Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[Sutigel2]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...e-e13f7769affa

Ok. This was one of my first SA experiences years ago. Had a very different profile which was much much more sexually provocative. May have been reported. Now the profile practically says "don't bother me. " I took a chance years ago despite the fact that she isn't my cup of tea at all. I like girl next door types, but this one sounded like a crazy time. She definitely was.

She is tall and thin. She's basically a fairly pretty girl with nice eyes who tries her best to look strange. Weird facial piercings, hair colors etc. In bed, she is absolutely voracious with very few things off limit. If you are willing to deal with some oddities, you might give her a shot.

[Chudakkad]

Willing to drive to Hartford area, I might see her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...2-6866f2f9cf80

[Chudakkad]

Asking for eight hundred allowance every meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...3-586b3d56f4a7

[Chudakkad]

Says she wants weed, takes no cash, when I told her that don't do weed but I will give her an allowance, she blocked me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...a-0cdfdcb32ec9

[Big Mac Daddy]

I'm getting the same thing. It looks like her profile has been deactivated.

Likewise. Gone from my account, too.

[BlueFox141]

Can't see the profile.

So you have a Name or Picture you can post?

If I can't see her profile, it"s probably bad news.

I'm getting the same thing. It looks like her profile has been deactivated.

[Chudakkad]

Can't see the profile.

So you have a Name or Picture you can post?

If I can't see her profile, it"s probably bad news.

She has deleted it, was offering massage.

[Swm11]

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...1-e10db409f454

Anyone seen her?

Can't see the profile.

So you have a Name or Picture you can post?

If I can't see her profile, it"s probably bad news.

[Jeep2013]

I made an account on Seeking.com however I thought it was free but now I see its 99.00 for 30 Days and 90 days is 269.00. Which one does Everyone else have? Whats the benefits of each.

Thanks in advance.

[JonMels]

This girl is pulling a scam on Seeking and WYP simultaneously.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...jBqZnA3RqOp9gW

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...f-6c8db97e9c57

Looking for 300 to meet. I went 150. It appears physical contact will always be 1 date away.

Total waste of time.

[BlueFox141]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-07843cbe1671 this profile is fake. This will be the 4th time whoever made it joined the site.

It's already gone.

Blue.

[Chudakkad]

I realized after I posted, that I was going to have to do something to change the order of things. I'm thinking that they're probably going to balk at doing shopping afterwards, saying that I could back out, and they actually have a good point. I was thinking of doing the shopping spree then dinner and keeping everything in my car until after the motel. I don't know, they seem a little too accommodating which makes me a little wary of whether they're legit.

Be careful out there.

Blue.

I was thinking the same, they will have the same risk you do if you change the order and will back-out, keeping stuff in your car is a great idea.

[Buck Cock]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-07843cbe1671 this profile is fake. This will be the 4th time whoever made it joined the site.

[BlueFox141]

Strictly my opinion.

Shopping sprees are for the ones you know and are familiar. I would change the order of events. Dinner, fun in the room, then the shopping spree. Otherwise, there's too much that can go wrong because your plan gives them advantages and control. Their message of not wanting to "feel like hookers" is a diversion. Be wary of their larger plan.

BMD.

I realized after I posted, that I was going to have to do something to change the order of things. I'm thinking that they're probably going to balk at doing shopping afterwards, saying that I could back out, and they actually have a good point. I was thinking of doing the shopping spree then dinner and keeping everything in my car until after the motel. I don't know, they seem a little too accommodating which makes me a little wary of whether they're legit.

Be careful out there.

Blue.

[Big Mac Daddy]

I'm going to second what BMD said. From the info provided, this sounds super sketchy to me. I can clearly see you all arriving at Westfarms in separate cars, shopping for what will likely be WAY too long, and them just driving off with all their loot and never meeting you at the hotel.

You should change things up to ensure they perform as agreed. Huge risk otherwise, IMO.

It's a two-on-one operation. Think also of them overspending, getting your car / personal / private info, public embarrassments they could create, blackmail, etc. Even if that doesn't happen, the potential is there and you have no control over events that might occur. I wouldn't do this as a first date and certainly not with two women simultaneously. You are offering up all the faith, goodwill, and money. They offer a future promise.

Rather than give them an outright “no” for the date, come up with delay tactics to string them along. Test their faith and honesty. Try dating just one at first. They’ll likely say no, your cue to exit.
BMD.