Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[Djapa1234]

Would you say that SB has less scammers / spammers to weed through? People have reported on here how they have received messages from girls only to find out that these messages were NOT sent by these girls and appears to have been generated by the site / bots. I did have on SB reach out to me on a sub reddit asking me if I was interested to meet and turns out she moved to SB from SA as she claims it has less scammers as well. Seems like there is lots of contradictory info floating around about SB. One way to find out I guess is to pay for tokens.

[Djapa1234]

I have never posted a pic. I do encounter a few who will not meet without a pic. But for the most part, 8 out of 10 will meet (in public) without a pic. And of that 8 out of 10, about 70%will meet in a hotel without a pic. As long as the $$ is good. And I do offer min of 350.

I wonder if giving these chicks more pics actually is counter productive? As they say sometimes less is more. I have had conversations die down when I'd shared more photos of me, I do look young so not sure if that scares these SBs off thinking I won't pay them or something. I am not a paying member now but last time I just had a photo of my body and then I'd share the face over text. At the end of the day the hoes will meet up and the nonhoes won't, regardless of the pics LOL.

[John Marigold]

I have been on SB the past few months and I actually like it a little better than SA. There are probably a greater number of hot women on SA but there are plenty for me on SB. Because of the approach I take, SB has actually been more expensive than SA. You pay for tokens there. Once you get low on your tokens (down to 10 or 0), you should get an offer to get double tokens for your money if you buy them in the next 10 minutes. So I get 2000 tokens for $289.

Okay, so you pay 10 tokens every time you send a message to a girl for the first time, or if you open a message from a girl that you have not chatted with yet. Once the 10 tokens are paid, you get unlimited chat with the girl. If you want to boost your message so it stands out more in her inbox, then it's 10 more tokens. Also, if you want a "read receipt" that she is reading your messages, then it's another 10 tokens. I don't use either of these features. You get to see a girl's public pics for free; if you want to see her private pics. Yes, you guessed it -- it costs another 10 tokens. You can see who has viewed your profile and the girls can see if you have viewed theirs. You can "favorite" a girl and / or she can "favorite" you and there is no cost for that. That is helpful and can save you from cold-messaging a girl who doesn't appear to have any interest when she viewed your profile and did not "favorite" you. Also, just because a girl "favorites" you does not mean she will reply to your "hi, how are you?" message. But some of the hottest girls will wait weeks and then finally, when you least expect it, you hear back from her. Such is the case with a very hot Latina girl that I will meet this afternoon.

I think there seems to be a higher percentage of AA and Hispanic girls on SB than on SA. Many of them are really, really hot. I have only found a few scammers which I define as a girl who wants money sent via cash app before meeting up. I found way too many girls on SA that wanted to scam like that. I broke my hard rule about sending money in advance to a girl when I deposited less than $100 in her bank account so that she could buy a plane ticket for her son to fly to Charlotte to spend time with her. She called me and thanked me very nicely. She called me again this morning and we are scheduled to meet a hotel this afternoon. I guess I'll find out if she was scamming me. She is gorgeous. She is the hot Latina girl I mentioned above.

SB does not appear to be as strict about talking about sex in their chat feature. Of course, I usually move the conversation to my burner phone as soon as we begin discussing various options. My only problem is that I have too many girls that want to meet me for sex, and I have neither sperm count nor the bank account to meet the supply of gorgeous options that are available and keep texting me wanting to know when we will meet. I have found many very attractive girls who are happy with $250 for everything with no rules (anything goes except anal). The price seemed higher with the girls on SA than on SB. I have had sessions with 3 different AA girls who are gorgeous and slim and I have paid each one 250. I have also enjoyed sessions with several white girls for that price (one was 300). One stunning, gorgeous AA girl who is only 19 wants 400 and I am thinking about seeing her. The downside is that I would also need to pay for a room. One thing I have learned that is helpful: if you try harder with the girls over 25 or so, there is a greater likelihood that they can host the visit (unless they have children at home) and you save 100 for a hotel. It's just not as likely that an 18 or 19-year old will be able to host.

As I mentioned above, SB can be more expensive than SA, but it depends on your strategy. I have taken the very expensive strategy of reaching out to as many attractive girls as possible that live within 40 miles of Charlotte. You can eat up a lot of tokens that way but you create quite a network. I am now becoming much more selective and I think my cost will go down to an amount which is lower than what I was spending on SA. I have found the success rate on SB to be better than on SA but I did have three huge success from SA and I will see all three occasionally with the one Asian girl being drop-dead gorgeous, but expensive. No, I won't share any details on them, please don't ask.

