Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[MyHobby]

Had been seeing this one on and off. Just mother on SA. Anyone else partake?

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...0-68718eeed96a

[Sutigel2]

Since Seeking added that extra security (can't use incognito efficiently) and price hike, I will not renew for some time. I am sharing two girls I've had my fun with. I've shared them before here but a second time doesn't hurt.

Veebug is from Stratford, cool chick, stripper and okay body. Not fat but not slim. BBFS available. Range $200-$300. She cannot host. Loves to smoke weed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...7-6a017eb82f57

This one is Beeiscute, she is 19, BBFS available and cannot host. Donation $200-300. Location is in Enfield. Loves to smoke weed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-2e3823130e48

Merry Christmas!

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...e-84f887cc2ec7

Is this the same girl? Used this screen name for one day, if so.

[JMan98]

Here are a few pictures of her.

It says she hasn't been active since September. Do you mind pm her snap or a number?

[TSmithers24]

Care to share what is your go-to first liner?

All depends on the profile. At first I just wrote something and pasted it over and over and changed the name but that didn't work. Then I went to a more personalized first message and it worked so much better. Always try to work in a question about something they like to do from their profile. Give them something to type up. Something that won't warrant a one word answer. Got to get them engaged.

[BigBoss203]

Here are a few pictures of her.

Since Seeking added that extra security (can't use incognito efficiently) and price hike, I will not renew for some time. I am sharing two girls I've had my fun with. I've shared them before here but a second time doesn't hurt.

Veebug is from Stratford, cool chick, stripper and okay body. Not fat but not slim. BBFS available. Range $200-$300. She cannot host. Loves to smoke weed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...7-6a017eb82f57

This one is Beeiscute, she is 19, BBFS available and cannot host. Donation $200-300. Location is in Enfield. Loves to smoke weed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-2e3823130e48

Merry Christmas!

[BigBoss203]

Care to share what is your go-to first liner?

I doubt many will read this all but I've had a ton of success on SA the past two years and wanted to write up how I've had success. This may not be the right site for this but whatever, I'm bored this morning. Might get roasted for this, might not but it has worked for me!

I have met with almost 20 women from the site over those two years and could've met with probably 10 more. I've also had 3 long term arrangements as well. Probably over half have been what some here call UTRs but I call real everyday beautiful young woman and they have been great! This is how I get THOSE women. If you are looking for STG types, don't read this and good luck. That's not why I'm writing this. This is just my personal experience and strategy and you may have a different one that works for you. Also, this takes a lot of time that you may not have. There are some women that want to get right to the point and if so, I do and will meet them quickly if the price is right. Again, this is not for them but I still go through the beginning part of this process to get them comfortable. Most are much more willing to go lower than what they want with someone they feel comfortable with! My range is 2-4 per meet and have had a lot of success with that with some really hot women and some just above average but I could tell that they would be a great time. Haha!

Here goes. YMMV!

I join the site usually every 6-8 months or so and during that time I build a literal spreadsheet of names and numbers that I get. I start by sending tons and tons of messages to women I'm interested in. It takes time but I read their profiles, mention something from it, explain I have experience, say I'm looking for something long term and ask them to review my profile. The message is very polite, not too long but not just "how are you". My profile is detailed and has the description of a real sugar daddy looking for something long term, which I am but also will do one time meets but don't say that there. Most of these women want to think they are getting what they read about, a real sugar daddy to "take care of them". They don't want to feel like hookers. This is all to get the conversation started and when it does I don't talk about sex or how much or anything like that (unless they do) and just try to have a fun conversation. I am overly nice during this time, compliment them a lot and try to make them laugh or smile. I get a lot of "awww, you're so sweet" and "You aren't like the other guys on here" comments. This gets them to drop their guard a little because they finally met one of the nice guys on SA after so many "How much for how long? "Do you do anal? "Lets meet tonight? The good ones want to be wooed.

When they ask what I'm looking for I say I like to start with per meet and have two to three dates per month. I like fun dates like dinners and drinks, shopping, outdoor activities and even weekend trips later in the arrangement and that once we build trust we can move to an allowance that works for both of us. Then I say that all my previous arrangements involved intimacy as well (I never use the term sex or anything like that just intimacy). Then I ask if that is all OK with them. Some will say sounds good but for how much and I'll ask them to move to text to have the money conversation at this point. Some will say yes and nothing else and I'll also ask to go to text so we can get to know each other further and discuss more.

When we get to text I don't go right into how much or details about what sexual stuff they are OK with unless they ask. I continue just being nice, asking about them, telling them about me, telling them about my previous long term arrangements and other stuff. After a bit of that, it's time to talk money. By this time she is already drawn in. She already knows she's dealing with a normal good guy and not an asshole who's going to just use and abuse her but instead someone who will hopefully stick around for a while. So when she says 4 or 5 or even 6-7 to meet and I say 2-3 she is much more likely to say OK or meet closer to my number because she's comfortable. Some understand that in the end she will get a lot more from one guy over time and have stability. She might get that 4-7 per meet from someone else but will have to meet with a bunch of different guys, deal with the asshole aspect on SA, that danger aspect of meeting many and the money will be more sporadic. The ones who don't realize it, I will actually say that to them and sell them on that point of stability and long term for less and it usually works but some call bullshit saying we'll meet once for low amount and I'll bolt and it's hard to get past. If they agree and they are comfortable, you can read if it's the right time to talk more sexually with them. Most will be good with it and it moves everything along.

