SBs definitely know about this forum. They have a forum of their own where they worn the other girls about scammers and fuck-and-dumpers. They know the allowances that you've paid other girls and they know if you're someone who cancels last minute, all before you even have a conversation with them. I got in big trouble reviewing a girl on here a couple of years ago. When I started constantly getting blocked immediately without any conversation, I realized that I had a bad reputation and had to change everything on my profile. An SB finally told me she saw me on the forum. They communicate on Redditt also.

Do you have the links for SB discussion?

**SDDude1** · 01-16-22 10:38

Originally Posted by SBmidlo [View Original Post]

So this one was reviewed in the post I mentioned. https://members.seeking.com/member/6...9-a6f9d400409b.

And has since added this to her profile" "Since it has been brought to my attention that men are reviewing us ladies on another website, I will be locking my photos to completely private. ".

Why in the world would anyone tell any of them about this site? Or may she got lucky by Googling her screen name. Highly doubt that though.

The majority of the SBs definitely know about this forum. They have a forum of their own where they worn the other girls about scammers and fuck-and-dumpers. They know the allowances that you've paid other girls and they know if you're someone who cancels last minute, all before you even have a conversation with them. I got in big trouble reviewing a girl on here a couple of years ago. When I started constantly getting blocked immediately without any conversation, I realized that I had a bad reputation and had to change everything on my profile. An SB finally told me she saw me on the forum. They communicate on Redditt also.

**SBmidlo** · 01-16-22 09:06

Originally Posted by BlueDrive [View Original Post]

Anyone have recent dreams with her? Wondering how things are these days. ?

https://www.seeking.com/member/19a05...e-b8931be6c0e1

She hasn't been active since last June. I had a M&G back then and passed. Search for post #20243 for details.

**BlueDrive** · 01-15-22 23:12

Anyone have recent dreams with her? Wondering how things are these days. ?

https://www.seeking.com/member/19a05...e-b8931be6c0e1

**EscortReview89** · 01-15-22 16:03

I have been seeing a SB for a few years now that is open to and has done a few MFM, she went by Little Red Foxx on SA but her profile is down. Goes by Jennifer are, and was reviewed on this site, but I can't find any reviews. She is aware that this site exist and her number is past around, and doesn't mind, and that a few of her MFM were coordinated here. Was wondering who those gentlemen were and if we could link up, since she also has wanted to have a train ran on her.

**RogerOver** · 01-14-22 11:03

Originally Posted by SBmidlo [View Original Post]

So this one was reviewed in the post I mentioned. https://members.seeking.com/member/6...9-a6f9d400409b.

And has since added this to her profile" "Since it has been brought to my attention that men are reviewing us ladies on another website, I will be locking my photos to completely private. ".

Why in the world would anyone tell any of them about this site? Or may she got lucky by Googling her screen name. Highly doubt that though.

Some white knight may have mentioned it, but seriously, this board is crawled by google nearly constantly. I can search on a girl's name or handle from google and this site will likely show up in the results. They may find it that way. I'm sure the girls read and share info on some board like this one.

**SBmidlo** · 01-14-22 09:55

So this one was reviewed in the post I mentioned. https://members.seeking.com/member/6...9-a6f9d400409b.

And has since added this to her profile" "Since it has been brought to my attention that men are reviewing us ladies on another website, I will be locking my photos to completely private. ".

Why in the world would anyone tell any of them about this site? Or may she got lucky by Googling her screen name. Highly doubt that though.