Seeking Arrangements

**MinorLeague** · 01-15-22 01:07

Originally Posted by BR1201 [View Original Post]

Anyone have any feedback on this one? Dorchester is my kryptonite but she's cute.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...e-ae0e1468bd75

She wanted $1,200 so I didn't go through with the meeting, her age and looks don't warrant that price in my opinion.

**MinorLeague** · 01-15-22 01:06

Originally Posted by Hyperion11 [View Original Post]

Shall I even try to confront her? Or just let it go and hope for the best.

I don't think you need to confront her, that might just exacerbate the situation. There's a couple ways you could go if you wanted to though.

When I have first meetings I only have cash in the room and my wallet, ID, etc. Either in another room in the same hotel or in the car.

**BR1201** · 01-15-22 00:10

Anyone have any feedback on this one? Dorchester is my kryptonite but she's cute.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...e-ae0e1468bd75

**Hyperion11** · 01-14-22 23:52

Seems I'm having a really bad streak with SA.

Met tonight Dreammexoxo (no link, as she either deactivated the account or ignored me). Phone number ending in 8872‬.

Met at a hotel, got some drinks, she really seemed genuine, went to the room, did the deed (meh, everything covered, plain and boring). Afterwards I did the mistake of going to bathroom to quickly wash up. When I came back, she was all dressed and ready to go. We said our goodbyes and she left.

One hour later I get a message from Chase that it blocked a large transaction on my credit card. Quickly checked my wallet, my credit and debit cards were missing.

Now, I don't worry much about the cards. I already blocked them and flagged the fraudulent transactions: gas, smoke shop and $200 for uber eats (WTF! ) . However, in the same wallet I had my driving license, so now she might have my real name and address.

Shall I even try to confront her? Or just let it go and hope for the best.

**Bran001** · 01-14-22 21:23

Originally Posted by DJrunner [View Original Post]

I have met with a handful of solid women on site yet my frustration is the bullshit favorites you get from out of state women. Its nonsense and the reason I will not renew. Taking a long break and with the increase in their price good luck with that. Just be honest with the favorites. For shits and giggles I did email back an out of country girl and just got a phone number. Asked another question same reply. Good luck.

I have no idea why that is so ruining your sa experience. If it's messages just delete them unread. If someone favorites your profile -- who the hell cares? And if you do care, block them.

It really is just a very side issue to using the site.

**Bran001** · 01-14-22 21:17

Originally Posted by NicosWave24 [View Original Post]

I recently saw a friends fianc on SA. I'm torn because he's a long time very good friend from high school. I feel the need to tell him before he marries the chick also that's fighting against my natura instinct to just mind my own. Also not sure how I'd tell him I found her because I'm married and he don't know my involvement woth this hobby. Aahh.

Tough one! If I ever felt the need I'd probably email screenshots from an anonymous email address. I screenshotted my friends' daughters SA profile but decided quickly to stay out of it. And the girl is moving out of state with a bf, so that's that anyway.

**Gianni Versace** · 01-14-22 14:32

Originally Posted by JClearMan1 [View Original Post]

Just curious. What town are you meeting in?

Providence.

**JClearMan1** · 01-14-22 14:04

Originally Posted by GianniVersace [View Original Post]

LOL what's crazy it seems like a lot of the girls that are on the site also have boyfriends. Shhh shhh. I'm supppose to meet one up next week. So far the conversations have been very interesting. LOL.

Just curious. What town are you meeting in?

**Gianni Versace** · 01-14-22 13:08

Originally Posted by DJrunner [View Original Post]

I have met with a handful of solid women on site yet my frustration is the bullshit favorites you get from out of state women. Its nonsense and the reason I will not renew. Taking a long break and with the increase in their price good luck with that. Just be honest with the favorites. For shits and giggles I did email back an out of country girl and just got a phone number. Asked another question same reply. Good luck.

By Out of state women did you mean women from Venezuela? LOL Normally I just delete the message without even looking at it LOL.

**Gianni Versace** · 01-14-22 12:28

Originally Posted by Joe1223 [View Original Post]

I was seeing a girl that had a BF but ended it after a few visits. Usually when they get involved with a full time BF is when I move on. The possible drama that it can create is more than I want and most of the girls are BB everything so there's that. Ofc if they don't tell me how do I know so it's all good but usually there are plenty of hints eventually. Personal preference to share her just not mine.

Remember that girl Jenna from Lowell with the sinus infection. While she was on SA she also had a boyfriend who was hard at work as an electrician working on the Encore Hotel while we were hard at work raw dogging his girl LOL.

**Joe1223** · 01-14-22 12:07

Originally Posted by GianniVersace [View Original Post]

LOL what's crazy it seems like a lot of the girls that are on the site also have boyfriends. Shhh shhh. I'm supppose to meet one up next week. So far the conversations have been very interesting. LOL.

I was seeing a girl that had a BF but ended it after a few visits. Usually when they get involved with a full time BF is when I move on. The possible drama that it can create is more than I want and most of the girls are BB everything so there's that. Ofc if they don't tell me how do I know so it's all good but usually there are plenty of hints eventually. Personal preference to share her just not mine.

**DJrunner** · 01-14-22 06:31

I have met with a handful of solid women on site yet my frustration is the bullshit favorites you get from out of state women. Its nonsense and the reason I will not renew. Taking a long break and with the increase in their price good luck with that. Just be honest with the favorites. For shits and giggles I did email back an out of country girl and just got a phone number. Asked another question same reply. Good luck.

**RandomChance72** · 01-14-22 05:06

Anyone have information about this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...2-0927a9d936f2

**MinorLeague** · 01-14-22 01:48

Originally Posted by GianniVersace [View Original Post]

So after taking a SB to one of these fancy places do you ever transition to a non paid arrangement? Back in the day alot of these women would often have guys ask to split the check. Alot of times in the civvy world I notice a woman just wants to be treated like a princess once in a while.

Yea one SB started buying me gifts (no idea why LOL) and another said she fell in love and wanted to move in together (I declined). I find it's better to keep things an arrangement, less messy that way; though in my younger days I did end up dating two pro's (at different times). Don't recommend that either.