Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

**DogMan75** · 01-06-22 10:20

I expected to be taken to task for my arrangement-- but all the replies look at it like I did-- All the working girls I liked left the business or the area except the one I SD now-- I got tired of being disappointed with a new girl 4 times out of 5 and leaving totally unsatisfied for $150-250. Now its $1100 a month plus a motel bill every Monday night (why a motel bill when I'm renting her a house? She insulates her two kids) and no danger of not getting there 3-4 times (counting one in the morning). Plus I am dominant and she is now comfortable letting her submissive side out in a less professional environment.

It was interesting to see the responses.

**JustMikey** · 01-06-22 06:23

Originally Posted by DogMan75 [View Original Post]

Working out well for me== had a provider I was seeing about 2 times a month for at 2 years-- tripped all my triggers. She mentioned she had recovered custody of her 2 kids and wanted a "real" place for them, not motels. We worked out a deal 5 months ago- I'm paying her rent and get 4-5 all nighters a month-- and yes I know this is not an exclusive arrangement, she told me from the start she had 2 others regulars she would not cut off, which means there are more. Am I naive? Probably. Do I get everything I want without shopping? Yes. Is what I pay for 4-5 all nighters roughly the same as 6 1 hr visits? Yes.

Bottom line I get everything I want and she is essentially out of the "business" with her kids working a 40 hr job and supplementing with a few of her former regulars (probably doing pretty well financially).

Now go ahead and kick me!!

No kicking. Thats how a sugar baby arrangement works. Although there is some sort of a "low volume" expectation with a sugar baby, for example - A younger woman with a boyfriend her own age and then a discrete older sugar daddy. So she's only fucking two guys most of the time.

I had a similar deal a few years ago with a grad student. Very mature for her age. She had enough of the boyish bullshit from the guys she knew from school. She had two sugar daddies, me and another older guy. She would occasionally hook up with a young guy and then tell me about it. I'm somewhat of an amateur detective and she apparently was truthful with me from what I could find. I would bang her every Friday afternoon (I'm off work then) and the other would bang her every Wednesday (he was off work then). After about a year of this, we actually set up a DP with myself and her other sugar daddy (she loved greek.). The other guy and I didn't mesh well so it was a one time thing, but still fun. The whole deal ended when she got her masters and took a job far away. Still send an occasional text at holidays or her birthday. She basically had me paying her apt rent and the other man paying her car payment. I thought she was being very smart about the whole thing as student w / o a job but with a great body and sexual skills. Good for her. She makes great money now and doesn't sugar, but she has told me that she is hooked on dating guys at least ten years older than herself. Says they have their shit together and treat her better. I believe it.

So it happens. Its working out for you. Enjoy.

**DollarBill50** · 01-05-22 15:40

I had the same setup with a cute 20 something young lady before COVID. I paid her rent for 6 months ($850 per month) and I got a key to her place. She gave it to me. I damn near lived over there. .

All GFE. Never brought a condom and since I took care of the not have kids thing years ago, everything was perfect. She ended up moving to the midwest, but that was by far the best arrangement I have ever had. I would love to find another one like that. So No KICKING from me my brother. I get it and enjoy the fun.

Originally Posted by DogMan75 [View Original Post]

Working out well for me== had a provider I was seeing about 2 times a month for at 2 years-- tripped all my triggers. She mentioned she had recovered custody of her 2 kids and wanted a "real" place for them, not motels. We worked out a deal 5 months ago- I'm paying her rent and get 4-5 all nighters a month-- and yes I know this is not an exclusive arrangement, she told me from the start she had 2 others regulars she would not cut off, which means there are more. Am I naive? Probably. Do I get everything I want without shopping? Yes. Is what I pay for 4-5 all nighters roughly the same as 6 1 hr visits? Yes.

Bottom line I get everything I want and she is essentially out of the "business" with her kids working a 40 hr job and supplementing with a few of her former regulars (probably doing pretty well financially).

