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**Rakor Dubrovic** · 10-27-21 14:35

Originally Posted by MindzEyez [View Original Post]

Definitely felt like it was an over reaction. But I still respect her decision. We had a great relationship but I had asked her once before about a year ago and she said that would never be an option with her. Guess I should've let it die there. But I mean my thoughts were that maybe she had given it a try and decided it was an option for an upcharge. A simple no and please don't ask again would've sufficed in my minds.

My understanding from the other board (Escort Reports) is that spa was moving away from the area. Perhaps this interaction made it easier for her to tell you she wasn't going to see you again, without a lot of questions why.

**MindzEyez** · 10-27-21 10:10

Originally Posted by BigPussySal [View Original Post]

She sounds overly sensitive. All she had to do was tell you what she told you and to not ask about it again. To completely freeze you out is a massive overreaction.

Definitely felt like it was an over reaction. But I still respect her decision. We had a great relationship but I had asked her once before about a year ago and she said that would never be an option with her. Guess I should've let it die there. But I mean my thoughts were that maybe she had given it a try and decided it was an option for an upcharge. A simple no and please don't ask again would've sufficed in my minds.

**Voltron94** · 10-26-21 22:54

Originally Posted by MindzEyez [View Original Post]

I know I don't have much credit here yet but I've been at this since the Barbies Escorts days. Seen SPA several times. I'm not ugly (LOL), in good shape, always very clean, and easy to work with. Thought we had a friendship if sorts. Nope. I was wondering. Spa is all business. All I did was asked her if Greek was still off the menu. I hadn't seen her in a while and just thought I'd ask. My mistake. She said once she tells your something she'll never change her mind. And just like that said she wouldn't see me again. LOL. I was truly blown away by her reaction because we always got along perfectly and as I mentioned I'm easy to work with. Just an FYI for you guys. If you want to keep her in your back pocket then tiptoe on eggshells with her. Don't push the envelope.

Generally a good idea not to do this, especially if she is higher in price, very popular, or not living the life 24/7. Girls that aren't desperate to get any dollar they can get their mitts on also tend to understand that if they're going to have any boundaries whatsoever in this business, they have to enforce them.

If they feel like you are pushing, challenging, or even questioning their boundaries they'll take it as disrespect and drop you as a client. The popular providers or the ones who don't need volume have enough opportunity to be selective. The desperate ones might give you another chance when times get hard, but the really stubborn ones will lose their room rather than see someone they've cut off.

Bottom line is that for many of these girls, who they will see or what they're willing to do is the only thing in their lives they have absolute control over. If you piss them off, they know you'll miss them more than they'll miss you.

**Big Pussy Sal** · 10-26-21 20:15

Originally Posted by MindzEyez [View Original Post]

I know I don't have much credit here yet but I've been at this since the Barbies Escorts days. Seen SPA several times. I'm not ugly (LOL), in good shape, always very clean, and easy to work with. Thought we had a friendship if sorts. Nope. I was wondering. Spa is all business. All I did was asked her if Greek was still off the menu. I hadn't seen her in a while and just thought I'd ask. My mistake. She said once she tells your something she'll never change her mind. And just like that said she wouldn't see me again. LOL. I was truly blown away by her reaction because we always got along perfectly and as I mentioned I'm easy to work with. Just an FYI for you guys. If you want to keep her in your back pocket then tiptoe on eggshells with her. Don't push the envelope.

Wow 😳. She sounds overly sensitive. All she had to do was tell you what she told you and to not ask about it again. To completely freeze you out is a massive overreaction.

**MindzEyez** · 10-26-21 16:42

I know I don't have much credit here yet but I've been at this since the Barbies Escorts days. Seen SPA several times. I'm not ugly (LOL), in good shape, always very clean, and easy to work with. Thought we had a friendship if sorts. Nope. I was wondering. Spa is all business. All I did was asked her if Greek was still off the menu. I hadn't seen her in a while and just thought I'd ask. My mistake. She said once she tells your something she'll never change her mind. And just like that said she wouldn't see me again. LOL. I was truly blown away by her reaction because we always got along perfectly and as I mentioned I'm easy to work with. Just an FYI for you guys. If you want to keep her in your back pocket then tiptoe on eggshells with her. Don't push the envelope.

**SlimDawg87** · 10-25-21 00:47

Originally Posted by TheGatDamngobl [View Original Post]

She is still in town. Spoke to her a few times. She still plays from time to time.

Have any contact info.

**AlabamaGent** · 10-24-21 00:33

Originally Posted by RakorDubrovic [View Original Post]

I tried to reply to your message but your mailbox is full.

Please resend message.

**Cavaliers** · 10-23-21 18:54

Originally Posted by Kirito1015 [View Original Post]

I've seen SPA several times, but I lost her contact info b / c I had to re-install windows. I didn't keep any on my phone, just a hidden file on computer. Someone DM me her contact, I'll owe you one.

Try Tryst, Sweet Petite Allie

**Rakor Dubrovic** · 10-23-21 18:03

I tried to reply to your message but your mailbox is full.

**OlderWood** · 10-23-21 16:30

Does anyone know what happened?

Such a sweet sweet lady and always drama free. Seeing Haley (Lyndsay) was like visiting an old girlfriend one left on good terms.

Originally Posted by SteveO256 [View Original Post]

Yes she was a really nice woman with a good heart.

I will miss her.

**Kirito007** · 10-21-21 22:32

I've seen SPA several times, but I lost her contact info b / c I had to re-install windows. I didn't keep any on my phone, just a hidden file on computer. Someone DM me her contact, I'll owe you one.