Rants Raves and Stupid Shit in Seattle.

[Bobby ShafToe]

Out barebacking and creampie-ing hoes, strippers, and "models " if I wasn't fixed. The vasectomy was so freeing.

[Rex Hughes]

what i don't get is how completely selfish this fetish, because it is a fetish at this point, is. As someone who was raised by an addict, why the hell would you want a child raised by an addict? Add the situations providers live in and all you're looking for is an abused child. Why do you want to sentence a child to that life? Do you want to be a hero? It doesn't sound like it. It sounds like you just want to know you have a child and are completely willing to set them up poorly in life.

I don't know man. I personally don't want to hear about your desire to set kids up for a life of abuse and drug addiction anymore. You seem like a nice enough guy. Please get a normal, non provider, drug addicted person for this endeavor. Some self confidence would be good too.

daemon.

Daemon.

[HarveyCalhoon]

Just curious, but why would anyone participate in this using their real name, phone, etc? I take great care in distancing my persona here from my real life, I always assumed everyone else would as well.

All this talk of child support making me rethink BBFS. On the other hand agree about I'd. Know my face. Not real name etc.

Why would anybody provide that info?

[BoboThe55]

What I don't get is how completely selfish this fetish, because it is a fetish at this point, is. As someone who was raised by an addict, why the hell would you want a child raised by an addict? Add the situations providers live in and all you're looking for is an abused child. Why do you want to sentence a child to that life? Do you want to be a hero? It doesn't sound like it. It sounds like you just want to know you have a child and are completely willing to set them up poorly in life.

I don't know man. I personally don't want to hear about your desire to set kids up for a life of abuse and drug addiction anymore. You seem like a nice enough guy. Please get a normal, non provider, drug addicted person for this endeavor. Some self confidence would be good too.

Beyond selfish. Personally speaking having a vacant father who has many children.

To all the sperm donors. " GO FUCK YOURSELF".

[ShootingBlanks]

Shiver and puke that said now realize this she has simps and wk stop the planet I want off.

I'd agree on the PDX mind cancer!! And on Mollylane. Jesus! One fella review her way back as BBWer than even the photos! I'm shocked she has hits! I did it once with a girl that size. I still feel bad about it. LOL.

That's just me.

[ShootingBlanks]

I don't seek bb I just get offered it who am I to argue LOL who doesn't want it raw nobody worth knowing that's who and any man playing this game that don't have a snip is doing it wrong LOL.

This "hobby" is about seeking fun and gratification. Seeking BB is about maximizing that gratification. Or in some cases, the only way to reliably climax.

It's not about finding a partner or mate. Trying to use this to produce offspring sure sounds like a fetish to me. But it also points out one of the ways this whole thing isn't played on a level field. At the end of the day, the woman needs to guard against pregnancy or deal with it's immediate consequences. Trying to avoid introducing a child into the mix seems like common sense to me. Spread your seed elsewhere. Or be a sperm donor and have random children with those who are, at least hopefully, trying to build a stable family.

[DrtyHarry]

I blame the media, society and pop culture for my fetish.

The way I've given examples of how seemingly nice enough people, become TOTAL arrogant shithead asshole snobs right AFTER becoming a biological parent, makes ME also want to become an arrogant shithead asshole.

Like you, even though we're on opposite sides, the grass always looks greener on the other side.

You have your view, I have mine.

Yes everyone is entitled to their opinion. That is for sure. Blaming someone or something else for ones thought process though seems like a cop out though. If you feel that way. Own it. I must say though some of the things written here seem like they have not been thought through completely. I would suggest reading / analyzing the bigger picture and the implications of actions on others, before determining what it is you are really after. Again this is just friendly advice, take it or leave it.

[Rex Hughes]

This "hobby" is about seeking fun and gratification. Seeking BB is about maximizing that gratification. Or in some cases, the only way to reliably climax.

It's not about finding a partner or mate. Trying to use this to produce offspring sure sounds like a fetish to me. But it also points out one of the ways this whole thing isn't played on a level field. At the end of the day, the woman needs to guard against pregnancy or deal with it's immediate consequences. Trying to avoid introducing a child into the mix seems like common sense to me. Spread your seed elsewhere. Or be a sperm donor and have random children with those who are, at least hopefully, trying to build a stable family.

If ALL providers and SW a were guarding against pregnancy, and successful at doing so, I Wouldn't be talking about it here.

It's just that, these SP are so open about not being on birth control, and are actually PROUD when they get knocked up.

The point: SOME hobbyist will do it, eventually.

How is Nerdy Rex knocking you SW Samantha any worse than Asshole-Abusive-Chad knocking her up?

At a banquet (no refills by a kitchen), you go to the serving table, and there is ONE cream puff left. You KINDA don't want to take it, because you'll feel kind of greedy and selfish.

