Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[TopGun9]

Prior to their price increase, I was getting promotional emails from them daily.

I won't renew as my biggest gripe is the scam and spam members they allow and force us to report. I don't know if there's a better way they can screen the women but having them pay a nominal fee to join has to be better than the current state of allowing any female for free. The price increase amounts to a slap in the face to clean their site faster. Its become a never ending battle. No thanks.

BMD.

I hear you man, but I did sign up for the premium membership in late December because I had time to kill (took vacation from work). And man, am I glad I did. I fuck around half dozen college age coeds the past two weeks and still have plenty lining up for the coming weeks. I would have brought more to the FC if I had more time and money. The Holiday and Winter break sure to bring out the young ladies. You guys should be breaking your dicks during this period.

[Big Mac Daddy]

Prior to their price increase, I was getting promotional emails from them daily.

I won't renew as my biggest gripe is the scam and spam members they allow and force us to report. I don't know if there's a better way they can screen the women but having them pay a nominal fee to join has to be better than the current state of allowing any “female” for free. The price increase amounts to a slap in the face to clean their site faster. It’s become a never ending battle. No thanks.

BMD.

[BlueFox141]

You just saved me purchasing another membership. Your post is exactly as I found it my last go round with the exception of the school teacher. She was a very nice nympho when I met her two years ago. Tell her I said hello!

Poo.

You are very welcome, sir. What exactly do I tell her- "Poo says Hi"? PM me if you want to tell me how to do it. I have you to thank for my seeing her. I had to join Seeking in order to do it, so I guess I have you to blame for all the money I've spent on my membership! LOL! I have to say that I have had some fun in the hunt on there. I think that the hunt is one of the reasons I used to enjoy the Waterbury SWer scene. I can remember 8 to 10 years ago when it was just a matter of driving around the loop a couple times, not in search for a good one, but deciding which one you wanted to pick up. Sometimes it was a difficult choice. Now it's dead most of the time. I did see one yesterday on Seeking. She is thick and a tad heavier than I usually like, however she is a ton of fun and has a very responsive body. When I first started talking to her she was in an apartment in Bristol and we were having difficulty matching up our schedules. I got a text from her earlier in the week and there was some kind of problem with some hazardous material in her apartment and the town of Bristol condemned it. She was out on the street. Her two kids are with her ex now.

She ran out of money in hotels and is still waiting for the town of Bristol to put her in some housing. She's hot to trot and looking for help. PM me if you are a senior that I know well and have worked with before, and I will give you her username and maybe my name to drop. She won't know me by Blue, she will know me by my username. If I don't know you well and haven't worked with you in the past I will delete your message. She definitely could use some help today and tomorrow. I got her down to $200 when she was living in her apartment. Because of her circumstances I honored that price. I also took her out for some food. I know I'll be able to see her again for less.

Blue.

[ILoveThatPoo]

Okay, I promise to update you guys with these prospects that I had. The two that agreed to reasonable rates both disappeared. The first one ghosted me starting the morning of our date and deleted her profile. The second one kept putting the date off and then deleted her profile! I am hoping that at least one of the two duos I've been chatting with get together with me now that school is starting again. My seeking membership expires in the next couple of days. I'm not sure I'm going to redo it anytime soon. It's a lot of work and this past year hasn't paid off as much as others. I was lucky enough to get a 35-year-old in Waterbury that wasn't looking for money, she was just horny and wanted the sex. She lost her job as a manager at Macy's in Waterbury when they closed down the mall and she disappeared! Probably the most fun I had was getting a very favoriable arrangement with Pink Sugar very early in her career! I had half a dozen one night stands, and then there's the grade school teacher who is an absolute nymphomaniac who I still see periodically. We get along very nicely and sometimes just go out to dinner. She's extremely picky about who she goes out with and I have set her up with a couple of guys on this site, but she's adamant that I have to know them very well. Please don't PM me.

Blue.

You just saved me purchasing another membership. Your post is exactly as I found it my last go round with the exception of the school teacher. She was a very nice nympho when I met her two years ago. Tell her I said hello!

Poo.

[JonMels]

Not great. $100,45 minutes, cannot host.

She's thick but firm. Late 20's has a young child.

The real issue is her limits: Only light kissing, covered everything. BBBJ might be in the cards after a few dates, but I won't play it out to find out.

