The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

[PghGuy2005]

... get around whatever SA has that seems to know it is me...

Did you set up the VPN correctly *before* signing up on SA? Also you cannot use email addresses you've used before on SA. Hotmail / Outlook is better for free web mail as they allow creation of aliases which function as independent email addresses for the same mailbox. Use a good VPN such as Private VPN and turn it on before launching the browser. Also clear browser cache, cookies etc before launching browser preferably in private / incognito mode.

For payment use a gift card or.

[Pbone888]

Hello all. Longtime SA guy here, TONS of great experiences and a few bad ones over a lotta years. Someone reported me for soliciting or some shit (they were just pissed off I said no to some outrageous rate) right before COVID. Got back with an old fiance that didn't work out in the summer of last year and thought I was headed to getting married again. Things really went south the last few months. I got a cancer diagnosis, am doing ok, but she didn't want to deal and took off.

I need back on SA. Or some access to it. Help!

1. I'll pay someone to help me setup a profile using their card, or whatever.

2. I'll pay someone to help you get around whatever SA has that seems to know it is me. I've tried VPN, everything.

3. I'll pay someone for referrals. I only go hot. 7 or 8, slim, etc. Love group stuff, and travel. Willing to pay for quality (just not for NO quality like who ever reported me).

Let me know and thanks.

[HappyHunter1]

So what are the main scams to look out for on these sites? From what I've read on this thread:

-Just before first meet, SB texts "need gas money", then ghosts with the $20-30.

-Paying for any meet & greet (sounds like there is some debate on this, but also sounds like there are some SBs who make money only doing platonic M&G free lunches).

-SB who lives in another state, eventually paying them to "visit" or travel with you, then they ghost. Has a non-local SB ever worked out for anyone here? I get those favorites / messages from SBs in other states and countries and I do not understand how that could ever work. Unless I happened to travel there? Now that I think about it, giving money to a SB to travel across state lines without being 1,000,000% sure they are over age is lunacy.

-Any kind of deposit, obviously.

-Has anyone ever dealt with threatened blackmail?

-Anything else to be aware of?

Had a blackmail attempt once. Great conversation. Claimed could not get texts from my app so I gave her cell to my business phone. First message is "I have your name, number, and all information. I want $300 now!

Message went on every little bit for about three hour, then she referenced a name in the text. Damn if it wasn't the name of the previous owner of the number. I finally responded and said call my house if you want! I don't give a crud! Hope that poor boy did not get into too much trouble. I can almost hear trying to explain, "Honest Honeybuns, it wasn't me. I didn't do anything. I have no idea who that crazy woman is!

Lesson learned. Never give up personal information or traceable numbers.

[GregG73]

Has anybody had an experience with her? Is she DTF or just dating? Thanks in advance.

Saw her about a year ago, seems like she had lost a lot of weight recently, still big, but definitely DTF.

[LiquidCoil]

So what are the main scams to look out for on these sites? From what I've read on this thread:

-Just before first meet, SB texts "need gas money", then ghosts with the $20-30.

-Paying for any meet & greet (sounds like there is some debate on this, but also sounds like there are some SBs who make money only doing platonic M&G free lunches).

-SB who lives in another state, eventually paying them to "visit" or travel with you, then they ghost. Has a non-local SB ever worked out for anyone here? I get those favorites / messages from SBs in other states and countries and I do not understand how that could ever work. Unless I happened to travel there? Now that I think about it, giving money to a SB to travel across state lines without being 1,000,000% sure they are over age is lunacy.

-Any kind of deposit, obviously.

-Has anyone ever dealt with threatened blackmail?

-Anything else to be aware of?

[Bachelor1234]

Fellow Mongers, I've been using Visa Vanilla Gift cards successfully on Seeking Arrangements on and off for the last couple of years. Until today. System stopped taking them for me. Anyone else run into this? Anyone know a fool-proof plan for paying with an untraceable / discreet card?

[Bachelor1234]

Has anybody had an experience with her? Is she DTF or just dating? Thanks in advance.

She was reviewed on 12-02-20. Post #2282. Reviewer said she was bigger than her pictures.

[GBL86]

Has anybody had an experience with her? Is she DTF or just dating? Thanks in advance.