MY point: TAKE that last cream puff (provided, you didn't have 5 of them prior to that, as that's a totally different story). Because, if YOU don't take that last cream puff, somebody ELSE will.

I see your points Joseph, and I respect them.

But, I'm seeing this as another "dog eat dog world" situation. I'm tired of being the friendly little puppy with the sad eyes. I'm going to be a PIT BULL from now on!

WOOF!

[PriceIsRight39]

This world is so utterly fucked thanks boomers and millennials.

I'd agree on the PDX mind cancer!! And on Mollylane. Jesus! One fella review her way back as BBWer than even the photos! I'm shocked she has hits! I did it once with a girl that size. I still feel bad about it. LOL.

That's just me.

[Joseph1955]

What I don't get is how completely selfish this fetish, because it is a fetish at this point, is. As someone who was raised by an addict, why the hell would you want a child raised by an addict? Add the situations providers live in and all you're looking for is an abused child. Why do you want to sentence a child to that life? Do you want to be a hero? It doesn't sound like it. It sounds like you just want to know you have a child and are completely willing to set them up poorly in life.

I don't know man. I personally don't want to hear about your desire to set kids up for a life of abuse and drug addiction anymore. You seem like a nice enough guy. Please get a normal, non provider, drug addicted person for this endeavor. Some self confidence would be good too.

This "hobby" is about seeking fun and gratification. Seeking BB is about maximizing that gratification. Or in some cases, the only way to reliably climax.

It's not about finding a partner or mate. Trying to use this to produce offspring sure sounds like a fetish to me. But it also points out one of the ways this whole thing isn't played on a level field. At the end of the day, the woman needs to guard against pregnancy or deal with it's immediate consequences. Trying to avoid introducing a child into the mix seems like common sense to me. Spread your seed elsewhere. Or be a sperm donor and have random children with those who are, at least hopefully, trying to build a stable family.

[Rex Hughes]

This IS relevant to BBFS in the hobby.

I am beating MYSELF up, because I am going to tell you about FIVE potentially MISSED OPPORTUNITIES. These would have been consensual.

Midori: Unfortunately, she had her life taken in a robbery. But, literally MONTHS before that, I had a BBBJ date with her. I didn't know about BBFS in this world at that time, and honestly, didn't know how so many women use NON-condom birth control. Midori was seemingly about to LET me BBFS her doggy style! I hesitated, saying "Ummmmm. ". She said, Oh do you want a condom? STUPID FUCKING REX! At least, I would have had a chance.

Sophie KGirl: Saw Sophie in 2012 or so. Young pretty KGirl, slim, small breasts. Didn't look DRUGGED, but emotionally tired. She seemed JUST ready to let me BBFS her, Mish position. I STUPIDLY said "Ummmm. " Sophie said, "Oh, do you want a condom?" Like Midori, this would have been CONSENSUAL. Rex, you've made many mistakes in your life, but you FUCKING THREW THIS ONE AWAY, you stupid dumb ass!!

Cute young Persian girl: She was cute, sexy, SLIM, in her early 20's, and did NOT know about my "fathering a child fetish. " First date, she said, I kid you not, "Will you have babies with me?" I said "I would LOVE to have babies with you," hoping she was serious. Why didn't I push it and ask for BBFS? Because she worked for an AGENCY, and I didn't want to get banned. I don't 100% regret not pushing it. Only 75% regret.

Lily of VIP Spa: In 2015, I did NOT know that BBFS was the NORM at ET, Kings and VIP. Lily actually initiated a LOT of conversation with me, and seemed to like my company, and seemed to think I was a nice guy. She seemed rather lonely. Had I had HALF a brain in 2015, I would have sweet talked her, to see if she was even remotely interested in consensually having a baby with me. At worst, she would have said no. Rex, you DUMB FUCK IDIOT!!

Courtney of Seattle: 2010, she came back. Unfortunately, in 2011 I believe, she passed away from a drug overdose. In 2010, she told me on her own accord, that she had a baby in 2006. I THEN opened up to her (I first saw her in 1997, then a few times in 2001) about my "father desires. " Courtney said, I'm being honest, "I might be willing to do one child with you, if you can make me some other promises to go along with that. ".

What a DUMB FUCK I was, with these missed opportunities! They were HANDED to me, and like a fucking idiot, I did my "Duh. What do I do" shit.

I could have a winning 10 million dollar lottery ticket, and wouldn't know what to do with it.

Rex is a FUCKING IDIOT DUMB FUCK. (At least gets was, on five occasions).

[Rex Hughes]

What I don't get is how completely selfish this fetish, because it is a fetish at this point, is. As someone who was raised by an addict, why the hell would you want a child raised by an addict? Add the situations providers live in and all you're looking for is an abused child. Why do you want to sentence a child to that life? Do you want to be a hero? It doesn't sound like it. It sounds like you just want to know you have a child and are completely willing to set them up poorly in life.