Biggest plus: Soft hands and she likes touching.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...kwpaa0qEbwMDy8

[BlueFox141]

I decided that seeking was getting too expensive so the beginning of January I'll be done. Suddenly, I'm getting some good action. I'm still waiting for the college twosome to get home from break. I've got Hartford young ladies ages 20 and 24 who have agreed to meet me at very reasonable rates. They both have bought the idea that I don't usually pay over $200 for a meet. Also, if they can't host I need to take $50 out for room expenses. I've told them I'm looking for a regular, and since they are unknown quantities, and I'm not sure how we will match up sexually, I will pay $100 for the first meet and $150 for the next few. After that, a possible shopping trip is necessary, and I'll pay $200 per meet thereafter. We are going to go out to dinner, which they will not get paid for, or ask for any money for gas or anything else, and check each other out and see if we want to continue with the arrangement. The first one I am seeing Tuesday night at a restaurant on the Berlin Turnpike. She has already asked me if we can go to the motel afterwards and I said sure. The second one, hasn't figured out what's a good time to meet because of the holidays. I've also got the two college student duo that are sway for the holiday break. They were reasonable. There's also two other duos that I am chatting with. Please don't PM me for usernames, I will leave a review after I've successfully met up with any of them. More than likely if I do give out the identity of any of them, somebody on here will message them and say that they hear that they are taking my prices. Then I'm fucked- not the way I am hoping for! Talking to a few others but nothing promising yet. Too many times I've gotten to the point where dinner is in the books and I get that text that they need money for something. I've learned to tell them up front not to bother asking.

Okay, I promise to update you guys with these prospects that I had. The two that agreed to reasonable rates both disappeared. The first one ghosted me starting the morning of our date and deleted her profile. The second one kept putting the date off and then deleted her profile! I am hoping that at least one of the two duos I've been chatting with get together with me now that school is starting again. My seeking membership expires in the next couple of days. I'm not sure I'm going to redo it anytime soon. It's a lot of work and this past year hasn't paid off as much as others. I was lucky enough to get a 35-year-old in Waterbury that wasn't looking for money, she was just horny and wanted the sex. She lost her job as a manager at Macy's in Waterbury when they closed down the mall and she disappeared! Probably the most fun I had was getting a very favoriable arrangement with Pink Sugar very early in her career! I had half a dozen one night stands, and then there's the grade school teacher who is an absolute nymphomaniac who I still see periodically. We get along very nicely and sometimes just go out to dinner. She's extremely picky about who she goes out with and I have set her up with a couple of guys on this site, but she's adamant that I have to know them very well. Please don't PM me.

Blue.

[JonMels]

Had been seeing this one on and off. Just mother on SA. Anyone else partake?

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...0-68718eeed96a

I had tried to connect, even texted and came to a $200 agreement visit her at her place. It still hasn't materialized.

[MyHobby]

Had been seeing this one on and off. Just mother on SA. Anyone else partake?

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...0-68718eeed96a

[Sutigel2]

Since Seeking added that extra security (can't use incognito efficiently) and price hike, I will not renew for some time. I am sharing two girls I've had my fun with. I've shared them before here but a second time doesn't hurt.

Veebug is from Stratford, cool chick, stripper and okay body. Not fat but not slim. BBFS available. Range $200-$300. She cannot host. Loves to smoke weed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...7-6a017eb82f57

This one is Beeiscute, she is 19, BBFS available and cannot host. Donation $200-300. Location is in Enfield. Loves to smoke weed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-2e3823130e48

Merry Christmas!

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...e-84f887cc2ec7

Is this the same girl? Used this screen name for one day, if so.

[JMan98]

Here are a few pictures of her.

It says she hasn't been active since September. Do you mind pm her snap or a number?

[TSmithers24]

Care to share what is your go-to first liner?

All depends on the profile. At first I just wrote something and pasted it over and over and changed the name but that didn't work. Then I went to a more personalized first message and it worked so much better. Always try to work in a question about something they like to do from their profile. Give them something to type up. Something that won't warrant a one word answer. Got to get them engaged.

[BigBoss203]

Here are a few pictures of her.

Since Seeking added that extra security (can't use incognito efficiently) and price hike, I will not renew for some time. I am sharing two girls I've had my fun with. I've shared them before here but a second time doesn't hurt.

Veebug is from Stratford, cool chick, stripper and okay body. Not fat but not slim. BBFS available. Range $200-$300. She cannot host. Loves to smoke weed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...7-6a017eb82f57

This one is Beeiscute, she is 19, BBFS available and cannot host. Donation $200-300. Location is in Enfield. Loves to smoke weed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-2e3823130e48

Merry Christmas!

[BigBoss203]

Care to share what is your go-to first liner?

I doubt many will read this all but I've had a ton of success on SA the past two years and wanted to write up how I've had success. This may not be the right site for this but whatever, I'm bored this morning. Might get roasted for this, might not but it has worked for me!

I have met with almost 20 women from the site over those two years and could've met with probably 10 more. I've also had 3 long term arrangements as well. Probably over half have been what some here call UTRs but I call real everyday beautiful young woman and they have been great! This is how I get THOSE women. If you are looking for STG types, don't read this and good luck. That's not why I'm writing this. This is just my personal experience and strategy and you may have a different one that works for you. Also, this takes a lot of time that you may not have. There are some women that want to get right to the point and if so, I do and will meet them quickly if the price is right. Again, this is not for them but I still go through the beginning part of this process to get them comfortable. Most are much more willing to go lower than what they want with someone they feel comfortable with! My range is 2-4 per meet and have had a lot of success with that with some really hot women and some just above average but I could tell that they would be a great time. Haha!

