Seeking Arrangements

[Bran001]

It t has definitely gotten worse on SA. Either they are fat and ugly or they want you to send them money for food or want to sell you pictures that are unlikely to be of themselves, pictures curated by a guy probably. I saw someone recently, but found that she was planning my exit as soon as I arrived. Are you done yet?

It's still possible but requires a much more focused approach than ever. The 20-somethings who are dtf are there but diluted out by all the rest of what you guys are describing. And it can take a week or two of texting with low pressure to get them there. I'm ok with putting in that time but totally understand many aren't.

[MamboMikea]

I decided to sign back up for premium membership and is it just me or is there a ton of scammers on the site now? To the fact that the site seems to me going down hill. How are you guys filtering out the scammers?

It t has definitely gotten worse on SA. Either they are fat and ugly or they want you to send them money for food or want to sell you pictures that are unlikely to be of themselves, pictures curated by a guy probably. I saw someone recently, but found that she was planning my exit as soon as I arrived. Are you done yet?

[Hobbyist420]

It definitely went downhill! Many more scammers and average girls asking for 500+ ppm and a little above average asking for 1000.

In 2018 you had models asking for 300 ppm and many girls to choose from. Now it's mostly platonic only and girls selling content.

This is easily the worst time on SA.

You also could find 2-3 consistent UTRs then within a mth. Now you need 2-3 mths to *maybe* find that, because of all the labor associated with weeding out the spam.

SBing, and the sapmming that comes with it even by "real" users, has become a business in itself, unfortunately.

[PoorBill]

Boston area?

I am not a member recently but have had some success.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...1-c5438c5c4082

Aimee or Carol is a good looking MILF who is a good time but is becoming more clingy than I need at this moment. Reasonable rate after some initial hesitation to commit. Usually cannot host.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...5-d741a6fbcf8f

Baby is new to the game but I have passed her early reqs and am good now. She is going back to Florida for the holiday break.

Both love receiving oral but carol is terrible at giving head. Baby is fantastic..

[JoshDan]

I have had ok luck with WYP but agree there is a lot of travel and most of the "good" looking ones are scammers. On WYP if you focus more on experience rather than looks you may score ok. I tried quiver. Us which as a joke.

I am trying to get people's thoughts on which sites are good, and offer good value (based on subscription / credit costs, and availability of decent girls without gps).

So far I have accounts on wyp, seeking, and sb. I had some luck on wyp pre-pandemic, but the quality of women near me seems to have dried up (I don't even bother with it anymore, since I am not even turned on by the profile pics). Seeking seems to have a good selection of women, but is expensive. Sb have had no luck and recently not a good selection either imo.

Are there any other websites you guys look at? Honestly a lot of these women play too many games, which is what turned me away from conventional dating apps, but I do get tired of pros. Wish to find women who act like pros, but aren't LOL. (paradoxical I know). Some older women on the wrong side of 30 fit this bill sometime, but I can't seem to get into them. Anyway,

[Tribeca67]

I decided to sign back up for premium membership and is it just me or is there a ton of scammers on the site now? To the fact that the site seems to me going down hill. How are you guys filtering out the scammers?

It definitely went downhill! Many more scammers and average girls asking for 500+ ppm and a little above average asking for 1000.

In 2018 you had models asking for 300 ppm and many girls to choose from. Now it's mostly platonic only and girls selling content.

This is easily the worst time on SA.

[MinorLeague]

I decided to sign back up for premium membership and is it just me or is there a ton of scammers on the site now? To the fact that the site seems to me going down hill. How are you guys filtering out the scammers?

3 or 4 years ago it seemed easier to find real SB's; golden era for me was 2017-2018 where I had a Harvard part-time model (19), UMass exchange student (20), and RISD undergrad (18) on rotation at the same time. These days in my experience it's mostly fake photos, agencies posing as SB's, girls who aren't any different than pro's in my opinion, girls who want "virtual" arrangements or platonic-only, or "average" girls who are more on the BBBBW side. Paying for Boost or Diamond hasn't helped in my opinion. I updated my profile to be much more clear about who should be contacting me and who shouldn't and I have a few dates lined up, will see how they go.

[Gianni Versace]

I decided to sign back up for premium membership and is it just me or is there a ton of scammers on the site now? To the fact that the site seems to me going down hill. How are you guys filtering out the scammers?

[Joe1223]

I am trying to get people's thoughts on which sites are good, and offer good value (based on subscription / credit costs, and availability of decent girls without gps).

So far I have accounts on wyp, seeking, and sb. I had some luck on wyp pre-pandemic, but the quality of women near me seems to have dried up (I don't even bother with it anymore, since I am not even turned on by the profile pics). Seeking seems to have a good selection of women, but is expensive. Sb have had no luck and recently not a good selection either imo.

Are there any other websites you guys look at? Honestly a lot of these women play too many games, which is what turned me away from conventional dating apps, but I do get tired of pros. Wish to find women who act like pros, but aren't LOL. (paradoxical I know). Some older women on the wrong side of 30 fit this bill sometime, but I can't seem to get into them. Anyway,

I was using Bumble for awhile but eventually got booted. Not really a SB site but I got plenty of interest and was able to hook up with 2 gIrls for a short run at a decent price. I actually put that I was a SD looking for a FWB SB in my profile. Eventually someone got offended I guess because I was told I was banned for inappropriate conversations. I probably could get back on by now but haven't bothered. It's free but the ROI of time isn't so great.