I don't know man. I personally don't want to hear about your desire to set kids up for a life of abuse and drug addiction anymore. You seem like a nice enough guy. Please get a normal, non provider, drug addicted person for this endeavor. Some self confidence would be good too.

Jimmy, I will say, I know that life wasn't easy for you or your mother. I can believe that both your biological mother and father are decent people, who just unfortunately wound up in bad situations. I can believe and understand the pain you felt, being raised by an addict. I am sympathetic to you on that.

What I want, is for people to understand, that MY situation, while nowhere as rough as yours, is STILL not totally pain free.

Talking about myself here: Since age 26, feeling like a nerd, geek, loser, who "has no game," is NOT a painless existence to live through. It also has massive damage to the ego and psyche.

I'm not asking Jimmy or anybody to AGREE with me. I just want all of you to "see where I'm coming from. ".

Complex people (me) don't necessarily always want to be AGREED with. What we do want, is for people to understand us.

[Rex Hughes]

While we're on the subject, let me ask a sincere question, that has REALLY bothered me since 1999.

Chad-Rex: Has knocked up 2 or 3 women. He provides NO support, financially or with his presence, with any of his kids. In fact, knowing that he had gotten away with it, he tells himself, "I have THREE trophies out there, and I got off Scott Free, hehehehehehehehe!

Nerdy-Wimpy-Loser-Rex: He would never knock up a NON-consenting woman. He wants so badly, for a WILLING woman to let him father a biological child with her.

Answer my question:

I think, people should have MUCH more vitriol towards Chad-Rex. But, that doesn't seem to be the case.

Why do so many people have MORE vitriol towards Wimp-Nerd-Loser-Rex?

This has bothered me since 1999.

[Rex Hughes]

Don't be so certain that any of them would come after you for child support. Especially if they are connected to an org, because if the whole child support thing becomes messy it can easily drag the org into it as well.

A number of years ago a pretty well-known provider told me I put a brat in her and wanted to negotiate for child support. I sent her some money in good faith and said I'd talk to my lawyer and get back to her. I did talk to my lawyer and had my lawyer (or actually a paralegal at their office) reach out to her. She freaked out and left the state and I haven't heard from her since. So I don't know if she was really pregnant, or if she was pregnant if I was the father. From convos I've had with other mongers over the years that situation is par for the course.

So I'd say if you get into this situation get yourself a damned good lawyer who can advise you on your rights. Yes, the system is biased against you but you can easily make it much worse. Most of these girls are "sure thing" people who want something for nothing. If they think getting the money is going to involve going to court (and it will, we are talking about a child here) most of them won't be interested no matter how much money is on the table.

Reminder to everybody: If any woman, tells me specifically NOT to get her pregnant, I'm not going to do it. It is not my intent to outright violate any woman. I'm looking for ones who CONSENT, or "if you impregnate me, you impregnate me, and oh well. ".

I'm certain that there have always been women who would have loved for me to knock them up, because they could get my child support. The problem is, MY money would also pay for her OTHER 2 or 3 kids, with other men.

I'm not saying that I'm rich, but I certainly have more money than the other Chads who fathered her other 2 or 3 kids. Especially, when those Chads are homeless, in jail, or even deceased.

So, my fear is that, how little of my monthly payment to DSHS, which gets funneled to Mama Samantha, truly benefits Rex Jr? Most of it, unfortunately, helps pay for and raise Chad Jr, Chad III and Chad IV.

I know that I "want to have my cake and eat it. " My reply is (not to Marko personally), "Tell me ONE person, who doesn't want that. ".

Also, (not just to Marko personally) I see this as another "dog eat dog world" situation. So I need to stop being the cuddly friendly puppy, and I need to step up and act like a PIT BULL!

Sometimes, you have to fight fire, WITH fire!

WOOF!

[Rex Hughes]

Sorry buddy, your posts about wanting to have a kid with providers are getting old. Kids without fathers leads to misery most of the time.

Bobo,

I respectfully disagree with you.

I'm talking about women who are going to get knocked up ANYWAY, by SOMEBODY, eventually and inevitably.

So, SW Samantha is having BBFS for the right price. She is openly NOT on birth control. Look, she's going to get knocked up.

Bobo likes 7-up, Rex likes Pepsi. There are two cans of soda on the table: One 7-up and one Pepsi. Simple formula: Give Bobo the 7-up, give Rex the Pepsi.

As for criticizing me for creating a kid who will live a life in misery, as long as you EQUALLY criticize the BILLIONS of other deadbeat dads out there, I'm fine with that. I just don't like being singled out, when I would be just another in BILLIONS of deadbeat dads.

I agree with you, that kids without fathers often lead a life of misery. But, ask their DADS how much they care, and most of them will laugh and say, "Chlut! As long as I'm not financially on the hook, I couldn't give a damn!" So, why should I care?

Bobo, you have your view on this, and I have mine. Nothing more nothing less.