Here goes. YMMV!

I join the site usually every 6-8 months or so and during that time I build a literal spreadsheet of names and numbers that I get. I start by sending tons and tons of messages to women I'm interested in. It takes time but I read their profiles, mention something from it, explain I have experience, say I'm looking for something long term and ask them to review my profile. The message is very polite, not too long but not just "how are you". My profile is detailed and has the description of a real sugar daddy looking for something long term, which I am but also will do one time meets but don't say that there. Most of these women want to think they are getting what they read about, a real sugar daddy to "take care of them". They don't want to feel like hookers. This is all to get the conversation started and when it does I don't talk about sex or how much or anything like that (unless they do) and just try to have a fun conversation. I am overly nice during this time, compliment them a lot and try to make them laugh or smile. I get a lot of "awww, you're so sweet" and "You aren't like the other guys on here" comments. This gets them to drop their guard a little because they finally met one of the nice guys on SA after so many "How much for how long? "Do you do anal? "Lets meet tonight? The good ones want to be wooed.

When they ask what I'm looking for I say I like to start with per meet and have two to three dates per month. I like fun dates like dinners and drinks, shopping, outdoor activities and even weekend trips later in the arrangement and that once we build trust we can move to an allowance that works for both of us. Then I say that all my previous arrangements involved intimacy as well (I never use the term sex or anything like that just intimacy). Then I ask if that is all OK with them. Some will say sounds good but for how much and I'll ask them to move to text to have the money conversation at this point. Some will say yes and nothing else and I'll also ask to go to text so we can get to know each other further and discuss more.

When we get to text I don't go right into how much or details about what sexual stuff they are OK with unless they ask. I continue just being nice, asking about them, telling them about me, telling them about my previous long term arrangements and other stuff. After a bit of that, it's time to talk money. By this time she is already drawn in. She already knows she's dealing with a normal good guy and not an asshole who's going to just use and abuse her but instead someone who will hopefully stick around for a while. So when she says 4 or 5 or even 6-7 to meet and I say 2-3 she is much more likely to say OK or meet closer to my number because she's comfortable. Some understand that in the end she will get a lot more from one guy over time and have stability. She might get that 4-7 per meet from someone else but will have to meet with a bunch of different guys, deal with the asshole aspect on SA, that danger aspect of meeting many and the money will be more sporadic. The ones who don't realize it, I will actually say that to them and sell them on that point of stability and long term for less and it usually works but some call bullshit saying we'll meet once for low amount and I'll bolt and it's hard to get past. If they agree and they are comfortable, you can read if it's the right time to talk more sexually with them. Most will be good with it and it moves everything along.

Then I ask for a date since we've talked enough where they mostly trust me and we've had some sexual conversations and they know that the first date will end in a room. This whole process saves me from doing a bunch of meet and greets. If I think it's someone I want to start something with then I will do a little something extra for the date. One thing I've found they really like is to find out their favorite drink and then make it in the room for them. We then usually have a great and really comfortable date because of the connection we built in text. In some cases we even skip the outside stuff and I'll bring drinks and order food to the room. Most of my in room time lasts from 3-5 hours and even spent 7 hours with one woman, which was awesome. After the date, it's up in the air how it goes. Sometimes we start something, sometimes we won't. Sometimes I will see them again, sometimes I won't, sometimes they want to see me again, sometimes they won't. Either way it was a great night with a beautiful young lady for the amount I'm looking for.

Key terms to use: arrangement, intimacy, connection, trust.

Be nice, be respectful, treat like you would a woman you are trying to make your girlfriend and you will get very far.

Yes, it's a lot of work but to me personally it's worth it. I enjoy the hunt and getting to know these young women. That's not for everyone. I like the longer term stuff while sprinkling in some one nighters for some variety. For those that read this far, I'm surprised but glad you did.

[TSmithers24]

Not sure what made me think of this but for anyone new to SA, here is something I wrote a while back that is a pretty good read on using the site. If you are looking for STG types don't read it, it doesn't apply. It's just one strategy that works for me. Many here have had much success doing other stuff.

Not sure why the link doesn't seem to be working. It's post #3641 in this thread.

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?26376-Seeking-Arrangement-and-Other-Dating-Site-Reviews&p=5394453&viewfull=1#post5394453

[TSmithers24]

Haven't posted in a while since I've been seeing two from the site regularly and having a great time.

I'm really surprised by the price increase with everything that is going on right now. Maybe they thing since inflation is high they can just say they had to raise their price. Just nuts.

I haven't been on there since the spring since I joined for a month and found 7 women to meet. Met them all, continues with two and still see some of the others occasionally. Good luck all!!