Now go ahead and kick me!!

**TheMechanik365** · 01-05-22 13:26

Originally Posted by DogMan75 [View Original Post]

Working out well for me== had a provider I was seeing about 2 times a month for at 2 years-- tripped all my triggers. She mentioned she had recovered custody of her 2 kids and wanted a "real" place for them, not motels. We worked out a deal 5 months ago- I'm paying her rent and get 4-5 all nighters a month-- and yes I know this is not an exclusive arrangement, she told me from the start she had 2 others regulars she would not cut off, which means there are more. Am I naive? Probably. Do I get everything I want without shopping? Yes. Is what I pay for 4-5 all nighters roughly the same as 6 1 hr visits? Yes.

Bottom line I get everything I want and she is essentially out of the "business" with her kids working a 40 hr job and supplementing with a few of her former regulars (probably doing pretty well financially).

Now go ahead and kick me!!

No sir. This is what a SB / SD relationship really is. Not this PPM BS. Pay some bills, help out with groceries, get the car fixed, take them shopping, etc.

You're doing just fine.

**NC Transplant** · 01-05-22 11:48

I see no reason to kick you. 4 or 5 all nighters a month for paying her rent isn't that bad of a deal really. You are getting a real GFE experience and probably getting to hit that 2 or 3 times during the night. I only concern is she may get attached to you? But since you aren't the only one, maybe that isn't a concern. You say for the price of 6 one hour visits? You are getting a lot more than that if you get to stay longer and cuddle and kiss over night and maybe a little morning nookie to boot?

Originally Posted by DogMan75 [View Original Post]

Working out well for me== had a provider I was seeing about 2 times a month for at 2 years-- tripped all my triggers. She mentioned she had recovered custody of her 2 kids and wanted a "real" place for them, not motels. We worked out a deal 5 months ago- I'm paying her rent and get 4-5 all nighters a month-- and yes I know this is not an exclusive arrangement, she told me from the start she had 2 others regulars she would not cut off, which means there are more. Am I naive? Probably. Do I get everything I want without shopping? Yes. Is what I pay for 4-5 all nighters roughly the same as 6 1 hr visits? Yes.

Bottom line I get everything I want and she is essentially out of the "business" with her kids working a 40 hr job and supplementing with a few of her former regulars (probably doing pretty well financially).

Now go ahead and kick me!!

**DogMan75** · 01-05-22 10:41

Working out well for me== had a provider I was seeing about 2 times a month for at 2 years-- tripped all my triggers. She mentioned she had recovered custody of her 2 kids and wanted a "real" place for them, not motels. We worked out a deal 5 months ago- I'm paying her rent and get 4-5 all nighters a month-- and yes I know this is not an exclusive arrangement, she told me from the start she had 2 others regulars she would not cut off, which means there are more. Am I naive? Probably. Do I get everything I want without shopping? Yes. Is what I pay for 4-5 all nighters roughly the same as 6 1 hr visits? Yes.

Bottom line I get everything I want and she is essentially out of the "business" with her kids working a 40 hr job and supplementing with a few of her former regulars (probably doing pretty well financially).

Now go ahead and kick me!!

**AdamEve7** · 01-04-22 18:53

Originally Posted by RyanBB [View Original Post]

Hate to break the bad news but I wouldn't be surprised if half are bona fide escorts, 25 percent close to full time sugar babies seeing 2-4 dudes a day, leaving 25 percent who are either just curious and kicking tires, college girls, picture and video sellers and true SBs looking for guys to buy them stuff. I've been on and off that site your years and SA changed for the worse once the feds shut down back page and made it impossible for agencies to survive. Once that happened 3-4 years ago, all the working girls and pimps went to SA and doubled their pricing.

That's very generalized overall opinion, I was looking info on this one specifically, thanks anyways.