[Member #6445]

I am trying to get people's thoughts on which sites are good, and offer good value (based on subscription / credit costs, and availability of decent girls without gps).

So far I have accounts on wyp, seeking, and sb. I had some luck on wyp pre-pandemic, but the quality of women near me seems to have dried up (I don't even bother with it anymore, since I am not even turned on by the profile pics). Seeking seems to have a good selection of women, but is expensive. Sb have had no luck and recently not a good selection either imo.

Are there any other websites you guys look at? Honestly a lot of these women play too many games, which is what turned me away from conventional dating apps, but I do get tired of pros. Wish to find women who act like pros, but aren't LOL. (paradoxical I know). Some older women on the wrong side of 30 fit this bill sometime, but I can't seem to get into them. Anyway,

[Malden Male]

Was in touch with this one: https://members.seeking.com/member/c...7-954ff7482e8d.

Insane body, have been trying to see her for a couple of years now, but when we got down to details she was unable to host, started to throw limits on the encounter and wanted 600 ppm so I passed.

Hope someone has a better encounter with I did.

Be safe. Malden Male.

[AlexBok]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...dWlkZS5ubC8%3D

Also this lady is a sweet MILF no kids. Tasty and fun.

[AlexBok]

I am not a member recently but have had some success.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...1-c5438c5c4082

Aimee or Carol is a good looking MILF who is a good time but is becoming more clingy than I need at this moment. Reasonable rate after some initial hesitation to commit. Usually cannot host.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...5-d741a6fbcf8f

Baby is new to the game but I have passed her early reqs and am good now. She is going back to Florida for the holiday break.

Both love receiving oral but carol is terrible at giving head. Baby is fantastic.

Delete.

Move to.

Forward.

Reply.

[Member #6450]

My inbox is constantly full lately, lots of new girls signing up and the desperation is palpable. So dive in there and stick to your guns. Offer what you want and be nice if they initially say no. They may come back once they realize they are not getting 800-1000 for their Christmas bonus. Seriously though I love this time of year because it's like a month of them needing us more than we need them. The closer you get to the end of the year the better the deals get. It's like Black Friday for mongers.

That being said I wouldn't mind any info anyone has on the following plus a few PSAs on what I've been able to gather.

- Sofe 21 Newton (West Roxbury).

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...a-8ebbab2e7563

Cute but I can't get a price or a date out of her. Anyone else have any luck?

- Dreyla223 29 Boston (Salem).

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...3-8a7ed02472a7

Similar to Sofe lots of talk very cute but no movement on a date or price estimate. Very sexual though.

- Cole1616.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...a-21555588a69f

Can't host. $500. No guarantee of sex. She's kind of pear shaped but good face and tits.

- Kalanimarie 26 Worcester / Boston.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...8-c00eaed249e1

Very hot but won't respond to messages.

- Cynziax333 31 Boston.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...1-0c1e2ac29e3e

Wants 600 per date. Trying to talk her down to the real world. But has said upfront she's all about the allowance so I think you're guaranteed satisfaction. Might keep trying. I could see 500 but she's pretty firm on 6.

- Livcakes 25 Windham, NH.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...2-983dcfc6fc35

Wanted 4 I countered with 250 and she blocked me. She's cute in a short wide kind of way. Big weed smoker.

- MoonHunter 31 Boston (actually Providence though. Annoying).

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...3-72f8a107f85b

Was having a really good conversation then got into detail. She hates bjs (won't do them) and wants a sub guy she can boss around and peg with her toys. Plus she is not a guarantee for sex. Said she might give a handy on the first date. Ugh. She also might be able to host if you're still interested after all that.

The desperation thing is common this time of year even with pros. Recently talked to this one escort provider I used to see regularly. I haven't seen or spoke to her in over 3 years. She quit escorting before Covid and has been working regular jobs. She texted me out of nowhere the other day. To nobody's surprise, the regular job life isn't working out the way she hoped it would and she's thinking about getting back in to being an escort. She basically told me she's broke and things in her personal life are shit right now. I can empathize with that. There was a time when I had to drastically scale back seeing her and other girls and my life was a bit of a mess. Things have flipped now and I'm the one doing well at the moment. If I had to guess she is probably reaching out to her former clients to see if she can drum up any interest and if it will be worth it to her to get back in the game. I'm undecided right now if I want to see her. I probably will if only for nostalgia. We had great times but that seems like a lifetime ago at this point. If she does come back I could probably work out a sweet deal with her.

[Mattis1775]

Kalanimarie has been on 24/7 forever. I texted her and nothing. Wonder if anybody has actually ever received a response from her.

When I first started with SA, this one was the first to reach out. She uses recorded videos to communicate mostly, sometimes text. I don't even know if it's even addressed to me or to others as well. We've chatted back and forth without any indication of a meeting. She's just a person that wants to talk. After two months, communication on both ends just stopped.


https://members.seeking.com/member/5...d-d6f68bd0e0fe