Then I ask for a date since we've talked enough where they mostly trust me and we've had some sexual conversations and they know that the first date will end in a room. This whole process saves me from doing a bunch of meet and greets. If I think it's someone I want to start something with then I will do a little something extra for the date. One thing I've found they really like is to find out their favorite drink and then make it in the room for them. We then usually have a great and really comfortable date because of the connection we built in text. In some cases we even skip the outside stuff and I'll bring drinks and order food to the room. Most of my in room time lasts from 3-5 hours and even spent 7 hours with one woman, which was awesome. After the date, it's up in the air how it goes. Sometimes we start something, sometimes we won't. Sometimes I will see them again, sometimes I won't, sometimes they want to see me again, sometimes they won't. Either way it was a great night with a beautiful young lady for the amount I'm looking for.

Key terms to use: arrangement, intimacy, connection, trust.

Be nice, be respectful, treat like you would a woman you are trying to make your girlfriend and you will get very far.

Yes, it's a lot of work but to me personally it's worth it. I enjoy the hunt and getting to know these young women. That's not for everyone. I like the longer term stuff while sprinkling in some one nighters for some variety. For those that read this far, I'm surprised but glad you did.

[TSmithers24]

Not sure what made me think of this but for anyone new to SA, here is something I wrote a while back that is a pretty good read on using the site. If you are looking for STG types don't read it, it doesn't apply. It's just one strategy that works for me. Many here have had much success doing other stuff.

Not sure why the link doesn't seem to be working. It's post #3641 in this thread.

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?26376-Seeking-Arrangement-and-Other-Dating-Site-Reviews&p=5394453&viewfull=1#post5394453

[TSmithers24]

Haven't posted in a while since I've been seeing two from the site regularly and having a great time.

I'm really surprised by the price increase with everything that is going on right now. Maybe they thing since inflation is high they can just say they had to raise their price. Just nuts.

I haven't been on there since the spring since I joined for a month and found 7 women to meet. Met them all, continues with two and still see some of the others occasionally. Good luck all!!

[DaReal86]

Since Seeking added that extra security (can't use incognito efficiently) and price hike, I will not renew for some time. I am sharing two girls I've had my fun with. I've shared them before here but a second time doesn't hurt.

Veebug is from Stratford, cool chick, stripper and okay body. Not fat but not slim. BBFS available. Range $200-$300. She cannot host. Loves to smoke weed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...7-6a017eb82f57

Veebug is a fun girl, can take a pounding. I would say about a 6 in the body. Only con is that she doesn't give BJs.

[BigBoss203]

Since Seeking added that extra security (can't use incognito efficiently) and price hike, I will not renew for some time. I am sharing two girls I've had my fun with. I've shared them before here but a second time doesn't hurt.

Veebug is from Stratford, cool chick, stripper and okay body. Not fat but not slim. BBFS available. Range $200-$300. She cannot host. Loves to smoke weed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...7-6a017eb82f57

This one is Beeiscute, she is 19, BBFS available and cannot host. Donation $200-300. Location is in Enfield. Loves to smoke weed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-2e3823130e48

Merry Christmas!

[MyHobby]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...b-d175cbf6ed43

Asked for three hundred allowance, brought her down to 250.

Is the mustache included?

[BlueFox141]

Got together with this one last week.

Easy to communicate and was dtf. Exchanged some text messages, discuss numbers and set up time to met at a FC in downtown the next day. You can bang her for a few hours for a very fair fee.

Too bad everything is cover with her, and can't hold a conversation too well. Other than that, she was pretty sweet and show up on time and can take a good beating without complaints. I won't repeat, but here's her profile.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...a-45d01a156f9a

P.S.: Don't contact me for her digits, you got her profile link so get to work lmao.

Good luck with your request to not contact you for her number. I have probably requested that a couple dozen times and never has at least one, usually multiple times. Most of the time it starts "I know you asked not to be contacted, but. " and the explanations on how it's "okay, because their situation is different. " This one seems like as close to a sure thing as it gets, so I'm thinking at least two, maybe as many as six. Nice find.

Blue.

[TopGun9]

Got together with this one last week.

Easy to communicate and was dtf. Exchanged some text messages, discuss numbers and set up time to met at a FC in downtown the next day. You can bang her for a few hours for a very fair fee.

Too bad everything is cover with her, and can't hold a conversation too well. Other than that, she was pretty sweet and show up on time and can take a good beating without complaints. I won't repeat, but here's her profile.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...a-45d01a156f9a

P.S.: Don't contact me for her digits, you got her profile link so get to work lmao.

[Iphone97]

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[BoredinCT12]

Can you both post a pix or link so we know who to stay away from. Thanks!

She has not been on any site for at least two years. No pics or links but she did always post out of Rockville.