The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

[DJprofessorK]

If she is even real which I doubt. $300 should be your first and only offer. Don't fall for their " I usually get" b. S.

Even and that make sure you are getting exactly what you want as well or it is a guaranteed disappointment.

I was told by a new-ish SB in Vegas that 'seasoned' SB's are advising them to rarely throw out their expectations first. Geriatric rich dudes, scared newbies, and idiots will sometimes offer way over the market rate. And by her giving a number that may be lower than he was going to offer would essentially cause her to leave money at the table.

She told me this because some lonely geriatric SD who has comps for days at Vegas casinos was offering 1 K just for women to have dinner with him, she said she was going to quote him 5 $ because of how old he was and wasn't attracted to him, but he came in first with a much higher offer. She made it sound like he was a widower. I let her know that I stick to around 3 $ and she said yes, but I passed because I didn't want a lackluster experience with someone who was expecting a lot more. I'm sure she'll go on a few 'adjustment dates', but I don't want it to be me and have a lousy time.

[Pubb69]

Hey guys,

I've been chatting with this one and she won't throw out a number first. I want to make an offer that's high enough for her to take seriously but not too high that it breaks the budget. Has anyone else had any luck or interaction with her? I'd really appreciate any information anyone has!

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...8-b66322c9f724

If she is even real which I doubt. $300 should be your first and only offer. Don't fall for their " I usually get" b. S.

Even and that make sure you are getting exactly what you want as well or it is a guaranteed disappointment.

[GentleGiant78]

Hey guys,

I've been chatting with this one and she won't throw out a number first. I want to make an offer that's high enough for her to take seriously but not too high that it breaks the budget. Has anyone else had any luck or interaction with her? I'd really appreciate any information anyone has!

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...8-b66322c9f724

[GMag69NC]

Scrolling through their items might also give you a feel. If it's all jewelry and $500+ purses & shoes, probably high maintenance and / or a straight up rinser.

I like the ones with sex toys and sexy outfits on their lists, or better yet completely empty!

But either way click them, by default the chicks get a notification when you do, so they might get a little more attentive to you.

Nice hints, yeah, definitely never thought to utilize the Wishlist as foreshadowing insights into their personality or that it gives a notification. I thought I saw that somewhere but you confirmed it.

[TheChosenOne91]

I'm not aware of a way for men to get messaging without paying, I believe females can if they verify with university email (but this is coming from a female I chatted with on there, have not verified any of this).

Yes, you can use a prepaid Visa or Mastercard (I got one from the grocery store) , but you will need to follow the instructions that came with the card and go "register" it with a name and address on the website first. I used a fake name, and real address (not mine) and it worked fine. You'll need to make sure the info you setup on the card and what you use on seeking matches exactly or the card will get declined.

Also, sign up for a free account first, and you should get an email within a few days for 25-33% off a paid account.

Cool trick I learned, cards are matched by the zip codes. So be sure to at least use the same exact zip code. Any other information doesn't matter or need to be exact such as name or street of the address. I personally do it this way.

[RalDude]

Hey guys how the Sb works do I have to pay membership to message.

How can I get around and if I pay just want to try one month.

Can I use a gift card?

Thanks guys.

I'm not aware of a way for men to get messaging without paying, I believe females can if they verify with university email (but this is coming from a female I chatted with on there, have not verified any of this).

Yes, you can use a prepaid Visa or Mastercard (I got one from the grocery store) , but you will need to follow the instructions that came with the card and go "register" it with a name and address on the website first. I used a fake name, and real address (not mine) and it worked fine. You'll need to make sure the info you setup on the card and what you use on seeking matches exactly or the card will get declined.

Also, sign up for a free account first, and you should get an email within a few days for 25-33% off a paid account.

[SmallAsianCock]

Any info on this lady? I've been txting with her and have agreed to meet. I would love any info.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...8-d71bb799a0c1

[NoelB]

Hey guys how the Sb works do I have to pay membership to message.

How can I get around and if I pay just want to try one month.

Can I use a gift card?

Thanks guys.

[LikesGirls]

Yea, this part is scary. I've been trying to find a service that will find a very similar photo to mine that I can use. Close enough to pass, but not close enough someone who knows me would recognize it as me. Found one AI tool that claimed to do this, but it's not close at all. If anyone has seen anything like this, please share.

You can a Google Image search of your own photo, and it will present you some that will resemble you somewhat closely.

[PghGuy2005]

...I've been trying to find a service that will find a very similar photo to mine that I can use...

