WYP, SA, and other SD sites

**Norm Gerd** · 12-20-21 12:43

Originally Posted by NormGerd [View Original Post]

Any intel on this one. Getting deep into negotiations.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...6-75030a10410d

Norm!

This one seems legit, and interested, but not my cup of tea once I saw a face pic. If she floats your boat, I am sure she is real.

Norm!

**Itfcd** · 12-20-21 12:36

Originally Posted by NormGerd [View Original Post]

I too have been pondering other sites, because this go round Seeking has sucked, as opposed to my last go round when it was just mediocre, but at least I wasn't swamped by scammers and south american profiles. Unfortunately, I don't see any better sites. Secret Benefits uses a credit system, which means if you reach out to a scammer its too bad, you used your credits.

My best SB experiences were all through craigslist and sd.com, which is no longer popular with the ladies (I think they pay on that site, while seeking is free for the ladies).

Hopefully in my last week on seeking something will pan out. I have been having super hot sexting (and regular texting too) with a lady I believe is genuine, but the holidays have made getting together tough. Still stuck on 2 meets. Hoping that improves before I time out.

Norm!

As far as I'm concerned, Secret Benefits is just throwing your money down the drain. As bad as SA could possibly be, SB is worse. I think the only one I've even spoken to from there is "SeekingintheDMV" (name on SA is "SeekingInDMV", which you can search by here), who others have met and have had reports about, but she's also on SA anyway, or was. Literally the only one out of 30+ women who have actually written me back with real intent. Even the ones who seem to have accounts on both sites don't respond when I say things on SA like, "Hey, you messaged me there, but you can talk to me here. " Its only value to me is trying to sniff out real from fake, and even that is of limited use.

**Norm Gerd** · 12-20-21 12:31

Originally Posted by NormGerd [View Original Post]

Chatting with this one out of DC. Anyone been here?

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...7-5d9f447ed88b

Norm!

After a lot of texting, and discussions about times to meet, asked for a $$$ pair of boots before we meet. Not happening. Says in her previous two arrangements she got spoiled before ever meeting. Quite frankly, if she expects the boots as a perk, she has GPS and not worth even having an intro meeting. On to the next one.

Norm!

**Norm Gerd** · 12-20-21 11:34

Originally Posted by Mongerian [View Original Post]

I saw in an email that they are raising prices in January.

If it wasn't bad enough with the almost complete takeover of the site by scammer / bots. Last week I was getting a few a daythey all start with the same script and it's really getting annoying and a waste of time.

I've had lots of fun with women off there, but it is getting way too costly in terms of money and time, even with the discounts they occasionally post. If they run a New Years deal (before the price increase), it may be my last time signing up.

What other sugar sites are worth the time and money? If any? Seeking benefits maybe?

I too have been pondering other sites, because this go round Seeking has sucked, as opposed to my last go round when it was just mediocre, but at least I wasn't swamped by scammers and south american profiles. Unfortunately, I don't see any better sites. Secret Benefits uses a credit system, which means if you reach out to a scammer its too bad, you used your credits.

My best SB experiences were all through craigslist and sd.com, which is no longer popular with the ladies (I think they pay on that site, while seeking is free for the ladies).

Hopefully in my last week on seeking something will pan out. I have been having super hot sexting (and regular texting too) with a lady I believe is genuine, but the holidays have made getting together tough. Still stuck on 2 meets. Hoping that improves before I time out.

Norm!

**Norm Gerd** · 12-20-21 11:29

Originally Posted by Boredguy25 [View Original Post]

Super eager to meet, but when I got 5 minutes away, started asking for gas money to get to me. Would not let me send uber or even meet at a public place for me to pick her up.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...a-2fd3acb827c9

Everything about that profile screams fake. I saw it and didn't even bother to write.

Norm!

**Norm Gerd** · 12-20-21 11:18

Originally Posted by RegJoe732 [View Original Post]

Kinmaebaby - https://members.seeking.com/member/7...b-52dbef008c04.

Total scammer. She or whoever convinced she was DTF by text, then took money for pics & vids that were not even her. Then ghosted me. Live and learn. Again. Yes. I know and feel like an idiot.

This is at least the third incarnation of this lady I have seen. She keeps deleting and remaking a profile with the same pics.

But the bigger question I have is with all the free porn on the internet, why would anyone pay for pictures to begin with?

Norm!

**Mongerian** · 12-20-21 09:26

I saw in an email that they are raising prices in January.

If it wasn't bad enough with the almost complete takeover of the site by scammer / bots. Last week I was getting a few a day—they all start with the same script and it's really getting annoying and a waste of time.

I've had lots of fun with women off there, but it is getting way too costly in terms of money and time, even with the discounts they occasionally post. If they run a New Years deal (before the price increase), it may be my last time signing up.

What other sugar sites are worth the time and money? If any? Seeking benefits maybe?

**Boredguy25** · 12-19-21 18:29

Super eager to meet, but when I got 5 minutes away, started asking for gas money to get to me. Would not let me send uber or even meet at a public place for me to pick her up.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...a-2fd3acb827c9

**RegJoe732** · 12-19-21 17:02

SeductiveSocialite.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...8-0c0ee40ac5be

Profile looks hot! But want's like $50 up front, to build trust! No way.

**BuffBill75** · 12-19-21 16:51

Originally Posted by RegJoe732 [View Original Post]

Kinmaebaby - https://members.seeking.com/member/7...b-52dbef008c04.

Total scammer. She or whoever convinced she was DTF by text, then took money for pics & vids that were not even her. Then ghosted me. Live and learn. Again. Yes. I know and feel like an idiot.

Never ever ever send money to someone you haven't met in person.

**RegJoe732** · 12-19-21 14:02

Kinmaebaby - https://members.seeking.com/member/7...b-52dbef008c04.

Total scammer. She or whoever convinced she was DTF by text, then took money for pics & vids that were not even her. Then ghosted me. Live and learn. Again. Yes. I know and feel like an idiot.

**BuffBill75** · 12-17-21 18:22

Originally Posted by NormGerd [View Original Post]

She looks cute. Let us know how this turns out.

Norm!!

Send me a DM devil.

**Norm Gerd** · 12-17-21 17:14

Chatting with this one out of DC. Anyone been here?

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...7-5d9f447ed88b

Norm!

**Norm Gerd** · 12-17-21 14:40

Originally Posted by FunForDevils [View Original Post]

Chatting with this one. So far DTF vibes. Anyone had seen this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...1-4948a9be5780

She looks cute. Let us know how this turns out.

Norm!!

**WeDoRecover** · 12-17-21 01:52

Originally Posted by NormGerd [View Original Post]

I'm curious how you can tell. Different pics, and profiles are very different.

Quite frankly, the one I am talking to doesn't seem bright enough to run two profiles at the same time and keep them straight.

Norm!

This is a different Dana. She is older.