I hope this review is helpful to some of you.

[JustMikey]

Just to follow up on SA, I had sent a support request to them assuming I had been hacked and assuming I would never hear back since I wasn't receiving emails from them. Several days later, they apologized for the inconvenience and reset my account. Of coarse, they used the opportunity to blame my email carrier for the mix up. WTF, I got emails from everyone else but SA. Anyway, I'm back up and walking on SA. Now to just find a legit babe. BTW, how do you guys handle your own pictures. No pics, fake pics (with full disclosure they're fake), real pics with hidden face, or full on face and body photos? Currently I don't have any up but I'm sure I'll need some if I want to advance my chances.

Several years ago, I had no public photo and one private photo on SA. Worked great for a while. I had a nice FWB relationship with a nearby woman who was also on SA. She and I would talk about SA and some of the encounters we'd had. One day she informs me that my private photo is showing up as public! WTF. I immediately delete it. Ever since then, I have NO photos on SA. I inform potential babies that I am a very private person and will text or email a photo. I simply no longer trust a web site with that I know has both software glitches and questionable management. So I miss out on some good women. Fine, I also miss out on unnecessary drama.

[SmallAsianCock]

This is probably the best approach. I'll add. I went years without posting a pic. Plenty of fun can be had without one. And to a certain degree, the women like the mystery of it if you can chat well on the site and then take it to text.

Also, the pros and scammers never ask for a pic in return. So, it works a little bit like a built in screener too. But, best is what Djapa mentioned. You'll get more messages.

I have never posted a pic. I do encounter a few who will not meet without a pic. But for the most part, 8 out of 10 will meet (in public) without a pic. And of that 8 out of 10, about 70%will meet in a hotel without a pic. As long as the $$ is good. And I do offer min of 350.

[DriveHard]

Post a body picture, or a blurred out face showing your body wearing a nice suit maybe. And keep one private photo.

This is probably the best approach. I'll add. I went years without posting a pic. Plenty of fun can be had without one. And to a certain degree, the women like the mystery of it if you can chat well on the site and then take it to text.

Also, the pros and scammers never ask for a pic in return. So, it works a little bit like a built in screener too. But, best is what Djapa mentioned. You'll get more messages.

[Djapa1234]

Just to follow up on SA, I had sent a support request to them assuming I had been hacked and assuming I would never hear back since I wasn't receiving emails from them. Several days later, they apologized for the inconvenience and reset my account. Of coarse, they used the opportunity to blame my email carrier for the mix up. WTF, I got emails from everyone else but SA. Anyway, I'm back up and walking on SA. Now to just find a legit babe. BTW, how do you guys handle your own pictures. No pics, fake pics (with full disclosure they're fake), real pics with hidden face, or full on face and body photos? Currently I don't have any up but I'm sure I'll need some if I want to advance my chances.

Post a body picture, or a blurred out face showing your body wearing a nice suit maybe. And keep one private photo.

I found that it really does not matter much. As long as you are willing to share a few pics in the chat.

[Djapa1234]

Huge flake. I'd suggest you look for someone who actually wants to meet. If you get to chat with her, she sounds exactly like er profile. Pretty much trying to convince you that the guys are fake, and if you are on of those who is not serious, not ot waster her time, but the truth is actually complete opposite. I am not saying she doesn't see anyone, but I suppose you need to have a lot of patience to deal with her BS. There is always something that comes up, when time to meet comes. I was aware of that, so I figured I'll be patient, and if it works great, if not, than nothing lost. I tried to meet with her over 9 months on more than a dozen occasions. When she doesn't ghost you, there is always an excuse. But every few weeks she would text me back asking if we are finally going to meet. And I would tell er that I am always ready when she is. Than crickets again. So finally, few months back, she texts me again asking if we're meeting, and I told her that I don't' think she wants to meet and that she's just playing, and that I am no longer interested. I haven't heard form her since. Best of luck if you try.

I saw her at a brewery in Plaza couple years back, is very sketchy, dishonest, double faced individual, gave me very weird vibes. When I met her in person, it made total sense as to why she was acting flakey.

Stay away.