I use the picture of a foreign film actor who sort of kind of resembles me!

[Gatttaca]

Sometimes I wonder. Is there another site, that I'm not aware of, that has all of us Guys on here including me, with their SA links and pictures posted for the girls to discuss and review. Makes you wonder sometimes.

If the chick is a few years, 5+ years older than you, are you considered a sugar daddy? Or are you the sugar baby, but giving her the sugar? Do older women still just want to be paid or are they usually just looking for an escape?

How do you keep some of these girls from getting too attached, sometimes I might disclose too much of my lavish lifestyle but mainly to keep the convo not too generic, and I'm always doing something fun, I don't give my personal cell or host. Do you just reiterate that you'll just looking for NSA / FWB thing? No long term arrangement? I feel like I've talked to girls that are both transactional or girls just looking for a potential relationship and not too focused on payment.

Random PSA:

I was taking to this one girl, and we both mentioned being discrete, then later throughout the conversation she tells me that she showed a few of her girl friends and they approved and though I was hot. Like. I could care less about what her friends think.

But Just a friendly reminder, if you are being discreet, the person you are sharing your pics with may not, and may share your pics around, and if you think the area you're living in is small, usually it is -And sometimes people do know each other.

Just something to think about. Happy Seeking.

I keep thinking about the same thing. My current SB is older than me. Well. You are giving sugar to the Baby. Older or not. She still the Sugar Baby.

+1 for the PSA. This point might be what others might have already been doing but was never discussed AFAIK. Providing a resembling pic is definitely recommended. I guess one can simply search for their photo online and it definitely gives out similar images that can be used.

G.

[RalDude]

Sometimes I wonder. Is there another site, that I'm not aware of, that has all of us Guys on here including me, with their SA links and pictures posted for the girls to discuss and review. Makes you wonder sometimes.

Random PSA:

I was taking to this one girl, and we both mentioned being discrete, then later throughout the conversation she tells me that she showed a few of her girl friends and they approved and though I was hot. Like. I could care less about what her friends think.

But Just a friendly reminder, if you are being discreet, the person you are sharing your pics with may not, and may share your pics around, and if you think the area you're living in is small, usually it is -And sometimes people do know each other.

Just something to think about. Happy Seeking.

Yea, this part is scary. I've been trying to find a service that will find a very similar photo to mine that I can use. Close enough to pass, but not close enough someone who knows me would recognize it as me. Found one AI tool that claimed to do this, but it's not close at all. If anyone has seen anything like this, please share.

[RalDude]

Never thought about looking at the wish list like that very interesting observation!!

Scrolling through their items might also give you a feel. If it's all jewelry and $500+ purses & shoes, probably high maintenance and / or a straight up rinser.

I like the ones with sex toys and sexy outfits on their lists, or better yet completely empty!

But either way click them, by default the chicks get a notification when you do, so they might get a little more attentive to you.

[GMag69NC]

Sometimes I wonder. Is there another site, that I'm not aware of, that has all of us Guys on here including me, with their SA links and pictures posted for the girls to discuss and review. Makes you wonder sometimes.

If the chick is a few years, 5+ years older than you, are you considered a sugar daddy? Or are you the sugar baby, but giving her the sugar? Do older women still just want to be paid or are they usually just looking for an escape?

How do you keep some of these girls from getting too attached, sometimes I might disclose too much of my lavish lifestyle but mainly to keep the convo not too generic, and I'm always doing something fun, I don't give my personal cell or host. Do you just reiterate that you'll just looking for NSA / FWB thing? No long term arrangement? I feel like I've talked to girls that are both transactional or girls just looking for a potential relationship and not too focused on payment.

Random PSA:

I was taking to this one girl, and we both mentioned being discrete, then later throughout the conversation she tells me that she showed a few of her girl friends and they approved and though I was hot. Like. I could care less about what her friends think.

But Just a friendly reminder, if you are being discreet, the person you are sharing your pics with may not, and may share your pics around, and if you think the area you're living in is small, usually it is -And sometimes people do know each other.

Just something to think about. Happy Seeking.

[GMag69NC]

I also was given access to her private pics. And I am interested. Just don't have premium privileges at this time to message her. Waiting to see SA will offer discount during thanksgiving.

Gotcha, yeah it seems like these girls are hitting tons of guys up randomly too, to bait. Go get premium man! Hopefully there will be a discount soon for you.

Let me know if you pursue!