**SnatchHappy** · 01-03-22 17:56

Originally Posted by AdamEve7 [View Original Post]

Have anyone experienced this nerd. Pm me or reply to post with your experiences I am curious as she looks like pro.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...7-0b4541b21e43

Hate to break the bad news but I wouldn't be surprised if half are bona fide escorts, 25 percent close to full time sugar babies seeing 2-4 dudes a day, leaving 25 percent who are either just curious and kicking tires, college girls, picture and video sellers and true SBs looking for guys to buy them stuff. I've been on and off that site your years and SA changed for the worse once the feds shut down back page and made it impossible for agencies to survive. Once that happened 3-4 years ago, all the working girls and pimps went to SA and doubled their pricing.

**AdamEve7** · 12-31-21 19:45

Have anyone experienced this nerd. Pm me or reply to post with your experiences I am curious as she looks like pro.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...7-0b4541b21e43

**Newguy72** · 12-27-21 11:30

I usually get on seeking arrangements every couple years. I've always had success, but like everything else these girls come and go. It's difficult finding someone who can host, but they are out there. My advice is always treat them with respect and don't be afraid to go out and meet them in public first to calm their nerves, if that's what they want.

I've had a lot of luck with girls in their mid-20's just wanting some extra money. But eventually either I can't live up to the financial responsibility or they go and get a boyfriend or a relationship. But I've definitely met some of the hottest women I've ever slept with on that site.

Like others have said, I usually sign up for 30 days, try to make as many contacts as I can and then go from there.

Years ago I was on adult friend finder and Ashley Madison, but I haven't given either of those sites a try in well over five years. Not sure if there's better options out there or not.

I'm not a big fan of putting apps on my phone, but my friend says he's found a lot of women on tinder. He does not hide the fact that he's married and said he never has problems. He meets married women on there too. That's a little too risky for me.

**Crewzin** · 12-27-21 01:51

Got the word the other day at SA is raising it's subscription rates again in January. I started it was like $29 then $39, $59, $79 to $99, so I expect it's going up to at least $119. I think it's because lots of mongers playing the game like me. I pay for a month and and collect all the numbers I can and work them till the pickins are slim and activate again for a fresh crop and sometimes you find a true keeper. More and more you have to wade through the gamers to find a serious player, long for the day when the site was MILFs and needy collage girls.

**PSeries** · 12-17-21 00:17

Profile: https://members.seeking.com/member/5...4-407273bf8acb.

Messaged a ton, sent verification pics, but then ghosted before meet and greet. Time waster. Or one of you lucky assholes got to her first and is now pumping her full of cum.

**PSeries** · 12-17-21 00:11

Profile: https://members.seeking.com/member/5...9-bbd793069041.

Easy to contact but no longer looks anything like her photos. YMMV but I would not repeat. Very similar to a skip the games experience. Seniors or members who post details on other sugar babies / escorts can message me for details.

**LolBoat** · 12-16-21 19:33

Originally Posted by Hal1957 [View Original Post]

This is the reason many of these girls go this route. Add it up. Manicure and pedicure with tip $125 every week. Massage with tip $75 twice a month. Hair stylist $125 every month. Coochie wax with tip $75 every month. New Friday night outfit every week $100. Add it up, she's spending more than $1,000 every month to keep up with her Tik-Tok / Instagram crowd. That's her entire paycheck. Credit cards are maxed out. Living on ramen between m / g dates. For me, that's a one-and-done because I hate fixing the same problem over and over.

This, its amazing how dumb many of these girls are. If they arent addicts they are just living above their means and are willing to sell their soul for it.

99% of these girls come from lower class families or were raised by single moms and don't know how to manage their money. Our country is in big trouble financially!

**MilkyWy** · 12-16-21 17:14

Originally Posted by Grievous2 [View Original Post]

Saw her a few weeks ago and had a great time. Menu is pretty open. No makeup when I saw her but she still resembled her pics. She definitely needs to get things under control. She is a sweet girl and has a decent paying job but just can't seem to make ends meet.

I'm sure she is a pro.