[Djapa1234]

I had an account on SB while back, and never had any luck. For the most part, site seems to be a scam. Most times I would keep getting messages form girls withn maybe 50 mile radius. Messages would be very general, and when I would reply to them, I would never hear back from those profiles. Of course, they would keep taking my coins away for messaging. On couple rare occasions, I actually got the girl to reply to me, saying she never send me an initial message. And that she thinks that the site generates these messages just to start conversations and make me use points so I have to buy more. At one point I got pissed at them and asked them to refund all my money because I have no luck, so they first offered to give me double points, but I refused. Finally, they refund my money, but than they closed my account. SA is a hit and miss, but at least most profiles are real. I'd suggest stay away from SB and save your money for SA.

Thanks, that's what I thought.

[GutterMind4]

Just to follow up on SA, I had sent a support request to them assuming I had been hacked and assuming I would never hear back since I wasn't receiving emails from them. Several days later, they apologized for the inconvenience and reset my account. Of coarse, they used the opportunity to blame my email carrier for the mix up. WTF, I got emails from everyone else but SA. Anyway, I'm back up and walking on SA. Now to just find a legit babe. BTW, how do you guys handle your own pictures. No pics, fake pics (with full disclosure they're fake), real pics with hidden face, or full on face and body photos? Currently I don't have any up but I'm sure I'll need some if I want to advance my chances.

I never deleted or suspended my subscription, which was basic anyway. I can't even communicate with Seeking because I can't get emails. That's the whole problem, the correct email they recognize enough to send an authorization code, but it never comes through, which means it's either not sending or going somewhere else. I'm sure it's been hacked but, believe me, they didn't get anything out of it. My only option is to create a new account with a new email. Oh well.

[GameCock187]

Hey anyone know anything about her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...4-7883ed943234

Did you find out anything about her?

[Mravcapo69]

Huge flake. I'd suggest you look for someone who actually wants to meet. If you get to chat with her, she sounds exactly like er profile. Pretty much trying to convince you that the guys are fake, and if you are on of those who is not serious, not ot waster her time, but the truth is actually complete opposite. I am not saying she doesn't see anyone, but I suppose you need to have a lot of patience to deal with her BS. There is always something that comes up, when time to meet comes. I was aware of that, so I figured I'll be patient, and if it works great, if not, than nothing lost. I tried to meet with her over 9 months on more than a dozen occasions. When she doesn't ghost you, there is always an excuse. But every few weeks she would text me back asking if we are finally going to meet. And I would tell er that I am always ready when she is. Than crickets again. So finally, few months back, she texts me again asking if we're meeting, and I told her that I don't' think she wants to meet and that she's just playing, and that I am no longer interested. I haven't heard form her since. Best of luck if you try.

I'm meeting with her soon. I remember some talk about her before but can't find it.

Anyone know anything about her?

[Mravcapo69]

I had an account on SB while back, and never had any luck. For the most part, site seems to be a scam. Most times I would keep getting messages form girls withn maybe 50 mile radius. Messages would be very general, and when I would reply to them, I would never hear back from those profiles. Of course, they would keep taking my coins away for messaging. On couple rare occasions, I actually got the girl to reply to me, saying she never send me an initial message. And that she thinks that the site generates these messages just to start conversations and make me use points so I have to buy more. At one point I got pissed at them and asked them to refund all my money because I have no luck, so they first offered to give me double points, but I refused. Finally, they refund my money, but than they closed my account. SA is a hit and miss, but at least most profiles are real. I'd suggest stay away from SB and save your money for SA.

I have had some luck on SB. But it's few. Am not sure if women on there see the messages. The only way to know if your message has been read is to pay more in tokens. I have met and had fun with women from there. SA is by far much better.

[SmallAsianCock]

I also have a free account over there and I get favorited and messaged a lot which makes me very very suspicious. Did you find that there are lots of bots on that site?

Seems like that the general consensus is to stay AWAY from it. Thanks.

I have had some luck on SB. But it's few. Am not sure if women on there see the messages. The only way to know if your message has been read is to pay more in tokens. I have met and had fun with women from there. SA is by far much better.

[NetSide2020]

So which one has been for you guys. I've never done allowance but I have a girl I have a girl that's wanting an allowance but it actually comes out cheaper than PPM. How so how does it work for you guys?

PPM for the first few dates. If you get along and want things to continue. Then talk allowance. The allowance part can come out cheaper. Depending on your requirements (# of dates / week, exclusivity or not, etc.). I'm currently in a long term allowance-based relationship and it has worked out great.