I saw her about a year ago. She was nice enough, and DTF but was a little nervous. Her pics are a bit flattering and she isn't built quite like I normally prefer, so haven't repeated.

[LostInNc97]

Has anybody had an experience with her? Is she DTF or just dating? Thanks in advance.

[DavidWashburn]

Look at Oro Hotel (I think that's the name). I think the one In Durham will do hourly.

I think you may mean OYO Hotel.

322X Kuber Blvd, Durham, NC, 2770X.

[DoggieFan]

Sounds like we have the same taste. Tried to PM but full.

My bad, I cleared some now, thanks for the heads up!

[Svt4628]

You must use the right gift card. You need to get the $100 Vanilla Card, the one time use one, not the reloadable one that you can put $20-$500 on, it won't work. Plus an added advantage of the $100 one is when they try to charge it again, since there's only a penny left on it, your account ends. Then you decide when to renew & get another card. By then I've got enough that I've seen a couple and am texting a bunch. I let those play out before I renew.

I'm very picky, only 7-10's, slim, perfect asses, 18-25, although I have a 31 why o that has the body of a 21 why o.

As far as not posting your real pic, I don't & I think it increases the number of Babies that go to text. There curious to see who is messaging them. I've had a paid account on & off about two years, my first was Tony Soprano from the waist to the nose. I think a Baby I called out fir being a scammer ratted me out. I got booted off the site. Luckily it was when I didn't have a paid membership, I was in between. It's a hassle, but I set up another one, with a random pic from a men's clothing website, feet to chin.

As far as how to get Babies attention, just complementing them, I start out pretty basic & when we go to text get sexual but not rude, all these Babies get dick pics & insulted by creeps so just being funny & semi respectful at first goes a long way. Eventually I may be telling the same Baby that I'm going to eat her like a cupcake! LOL.

Good luck!

Sounds like we have the same taste. Tried to PM but full.

[SmallAsianCock]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...9-956033b1a727

I had a meeting with this one, she is DTF. However, asked for 300 agreed on 250. Not worth at all. Super rushed (business transaction). Lame excuses for being late more than 3 hours and more excuses so she can leave early after the first round.

She's been around for some time and has been reviewed here under different name. I'll search and post.

[DoggieFan]

So I counted out SA several years ago because it was not possible to pay by gift card and also seemed like a lot of effort. Gift card payment makes it better so I am reconsidering since the escort game is such a waste of time lately. I can't get girls to reply, too many mongers. Can anyone tell me if its possible to get SA dates without having much of a profile? No way I am putting my picture on the website. I'm curious to know what is the minimum info required to get a girl to respond. Also appreciate any newbie advice for getting girls' attention on the site and figuring out who's real (I got a lot of obviously fake profile emails when I first set up a free acct). Thanks for info.

You must use the right gift card. You need to get the $100 Vanilla Card, the one time use one, not the reloadable one that you can put $20-$500 on, it won't work. Plus an added advantage of the $100 one is when they try to charge it again, since there's only a penny left on it, your account ends. Then you decide when to renew & get another card. By then I've got enough that I've seen a couple and am texting a bunch. I let those play out before I renew.

I'm very picky, only 7-10's, slim, perfect asses, 18-25, although I have a 31 why o that has the body of a 21 why o.

As far as not posting your real pic, I don't & I think it increases the number of Babies that go to text. There curious to see who is messaging them. I've had a paid account on & off about two years, my first was Tony Soprano from the waist to the nose. I think a Baby I called out fir being a scammer ratted me out. I got booted off the site. Luckily it was when I didn't have a paid membership, I was in between. It's a hassle, but I set up another one, with a random pic from a men's clothing website, feet to chin.

As far as how to get Babies attention, just complementing them, I start out pretty basic & when we go to text get sexual but not rude, all these Babies get dick pics & insulted by creeps so just being funny & semi respectful at first goes a long way. Eventually I may be telling the same Baby that I'm going to eat her like a cupcake! LOL.

Good luck!

[Ddmmaa]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...9-956033b1a727

I had a meeting with this one, she is DTF. However, asked for 300 agreed on 250. Not worth at all. Super rushed (business transaction). Lame excuses for being late more than 3 hours and more excuses so she can leave early after the first round.